FabSwingers.com forum: What age where you when you opened your mind to this amazing lifestyle ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What age where you when you opened your mind to this amazing lifestyle ?

I just think it is an amazing lifestyle, I just wish it didn’t take people so many years to be try it out

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Only 5 yrs ago. Still a baby at it. But enjoying every minute of it. Bagged a husband from it too.. K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aged 51 for me. Just the right time for me personally.

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

south east

I was 19 gf at time was bit older and introduced me so much more hard work then contact mags self addressed envelopes letters and poloriods searching out clubs that never advertised but throu word of mouth lol so much better thou as you had to make effort and nearly all were genuine into lifestyle whom did

Lol showing my age now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11years ago does I was 42

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't consider it a lifestyle but we started swinging in our early fifties. Personally I think it was the right time for us.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

In my mid 50s - had an absolute ball so far

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

I was 54 and hubby 64 ,so tad late ,just wish we did it earlier but saying that we feel this is the right time for us to play together which we enjoy and love ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42. I dipped my little toe with my ex years ago. Met MrDub last Christmas and we talked about getting into it together...he was in the scene years ago.

So far...so good!!

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

I was 33 and K was 28..we had just met each other and decided life from there on was going to be much more fun. It was the right decision.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Under 2yrs ago

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Just 7 years ago when I met the Mrs. So that makes me 21

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We were 33

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not even 2 years ago and loving every bit of it so far x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good gracious reading all this I have led a sheltered life when I was younger!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was 19 we discussed it and took the plunge when i was 20

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By *harmanMan
over a year ago

Living Abroad

I was 20, I was delivering a dvd, after work, from the video rental I worked for, the woman, a hot cougar, invited me to come inside, try to seduce me, after the things got hot her husband came over, they explain everything to me, since then I love the lifestyle

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I was 37 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only about 10 years ago.

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

I was 18

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We were around 30, we’d reached a point where we’d experimented a lot and the next stage felt like more participants lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bobby started around 25yrs ago, dabbling in stuff, started doing the clubs about 21yrs ago, did have a 7yr break when we got together, very honest from the beginning but wasnt for me...forward 7 yrs later, and now, for the past 4 mths, we have been visiting our local club and i am enjoying it so far.

Rosie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dabbled a little in our early 40's but found the clubs in the past 3 to 4 years and loved it.

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By *rb65Man
over a year ago

Livingston

I was a good boy till I met the wife she was 26 I was 36 but she had been in the life before

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Female half done a threesome when 18 ,male 52

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By *tockportcpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Both 18! 20 years later still having fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Just a reminder to keep discussion of under 18s off the forum please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm,42!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 26 and hubby was 40...nearly 14 years ago now xx

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By *B..Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Early 20’s had a small insight, 20 years later I’m back and love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the response guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 43

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20. A few months after we got married.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

15yrs ago aged 44... started off as a couple but that relationship ended 7yrs ago

So been a single fem since

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Had a few Isolated experiences over the years, But only decided to actively seek it this year at 51

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

"What age where you when you opened your mind to this amazing lifestyle ?

I just think it is an amazing lifestyle, I just wish it didn’t take people so many years to be try it out "

Mid thirties - when was secured by married lady ! Who then suggested her husband liked to watch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age 52 (4 years ago)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I would love a bit of help here I am a newbie and find it virtually impossible to even talk to anybody on here I'm respectful I don't just ask for sex or send dick pics I'm not that sad where am I going wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started chatting about it 3 years ago but only been on the scene a year

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

may be 28 id say thats when

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 18 and an older friend introduced me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 when I first started meeting swingers from internet chatrooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

49 wish I found it years ago.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

First time round we were probably to young 22/21 ...Young and naive some

Stuff happened that put us off ....Now we have decided 20years later to give it another try we are older wiser and so far the stuff we witnessed in our 20,s men thinking it was ok to grope you in clubs without even saying hello is a thing of the past...We are definitely having more fun this time round..

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

wirral

Thirty years a previous girlfriend introduced it to me

Adam and Eves was our first swinging club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 52, so just 2 years ago and the world I live in now physically and mentally is incredible. I've loved it xx

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

About 48 but was interested before.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Last year (31)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as i was of age

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I joined here in 2012 ,so 7 years

3 and a half as a single and then a couple 3 and a half

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

46.

Wish I'd known when I was younger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 ish for me

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

40 for me... my 40s have definitely been Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I would love a bit of help here I am a newbie and find it virtually impossible to even talk to anybody on here I'm respectful I don't just ask for sex or send dick pics I'm not that sad where am I going wrong lol

Youve only been here a week .........

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By *hocopopsMan
over a year ago

south

25ish

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Probably mid 20s. My ex wife occasionally talked about when she would go as a teenager to swingers clubs with a male friend. It got me thinking. Deep down in the back of my mind I never understood sexual monogamy, even though relationship wise I was monogamous (if that makes sense). It kind of felt like cutting off your nose to spite your face. I never really understood why you had to stop the enjoyment of sexual variety because enjoying that doesn't mean you love your partner less and them likewise. So I'd come across it on TV and a brief look at it on the internet. In a different life I knew that is what I'd like to enjoy. I always thought me and my ex would end up swinging. We would talk about going to a club sometime (normally she brought it up). Anyway I never pushed the point, as far as I was concerned we were married for life and it would just happen naturally when we were ready, no rush. Turns out it never happened, which turned out to be for the best as she turned out to be a woman I couldn't trust (hence why she's my ex wife).

Roll on a few years ago, I was single again and a single parent. No real appetite or time for dating but a real hunger for sex and exploring my sexual horizons. Got curious about swinging and found this site. Moved from just having causal sex to getting into the lifestyle and club scene. The lifestyle is for me. Better still met my fiancee on here. So now I get to share it with a woman I completely love and who I can completely trust. So I'm glad I started doing it as a couple with her and not my ex wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I was around 37-38

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was introduced to the lifestyle in 2012 by a guy I met on holiday.

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By *ast FredyMan
over a year ago

southend on sea

17 with a girlfriend & her bestie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26 by my then landlady and her husband, it was absolutely mindblowing for a rampant, recently divorced lad, and so much fun, that has provided some very happy memories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mid 20s and 25 yrs later both still cant get enough ...love it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

34 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Late 20s early 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mid 20s and 25 yrs later both still cant get enough ...love it ...

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brilliant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 34.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

end of 2012 - I was 41 and started crossdressing. I wish I joined sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (J) was 21 with a much older GF who had enjoyed swinging for a number of years she introduced me to the scene at a party. I told O about it when we met and now she has joined the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years ago when I was 50

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

I was a naughty little girl when I was a little girl... Then became a good little housewife. That all ended three years ago and I have become that little naughty streak has appeared again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early 40s.

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By *oby BestMan
over a year ago

the shires

Omg - have just worked out how long I have been doing this ... and now feeling very old xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

43 for me, after I separated and got divorced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"43 for me, after I separated and got divorced "
were you deprived by your ex asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What age where you when you opened your mind to this amazing lifestyle ?

I just think it is an amazing lifestyle, I just wish it didn’t take people so many years to be try it out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1994 I was 24 introduced into it by a couple and their friends, all of which are on this site now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I’ve led a sheltered life so making up for lost time and ticking some of my bucket list off through the swinging circle. I only started two years ago so still relatively new

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

27... a three sum then a club, then Fab. Some of that time as a couple now single.

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