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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm (the fella) am away far too of the with work. I'm away now and have left my other half at home

Does anyone else have to do that? Its horrid!! No weirdos comment please, I'm feeling a bit melancholy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm (the fella) am away far too of the with work. I'm away now and have left my other half at home

Does anyone else have to do that? Its horrid!! No weirdos comment please, I'm feeling a bit melancholy "

I used to do this a lot it’s not nice

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool

My girl lives abroad with her job it can be so hard it times, it really can hurt fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers lads. I'm not a snowflake in the slightest but its bloody horrible.... miss that woman!!

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool

no chance of sex Skype or something

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no chance of sex Skype or something "

Dont really help tbh, we do face thingy on WhatsApp. It's alright when your doing it, putting the phone down is rubbish though. Ignore me, I'm just being a bit shit.

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By *ucidityWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I'm (the fella) am away far too of the with work. I'm away now and have left my other half at home

Does anyone else have to do that? Its horrid!! No weirdos comment please, I'm feeling a bit melancholy "

It’s lovely that you expressed yourself. You’re not a snowflake, just human. Hope you’re back home soon.

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool

no mate i get it, i really know how you feel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm (the fella) am away far too of the with work. I'm away now and have left my other half at home

Does anyone else have to do that? Its horrid!! No weirdos comment please, I'm feeling a bit melancholy

It’s lovely that you expressed yourself. You’re not a snowflake, just human. Hope you’re back home soon. "

Thank you, I'm not usually a one to moan. It isnt my first rodeo.... just miss her.

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool

By looking at her photos my mate, i understand why you may miss her hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm (the fella) am away far too of the with work. I'm away now and have left my other half at home

Does anyone else have to do that? Its horrid!! No weirdos comment please, I'm feeling a bit melancholy

It’s lovely that you expressed yourself. You’re not a snowflake, just human. Hope you’re back home soon. "

Not back till mid January. Rubbish isnt it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool

i get it mate, i was just paying a nice compliment that's all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By looking at her photos my mate, i understand why you may miss her hehe "

I miss her more than how she looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally understand. I travel a lot with my business. It is not easy. Stay strong mate! You will get there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i get it mate, i was just paying a nice compliment that's all"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I totally understand. I travel a lot with my business. It is not easy. Stay strong mate! You will get there."

Cheers mate

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By *litreMan
over a year ago

everywhere

I'm away for a minimum of 8 months a year. Honestly I feel your pain. Every time you leave there is tears and you feel like shit for days on end. Unfortunately it takes a certain mind set which is not easy. My only advice is to associate yourself with positive people and be positive yourself. Harder said than done.

Good luck you'll be ok

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's really rubbish sometimes, isn't it? We live in different cities and both have our own respective families to raise so living together is not on the cards for many years. It's really hard when all we want to do is be together and enjoy the simple pleasures that normal couples get to do every day. But we love each other and couldn't be without each other. Our situation just is what it is. It's hard for us, especially sometimes when you just want a cuddle or the support of them just by your side. But we take comfort in knowing we will always have each other and love each other even if we can't physically always be together. And as difficult as it is we would always trade being with each other in our situation over anything and anyone else.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Yeah im same with my girls when away miss them both loads. But they worth waiting for and im sure you makeup for things when your back in January mate. Shows how strong a relationship you have really does. Shes stunning.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

(Mr here) when I was in the forces I used to be away a lot (and often out of the country) for a good part of the year. Sometimes with very limited/no personal communication with home. I was married to my ex wife back then and missed her loads. I know likewise it was hard for her, especially when there was no direct communication. Things got even harder when my first child came along (and the reason why I left, so I could be around for my kids). But as callous as this may sound I found things a lot easier when you are always totally busy with stuff and immersed in your work. Basicly so busy that you don't get time to think about back home. So my advice is to stay super busy, keep occupied when away and to make the very best time of things when your at home. But unfortunately it will never be easy but we need to do what we must to put bread on the table.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"(Mr here) when I was in the forces I used to be away a lot (and often out of the country) for a good part of the year. Sometimes with very limited/no personal communication with home. I was married to my ex wife back then and missed her loads. I know likewise it was hard for her, especially when there was no direct communication. Things got even harder when my first child came along (and the reason why I left, so I could be around for my kids). But as callous as this may sound I found things a lot easier when you are always totally busy with stuff and immersed in your work. Basicly so busy that you don't get time to think about back home. So my advice is to stay super busy, keep occupied when away and to make the very best time of things when your at home. But unfortunately it will never be easy but we need to do what we must to put bread on the table."

Totally agree plus i think you guys and girls that serve in our armed forces are awesome anyways. I couldnt do what you do but glad you do to keep rest of us safe. Im sure your girl agrees with that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging lifestyle shows she is not the faithful type..... All those black guys in London are sniffing around...... She will have it

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales


"Swinging lifestyle shows she is not the faithful type..... All those black guys in London are sniffing around...... She will have it"

Not faithful because she’s a swinger?? How rude!

Hope the time goes quickly for you both OP, I can’t imagine it, we hate it if work gets in the way of us spending quality time together x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst time for me was when hubby was in the Army. We had a 2 year old and i had just given birth to our son, hubby was sent to Belize for 6 months. We didn't see each other at all. We had also just moved back to England from Germany so i didn't know anyone at all in our new location...that was incredibly tough.

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