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Does 'vanilla pegging' exist?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been curious about this all but the overtly dominant nature of this puts me off. I'm not into being "dominated", being fucked by a "mistress", or "sissification".

I know it might naturally put the woman in a more dominant position, and roles might be reversed however and I'm confortable with that.

Is there a such thing as pegging without that all? Is it necessary to have D/s or a power dynamic with it?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I'll fuck you if you like, i can promise no power play, just sweet sweet love making..

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I've never understood why receiving is submissive and giving is dominant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it doesn't have to have any Dominant or submissive nature if you don't want it. Lots of guys enjoy anal play without any power play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood why receiving is submissive and giving is dominant "

It is done that way in kink lifestyle. Mostly men who enjoy being fucked with a strap on want to give power to the woman but like I said it doesn't need to be

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I've never understood why receiving is submissive and giving is dominant "

It's like the old "you're only gay if you take it" line. If you're giving it, you're keeping your dick hard for fucking a man's ass. You sir, are not "straight"..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy pegging. Nothing to do with the ‘power’ which I’m slightly uneasy about. A LOT to do with the humongous orgasms it causes.

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

i have heard of some couple who just peg because they like ass play... some men find the orgasm from say a hand job is more intense that way... so yes, perfectly possible to have non-D/s pegging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the power switch and submitting but sometimes its just nice to enjoy it on an equal pegging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No real power dynamic for us, just shuddering orgasms and huge loads

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It can be however you want it to be OP.

Sensual, nasty, whatever. Make it up as you go along. There is no wrong or right way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood why receiving is submissive and giving is dominant "

I'm with you on this one. I'm neither submissive or dominant. Just somewhere in the middle and like things shoved up my bum. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can Top from the Bottom, but that's still in the realms of D/s.

I think all most women who are prepared to 'Peg' a man want to do is give him pleasure..

If its something you're looking to do, just communicate with the other person.

If you express yourself well, she'll get it.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"I've never understood why receiving is submissive and giving is dominant

I'm with you on this one. I'm neither submissive or dominant. Just somewhere in the middle and like things shoved up my bum. Lol"

Googles the distance between Ipswich and Leighton Buzzard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood why receiving is submissive and giving is dominant

It's like the old "you're only gay if you take it" line. If you're giving it, you're keeping your dick hard for fucking a man's ass. You sir, are not "straight".."

Wtf? Pegging my dear is NOT within the gay realms. Gay men do not peg each other.

Pegging is strictly a woman fucking a man with a strap on. It has no need as I've said before to be Dominant or submissive behaviour.

Men who are awakening themselves to anal play are merely comfortable with their sexuality be them straight or Bi. It is all to do with prostate stimulation and the gargantuan orgasms it brings.

Clearly you are a twat

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By *iscreteBiBuilderMan
over a year ago

Bury

Cannot see what guys get from this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood why receiving is submissive and giving is dominant

I'm with you on this one. I'm neither submissive or dominant. Just somewhere in the middle and like things shoved up my bum. Lol

Googles the distance between Ipswich and Leighton Buzzard "

Leave now and you might get here by midnight. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot see what guys get from this "

Bloody mind blowing orgasms, I've never pegged but I'm great at prostate massage, I've seen the results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be however you want it to be OP.

Sensual, nasty, whatever. Make it up as you go along. There is no wrong or right way."

Here be wisdom.....and not just regarding pegging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot see what guys get from this "

Inside your arsehole is the underside of your cock. A whole new area that rarely ever gets stimulated, if you dont explore it.

Add to that the feeling of "I'm a wrong'un" The first few times you have a poke about.. and your be surprised how pleasurable a bit of bum fun can be.

Yes it can hurt in the wrong hands, yes it does feel quite strange to begin with.

But in expert hands and feeling comfy about it, itll be possibly one of the strongest orgasms you can have as a man.

Nothing gay about it, if you're doing it with a woman, not that there is anything wrong with being gay, bi, or bicurious.

Having something up your bum, makes you none of the above.

If its something you don't want to try, or are horrified by the thought of, probably best to leave it to those who do?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

The submissive partner can let the Dominant partner of that's what he instructs. People get too hung up on acts being inherently submissive or Dominant. Of course there doesn't need to be any power exchange element either. Basically if everyone is enjoying whatever it is you're doing then there aren't really any rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cannot see what guys get from this "

Different 'role' and a completely different sensation which could be fun. Madness isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot see what guys get from this

Inside your arsehole is the underside of your cock. A whole new area that rarely ever gets stimulated, if you dont explore it.

Add to that the feeling of "I'm a wrong'un" The first few times you have a poke about.. and your be surprised how pleasurable a bit of bum fun can be.

Yes it can hurt in the wrong hands, yes it does feel quite strange to begin with.

But in expert hands and feeling comfy about it, itll be possibly one of the strongest orgasms you can have as a man.

Nothing gay about it, if you're doing it with a woman, not that there is anything wrong with being gay, bi, or bicurious.

Having something up your bum, makes you none of the above.

If its something you don't want to try, or are horrified by the thought of, probably best to leave it to those who do?"

Well said that man

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I've never understood why receiving is submissive and giving is dominant

It's like the old "you're only gay if you take it" line. If you're giving it, you're keeping your dick hard for fucking a man's ass. You sir, are not "straight"..

Wtf? Pegging my dear is NOT within the gay realms. Gay men do not peg each other.

Pegging is strictly a woman fucking a man with a strap on. It has no need as I've said before to be Dominant or submissive behaviour.

Men who are awakening themselves to anal play are merely comfortable with their sexuality be them straight or Bi. It is all to do with prostate stimulation and the gargantuan orgasms it brings.

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It was a fairly clear comparison on power transfer.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

i peg, but not into dom/sub shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot see what guys get from this

Inside your arsehole is the underside of your cock. A whole new area that rarely ever gets stimulated, if you dont explore it.

Add to that the feeling of "I'm a wrong'un" The first few times you have a poke about.. and your be surprised how pleasurable a bit of bum fun can be.

Yes it can hurt in the wrong hands, yes it does feel quite strange to begin with.

But in expert hands and feeling comfy about it, itll be possibly one of the strongest orgasms you can have as a man.

Nothing gay about it, if you're doing it with a woman, not that there is anything wrong with being gay, bi, or bicurious.

Having something up your bum, makes you none of the above.

If its something you don't want to try, or are horrified by the thought of, probably best to leave it to those who do?"

Just this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i peg, but not into dom/sub shit"

As someone heavily involved in the BDSM scene I am offended. What we do takes a huge amount of trust and communication, it is not shit. Its not for you, fine, you don't need to be a cunt about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I peg hubby, but not because i get off on the dominance. We take it slow and i just love seeing him enjoy it x

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

It can be however you want it to be...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy pegging. Nothing to do with the ‘power’ which I’m slightly uneasy about. A LOT to do with the humongous orgasms it causes. "

Maybe you could message me, rare find in my area a woman into this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to find a women to meet who likes doing it X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be however you want it to be..."

There will be those looking for different things from it, if you just enjoy anal play then it’s just anal play

My mindset varies depending on who I am with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you really peg somebody with a vanilla pod? Isn't it way too small?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can you really peg somebody with a vanilla pod? Isn't it way too small? "

Hammersmith apollo is through the other door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you really peg somebody with a vanilla pod? Isn't it way too small?

Hammersmith apollo is through the other door "

Is it the rear door? That would be fitting, given the topic of this thread.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

It can be however you want it mate.

My ex used to do it according to how I felt. Sometimes it was soft and gentle and other times hard and aggressive.

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