FabSwingers.com forum: Couples advice

By *aneyy OP Man
over a year ago

london

Quick question for those that are couples and meet with singles or the reverse. Personally only met with one couple ( cucking situation) now I’m getting a few invites from couples that are NOT into the cuck scene but want a third to play. I’m wondering should I just treat it like a normal meet with a single woman or what because I really don’t want to step on any toes lol thoughts from those more experience in this field

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

You should meet for a social firstly then all your concerns can be addressed. Treat them as a couple with equal respect. They are both allowing you into their relationship briefly so don’t just focus your attention(I’m not talking about physical interaction unless both males are bi) on the wife.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Just make sure boundaries and wishes are discussed and agreed before play starts then enjoy !

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would recommend a social first to check that you all get along and what the dynamics are.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Just make sure boundaries and wishes are discussed and agreed before play starts then enjoy !"

Spot on. Always agree any boundaries beforehand.

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By *aneyy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I would recommend a social first to check that you all get along and what the dynamics are.

Social is where most are looking at starting. I’m sure Just not sure the exact dynamics of the situation will be discussed there

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By *aneyy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Just make sure boundaries and wishes are discussed and agreed before play starts then enjoy !"

Yehh this is for the couple to bring up though no?

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"Just make sure boundaries and wishes are discussed and agreed before play starts then enjoy !

Yehh this is for the couple to bring up though no?"

You can take the lead and start the discussion once it's clear they're interested in you.

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By *oinus1961Couple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

No. It's as much for you as for them. You will all have rules and boundaries. Yours are as important as theirs.

If you get on you could simply ask how they see you fitting in.

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

Aint no 2 couples lookimg for the exact same thing in our opinion. Few msgs on here before a social asking them how they would see a night going and any boundaries they would have. Obviously your own boundaries would need to be discussed aswell.

Hope you have fun whatever you do

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By *aneyy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Aint no 2 couples lookimg for the exact same thing in our opinion. Few msgs on here before a social asking them how they would see a night going and any boundaries they would have. Obviously your own boundaries would need to be discussed aswell.

Hope you have fun whatever you do

Mmmm I don’t think any one couple or single are alike .. might try and get a bit more of a feel for things via message before hand

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By *aneyy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"No. It's as much for you as for them. You will all have rules and boundaries. Yours are as important as theirs.

If you get on you could simply ask how they see you fitting in. "

I agree but it feels I’m more entering their little world more than them mine if you know what I mean

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No. It's as much for you as for them. You will all have rules and boundaries. Yours are as important as theirs.

If you get on you could simply ask how they see you fitting in.

I agree but it feels I’m more entering their little world more than them mine if you know what I mean "

You are to an extent but it's the nature of the dynamic. As everyone else says discuss things with the couple,

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Definitely getting a feel for the both of them is important. It only works really well if you feel good about everyone involved. Don't forget getting on with the Mr is just as important as with the Mrs. Although it's not the Mr your having sex with as such you are all part of a team and it is very much is about everyone working together.

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