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By *adyPenelope OP   Woman
over a year ago

worcestershire

First of all let me apologies for using the forum to let off steam and yes I know I'll probably get bombarded with horrible messages back as I usually do lol, but for the few seconds I'm typing the post it makes me feel better.

What am I fuming about now?

Why do men call you shallow if you don't fancy them?

Why do they assume because you're on a swinging site that you should be ready and willing to open your legs regardless of attraction, because, after all isn't that what you do?

Why do they look through your verifications and get all upset when they notice someone they consider not to be as attractive as they, slim, fit etc and say, "why did you fuck him and yet you won't meet me?"

The answers my friend is a) attraction, b) chemistry & C) being in the right place at the right time.

If I'm so shallow how come there are people on my friends list and have verified me that you don't consider to be attractive?

If you want to sleep with anyone who comes your way with no preference or care of who or what they are then that is fine and up to you, but please don't expect me to be the same way.

So... yes I do like younger men, yes I do like taller, and dark haired in preference to blonde and good teeth, good sense of humour and great personality, but... there is no way of knowing who you will have chemistry with and I have had the most awesome times with men I would have never imagined to click with when I've met them in the flesh, but I just don't have time to meet everyone on here to find out, so leave it and accept it if I say thank you, but not for me.

Rant over and I hope I haven't offended anyone. I'm not a nasty person and I don't try and upset anyone, although offer advise when asked for. It's not my fault if you don't like the advise you get.

Oh and yes I'm size 16 (on a diet as I speak)

I'm 41 so no spring chicken, I've got no money and as I've been told in a message today, I am very much the plain jane.

I am certainly not the cleopatra I'm accused of thinking I am. Besides, I don't even like milk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fair point.

you meet who YOU want to meet simples, if they dont like it then bollox to em, just block the wankers and move on

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"First of all let me apologies for using the forum to let off steam and yes I know I'll probably get bombarded with horrible messages back as I usually do lol, but for the few seconds I'm typing the post it makes me feel better.

What am I fuming about now?

Why do men call you shallow if you don't fancy them?

Why do they assume because you're on a swinging site that you should be ready and willing to open your legs regardless of attraction, because, after all isn't that what you do?

Why do they look through your verifications and get all upset when they notice someone they consider not to be as attractive as they, slim, fit etc and say, "why did you fuck him and yet you won't meet me?"

The answers my friend is a) attraction, b) chemistry & C) being in the right place at the right time.

If I'm so shallow how come there are people on my friends list and have verified me that you don't consider to be attractive?

If you want to sleep with anyone who comes your way with no preference or care of who or what they are then that is fine and up to you, but please don't expect me to be the same way.

So... yes I do like younger men, yes I do like taller, and dark haired in preference to blonde and good teeth, good sense of humour and great personality, but... there is no way of knowing who you will have chemistry with and I have had the most awesome times with men I would have never imagined to click with when I've met them in the flesh, but I just don't have time to meet everyone on here to find out, so leave it and accept it if I say thank you, but not for me.

Rant over and I hope I haven't offended anyone. I'm not a nasty person and I don't try and upset anyone, although offer advise when asked for. It's not my fault if you don't like the advise you get.

Oh and yes I'm size 16 (on a diet as I speak)

I'm 41 so no spring chicken, I've got no money and as I've been told in a message today, I am very much the plain jane.

I am certainly not the cleopatra I'm accused of thinking I am. Besides, I don't even like milk!"
lot of people who think they are all that on here...and thats just the guys, altho there are some nice ones, to the OP, bollex to em hunny and block and delete, their loss xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt worry, the people who are the most abusive live the most basless lives and probably have few/no friends.

Lets face it, it is better that you found out now that they were are nasty creep rather than meeting them and then finding out which would be much worse! :-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and also, I wouldnt call you a plain jane (from what I can see ).

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By *adyPenelope OP   Woman
over a year ago

worcestershire

Thanks for not biting my head off guys. I have blocked the person who had a go at me today, but it's not the first time and probably won't be the last.

I shall grow yet another shell of resilliance. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the stiff cock has no common sense or reasoning!! oxygen only flows one way n its up!! dont let the morons put u off there are some genuine lovely single guys on here !! iv had a fair share of abuse its seems common place had one threatinin to post pics over my home town cause i wouldnt meet been told im "average" i was actually pleased with that its a higher mark than i gve myself lol been called everyname under the sun cause i wont rush n meet if i end up murdered would rather it wasnt via a website! do as your doin hunny freedom of choice u pick who u meet! ps usually ones with the problem arent verified because they cant get meets because of attitude its not rocket science!! honest there are some nice guys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello,

1) your profile and pics make you look amazing, and franlky i'd be pissed of if you knocked me back.

(which your are fully entitled to do, and doesn't mean i can give you grief)

2) swinging and this site is full of nutters.

(and there are a lot of really great people as well)

3)the problem is most definately with the other person.

4) i have no feedback, i ask people not to and i didn't accept friends. because when you do it is like open season. as in they must be up for because they are on the scene.....and sure enough now i have accepted some friends, im getting nut job messages...

i know a little feedback shows you are genuine, but a good message always get response...

you hang tough, and do as you please...

regards

robert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there are pricks on Swingers sites, you just choose which ones are useful to you and which ones you want to ignore or block, if any prick gets abusive or annoying then report and block them, hope you get it sorted out as theres nothing worse than being hassled by someone who can't take no for an answer, imagine what they would be like if you met them ! I dont know you but have a friendly hug from me.

Kev.

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