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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just looking for peoples opinions on this site we have been on and off fab for five years had amazing meets with some people and not so amazing meets with others so our overall view is its making the right choices who not to meet and who to meet

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I've been here for 6 years, it can definitely work if you put the effort in . Made friends for hopefully life here, wouldn't change it for all the tea in china

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yep! Use the tools provided and a dollop of common sense and you'll have more successes than failures

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Nothing wrong with the site as with other things its the people on it ,most are genuine ,but there are the dreamers ,pic collectors etc ,if you have the knack and the patience to sort them out it can and will work ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.

Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I have been on this site since before it existed. Love it. Enjoy the forums and helping out newbies. I must admit most of my meets now are found at my local club, rather than via messages. There are lots of people who don't put any effort into their profile or thought into their messages.

Meeting face to face is so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as an older married man playing alone its been very disapointing. So many people have an upper age limit which is younger than I am & a lot won't meet a married man. If I was twenty years younger & my wife was involved things might be different.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.

Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money "

Report anyone asking for money to admin.

If it's not been great, then check how you can improve your experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for that xxx

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

I have been on/off since 2014ish, the site has it's purposes and to keep InTouch with freinds and stuff although messaging system could be better.

I however mainly meet with people in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 45 now and think I originally joined when around 34....been on and off but its cynical now.

10 years ago it was more trusting, natural and fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.

Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money "

I'm sure you'll think I'm a comedian for being on the forum but hey, that must make you one too. I've never once seen a status from anyone asking for money. I keep seeing guys saying this on the forum but genuinely I must be missing something.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.

Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money

I'm sure you'll think I'm a comedian for being on the forum but hey, that must make you one too. I've never once seen a status from anyone asking for money. I keep seeing guys saying this on the forum but genuinely I must be missing something."

It might be when single ladies and or couples ask for money to help pay for hotel rooms or maybe accounts linked to AW UKP etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.

Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money

I'm sure you'll think I'm a comedian for being on the forum but hey, that must make you one too. I've never once seen a status from anyone asking for money. I keep seeing guys saying this on the forum but genuinely I must be missing something."

Our locations differ so we won't see the same statuses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving the site but we will only meet at clubs. It’s avoids the time wasters on here. So many fantasists love the idea of swinging but won’t actually do it.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Loving the site but we will only meet at clubs. It’s avoids the time wasters on here. So many fantasists love the idea of swinging but won’t actually do it. "

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By *orfolk777Man
over a year ago

Norwich

I’ve been here about 8 years or so, find the site impossible, no meets for almost 5 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am new to the site compared to many of you. I can imagine it has changed a lot for some of you, but my impression is it is still centred around swinging couples so all is not lost for you

Otherwise I like the site, some fit people on here and some characters too. I have learnt stuff being on here having been exposed to groups not normally would be, had opened my eyes a bit and I like the complex and varied mix of people and groups

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I’ve been here about 8 years or so, find the site impossible, no meets for almost 5 years now"

But you had a verification 2 years ago, so you must have been in touch with someone

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"just looking for peoples opinions on this site we have been on and off fab for five years had amazing meets with some people and not so amazing meets with others so our overall view is its making the right choices who not to meet and who to meet"

It's great for keeping in touch with people we meet at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice site! Many sexy bodies on here, but feel that im bit too young for swinging ( heard that many times )

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Been on here 2yrs but on another site for 13yrs ..... swinging for 15yrs .... overall it’s been a laugh with some fantastic times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deeply ambiguous about it. Fab can introduce you to wonderful sexy people and opportunities, but it can be an addictive time sink and is heaving with fantasists and ego trippers. For me it feels like a lot of chaff to burrow through to find the wheat.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Well I have been on this site for a bit now and it all depends on what the guy looks like gym fit 30 ish big cock .Well I'm not going to get any where then ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that’s not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have been on this site for a bit now and it all depends on what the guy looks like gym fit 30 ish big cock .Well I'm not going to get any where then ??"

Every week some bloke posts this or similar. It's complete bollocks.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

As a couple for 6 years or so it was very 50/50, a lot of effort in for very little in return. Some good meets, some bad meets and lots of fakes/pic collectors.... As a single guy, it's an absolute nightmare. There certainly are more timewasters on here now !!

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By *annyP1987Man
over a year ago

croydon

As above a lot of effort for little return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above a lot of effort for little return"

Again, if your getting little in return then look at how you go about things. Some obvious things stand out. Your profile is your shop window, if it looks a bit naff then no one will stop to browse.

Plenty of guys on here are successful, me included. I don't have a 6 pack or a chopper 10" long but I do ok.

It's all down to you and how you conduct yourself.

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By *ntheshadows1975Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

I am very new to the scene although its been something i've had a yearning to do for many years. I'm still learning but finding all the info i can before i start looking for meets. I'm happy for any advice from anybody and hopefully i will fulfil my fantasy at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that a lot of women enjoy the experience because at the end of the day man are visual creatures and we will message and approach women we find attractive.

For men we have to get a women to open up and feel comfortable. Understandable, but that means lots of unread or unreplied messages.

For guys unless you are the visual enough stimulant for a woman, it’s difficult. I once made a thread with snog, fuck, drink. Funny enough all the women said drink.

Yet when I actually go out and meet women in night clubs, because it’s in person, and I can build that tension and flirtation easier than over messages, that never is the case.

Anywho that’s my two cent on the matter.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Well as a guy that wants to a nice lady or a couple for some sexy fun it is so very hard on this site to even have a chat with anyone even if you have pictures or a site membership it doesn't matter .So if any lady's or a nice couple that would like to have a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.

Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money "

Women asking for money? Seriously? Wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.

Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money "

Are you talking about site supporter membership fees? Lol

I now sound like a comedian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's gone down hill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you get out what you put in, as a single male it can be challenging but that's only because the amount of lazy men who see it as a way to get a quick shag

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I get that a lot of women enjoy the experience because at the end of the day man are visual creatures and we will message and approach women we find attractive.

For men we have to get a women to open up and feel comfortable. Understandable, but that means lots of unread or unreplied messages.

For guys unless you are the visual enough stimulant for a woman, it’s difficult. I once made a thread with snog, fuck, drink. Funny enough all the women said drink.

Yet when I actually go out and meet women in night clubs, because it’s in person, and I can build that tension and flirtation easier than over messages, that never is the case.

Anywho that’s my two cent on the matter. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this site overall yes its hard work at times and the looking and no chatting gets a bit dull but you get used to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.

Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money

Are you talking about site supporter membership fees? Lol

I now sound like a comedian "

Well yes, I do see a lot of people asking for others to pay for their gold/silver. It's only £5 ffs haha

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I treat it very much like naked Facebook. as can't remember the last time i met off here.

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