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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

They say the average in people's lifetime is under 5 in UK but I'm guessing in the swinging community it's much higher? Afew people admit losing count of how many people. Be interested to know if there's any truth behind all this.... does it matter if your latest partner had over 50 or 100 lovers?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"They say the average in people's lifetime is under 5 in UK but I'm guessing in the swinging community it's much higher? Afew people admit losing count of how many people. Be interested to know if there's any truth behind all this.... does it matter if your latest partner had over 50 or 100 lovers? "

It doesn't bother me how many people someone has been with, it just means they have more experience that will hopefully benefit me.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Don’t know where your getting your statistics OP but i would think it’s more than that nowadays,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care, makes no difference.

I did count when I was younger, probably because I was a cock.

I have no idea now on exact numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I’d had more than 5 by time I was 18

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I stopped counting when I ran out of digits!

And how many a partner had, had wouldn't bother me

I'm on a swingers site, I'd assume they'd had their fair share too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't know how many women i have had sex with and any partner i settle down with i couldn't care how many partners she has had sge is brand new to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea what my number is....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

5 really 5, ok 5 was a big number in my mothers day, but as has already been said up there^^ I had more than 5 before I was 18 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All we'll say is female has been with more men since we started swinging than she had before we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had more than five within an afternoon, Jesus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Including my wife just 9.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t necessarily care about numbers, it is quality. If they had been with all sorts and from various groups that usually put me off, then in turn I would be put off by the person concerned. If they had been with dozens of attractive people then I would not care.

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By *arvinnnMan
over a year ago

bradford

5 at the same time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's then double figures for me

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"I don’t necessarily care about numbers, it is quality. If they had been with all sorts and from various groups that usually put me off, then in turn I would be put off by the person concerned. If they had been with dozens of attractive people then I would not care. "

Pretentious statement is pretentious. Attractive people? Like you're the bastion of all knowledge and taste when it comes to who's good looking right? Don't let your ego slap your arse will you?

Now to the ops question;

On this profile, our other older profile, our profile on another site, before we knew what we were doing was called swinging and our lives before each other, we're both in the hundreds of sexual partners. We don't care what others think about that, we've had an absolute blast over the years. We've done every fantasy we could think of from vanilla style to kink and enjoyed every second of it. Straight sex, bi sex, group sex, orgies, parties, Gb's, greedy nights, BDSM etc etc. We've loved our journey so far and we hope we have a few more years left yet. Not many more but a few maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t necessarily care about numbers, it is quality. If they had been with all sorts and from various groups that usually put me off, then in turn I would be put off by the person concerned. If they had been with dozens of attractive people then I would not care.

Pretentious statement is pretentious. Attractive people? Like you're the bastion of all knowledge and taste when it comes to who's good looking right? Don't let your ego slap your arse will you?

Now to the ops question;

On this profile, our other older profile, our profile on another site, before we knew what we were doing was called swinging and our lives before each other, we're both in the hundreds of sexual partners. We don't care what others think about that, we've had an absolute blast over the years. We've done every fantasy we could think of from vanilla style to kink and enjoyed every second of it. Straight sex, bi sex, group sex, orgies, parties, Gb's, greedy nights, BDSM etc etc. We've loved our journey so far and we hope we have a few more years left yet. Not many more but a few maybe "

He’s allowed to have a preference surely? I’m sure that you would feel a little dubious meeting a guy, that would sleep with anyone. If someone is picky, it means that they’ll (hopefully) be less likely to be one of the: phantom barebacking bi-guys posing as a “straight” guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's counting?

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I have no idea ... lost count a long time ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t necessarily care about numbers, it is quality. If they had been with all sorts and from various groups that usually put me off, then in turn I would be put off by the person concerned. If they had been with dozens of attractive people then I would not care.

Pretentious statement is pretentious. Attractive people? Like you're the bastion of all knowledge and taste when it comes to who's good looking right? Don't let your ego slap your arse will you?

Now to the ops question;

On this profile, our other older profile, our profile on another site, before we knew what we were doing was called swinging and our lives before each other, we're both in the hundreds of sexual partners. We don't care what others think about that, we've had an absolute blast over the years. We've done every fantasy we could think of from vanilla style to kink and enjoyed every second of it. Straight sex, bi sex, group sex, orgies, parties, Gb's, greedy nights, BDSM etc etc. We've loved our journey so far and we hope we have a few more years left yet. Not many more but a few maybe

He’s allowed to have a preference surely? I’m sure that you would feel a little dubious meeting a guy, that would sleep with anyone. If someone is picky, it means that they’ll (hopefully) be less likely to be one of the: phantom barebacking bi-guys posing as a “straight” guy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say the average in people's lifetime is under 5 in UK but I'm guessing in the swinging community it's much higher? Afew people admit losing count of how many people. Be interested to know if there's any truth behind all this.... does it matter if your latest partner had over 50 or 100 lovers? "

Yes it matters to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it doesn't matter to me how many people the person I'm.about to sleep with, has slept with. What matters is what goes on between us.

Having said that, I'm in the 'Lost count' Camp.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I could probably work it out if I thought really hard and wrote them down but I definitely don't have enough fingers and toes to count

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I still have enough of my own fingers and toes to count mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea ... lost count a long time ago "

Same

Must be 40+ between relationships, one night stands and swinging clubs

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

A lot of people (mostly women) lie about how many people they have slept with, which is probably why the so called average is 5.

Personally I couldn’t care less how many people someone has slept with. If I was aware they were having lots of unprotected sex however it would give me pause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still have enough of my own fingers and toes to count mine x"

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t necessarily care about numbers, it is quality. If they had been with all sorts and from various groups that usually put me off, then in turn I would be put off by the person concerned. If they had been with dozens of attractive people then I would not care.

Pretentious statement is pretentious. Attractive people? Like you're the bastion of all knowledge and taste when it comes to who's good looking right? Don't let your ego slap your arse will you?

Now to the ops question;

On this profile, our other older profile, our profile on another site, before we knew what we were doing was called swinging and our lives before each other, we're both in the hundreds of sexual partners. We don't care what others think about that, we've had an absolute blast over the years. We've done every fantasy we could think of from vanilla style to kink and enjoyed every second of it. Straight sex, bi sex, group sex, orgies, parties, Gb's, greedy nights, BDSM etc etc. We've loved our journey so far and we hope we have a few more years left yet. Not many more but a few maybe "

I am going to refrain from retaliating, although I have a lot to retaliate on

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I have no idea ... lost count a long time ago

Same

Must be 40+ between relationships, one night stands and swinging clubs"

I am getting on in years so for me it’s lots !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still have enough of my own fingers and toes to count mine x"

Me too, with plenty to spare!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I still have enough of my own fingers and toes to count mine x

Me too, with plenty to spare!"

And me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say the average in people's lifetime is under 5 in UK but I'm guessing in the swinging community it's much higher? Afew people admit losing count of how many people. Be interested to know if there's any truth behind all this.... does it matter if your latest partner had over 50 or 100 lovers? "

yeah I slept with the England squad

then I went to sleep with all the MP's

I swung with prince charles

I have only had none in the last year or so longest ever ...but who is counting? Count Dracula wahahahaha!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its not a question i ask people. As for me wwll your guesss is as good as mine

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"

He’s allowed to have a preference surely? "

He's absolutely allowed to have a preference but it's not about having a preference he went on about. He had an opinion, not a preference. He made the allusion that he wouldn't fuck anyone who fucked with anyone he didn't find attractive. That's pretentious. He bases potential meets on who others find attractive and if he finds them attractive too? That's pretentious and egotistical.

He may actually be the nicest person on here, he may be witty, sexy, handsome etc, but he, IN MY OPINION, made an errant statement and I felt I had to answer it.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"I am going to refrain from retaliating, although I have a lot to retaliate on "

No you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one who feels put off my someone who had over 50 or 100 lovers?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Am I the only one who feels put off my someone who had over 50 or 100 lovers?"

To be fair, most people who say that wish they'd had that many lovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

He’s allowed to have a preference surely?

He's absolutely allowed to have a preference but it's not about having a preference he went on about. He had an opinion, not a preference. He made the allusion that he wouldn't fuck anyone who fucked with anyone he didn't find attractive. That's pretentious. He bases potential meets on who others find attractive and if he finds them attractive too? That's pretentious and egotistical.

He may actually be the nicest person on here, he may be witty, sexy, handsome etc, but he, IN MY OPINION, made an errant statement and I felt I had to answer it. "

I think you need to go get some fresh air

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

My wife and I have fucked more different people since we’ve been married than before we got married. Suspect my wife’s getting royally screwed by some Hungarian in Budapest this very minute! And she will only screw guys she knows in real life - no internet stuff for her which is why she’s not here. Her preference! And she’d had way more than five before I first knew her at uni. Anyone’s guess what her tally is now but I know she got fucked her way through some 8 years of study at uni and I would guess she was taking a rough average of 2-3 different guys a week, perhaps more if you count weekend parties where she invariably got found in a bedroom.

She’s nothing like that now but we both still enjoy a bit of away play when we’re apart, hence why I’m back here this week!

Yep, 5 in a life-time is a laugh! I know a nun who’s had more than that! lol!

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By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow


"I don’t necessarily care about numbers, it is quality. If they had been with all sorts and from various groups that usually put me off, then in turn I would be put off by the person concerned. If they had been with dozens of attractive people then I would not care.

Pretentious statement is pretentious. Attractive people? Like you're the bastion of all knowledge and taste when it comes to who's good looking right? Don't let your ego slap your arse will you?

Now to the ops question;

On this profile, our other older profile, our profile on another site, before we knew what we were doing was called swinging and our lives before each other, we're both in the hundreds of sexual partners. We don't care what others think about that, we've had an absolute blast over the years. We've done every fantasy we could think of from vanilla style to kink and enjoyed every second of it. Straight sex, bi sex, group sex, orgies, parties, Gb's, greedy nights, BDSM etc etc. We've loved our journey so far and we hope we have a few more years left yet. Not many more but a few maybe

He’s allowed to have a preference surely? I’m sure that you would feel a little dubious meeting a guy, that would sleep with anyone. If someone is picky, it means that they’ll (hopefully) be less likely to be one of the: phantom barebacking bi-guys posing as a “straight” guy. "

You been to cjs so can safely assume you are not that picky yourself

I still know the exact number of people I have fucked. Im sure some would think its a lot and some a little. Im not dead yet so its bound to grow in number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 was in a relationship for a few years. Came on here to try and gain some experience and push that number up a little bit. Sadly it’s not going well so far! Lol

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"Am I the only one who feels put off my someone who had over 50 or 100 lovers?"

Let’s put it this way - would you rather buy a boring new car that looks nice but unloved in a corner of an average saleroom or would you buy a car that’s been around a bit, got an excellent track-record and that everyone’s desperate to get inside?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t necessarily care about numbers, it is quality. If they had been with all sorts and from various groups that usually put me off, then in turn I would be put off by the person concerned. If they had been with dozens of attractive people then I would not care.

Pretentious statement is pretentious. Attractive people? Like you're the bastion of all knowledge and taste when it comes to who's good looking right? Don't let your ego slap your arse will you?

Now to the ops question;

On this profile, our other older profile, our profile on another site, before we knew what we were doing was called swinging and our lives before each other, we're both in the hundreds of sexual partners. We don't care what others think about that, we've had an absolute blast over the years. We've done every fantasy we could think of from vanilla style to kink and enjoyed every second of it. Straight sex, bi sex, group sex, orgies, parties, Gb's, greedy nights, BDSM etc etc. We've loved our journey so far and we hope we have a few more years left yet. Not many more but a few maybe

He’s allowed to have a preference surely? I’m sure that you would feel a little dubious meeting a guy, that would sleep with anyone. If someone is picky, it means that they’ll (hopefully) be less likely to be one of the: phantom barebacking bi-guys posing as a “straight” guy.

You been to cjs so can safely assume you are not that picky yourself

I still know the exact number of people I have fucked. Im sure some would think its a lot and some a little. Im not dead yet so its bound to grow in number. "

Meow...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who feels put off my someone who had over 50 or 100 lovers?

Let’s put it this way - would you rather buy a boring new car that looks nice but unloved in a corner of an average saleroom or would you buy a car that’s been around a bit, got an excellent track-record and that everyone’s desperate to get inside? "

No I would choose the one which hasn't been ramped to death.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still have enough of my own fingers and toes to count mine x"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who feels put off my someone who had over 50 or 100 lovers?

Let’s put it this way - would you rather buy a boring new car that looks nice but unloved in a corner of an average saleroom or would you buy a car that’s been around a bit, got an excellent track-record and that everyone’s desperate to get inside?

"

I'd rather have a new car. The older car might conk out at any moment.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Am I the only one who feels put off my someone who had over 50 or 100 lovers?

Let’s put it this way - would you rather buy a boring new car that looks nice but unloved in a corner of an average saleroom or would you buy a car that’s been around a bit, got an excellent track-record and that everyone’s desperate to get inside? "

New car. Smells nicer.

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

It used to bother me but not anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still have enough of my own fingers and toes to count mine x"

I don’t even need toes!

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By *ixenandStag69Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I had 9 guys fuck me while i was strapped up the female glory hole room at La Chambre, the that statistic is well out of date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t necessarily care about numbers, it is quality. If they had been with all sorts and from various groups that usually put me off, then in turn I would be put off by the person concerned. If they had been with dozens of attractive people then I would not care.

Pretentious statement is pretentious. Attractive people? Like you're the bastion of all knowledge and taste when it comes to who's good looking right? Don't let your ego slap your arse will you?

Now to the ops question;

On this profile, our other older profile, our profile on another site, before we knew what we were doing was called swinging and our lives before each other, we're both in the hundreds of sexual partners. We don't care what others think about that, we've had an absolute blast over the years. We've done every fantasy we could think of from vanilla style to kink and enjoyed every second of it. Straight sex, bi sex, group sex, orgies, parties, Gb's, greedy nights, BDSM etc etc. We've loved our journey so far and we hope we have a few more years left yet. Not many more but a few maybe

He’s allowed to have a preference surely? I’m sure that you would feel a little dubious meeting a guy, that would sleep with anyone. If someone is picky, it means that they’ll (hopefully) be less likely to be one of the: phantom barebacking bi-guys posing as a “straight” guy.

You been to cjs so can safely assume you are not that picky yourself

I still know the exact number of people I have fucked. Im sure some would think its a lot and some a little. Im not dead yet so its bound to grow in number. "

Are there not enough “black gentlemen” there for you?

P.s. what’s with all the cj’s hate lately?

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

I wouldn't care how many, as long as i wasn't compared to any. Vx.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"They say the average in people's lifetime is under 5 in UK but I'm guessing in the swinging community it's much higher? Afew people admit losing count of how many people. Be interested to know if there's any truth behind all this.... does it matter if your latest partner had over 50 or 100 lovers? "

Does it matter to me, no.

Does it matter to people with low self esteem and an external locus of evaluation, undoubtedly

I gave up counting somewhere above the 200 mark - now I would only mention it in the hope of putting off people for whom it's an issue

Ms Icebreaker

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I dont ask and dont really care. Ive been into 4 figures for many many years... one year i kept count because it was amusing and id say those figures are very outdated even amongst my vanilla friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t necessarily care about numbers, it is quality. If they had been with all sorts and from various groups that usually put me off, then in turn I would be put off by the person concerned. If they had been with dozens of attractive people then I would not care.

Pretentious statement is pretentious. Attractive people? Like you're the bastion of all knowledge and taste when it comes to who's good looking right? Don't let your ego slap your arse will you?

Now to the ops question;

On this profile, our other older profile, our profile on another site, before we knew what we were doing was called swinging and our lives before each other, we're both in the hundreds of sexual partners. We don't care what others think about that, we've had an absolute blast over the years. We've done every fantasy we could think of from vanilla style to kink and enjoyed every second of it. Straight sex, bi sex, group sex, orgies, parties, Gb's, greedy nights, BDSM etc etc. We've loved our journey so far and we hope we have a few more years left yet. Not many more but a few maybe

He’s allowed to have a preference surely? I’m sure that you would feel a little dubious meeting a guy, that would sleep with anyone. If someone is picky, it means that they’ll (hopefully) be less likely to be one of the: phantom barebacking bi-guys posing as a “straight” guy.

You been to cjs so can safely assume you are not that picky yourself

I still know the exact number of people I have fucked. Im sure some would think its a lot and some a little. Im not dead yet so its bound to grow in number.

Are there not enough “black gentlemen” there for you?

P.s. what’s with all the cj’s hate lately?"

Touche, I thought the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a virgin

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I dont ask and dont really care. Ive been into 4 figures for many many years... one year i kept count because it was amusing and id say those figures are very outdated even amongst my vanilla friends. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say the average in people's lifetime is under 5 in UK but I'm guessing in the swinging community it's much higher? Afew people admit losing count of how many people. Be interested to know if there's any truth behind all this.... does it matter if your latest partner had over 50 or 100 lovers? "

I used to work in a certain industry overseas where sex was just part of the job. Safe to say I've had more than the UK average and would do in one month in a good season

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do know my numbers for full sex despite being in the scene for 14 years, very few people that I've had full penetrative sex with. Lost count on soft play though

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I was lucky enough to be around during the decade known as the "Swinging Sixties" when the free love scene was all the rage,living and working in London at the time it was easy to have 4 or 5 partners every week. Happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I’d had more than 5 by time I was 18 "

You brazen hussy!!

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By *taffsloverboyMan
over a year ago

Hednesford

Experience trumps virginity once you have had your first lover. It does not matter how many lovers you or your partner have had. As long as you have a great relationship and enjoy sex together and with others that is the most important part of having sexual encounters. If you have been to a swingers club or wife/girlfriend swapping party then it is easy to have sex with a lot of people in one night or over the course of a year. My lovers count is nearer to four figures I believe. Mostly ladies, couples. If a couple are bisexual that’s two. Never had an STD nor do I want one. Clubs and parties are the safest to play as there are rules and your lover count can increase quickly. Stay safe and have great sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife reckons about 15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still have enough of my own fingers and toes to count mine x

Ditto "

I’m still on just fingers

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

No it doesn’t matter how many partners anyone has had although on here if you have too many verifications it can put people off meeting you! How’s that for mixed up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not even a consistent thing to measure. One person might consider a blow job counts, one might not. Does mutual masturbation count? How about masturbation while someone watches?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't care, makes no difference.

I did count when I was younger, probably because I was a cock.

I have no idea now on exact numbers."

This. If I was to estimate I'd say between two and three hundred, but probably closer to three? To put it in perspective though I was adventurous when younger too and I've been having sex for about a quarter of a century? Even the top estimate would only give me twelve partners a year or a new one every month.

Granted for chunks of that time I was monogamous. But there's always wild parties where I'd add up to maybe half a dozen on in one 24 hour period etc to offset that?

As for my thoughts on people relative to their numbers of partners, I don't have them really. If P had had sex with just the one or managed one thousand, I'd still be hopelessly smitten by her regardless...

But if it was the latter then I would probably ask her for time management tips!

B

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

We estimste abput 300 for Ross and 150 for Suzie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont ask and dont really care. Ive been into 4 figures for many many years... one year i kept count because it was amusing and id say those figures are very outdated even amongst my vanilla friends. "

4 figures.... Fair play!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I was married it was just 1. Since, I've knocked that figure up slightly but it's still less than 10. I think. I'm not in a hurry

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

It's an irrelevant number whether 1 or 1000 (or more)

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Did they mean an average of 5 per year?

That would make more sense.

Lower in your teens, probably peaking in your 30s/40s and then gradually reducing as you reach older age.

Yep I can see that averaging out about 5 per year.

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By *entcockslutCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

Well over 600 and 16 the most in one go

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I dont ask and dont really care. Ive been into 4 figures for many many years... one year i kept count because it was amusing and id say those figures are very outdated even amongst my vanilla friends.

4 figures.... Fair play!!!"
when you have been doing this over 20 years it's not difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a virgin"

Me too virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing for me its somewhere between 70 and 80 (this includes a 12 year period where there was only 1 lol) although not 100% sure. it does not bother me how many people someone has slept with as long as we have a good time together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who feels put off my someone who had over 50 or 100 lovers?

Let’s put it this way - would you rather buy a boring new car that looks nice but unloved in a corner of an average saleroom or would you buy a car that’s been around a bit, got an excellent track-record and that everyone’s desperate to get inside?

I'd rather have a new car. The older car might conk out at any moment. "

Not sure about this analogy tbf, though would have to assume that the car that everyone is desperate to get inside is one that is well maintained, performs well and is something I'm attracted to, rather than one that is essentially a powerful engine and chassis on wheels with dents, scuffs and a knackered gear box and appeals to so many just so they can throw it around a banger racing track?

Therefore I'd equate the lady that is well seasoned sexually, that I find attractive, possesses stamina and knows the human body and all it's pleasure zones both mental and physical to a 92 Dodge Viper, primarily owned by a racetrack circuit and driven by many with taste in cars and due to regular maintenance is in pristine condition...

The complete novice with performance levels that were basic at best, but has that new car smell would equate to a brand new 69 plate corsa, though one with the self-parking disabled and no bluetooth etc as such abilities are beyond it. Literally it drives, has a basic radio and that's it. It would however have the best bodywork of the series as it "looks" the part as best it can, though under the bonnet would be a flat 1 litre engine that delivers a bare bones drive.

Ignoring such matters as running costs, fuel, insurance etc as they don't really apply to swinging and working on the premise that I am gifted such a model of either car with all running costs taken care of for me, which would I rather have?

The Viper, all day long.

B

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I've been having sex since I was 16. As that was long time ago I would have thought I've had sex with a lot of people, I haven't a clue.

Some club nights and dogging places I have more sexual partners than the average person if those figures are correct

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By *arkandjaneCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster

We have actually kept a list of all our exploits, lol

It’s coded so only us know what it means,

I guess the figures stayed are probably correct, some people do actually stick to one partner throughout life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually agree the less partners the better.

After just 2 good experiences I realised I would not like to deal with overly multiple numbers of people as most of them would be “so-so” experience at the end anyway and only some of them would turn out fabulous experience (concluding what people have revealed on the forum).

Being picky for a reason I know what I want and what I want is found 1 in 100.. I stay happier this way and feel much sexier too that my mind and body is not ruined by so called multiple “so-so” experiences and negatives which actually means not Fabworld But Chaos world. Who can complement my thought

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"I actually agree the less partners the better.

After just 2 good experiences I realised I would not like to deal with overly multiple numbers of people as most of them would be “so-so” experience at the end anyway and only some of them would turn out fabulous experience (concluding what people have revealed on the forum).

Being picky for a reason I know what I want and what I want is found 1 in 100.. I stay happier this way and feel much sexier too that my mind and body is not ruined by so called multiple “so-so” experiences and negatives which actually means not Fabworld But Chaos world. Who can complement my thought"

I've probably had more than a 100 and I know I've been with people who have had more than a 100 partners. We still have amazing sex.

What will you do when you get to 100? Stop meeting new people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none at moment have haad none of this site atnall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none at moment have haad none of this site at all my balls are full to the top

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"They say the average in people's lifetime is under 5 in UK but I'm guessing in the swinging community it's much higher? Afew people admit losing count of how many people. Be interested to know if there's any truth behind all this.... does it matter if your latest partner had over 50 or 100 lovers? "

No, it doesn't matter to me provided when we are together, it's me alone or her having fun with my knowledge.

I would be a hypocrite otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually agree the less partners the better.

After just 2 good experiences I realised I would not like to deal with overly multiple numbers of people as most of them would be “so-so” experience at the end anyway and only some of them would turn out fabulous experience (concluding what people have revealed on the forum).

Being picky for a reason I know what I want and what I want is found 1 in 100.. I stay happier this way and feel much sexier too that my mind and body is not ruined by so called multiple “so-so” experiences and negatives which actually means not Fabworld But Chaos world. Who can complement my thought

I've probably had more than a 100 and I know I've been with people who have had more than a 100 partners. We still have amazing sex.

What will you do when you get to 100? Stop meeting new people? "

I definitely won’t get to that number as 1st ) I am very picky for my own goodness and 2) I am together with regular, well-matched partner and 3) I will keep meeting new people but 1 in 100

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I am shocked it's so low. but i my self fall into the 4%

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/science/how-many-sexual-partners-average-13442969.amp

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"I actually agree the less partners the better.

After just 2 good experiences I realised I would not like to deal with overly multiple numbers of people as most of them would be “so-so” experience at the end anyway and only some of them would turn out fabulous experience (concluding what people have revealed on the forum).

Being picky for a reason I know what I want and what I want is found 1 in 100.. I stay happier this way and feel much sexier too that my mind and body is not ruined by so called multiple “so-so” experiences and negatives which actually means not Fabworld But Chaos world. Who can complement my thought

I've probably had more than a 100 and I know I've been with people who have had more than a 100 partners. We still have amazing sex.

What will you do when you get to 100? Stop meeting new people?

I definitely won’t get to that number as 1st ) I am very picky for my own goodness and 2) I am together with regular, well-matched partner and 3) I will keep meeting new people but 1 in 100 "

That's fine if that suits you. I'm a bit curious as to why in this day and age on a swingers site people think that it's bad for having too many partners.

As I'm single and not much chance to that changing I expect (hope) my figures will go up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually agree the less partners the better.

After just 2 good experiences I realised I would not like to deal with overly multiple numbers of people as most of them would be “so-so” experience at the end anyway and only some of them would turn out fabulous experience (concluding what people have revealed on the forum).

Being picky for a reason I know what I want and what I want is found 1 in 100.. I stay happier this way and feel much sexier too that my mind and body is not ruined by so called multiple “so-so” experiences and negatives which actually means not Fabworld But Chaos world. Who can complement my thought

I've probably had more than a 100 and I know I've been with people who have had more than a 100 partners. We still have amazing sex.

What will you do when you get to 100? Stop meeting new people?

I definitely won’t get to that number as 1st ) I am very picky for my own goodness and 2) I am together with regular, well-matched partner and 3) I will keep meeting new people but 1 in 100

That's fine if that suits you. I'm a bit curious as to why in this day and age on a swingers site people think that it's bad for having too many partners.

As I'm single and not much chance to that changing I expect (hope) my figures will go up "

While posting my opinion I actually thought that somebody will perceive my answer as judging but it was not meant, it is Every individual’s choice and responsibility what to do in terms of numbers You are single and it would be different in your situation.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Definitely no offence taken or given. We are all different which is good

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well fab increased then count by 0 so average makes sense.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I would of been happy with the 4 guys I slept with but then hubby mentioned hotwifeing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually agree the less partners the better.

After just 2 good experiences I realised I would not like to deal with overly multiple numbers of people as most of them would be “so-so” experience at the end anyway and only some of them would turn out fabulous experience (concluding what people have revealed on the forum).

Being picky for a reason I know what I want and what I want is found 1 in 100.. I stay happier this way and feel much sexier too that my mind and body is not ruined by so called multiple “so-so” experiences and negatives which actually means not Fabworld But Chaos world. Who can complement my thought

I've probably had more than a 100 and I know I've been with people who have had more than a 100 partners. We still have amazing sex.

What will you do when you get to 100? Stop meeting new people?

I definitely won’t get to that number as 1st ) I am very picky for my own goodness and 2) I am together with regular, well-matched partner and 3) I will keep meeting new people but 1 in 100

That's fine if that suits you. I'm a bit curious as to why in this day and age on a swingers site people think that it's bad for having too many partners.

As I'm single and not much chance to that changing I expect (hope) my figures will go up "

Do they think it's bad to have many partners, or do they just prefer to meet different people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Including my wife just 9. "

Just remembered another so it's 10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who feels put off my someone who had over 50 or 100 lovers?

Let’s put it this way - would you rather buy a boring new car that looks nice but unloved in a corner of an average saleroom or would you buy a car that’s been around a bit, got an excellent track-record and that everyone’s desperate to get inside?

I'd rather have a new car. The older car might conk out at any moment.

Not sure about this analogy tbf, though would have to assume that the car that everyone is desperate to get inside is one that is well maintained, performs well and is something I'm attracted to, rather than one that is essentially a powerful engine and chassis on wheels with dents, scuffs and a knackered gear box and appeals to so many just so they can throw it around a banger racing track?

Therefore I'd equate the lady that is well seasoned sexually, that I find attractive, possesses stamina and knows the human body and all it's pleasure zones both mental and physical to a 92 Dodge Viper, primarily owned by a racetrack circuit and driven by many with taste in cars and due to regular maintenance is in pristine condition...

The complete novice with performance levels that were basic at best, but has that new car smell would equate to a brand new 69 plate corsa, though one with the self-parking disabled and no bluetooth etc as such abilities are beyond it. Literally it drives, has a basic radio and that's it. It would however have the best bodywork of the series as it "looks" the part as best it can, though under the bonnet would be a flat 1 litre engine that delivers a bare bones drive.

Ignoring such matters as running costs, fuel, insurance etc as they don't really apply to swinging and working on the premise that I am gifted such a model of either car with all running costs taken care of for me, which would I rather have?

The Viper, all day long.

B"

What you said

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

5 in a lifetime? I've had more than that in my dinner break.

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By *ormalcouple87Couple
over a year ago

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9 for mr and I’m at 54 (slutty teenager) then boring wife for a couple of years until we found this world xx

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Well over 600 and 16 the most in one go "

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"They say the average in people's lifetime is under 5 in UK but I'm guessing in the swinging community it's much higher? Afew people admit losing count of how many people. Be interested to know if there's any truth behind all this.... does it matter if your latest partner had over 50 or 100 lovers? "

Lol had 5 at one time...

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By *inkyrobinMan
over a year ago

Close to you

I was over a 100 by my early 20's think I've passed 200 by now, you only live once, so enjoy it if meeting new people is your thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m about 40-50

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

They must have asked some pretty innocent people for that survey. There average is more than my weekly amount lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They must have asked some pretty innocent people for that survey. There average is more than my weekly amount lol "

Do you mean your weekly amount is more than there average!?!

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"5 in a lifetime? I've had more than that in my dinner break. "

Ha! What a dinner break lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under 5? Where did you get these statistics from, OP?

I had that before I met my ex BF in my early 20's

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Under 5? Where did you get these statistics from, OP?

I had that before I met my ex BF in my early 20's

"

I had more than 5 before I was 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Under 5? Where did you get these statistics from, OP?

I had that before I met my ex BF in my early 20's

I had more than 5 before I was 20 "

Haha I was a good girl and waited til I was 18 with my first one..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im not going to answer this question as i answered it on an identical thread. But what i will say is i cant believe people would sign up to a swinging site then be put of /judge people for actually having sex

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Im not going to answer this question as i answered it on an identical thread. But what i will say is i cant believe people would sign up to a swinging site then be put of /judge people for actually having sex"

It is a strange one.

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