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By *otwifeandcuck OP   Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We live in blackpool so have club sx and infusions on our door step.

However we have never been and are reluctant to do so in case there is people there we know. We know they are there for the same reason blah blah blah... But if i have to work with them later in the week I'd not stop blushing..

But on the flip side we could travel to the townhouse say and it could be full of everyone from blackpool because they are all avoiding the blackpool clubs.

What do others do? Local and fuck em or travel and hope for the best?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

We travelled over 40 miles to a club and still bumped into people we knew.

They had the same idea.

It’s never been mentioned and they haven’t blocked us on here so it’s all good. As you say we are all out for the same thing and it’s not shameful.

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By *j123456Couple
over a year ago

cradley heath

We do both , our conclusion is that even if we do bump into anyone we know they would probably feel exactly the same as we do and extremely unlikely they would want anything broadcast just as much as we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually travel and avoid the local one.

Some swingers tell the whole world about their sex life and wouldn't care about others wanting discretion and privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local then move away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually travel and avoid the local one.

Some swingers tell the whole world about their sex life and wouldn't care about others wanting discretion and privacy. "

This is always a worry of ours , especially single guys .

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By *andb13Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

Why are you worried who you bump Into. You have to remeber you are all there for pretty much the same thing... it's not like anyone was nipping to asda and accidentally found themselves in a swingers club...

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

We just intend to use our local club and yes there have been a few times when we have bumped into people we know. It has never been a problem mind and some we have become even closer friends with xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are you worried who you bump Into. You have to remeber you are all there for pretty much the same thing... it's not like anyone was nipping to asda and accidentally found themselves in a swingers club..."

That happened to me once

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

The club conundrum!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time in years going to the club, I bumped into my ex as I came out of a room with a couple. The look on his face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If everyone thought it would be better to go further away to visit a club then you’d more likely to bump into people you know further away wouldn’t you say

Just go on a couples/single lady night then no single guy can tell his mates he saw you both at a swingers club, anyone else would just be discreet about it.

Best advice is go to different clubs and enjoy variety, sticking to one club inevitably ends up being like going to your local pub, everyone knows everyone’s business, gossips and generally talk shite

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We have no local clubs like in the county!!

And typically everyone travels to the local ones. So we've ran into a couple of folks we know it's been fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are you worried who you bump Into. You have to remeber you are all there for pretty much the same thing... it's not like anyone was nipping to asda and accidentally found themselves in a swingers club..."

That happened to me last week actually although not a club.

Was getting ready to go to Tesco and ended up at a guys house with a cock in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worried about going to my local now that my Dad and brother have moved to America. They both used to go to the same one (without each other knowing) and when they moved, I started to go. Imagine if we all chose the same day. What a way to have a family reunion! Awkward!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We have been club goes for 4 years not run in to a soul we know outside of the lifestyle ..

But will not meet in our home town for our privacy..

Couples talk as much as single guys...

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"We live in blackpool so have club sx and infusions on our door step.

However we have never been and are reluctant to do so in case there is people there we know. We know they are there for the same reason blah blah blah... But if i have to work with them later in the week I'd not stop blushing..

But on the flip side we could travel to the townhouse say and it could be full of everyone from blackpool because they are all avoiding the blackpool clubs.

What do others do? Local and fuck em or travel and hope for the best? "

Last time in sx it was full of people from Manchester and Newcastle...

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone


"Why are you worried who you bump Into. You have to remeber you are all there for pretty much the same thing... it's not like anyone was nipping to asda and accidentally found themselves in a swingers club..."

Made me smile because okay so it want Asda we went to but it was just spy but ended up going to Atlantis. It was a great night and obviously returned a few times since.

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