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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning,

I am extremely fortunate that Mr P encourages me to go out to ‘play’ and actively gets excited at the thought of me fulfilling my fantasies with other men.

Last night was going to be one of those great opportunities.

I have a fantasy of being massaged by someone who actually knows what they’re doing ie it is their job. And last night, after talking to a very sexy gentleman- we arranged a meet where this was going to happen.

He was a pure gent- he had booked us a gorgeous hotel, and had brought his table and oils etc. His communication had been fantastic and although I felt nervous, I was excited that my ‘massage with a happy ending’ fantasy was about to be lived out.

We met in the bar, he poured me a scrummy gin from the honesty bar, and we settled down on the leather sofas for what I hoped would be a quick frisson of flirty exchanges before we headed up to the stunning room I had dropped my bags in earlier.

However- that’s where it all went pear shaped. I think he became nervous. He then began to talk at me for an hour and a quarter. There was no flirting, apart from me when I tried.... I tried touching his arm, laughing at is jokes and leaning in. Oh no! He wanted to tell me about his gran, his jobs he’d had and anything and everything.

Now- I honestly think he would make an awesome boyfriend to someone, he was exceptionally well mannered, and very kind. He was reasonably attractive and I do think he was just nervous.

But I wasn’t there for that. I wanted a few drinks. I’d suggested that. I wanted to be flirted with. For my knickers to begin to get wet so I was gagging for the fantasy to be fulfilled upstairs.

But it didn’t begin to happen even after an hour and a half. I was still bone dry and beginning to think about my bed at home!!

So I politely made my excuses and left. We were kind to each other- after all- all we’d done had met for a drink. But the anticipation of smothering myself in thick gorgeous Jo Malone, and wearing my new undies for him had mounted to nothing,

I could see the disappointment in his face, as was mine.

But I walked away with pride. I am proud of myself for not caving and not getting what I wanted from the meet. Too many times I feel I personally have caved to satisfy others rather than getting what I want from the meet.

Has anyone else got this close and changed their mind? Has anyone else met with the person they’ve been flirting with and the chemistry just wasn’t there? Did you walk away?

If so- well done! I am proud of you too

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fortunately I don't think I've ever got to such a point and things haven't turned out well. Unfortunate OP but at least nobody was too upset in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the nice chap above me fortunately I haven’t been in this situation, usually if chemistry isn’t right or if I’m not feeling it I’ll stop contact but can be very hard to judge over a screen, but you handled the situation well and left with dignity and weren’t mean to the guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like the nice chap above me fortunately I haven’t been in this situation, usually if chemistry isn’t right or if I’m not feeling it I’ll stop contact but can be very hard to judge over a screen, but you handled the situation well and left with dignity and weren’t mean to the guy "

What’s the point of being rude

We’re all human beings x

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like the nice chap above me fortunately I haven’t been in this situation, usually if chemistry isn’t right or if I’m not feeling it I’ll stop contact but can be very hard to judge over a screen, but you handled the situation well and left with dignity and weren’t mean to the guy

What’s the point of being rude

We’re all human beings x

Thanks x

"

Exactly, but unfortunately you get people who wouldn’t handle the situation as gracefully as you and resort to being mean, rude and hurtful. Hope you get your fantasy fulfilled x

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