FabSwingers.com mobile

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Paying for fantasies

Jump to newest
 

By *eanie OP   Man
over a year ago

Worcester

I have a few things I am looking to try but have not had much luck. (Pegging, watersports for example) I am considering paying for it and wondered if anyone else had?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have a weird fantasy, but it involves a couple so I'm unlikely to be in a situation where I could pay for it. Although I'd consider it...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

yes id consider it too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iptonblokeMan
over a year ago

tipton

Id pay to forfill my fantasy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few things I am looking to try but have not had much luck. (Pegging, watersports for example) I am considering paying for it and wondered if anyone else had?"

Personally I'd be perfectly happy to pay for the basics, if there was a suitable market operating in my area.

Given that you're looking to explore and indulge aspects of your sexuality, not form deep meaningful relationships, I don't see what's wrong with a commercial arrangement. As long as the person providing the service is legal and not coerced.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I wouldn’t.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinkk its a great idea

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aisy6Woman
over a year ago

bath

Life is too short, enjoy it! Go for it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Never say never

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *laveofwomenMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I’ve payed for dominatrix many time’s before

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

No not for us...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as everyone is happy then go for it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

West London

I’ve paid to play a couple of times and definitely work to fulfil a fantasy (pegging is high on my list too)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few things I am looking to try but have not had much luck. (Pegging, watersports for example) I am considering paying for it and wondered if anyone else had?

Personally I'd be perfectly happy to pay for the basics, if there was a suitable market operating in my area.

Given that you're looking to explore and indulge aspects of your sexuality, not form deep meaningful relationships, I don't see what's wrong with a commercial arrangement. As long as the person providing the service is legal and not coerced."

Pay for the basics? So is that like Sainsbury’s basics? So a lower standard of fantasy fulfilment?

So you could pay more for taste the difference? I’d look at that, if you are going to pay to fulfil a fantasy pay for the better quality!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow

I have done and enjoyed both pegging and watersports for free. Think Im missing a trick here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

i have met a mf couple and ive had 2 ladies join me too

very enjoyable x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Prostution is not for us. We want players to be there cos they want to, for the pure fun and enjoyment.

Don't forget Fabs, frowns upon paid services between members.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"I’ve payed for dominatrix many time’s before "

I'd whip your balls for free. Providing you have your own whip.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done and enjoyed both pegging and watersports for free. Think Im missing a trick here "
Pmsl yes you could make a few quid here !!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prostution is not for us. We want players to be there cos they want to, for the pure fun and enjoyment.

Don't forget Fabs, frowns upon paid services between members. "

Exactly this! This is fun and a naughty hobby, I think if it was a transaction it would put me off and ruin the fun

I want people to want to play, that’s why it never bothers me when people say I am not for them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

For me personally (Mrs) it depends, if it was a fantasy we were both really into and felt it was really high on the bucket list I’d rather pay than die not experiencing it, he might feel differently, we haven’t come across it yet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I can totally understand why people with niche kinks may pay for the experience as finding compatible partners can be difficult. If it helps OP I have met some truly wonderful and lovely professional dominatrixes.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

When I was going through a dry spell a few years ago I definitely was looking online at male escorts! Didn’t end up doing it but if the need is great... haha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

I had a Mistress for over 3years started on a session type basis paying for Her time before becoming owned where we had a monthly agreed tribute.

Dont regret a minute or penny.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did payed a Brazilian ts escort once to fuck my wife x, she always wanted to try it, so I surprised her, we both enjoyed it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think paying for sex these days is just very normal and popular. Some people pay to fulfil fantasies and i cant see a problem with it. My partner would accept money for certain things

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

For me it's the journey from fantasy to reality that makes it special. Paying for it would never work for me, it would feel like a cheat. K

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orkmalewithPAMan
over a year ago

York


"For me it's the journey from fantasy to reality that makes it special. Paying for it would never work for me, it would feel like a cheat. K"

I am with you on that one, I feel exactly the same way..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire


"I’ve payed for dominatrix many time’s before

I'd whip your balls for free. Providing you have your own whip. "

I'm on my way, with my whip

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eanie OP   Man
over a year ago

Worcester

Funny you should say that. Those are the exact ones I’m thinking about

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids


"I have a few things I am looking to try but have not had much luck. (Pegging, watersports for example) I am considering paying for it and wondered if anyone else had?"

Hey OP I can't msg you due to your filter stung can you msg me please re the above

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few things I am looking to try but have not had much luck. (Pegging, watersports for example) I am considering paying for it and wondered if anyone else had?"

I paid a transsexual prostitute once; money well spent as far as I'm concerned.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have seen pro dommes in the past with mixed results. Have paid for other services to experience things but often found did not work. Appreciate there is a market there for it but prefer people doing it because they want to and not because they get paid. And know this place does not allow but does not stop people advertising

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't pay.

I like the idea of meeting someone who is like minded and would actually like to explore fantasies with ME because they want to, not because there's some sort of financial incentive.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *0NyorksMan
over a year ago

.......

Hmmm not sure I would to be honest.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eanie OP   Man
over a year ago

Worcester

Horses for courses but if it’s something you’re desperate to try.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oyandJulieMan
over a year ago

blackburn

I paid for watersports once. Both ways and would again if I had to

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

am lucky enough to have done mine with other like minded individuals, but I wouldn't rule out professional assistance if it was an urge I just had to scratch.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ita7Man
over a year ago

Kettering

I did this quite recently for a cpl off fab. It was their fantasy for hubby to pimp his wife. Agreed what my requirements were & met them in local pub where I picked her up & took her to hotel. She was already wearing lingerie u underneath a big coat. We didn't hang around for my first requirement which was a golden shower as you can imagine she had been drinking quite a bit for me & needed to let it go. Filmed it for hubby still sat in pub. It was very horny for us all. Took some pics with a note in her bra for posterity, hubby later joined us after I had my monies worth!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top