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Single guys - what is the beef?

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By *arkndirty OP   Man
over a year ago

sale

See loads of complaints about single guys per se . Not sure of the beef as I have no time to bother anyone. Kept busy responding to messages and invites. Always polite and never chase or bother people. If I look at male or couple profiles and it says no single males I leave it there.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Yeah but most think because its them you'll msle am exception to your criteria, cause, c'mon, its them!

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"See loads of complaints about single guys per se . Not sure of the beef as I have no time to bother anyone. Kept busy responding to messages and invites. Always polite and never chase or bother people. If I look at male or couple profiles and it says no single males I leave it there. "

Not every guy is polite.. Not every guy can take a form of no for an answer, no matter how polite or how you dress it up.

I've been absolutely hounded, to the point they either get abusive or just don't take the straight up no, they always think they are the exception.

It puts people off I guess.

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By *arkndirty OP   Man
over a year ago

sale


"See loads of complaints about single guys per se . Not sure of the beef as I have no time to bother anyone. Kept busy responding to messages and invites. Always polite and never chase or bother people. If I look at male or couple profiles and it says no single males I leave it there.

Not every guy is polite.. Not every guy can take a form of no for an answer, no matter how polite or how you dress it up.

I've been absolutely hounded, to the point they either get abusive or just don't take the straight up no, they always think they are the exception.

It puts people off I guess. "

People have alluded to this but amazed these troubling people are not removed. You wouldn't tolerate it happening in front of you on the street. Think there should be a red button on site for women or anyone getting harrassed.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"See loads of complaints about single guys per se . Not sure of the beef as I have no time to bother anyone. Kept busy responding to messages and invites. Always polite and never chase or bother people. If I look at male or couple profiles and it says no single males I leave it there.

Not every guy is polite.. Not every guy can take a form of no for an answer, no matter how polite or how you dress it up.

I've been absolutely hounded, to the point they either get abusive or just don't take the straight up no, they always think they are the exception.

It puts people off I guess.

People have alluded to this but amazed these troubling people are not removed. You wouldn't tolerate it happening in front of you on the street. Think there should be a red button on site for women or anyone getting harrassed. "

There is a report button on every message, profile and forum comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf couples are guilty of this too. They think you should somehow be grateful or something if you tell them no thanks

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"See loads of complaints about single guys per se . Not sure of the beef as I have no time to bother anyone. Kept busy responding to messages and invites. Always polite and never chase or bother people. If I look at male or couple profiles and it says no single males I leave it there.

Not every guy is polite.. Not every guy can take a form of no for an answer, no matter how polite or how you dress it up.

I've been absolutely hounded, to the point they either get abusive or just don't take the straight up no, they always think they are the exception.

It puts people off I guess.

People have alluded to this but amazed these troubling people are not removed. You wouldn't tolerate it happening in front of you on the street. Think there should be a red button on site for women or anyone getting harrassed.

There is a report button on every message, profile and forum comment."

Yeah but just because you report them doesn't mean they get removed. Unless it's particularly abusive messages.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I don't see why people just can't take a no thanx without getting abusive I like being told no its the forbidden fruit feeling lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all pricks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am exactly the same as the OP. I read and respect all profiles, but when I do send a nice message, clean and no insinuation it often leads to auto delete even a blocking lol. I just think it's their loss lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I am exactly the same as the OP. I read and respect all profiles, but when I do send a nice message, clean and no insinuation it often leads to auto delete even a blocking lol. I just think it's their loss lol "

How is it their loss? They weren't interested so they haven't lost anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am exactly the same as the OP. I read and respect all profiles, but when I do send a nice message, clean and no insinuation it often leads to auto delete even a blocking lol. I just think it's their loss lol

How is it their loss? They weren't interested so they haven't lost

anything."

It works in my head lol

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"We're all pricks "

No, sometimes, some of you, act like one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to come to the defence of well mannered single males. As a couple that only meets guys most of our worst messages are from other couples that just don’t take no thanks as an answer.

Yes there are some guys that send the typical wanna fuck message but the majority of our messages are from guys that have obviously read our profile. We always reply even if it’s a no thank you. And that has always been respected.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"See loads of complaints about single guys per se . Not sure of the beef as I have no time to bother anyone. Kept busy responding to messages and invites. Always polite and never chase or bother people. If I look at male or couple profiles and it says no single males I leave it there. "

No beef from me I love single guys

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By *arkndirty OP   Man
over a year ago

sale


"See loads of complaints about single guys per se . Not sure of the beef as I have no time to bother anyone. Kept busy responding to messages and invites. Always polite and never chase or bother people. If I look at male or couple profiles and it says no single males I leave it there.

No beef from me I love single guys "

And I am sure the single lads love you too. X

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By *arkndirty OP   Man
over a year ago

sale


"Going to come to the defence of well mannered single males. As a couple that only meets guys most of our worst messages are from other couples that just don’t take no thanks as an answer.

Yes there are some guys that send the typical wanna fuck message but the majority of our messages are from guys that have obviously read our profile. We always reply even if it’s a no thank you. And that has always been respected. "

Mutual respect makes the world a better place.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

I'm very well mannered and considerate. Always accept a no thanks or deleted mail and block/move on... Yet the number of single girls and couples who show me an utter lack of respect is amazing. Only around 2% bother to say no thanks and leave me hanging, some lead me on for weeks/months for nothing (friends invites and empty talk of wanting to meet etc). I've noticed a trend of those who look at you when you message but ignore it, not even read. I've started blocking them too

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By *arkndirty OP   Man
over a year ago

sale


"I'm very well mannered and considerate. Always accept a no thanks or deleted mail and block/move on... Yet the number of single girls and couples who show me an utter lack of respect is amazing. Only around 2% bother to say no thanks and leave me hanging, some lead me on for weeks/months for nothing (friends invites and empty talk of wanting to meet etc). I've noticed a trend of those who look at you when you message but ignore it, not even read. I've started blocking them too "

Yes ignorant people are never Arthur much thought.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We're all pricks "

Especially you

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Some of them are a pain in the ass but I love me some single men. Double portions please. Nom nom nom nom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you op

But not all are like you. However we find that's what the block button is for, no point getting upset about it just block and move on

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

Answer is blatantly obvious but likely not cost effective

Fab for cples only

Fab for singles only

Somehow I would expect the second option not getting very heavily subscribed though ??

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford


"I'm very well mannered and considerate. Always accept a no thanks or deleted mail and block/move on... Yet the number of single girls and couples who show me an utter lack of respect is amazing. Only around 2% bother to say no thanks and leave me hanging, some lead me on for weeks/months for nothing (friends invites and empty talk of wanting to meet etc). I've noticed a trend of those who look at you when you message but ignore it, not even read. I've started blocking them too "

Have to agree ..there are unfortunately cples and singles who seem to enjoy being a bit cold and rude to single guys who actually make some effort to write a proper message etc not just a 'how Ru ' one.Which to be fair deserves a bit if respect IMO .

Particularly a problem for me on here are the number of husbands /partners who are a bit overinflated and seem to think very highly of themselves. Especially when they have 1 photo on profile and no veris! Yet see single men as done kind of pariah .

Not all people of course are rude and unpleasant. There are some perfectly lovely people on here .

Sadly too many though who are not ..so should take a peek in the mirror before extaling theirs and partners 'virtues' because the truth is guys some of you are no oil paintings yourselves!

People should maybe all try to be nice and polite . Makes a nicer world doesn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're all pricks

Especially you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am exactly the same as the OP. I read and respect all profiles, but when I do send a nice message, clean and no insinuation it often leads to auto delete even a blocking lol. I just think it's their loss lol

How is it their loss? They weren't interested so they haven't lost

anything.

It works in my head lol "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a few messages from gay- bi men.

I always reply. If they have taken the time to message me, I feel that I should at least acknowledge them.

Probably different if I was getting 200-300 messages a day though, like some women have claimed in other threads

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I've tried the whole, read the profile and send messages only for it to get deleted. Now I won't send as messages to anyone on here..

Direct meets in the around 10-12 years I've been on this site I've had no more than a handful.

I then decoverd the Fet world and I'm haveing far more fun on there than I ever had on this site

Also males pay the same as everyone to go into a club,

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"I get a few messages from gay- bi men.

I always reply. If they have taken the time to message me, I feel that I should at least acknowledge them.

Probably different if I was getting 200-300 messages a day though, like some women have claimed in other threads"

350 A day, one lady friend of mine (seen with my own eyes)

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

One of the things we like, as a couple that plays with single guys as well, about another site we are on is the way they seem to treat single guys better than here. That site used to have compulsory photo verification and I think that because of that there were less fakes so everyone didn't get looked at with suspicion. Although now they don't enforce it they are still very good at ing out the fakes and so there is still respect for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah but most think because its them you'll msle am exception to your criteria, cause, c'mon, its them! "
i get that though.......... its me godamn it nobody else like me

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