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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people message us as if they were txting, apart from not putting the effort in, i can't understand a fecking word!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos not every1 is mid 40's init.

Have to agree though that I hate it and presume the sender is illiterate and unable to hold a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind the odd word here and there, but when the whole thing is unreadable its not exactly making me horny trying to decipher what is being said.. and makes people come across as alot less intelligent than they often are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hate. I delete messages if they arrive in text speak!! It makes people come across as planks! I really really don't get it.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to let u know before its too late i would take that off because u will get banned for that quote..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both hate it. Nobody gets anywhere with us if they can't send a message properly.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We often struggle to understand messages if they are full of text speak.

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By *he BendoversCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle

To be fair it's just the way the younger generation communicate nowadays.The abbreviations allow you to get as much info into a 160 character sms message. We don't exactly embrace "text speak" but am pretty sure it's here to stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair it's just the way the younger generation communicate nowadays.The abbreviations allow you to get as much info into a 160 character sms message. We don't exactly embrace "text speak" but am pretty sure it's here to stay."

as a part of the "younger generation" can i just say its not how i communicate... and alot of the messages we get are from 40+ men when they are in text speak... perhaps they think its how we speak and are trying to comunicate on "our level"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of my closest friends in real life are younger people (from 25 to 35) and none of them use text speak, they hate it as much if not more than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed on here that people in the age range of 40-49 are the most illiterate generation, every time I see a message on the forums or receive a message that looks like a child wrote it, I think to myself "I bet they're in their mid 40's" and I'm always right ... what happened?

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By *aucy and naughtyCouple
over a year ago

London (Swiss Cottage)

We're of a "younger generation" and we abhor text speak

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here that people in the age range of 40-49 are the most illiterate generation, every time I see a message on the forums or receive a message that looks like a child wrote it, I think to myself "I bet they're in their mid 40's" and I'm always right ... what happened? "

Thatcher took their free milk away so they lost concentration and vital calcium

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I read text speak(or attempt to as it gives me a headache trying to work out what is being said) I always imagine that person talking in the same manner as Tim Westwood..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While i do use the odd abbriviation or smily lol i do find it annoying lol when someone lol puts "lol" between practically every word lol regardless of what the context of the conversation or message is lol

I end imagining them having a big booming Brian Blessed type laugh every time I see "lol" in a sentence.

lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I've noticed on here that people in the age range of 40-49 are the most illiterate generation, every time I see a message on the forums or receive a message that looks like a child wrote it, I think to myself "I bet they're in their mid 40's" and I'm always right ... what happened? "

We do it simply to make ourselves appear younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pet hate. I delete messages if they arrive in text speak!! It makes people come across as planks! I really really don't get it."
u shud not be so judgemental guys nt everyone got loads of time to write or mebbe they r not that good at writin, but that don mean they r thick! I do it but i got a physics degree lol (1st class xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pet hate. I delete messages if they arrive in text speak!! It makes people come across as planks! I really really don't get it.

u shud not be so judgemental guys nt everyone got loads of time to write or mebbe they r not that good at writin, but that don mean they r thick! I do it but i got a physics degree lol (1st class xx "

yet it makes you look like you got your degree at the school of hard knocks...(on the head)

its amazing how you (someone clearly of intelligence if you have a degree in physics) can make yourself look so stupid and fyi - mebbe/maybe,,, same amount of letters same amount of typing time... yet you choose to type it in a stupid way... and there are lots of other text talk things that are exactly the same.. do yourself a favour and start putting yourself across like the intelligent person you are instead of some uneducated chav that never even finished secondary school!

I'm not perfect, i miss out punctuation (or add too much alot of the time) and i sometimes say u and i say LOL alot but that's just taking it to another level... can you not see how that looks? if you don't have time to type out a proper sentence then how the hell do you have time to meet people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair it's just the way the younger generation communicate nowadays.The abbreviations allow you to get as much info into a 160 character sms message. We don't exactly embrace "text speak" but am pretty sure it's here to stay."

Not sure you're right about that. We get messages from lots of people in their 20s which are not in 'text speak' and we know several people of that age who not only don't use it but disapprove of people who do. Conversely, we get messages from older people who do use it.

We simply delete messages in text speak .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pet hate. I delete messages if they arrive in text speak!! It makes people come across as planks! I really really don't get it. u shud not be so judgemental guys nt everyone got loads of time to write or mebbe they r not that good at writin, but that don mean they r thick! I do it but i got a physics degree lol (1st class xx "

It does mean they are thick, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not just young people who use it.If you notice there is no such thing as "text speak". People just do their " own thing" .

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"My pet hate. I delete messages if they arrive in text speak!! It makes people come across as planks! I really really don't get it. u shud not be so judgemental guys nt everyone got loads of time to write or mebbe they r not that good at writin, but that don mean they r thick! I do it but i got a physics degree lol (1st class xx

It does mean they are thick, sorry."

Lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

text speak and people who can't spell properly.Get a dictionary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on here that people in the age range of 40-49 are the most illiterate generation, every time I see a message on the forums or receive a message that looks like a child wrote it, I think to myself "I bet they're in their mid 40's" and I'm always right ... what happened?

Thatcher took their free milk away so they lost concentration and vital calcium "

Hey that's me and I can assure you I am not illiterate!! I am dairy intolerant though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"text speak and people who can't spell properly.Get a dictionary "

Don't most computers spell check anyway? I know mine does....

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"To be fair it's just the way the younger generation communicate nowadays. The abbreviations allow you to get as much info into a 160 character sms message. We don't exactly embrace "text speak" but am pretty sure it's here to stay."

I think you are way off target with that post! We have lots of younger people around us from the ages of 14 to 30 and only one insists on text speak! Most of the others are always telling her that she should grow up and "txt spk" is for kids! (she is the 14 year old!)

I think the myth has grown up because of trendy people on television shows and news items have tried to be in with the crowd and state that kids use it "man"!

In reality, in my life, we don't see the wholesale use of text speak anywhere.. Maybe I am just lucky, but the kids mentioned have much better comprehension and grammar that a lot of 30+ posters on here! The difference is they see written English as important, whereas some on here think that it is not!

Oh and I know I am not perfect, but at least I try...

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By *aucy and naughtyCouple
over a year ago

London (Swiss Cottage)


"My pet hate. I delete messages if they arrive in text speak!! It makes people come across as planks! I really really don't get it.

u shud not be so judgemental guys nt everyone got loads of time to write or mebbe they r not that good at writin, but that don mean they r thick! I do it but i got a physics degree lol (1st class xx

yet it makes you look like you got your degree at the school of hard knocks...(on the head)

its amazing how you (someone clearly of intelligence if you have a degree in physics) can make yourself look so stupid and fyi - mebbe/maybe,,, same amount of letters same amount of typing time... yet you choose to type it in a stupid way... and there are lots of other text talk things that are exactly the same.. do yourself a favour and start putting yourself across like the intelligent person you are instead of some uneducated chav that never even finished secondary school!

I'm not perfect, i miss out punctuation (or add too much alot of the time) and i sometimes say u and i say LOL alot but that's just taking it to another level... can you not see how that looks? if you don't have time to type out a proper sentence then how the hell do you have time to meet people? "

2Hunters - you have your two new fans here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are using a phone to log in, so use txt spk to send/reply to messages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they are using a phone to log in, so use txt spk to send/reply to messages..."
Why should that make a difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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2Hunters - you have your two new fans here! "

Well hello my new fans * waves *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they are using a phone to log in, so use txt spk to send/reply to messages...

Why should that make a difference?"

and a fine case in point it shouldn't make a difference.. people who use text speak are stupid lol

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"Why do people message us as if they were txting, apart from not putting the effort in, i can't understand a fecking word!!!"

Because they either cant spell, cant be bothered to spell..or a combination of both...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another case of snobbery, but one which I do subscribe to. I kind of feel self satisfied that I don’t understand some of the messages from my 10 and 11 year old sons:-

me: what are you doing tonight son

him: jc wbu

when explained it reads … just chillin wha’ ‘bout you

My 16 yo son laughs at txt spk

Possibly think differently in chat room scenario when the pace sometimes dictates some form of shorthand

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pet hate. I delete messages if they arrive in text speak!! It makes people come across as planks! I really really don't get it.

u shud not be so judgemental guys nt everyone got loads of time to write or mebbe they r not that good at writin, but that don mean they r thick! I do it but i got a physics degree lol (1st class xx

yet it makes you look like you got your degree at the school of hard knocks...(on the head)

its amazing how you (someone clearly of intelligence if you have a degree in physics) can make yourself look so stupid and fyi - mebbe/maybe,,, same amount of letters same amount of typing time... yet you choose to type it in a stupid way... and there are lots of other text talk things that are exactly the same.. do yourself a favour and start putting yourself across like the intelligent person you are instead of some uneducated chav that never even finished secondary school!

I'm not perfect, i miss out punctuation (or add too much alot of the time) and i sometimes say u and i say LOL alot but that's just taking it to another level... can you not see how that looks? if you don't have time to type out a proper sentence then how the hell do you have time to meet people? "

I had to delete my post because I was unaware of your thread. I don't use text speak but I will defend people who do.

Fact is (as it has been shown here) people from all walks of life use it.

I've seen "educated" people here in the forums make horrific mistakes in spelling and grammar. Occasionally, others will highlight this. Not me because nine times out of ten they've written something that's made me think or made me smile. It's about expression and that's part of what makes the site fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pet hate. I delete messages if they arrive in text speak!! It makes people come across as planks! I really really don't get it.

u shud not be so judgemental guys nt everyone got loads of time to write or mebbe they r not that good at writin, but that don mean they r thick! I do it but i got a physics degree lol (1st class xx

yet it makes you look like you got your degree at the school of hard knocks...(on the head)

its amazing how you (someone clearly of intelligence if you have a degree in physics) can make yourself look so stupid and fyi - mebbe/maybe,,, same amount of letters same amount of typing time... yet you choose to type it in a stupid way... and there are lots of other text talk things that are exactly the same.. do yourself a favour and start putting yourself across like the intelligent person you are instead of some uneducated chav that never even finished secondary school!

I'm not perfect, i miss out punctuation (or add too much alot of the time) and i sometimes say u and i say LOL alot but that's just taking it to another level... can you not see how that looks? if you don't have time to type out a proper sentence then how the hell do you have time to meet people?

I had to delete my post because I was unaware of your thread. I don't use text speak but I will defend people who do.

Fact is (as it has been shown here) people from all walks of life use it.

I've seen "educated" people here in the forums make horrific mistakes in spelling and grammar. Occasionally, others will highlight this. Not me because nine times out of ten they've written something that's made me think or made me smile. It's about expression and that's part of what makes the site fun."

but I think spelling mistakes are not such a problem, the fact remains that text speak is destroying the english language. I know very intelligent people who can't spell for toffee, they are somewhat dyslexic I suspect, but I would rather see someone trying to write correctly than the laziness of text speak, which I genuinely cannot fathom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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but I think spelling mistakes are not such a problem, the fact remains that text speak is destroying the english language. I know very intelligent people who can't spell for toffee, they are somewhat dyslexic I suspect, but I would rather see someone trying to write correctly than the laziness of text speak, which I genuinely cannot fathom."

I wouldn't go as far as saying Text-speak is destroying the English language. Besides, there are words in our language that are not even English! Only a small group of people in this country "speak properly" and dialects and slang combined with different cultures that have emigrated here over the years have contributed just as much to the way we speak and write. Not to mention technology itself has forced us to adapt the way we communicate. For example, Twitter allows you to use only 140 characters. That's 20 characters less than a text from most dated mobiles.

I don't use Text-speak but for those who do, it's fun. I don't feel it shows a lack of intelligence or laziness. Such claims are based on assumptions, which make an ASS of U and ME.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont even read then if they are written in text talk, you cant tell a lot about people buy their message and first impressions count as they say and if i open a message thats written in text talk all i picture is some 19 year old chav in a trakkie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soz i txt spk all the time and sometimes my punctuation mkes it read wrong ..... habit spose .... i do 3000 texts a mth and akways need more!!! lol lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C u l8er m8ties LMFAO

I am a little textist myself but do feel you have to read a little more into the message - if a profile looks interesting I can forgive a little chavy text speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of its just unreadable tho, ive just gotten a message about 10 mins ago and there wasnt a single word in it spent correctly, i just cant be arsed working it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging should never be hard work - if its that bad id delete and move on or ask them to resend in english lol

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"I don't use Text-speak but for those who do, it's fun. I don't feel it shows a lack of intelligence or laziness. Such claims are based on assumptions, which make an ASS of U and ME. "

Well, I think you are also making assumptions! You are assuming that people find it "fun" when in fact they know no better! It is just language to them and not some funky way of communicating!

On a phone, perhaps it is not laziness, but certainly in email messages and letters it show a gross lack of respect for those recieving the messages.

As for intelligence? Well, if you feel you have to use "txt spk"in your normal, everyday life, it seems to indicate that you have no respect for either the English language or the message recipent.. Definate lack of intelligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont believe it shows lack of intelligence, just a choice to use a different form of communication - embrace the diversity I say!Nobody is forcing you to answer "text speak messages" but no need to make such sweeping statements surely??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

txt spk on a fone is cos i wd wear my ruddy fingers out with the amount i do a day!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use Text-speak but for those who do, it's fun. I don't feel it shows a lack of intelligence or laziness. Such claims are based on assumptions, which make an ASS of U and ME.

Well, I think you are also making assumptions! You are assuming that people find it "fun" when in fact they know no better! It is just language to them and not some funky way of communicating!

On a phone, perhaps it is not laziness, but certainly in email messages and letters it show a gross lack of respect for those recieving the messages.

As for intelligence? Well, if you feel you have to use "txt spk"in your normal, everyday life, it seems to indicate that you have no respect for either the English language or the message recipent.. Definate lack of intelligence"

It's not a lack of intelligence. Such a statement is inconclusive because you can't be 100% sure, the same way I don't know 100% a person's reasons for using it.

The only lack of respect I see is insulting someone for the way they choose to be communicate. Unless it's intended to cause offence, there's no harm caused.

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By *4FantasyCouple
over a year ago

Spalding


"I don't mind the odd word here and there, but when the whole thing is unreadable its not exactly making me horny trying to decipher what is being said.. and makes people come across as alot less intelligent than they often are."

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