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By *ature friendly couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Just wondering why so many insist on posting all verifications and names of all they have met on here.

Does it mean popularity or something else?

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

It’s a way to show that you’re genuine to other prospective meeters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once subjected to a barrage of abuse because of someone I’d met on here. Since then I’ve decided to not show my verifications. I’ve got a green tick, that’s enough for me to be satisfied someone’s genuine

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Maybe they like what has been written in the verifications.For single men they can be important to show they are real and turn up ,so I can see why they display them.

We show ours as they give an idea if what type of couple we are.

Miss

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By *ohemianangelWoman
over a year ago

cannock

I’m vain, I love my skills being immortalised in writing... also I’m constantly accused of being a catfish... less so since I got verified

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We always look at verifications. And them not being displayed puts us off. Just because someone is verified doesn't mean they are what we are looking for or as good as they would have you believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mine hidden as couple I met doesn’t meet single males often so out of respect, and so they don’t get bombarded with ‘why’ messages

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

A verification is also a recommendation,that's how I like to write mine

I also look at other people's verifications when thinking about meeting them,as people I know or know of have met them,that to me is their recommendation,it works well for me sharing is caring

I'm not keen on a profile with hidden verifications,2 or 3 are good to see

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Verifications show you are real not fiction, they also let you look at who you can meet of others verifications, also it shows you actually play

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I keep mine hidden as couple I met doesn’t meet single males often so out of respect, and so they don’t get bombarded with ‘why’ messages "

Curious... why write one if you dont want it displayed.

I might understand if they said that's why they wouldnt want to display yours if you gave one. Although even if you did write one and they didnt display it the summary would say they met a single guy.

To the OP, conversely people get stick for displaying fewer than their summary suggests they have.

Cant win nor can you please everyone. So, why care..

I once saw someones veries going all the way back to around 2012. That made think this person is a seasoned swinger and unlikely to be a bullshitter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s shows we regularly play, will turn up, are not weirdos and keeps the timewasters and dreamers away. Win, win

We like giving them as a thank you note too xx

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs


"It’s shows we regularly play, will turn up, are not weirdos and keeps the timewasters and dreamers away. Win, win

We like giving them as a thank you note too xx"
. Totally agree you can actually pick out the Genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont really agree with seriel repeat veri's off the same person/people everytime they meet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont really agree with seriel repeat veri's off the same person/people everytime they meet....."

Why?? To me if I see a guy with multiple meets veris off the same woman/couples it says to me that they are likely to be repeat meeters/friends and that is what I'm after not just a one off

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs


"Dont really agree with seriel repeat veri's off the same person/people everytime they meet.....

Why?? To me if I see a guy with multiple meets veris off the same woman/couples it says to me that they are likely to be repeat meeters/friends and that is what I'm after not just a one off"
. Repeats especially if it’s quite few different people repeats actually proves your a nice person to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have one so will show it with pride lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not trying to start an argument here and its everyone to their own but if we did it everytime we met up with our fab friends whether its a social or play we'd have 300-400 veris lol.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs


"Not trying to start an argument here and its everyone to their own but if we did it everytime we met up with our fab friends whether its a social or play we'd have 300-400 veris lol. "
Same as us you have to think about putting same people too many times it’s a fine line

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Just wondering why so many insist on posting all verifications and names of all they have met on here.

Does it mean popularity or something else?"

Well, that's kinda what they are there for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t share all of ours but most of the hidden ones are extra socials or webcam veris. We show some as all hidden make people wonder, it’s not a show off thing, it’s a way of showing you’re genuine. -mrs

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"Just wondering why so many insist on posting all verifications and names of all they have met on here.

Does it mean popularity or something else?"

I display all mine. Its not for "popularity", I just feel it shows I am genuine, builds a picture of the type of person I am and some of my interests. In the same way I read the veris of people I am potentially going to meet. I'm not a fan of profiles with hidden veris personally but understand everyone may have their reasons for this.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Just wondering why so many insist on posting all verifications and names of all they have met on here.

Does it mean popularity or something else?

I display all mine. Its not for "popularity", I just feel it shows I am genuine, builds a picture of the type of person I am and some of my interests. In the same way I read the veris of people I am potentially going to meet. I'm not a fan of profiles with hidden veris personally but understand everyone may have their reasons for this. "

Totally agree! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only post few ,not all of them and also we don't like cpls who have tons of veris there either .

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"We only post few ,not all of them and also we don't like cpls who have tons of veris there either .

"

You profile, your choice.

However, as you only post a few.....how do we know you haven't got another 300 hidden ones?

Seems a bit weird to us, this is a swingers site, and people want to meet reliable, friendly, genuine people....well, having loads of veries proves that that is what we are... But you wouldn't meet us because we have loads of veries?

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We post ours because hopefully they give an idea of our personalities and how we interact with other people. Let’s face it compared to some of the fit people on here our social skills and jovial personalities are the only things we’ve got going for us!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I show all mine. I am grateful that people took the time to write nice things, wouldn’t want to offend anyone by not displaying Theres and happy that the content shows that about 80% of them are social meets.

If someone doesn’t want to meet me because I had lunch with someone or a pint at a social then they really aren’t my type of person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering why so many insist on posting all verifications and names of all they have met on here.

Does it mean popularity or something else?

I display all mine. Its not for "popularity", I just feel it shows I am genuine, builds a picture of the type of person I am and some of my interests. In the same way I read the veris of people I am potentially going to meet. I'm not a fan of profiles with hidden veris personally but understand everyone may have their reasons for this.

Totally agree! Xx"

Thirded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only post few ,not all of them and also we don't like cpls who have tons of veris there either .

You profile, your choice.

However, as you only post a few.....how do we know you haven't got another 300 hidden ones?

Seems a bit weird to us, this is a swingers site, and people want to meet reliable, friendly, genuine people....well, having loads of veries proves that that is what we are... But you wouldn't meet us because we have loads of veries? "

Lol that's not the case .

We don't meet hardened swingers, so too many veris at the rate of 4 each week will defo put us off .

And yes, you can assume that we may have 300 veris hidden, no probs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We post ours because hopefully they give an idea of our personalities and how we interact with other people. Let’s face it compared to some of the fit people on here our social skills and jovial personalities are the only things we’ve got going for us! "

This one

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"We only post few ,not all of them and also we don't like cpls who have tons of veris there either .

You profile, your choice.

However, as you only post a few.....how do we know you haven't got another 300 hidden ones?

Seems a bit weird to us, this is a swingers site, and people want to meet reliable, friendly, genuine people....well, having loads of veries proves that that is what we are... But you wouldn't meet us because we have loads of veries?

Lol that's not the case .

We don't meet hardened swingers, so too many veris at the rate of 4 each week will defo put us off .

And yes, you can assume that we may have 300 veris hidden, no probs .

"

But what constitutes a " hardened" swinger?

Just took a quick look at your veries, and you have played more in the last year than we have in the last 2 years, so veries are not really a yardstick with which you can accurately measure swingers, are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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But what constitutes a " hardened" swinger?

Just took a quick look at your veries, and you have played more in the last year than we have in the last 2 years, so veries are not really a yardstick with which you can accurately measure swingers, are they?"

Haha

Wish we would have played loads .

We are not judging you or anyone by the veris , but too many veris of playing ( not social ) will put us off.

Hardened swingers are those who have this as a lifestyle , visit clubs almost every week, almost every club events .

We are not here for that ,we are here to fullfil our fantasies which will enhance our lives , bring us more closer .

We are not despising you in anyway ,we are just setting our preferences and this site gives importance to preferences more than anything else .

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like it when people show them all. Often makes for a nice read. I like it when you can see what clubs/socials people attend by their verifications too. I'm not all that bothered what other people choose to do with their verifications though. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But what constitutes a " hardened" swinger?

Just took a quick look at your veries, and you have played more in the last year than we have in the last 2 years, so veries are not really a yardstick with which you can accurately measure swingers, are they?

Haha

Wish we would have played loads .

We are not judging you or anyone by the veris , but too many veris of playing ( not social ) will put us off.

Hardened swingers are those who have this as a lifestyle , visit clubs almost every week, almost every club events .

We are not here for that ,we are here to fullfil our fantasies which will enhance our lives , bring us more closer .

We are not despising you in anyway ,we are just setting our preferences and this site gives importance to preferences more than anything else ."

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We display ours so people know we are genuine and meet, etc.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The only ones I have displayed are from the York social, the rest are private as what's happens between myself and others has nothing to do with other people.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It's, a real minefield as everyone looks at things differently. I'd agree that as a single male we have to jump through every hoop possible to be successful on here, so leaving things hidden hinders that for the most part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not trip advisor.. not need a ratings page like a catalogue .

I have 2 old veris for the sake of having them. If i put on any others i get moaned at why not met X or Y or Z when i have little time.. this way its no one elses business

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