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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

We have converted a room in our house so that we can tie people up either couples or unicorns. We have collars and cuffs along with spreader bars and even a couple of whips - So would you call this bdsm or just playing tie me up with others

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"We have converted a room in our house so that we can tie people up either couples or unicorns. We have collars and cuffs along with spreader bars and even a couple of whips - So would you call this bdsm or just playing tie me up with others"

BDSM mmmmm when can I come and look at it I mean only have a look hint hint ha

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

Well we are free most weekends if you would like to visit for real drop us a PM on our profile

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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago

Great Harwood, Blackburn


"We have converted a room in our house so that we can tie people up either couples or unicorns. We have collars and cuffs along with spreader bars and even a couple of whips - So would you call this bdsm or just playing tie me up with others"

I'd say its a bit of both, shame you not looking for single guys though, I'd love to try that kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it's bdsm role play. Sounds fabulous.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would call it whatever you want to call it. Too many "it's my way or its not genuine BDSM" people about. As long as you and the people involved understand what you're doing, how to do it safely and all consent you can call it hanging from a helicopter playing the bugle and I'd tell you to go ahead and enjoy yourselves

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

What are the whips made off? Pourous fabric? If so they should only be used on one person in it's life time. If you break skin with a whip ect, it can harbour bactria.

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"What are the whips made off? Pourous fabric? If so they should only be used on one person in it's life time. If you break skin with a whip ect, it can harbour bactria. "

Wont be any skin getting broken or anything like that for sure

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We would call it fun lol.

No need to label it, it's somewhere on the BDSM spectrum, but depends on how far you go with it.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Just sounds like a whole bunch of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the whips made off? Pourous fabric? If so they should only be used on one person in it's life time. If you break skin with a whip ect, it can harbour bactria.

Wont be any skin getting broken or anything like that for sure "

Antibacterial wipes maybe! Bleach, boil it for 5 mins! I’m sure you can clean these things!

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Definitely sounds like kink, probably BDSM but different people have different definitions.

The question is not what it is called, it ia whether you are having fun, and it sounds as if you are.

Personally I prefer rope to cuffs but each to their own.

As for the whip, I can't imagine you have a bullwhip, so if it is snake whip the cracker is easily removed. Even with a signal whip. which has a braided in cracker it can be removed and replaced. Whip crackers are cheap online.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"We have converted a room in our house so that we can tie people up either couples or unicorns. We have collars and cuffs along with spreader bars and even a couple of whips - So would you call this bdsm or just playing tie me up with others"

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Don’t know lol, sounds like fun though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just sounds like a whole bunch of fun "

This x

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

You need a PhD in linguistics once you get into kink! Don’t worry about the name, just enjoy with others who wish to join you!

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Just sounds like a fun space to me

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

No need to have a label, just enjoy what you do, sure you will have lots of fun.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"No need to have a label, just enjoy what you do, sure you will have lots of fun. "
thos who cares what its called as long as its safe consensual fun for all

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"We have converted a room in our house so that we can tie people up either couples or unicorns. We have collars and cuffs along with spreader bars and even a couple of whips - So would you call this bdsm or just playing tie me up with others"

I'd call it heaven

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor


"What are the whips made off? Pourous fabric? If so they should only be used on one person in it's life time. If you break skin with a whip ect, it can harbour bactria. "

I use disinfectant sprays and wipes on machinery and props, soap and warm water on toys, and i use rubber sheet for bed or puppy pads for carpeted areas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although we have simular a dedicated room sounds bliss (wish our house was bigger to have one). It is BDSM in its loosest form. Dont worry about labels though. Just be safe and enjoy. Love to practice our skills out on some willing participants.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"What are the whips made off? Pourous fabric? If so they should only be used on one person in it's life time. If you break skin with a whip ect, it can harbour bactria.

Wont be any skin getting broken or anything like that for sure

Antibacterial wipes maybe! Bleach, boil it for 5 mins! I’m sure you can clean these things! "

I certainly would not boil my swead floggers at £120 the set, or pour bleach over them. Off to the ery cleaners they go.

Bdsm kinksters try to educate others in the way of safe, sane and consentual. We get shot down at times, I belive someone has already mentioned " if you don't do it my way, it's not the right way" however cleaning of equipment/ toys, is very differant than cleaning of swinging vinal beds.

For example. You goto the dentist. He sticks the little mirror and a probe in your mouth after wiping it with an anti bac wipe. He does not draw blood on you with it. How do you know, hes not deawn blood on the person befor you? It's not pourous, being metal. But you could have something in your mouth thats had blood on. don't worry they put everthing in an auto clave at such high temps nothing survives.

Please, my advice is only to educate. It's upto you if you take it. Just now it might be an informed choice.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Normal practice is to use whips and floggers on multiple partners providing skin is not broken.

The exception is where genitals are flogged in which case the floggers should only be used on one person.

It generally makes sense for submissives to have their own floggers to prevent possible infection.

There are threads on the site that cannot be mentioned about how to look after your kit.

If I am tying genitalia with organic rope I generally have the subs or bottoms buy their own, because it is a pain to wash, stretch and oil.

If I am playing in a club I use hempex or nylon rope which is easily washable.

The point of most whip work is not to break skin. However I have read that some people keep specific crackers for specific people.

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Most bdsm loving folk have thier own kit.

Our bag is massive and ever growing lol

We don't want to use other people's stuff as two identical whips will handle differently.

If you invite bdsm people round chances are they will bring there own

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

Thanks for the info and pointers in the right direction. As for a name well that is totally in an effort not to attract the wrong sort of people really. We are doing it as a bit of fun and not really to give anyone pain as such.

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By *nkedMilfWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I need on of those rooms on my house!

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By *xkritTV/TS
over a year ago

High Wycombe (ish)


"Thanks for the info and pointers in the right direction. As for a name well that is totally in an effort not to attract the wrong sort of people really. We are doing it as a bit of fun and not really to give anyone pain as such."

.... And it very much sounds like fun!!

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By *ungandMan
over a year ago

daveyhulme

Whips ropes what’s not to like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're on our way!!! Xx

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

Very tempting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was your address again lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have converted a room in our house so that we can tie people up either couples or unicorns. We have collars and cuffs along with spreader bars and even a couple of whips - So would you call this bdsm or just playing tie me up with others"

Yup I’d call that heaven

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By *atexpvcTV/TS
over a year ago

chester/Merseyside

I woukd dearly love to meet a nice lady who woukd enjoy putting me into bondage.there is nothing more sexy and sensual than being restrained maybe a nice collar too posture one of course..

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

try town house fetish nights you may just get lucky there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just sounds like a whole bunch of fun

This x"

I have lots of equipment......

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