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Party's or private meet ?

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By *pl- capdagde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

We've been swinging for many years now and prefer going to clubs parties etc.Going out not knowing who your going to meet and having a great time whatever.

Arranging private meets has always seemed just to be so much hassle and doesn't seem any different when you read peoples experiences.

Trying to find that perfect meet, when at a club you could quiet probably play with someone you wouldn't have done at a private meet.

Your opinions ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree with you

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I enjoy both..... but there is something special about the unplanned evening out.

I do like the anticipation of not knowing what the night will bring and I agree just being there at a club opens up the range of people I play with and even how I play.

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By *ruityshirazCouple
over a year ago

Yorks/Lincs/N Lincs

We agree, and much prefer clubs as it is more of a complete night out usually with good music, a bit of a dance, a few drinks, and usually some naughty fun

And as there are no confirmed arrangements, nobody gets let down, so no hassles!

The other benefit is that there are no expectations, and if you aren't 'feeling the love' then just have a play on your own (within a sexy atmosphere) and still have a great night out. Win, win win situation all round.

Having said that, everyone's different, and we appreciate it doesn't work for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pics can be deceptive so im starting to think clubs would be the best bet

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By *pl- capdagde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

We're the same in our opinion we find private meets to rearranged and unsexy no spontaneity.

This is why we've always been party people also I think maybe we are greedy to, we'd maybe get bored being stuck with one couple for the whole evening ..

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By *pl- capdagde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"pics can be deceptive so im starting to think clubs would be the best bet

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We have played with many couples that we probably wouldn't have through looking at a profiles.Actualy meeting people before judging them goes along way for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like both, i like the intimacy of a private meet i also prefer having sex on a bed rather than the PVC covered ones they have in clubs, they both have their place, i find sex in clubs more clinical than private meets too, you tend to just find guys who want a quicky in a club befor rushing out the room to see who he can fuck next lol but then in clubs i get the chance to dress and i suppose at least in a club if you have sex and its not that great you can always move onto someone else

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We don't go to clubs, tried a couple and found they just wasn't for us.

Much prefer private meets or small private parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer meets due to te fact I'm socially inept .

Suppose it all depend on the club you go to, some are more relaxed than other and you feel more comfortable, I seem to have a problem with approaching sexy ladies in clubs but on here I find it easy to speak to them and whenever I've had a meet I always get on with the people and find it relaxed and comfortable .

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I prefer private meets. That way I always get a chair when they stop the music.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

i prefare private meets.But mind u saying that i once went to a party that tend out to be a dissastor but i met sum nice ppl that we went on n have private meets with afterwards.i cant see myself playing at any party either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always prefer private meets. Clubs can be sooo cliquey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am meeting a woman I prefer private meets. If its a couple a prefer to meet them at a club. I have met a few couples privately and the males have have turned in to porn directors which is quite annoying. At a club you can see what people are like in the sexual enviorenment and if they're not for you, you can have a nice conversation and move on but the evening isn't wasted.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We like both, it's great to play with friends in the comfort of your homes, but clubs and parties are great for sex with new people. Both types of activity appeal to us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like both and meeting people on our boat too for a weekend or a night .. We love clubs too meeting and chating playing with new people never knowing who your going to meet is half the fun for us.

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

love to be on your love boat

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By *erseypairCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

house parties for us hands down- the challenges of finding a couple you both are attracted to you and you to them is not worth the bother- saying that we do private meets at cap d'adge etc but not at home

clubs we have not used for a few years- the trend seem to be more look at me crowds than hard core swingers that used to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love to be on your love boat "
its fab on there xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs, private parties and Jo's boat for me lol. I like the atmosphere of a club, the dressing up, the walking round the club flirting and teasing. Love all the different characters you meet.

That said I have met some lovely single guys for one on one meets and these have been lots of fun. Spontaneity works for us though

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By *pl- capdagde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"house parties for us hands down- the challenges of finding a couple you both are attracted to you and you to them is not worth the bother- saying that we do private meets at cap d'adge etc but not at home

clubs we have not used for a few years- the trend seem to be more look at me crowds than hard core swingers that used to go "

We think you get the look at me crowd anywhere you go now,swinging clubs,parties even on sites such as this. Swinging is almost fashionable now and being seen in a swinging environment is seen as a cool place to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer private partys where most of the guests are reasonably local so if we click we can meet up again.

Clubs are ok once in a while but cost alot.

Private meets are good but hard to arrange but usually worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets are a hassle to arraneg but worth it for the total control I have over who is there, touching, looking, etc.

I always imagine clubs as some kind of Dantes inferno...seriously not for me...especially if I have to wear a bath towel...there just feels like there would be absolutely no control there no matter how much people say there is no pressure...I just can't quite believe that

I do find the forums on here very much push clubs as the only way to indulge in our past time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a bit of both..

Clubs I use as I like group fun.. and its just easier at the clubs..

its always no pressure to play too..and I can take it as a night out with like minded friends.. but play if I want too

I have had one bad experience in all my years at a club.. but luckily it wasnt my first time.

Private meets are better for me as I have to get some photos and video..

Cali

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer clubs.Chameleons or BSC. We feel you have more options

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