FabSwingers.com forum: Regular or one off

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many of you out there prefer a regular arrangement for fun against just simple one off meets?

I’m currently torn between finding a regular friend or a couple seeking a regular man, and just seeking fun for when it suits all parties, I wondered if any of you had any thoughts or preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both but do prefer regular meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo repeat meets are my preference. I like to get to know someone’s preferences and the dark recesses of their kinky little minds..

Regular would be wonderful, but...diaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer regular meets with select few. One off's are OK, but you don't really get to enjoy the full potential of someone from a one off in my opinion

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We have the pleasure to do both....sometimes the excitement of a one off is good....but we prefer to meet semi regular if possible as it usually gets better second time around ...xxx

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I've done both but prefer regulars all day long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for regular. One offs are inevitable in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very hard to find a guy for regular fun. Over the 7 years of being on fab I only found 4.. not all at once

few others I met 2-3x, the rest were one offs - mainly because I didn't fancy meeting them again.

Yes I'm very fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular. The more comfortable I am with someone then the better for everyone involved.

However regular seems to be a rarity so looks like I'm settling for one offs.

Sin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me if possible, did all the one off hooks ups years ago and most are pretty unsatisfying in my experience

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

One off's for us.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Not looking for regular, mostly as I've found they tend to want more than I can give... they tend to forget about my OH quite quickly.. much prefer occasional one offs

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By *ormalcouple87Couple
over a year ago

1 offs for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not too bothered, regular would be nice but sometimes a one off is just what's needed

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

A regular would be good as things are always better when you get to know someone & what things work for them & yourself but it's easier said than found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs until I find someone worth being regular with.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We like both but finding a regular meet is the best!!

It's so hard to find meets in our area with couples or females. If we find a couple we gel with repeat meets are the best!!

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"How many of you out there prefer a regular arrangement for fun against just simple one off meets?

I’m currently torn between finding a regular friend or a couple seeking a regular man, and just seeking fun for when it suits all parties, I wondered if any of you had any thoughts or preferences?"

Like both, works well if with the right people

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Regular for me, I have one off playtime in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One regular would be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs for us mostly. Have to known to meet the same people more than once but nothing that could be called regular.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I prefer irregular regulars and approaching meets as potential one offs are a great way to find them.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"1 offs for us x"

Phew, was starting to think we were not the norm! We have our regualars = each other. Swinging for us is a just extra. You can do in a 3/4 or moresome, what you csn't do as a pair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer regular.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"How many of you out there prefer a regular arrangement for fun against just simple one off meets?

I’m currently torn between finding a regular friend or a couple seeking a regular man, and just seeking fun for when it suits all parties, I wondered if any of you had any thoughts or preferences?"
for me I like a mix but tend to find regulars only work for a handful of meets and then you have to find a new one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We want to meet a few for regular "one offs" if you get what I mean. Long enough between that nothing becomes expected but familiar enough that everyone gets their fill each time. Being new I imagine we will learn that balance. Our first meet is more than welcome to return when it suits both

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It has to be regular. it’s like a journey of discovery and a lot of fun on the way. And if we get along and laugh a lot it’s like the perfect cherry on top with whipped cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people I meet again some are one off's though I don't over meet as some people get clingy and want to

possess you if you are not careful and that's not what I am here for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regular. The more comfortable I am with someone then the better for everyone involved.

However regular seems to be a rarity so looks like I'm settling for one offs.

Sin."

Really? Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer regular but I can find a woman or a couple in Warrington that wants to have regular nsa fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer regular but I can find a woman or a couple in Warrington that wants to have regular nsa fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is better. Sex gets better the more you know the other person I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally regular, saying that one offs can be very hot

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By *ecrets4everCouple
over a year ago

Depending on your circumstances you have to be so careful with a regular.

It can be too easy to fall for someone even when the intention wasn’t there.

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By *nkedMilfWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I like regular, although it's hard to find.

But ideal world would be a mix, one offs can be hot af

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Depending on your circumstances you have to be so careful with a regular.

It can be too easy to fall for someone even when the intention wasn’t there. "

Ive seen this before, bit gutting for either party. FWB can be a tricky thing to maintain.

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

"I'm looking for regular. One offs are inevitable in the process."

Just this

Not looking for notches, but sadly it comes with the search

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By *ecrets4everCouple
over a year ago

"Depending on your circumstances you have to be so careful with a regular.

It can be too easy to fall for someone even when the intention wasn’t there.

Ive seen this before, bit gutting for either party. FWB can be a tricky thing to maintain."

Familiarity can make it difficult to separate sex from deeper feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally regular, saying that one offs can be very hot

What this lovely lady said

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular,better sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer regular meets , the sex gets better . Regulars are hard to find these days though . Especially up in Scotland .

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Regular for me please

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Regular friends undoubtedly best, but I have enjoyed a couple of spectacular one-offs.

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