FabSwingers.com forum: Great sex without feelings

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great sex without feelings possible?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Yes if you think not your in the wrong place..

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Most definitely possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes if you think not your in the wrong place.."

Agreed, but after reading so many profiles it seems not to be the case. More reading for me!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most definitely possible

Unicorns are real then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ...

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Yes if you think not your in the wrong place..

Agreed, but after reading so many profiles it seems not to be the case. More reading for me! "

You telling me we actually have a guy how reids profile.. lol

Just kidding..

We play at clubs not had problems getting great nsa sex..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ..."

Confusion does not lay in my bed

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ..."

Wanting to have a good connection doesn't have to mean being madly in love with someone. The best sex for me on here is the sort where I can relax with the other and there's this *spark* for want of a better word. It doesn't mean serious feelings but it does mean laughter and pleasure which is how ideal meets go for me.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Most definitely possible

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes if you think not your in the wrong place..

Agreed, but after reading so many profiles it seems not to be the case. More reading for me!

You telling me we actually have a guy how reids profile.. lol

Just kidding..

We play at clubs not had problems getting great nsa sex..

Hahahaha I do indeed

Clubs I think I must try

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ..."

What she said

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

It definitely is possible. Also, you don't have to go to clubs for it. I don't.

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ...

Totally agree with this.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

Feelings not necessary, but as Mili said a connection is good and for me respect is a must

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Yes it is

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes definitely can

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Of course.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Good sex is possible without emotional feelings, it's possible without even knowing a person's name...but not for everyone.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Good sex is possible without emotional feelings, it's possible without even knowing a person's name...but not for everyone."

Good sex yes.. I aim a lot higher, and for that I have to at least like, be comfortable with and click with the other person.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Great sex without feelings possible? "

Very much so and very enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see where younare coming from and early doors it definitly feels like that could be the case,but no! Friends that play together stay together lol!

You meet parners in crime

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Good sex is possible without emotional feelings, it's possible without even knowing a person's name...but not for everyone.

Good sex yes.. I aim a lot higher, and for that I have to at least like, be comfortable with and click with the other person."

Yes, lots of people say that.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"Great sex without feelings possible? "

It depends on what feelings you're talking about, there are many. Possibly feelings that are somewhat different in males and females during swinging/casual sex.

Being a person of deep feelings I'd say no. I need to feel a connection, build a friendship, kiss passionately, lots of oral. Of course feelings get involved. Falling in love is of course a big no-no.

Sex WITH feelings is soooo much better. Otherwise they are akin to a piece of meat, the sex is cold and mechanical.

(ducking already)

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Yes it's perfectly possible. I have great sex on a regular basis with gents I may not even know their names.... But my best sex is those I have an attachment with. So doesn't happen often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ..."

I think this is my problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always been passionate and involved with my partners until last year. I met a woman a year older than me that wanted just sex, I found it weird at first sex was great but attracted to each other. Then feelings developed

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Of course it is. You can grow fond of someone without it tipping over the barrier to rl!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very interesting set of opinions. Great stuff!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

If I can't have a good laugh with a person than It wouldn't be great sex, connections are there for a reason, it doesn't mean I want to keep them all to myself... sharing is caring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to have feelings for anybody I meet off here but I do want a friendship, a connection and definitely more than a "bend over love".

I've been struggling with meets lately and feeling totally disposable with temporary fixes here and there. I've tried sticking to just having sex with good friends with whom I have a good connection, rather than random strangers but even that is leaving me feeling empty, like they are just a blip in my life.

Meh

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

"Great sex without feelings possible? "
is this because you met single female and fallen or her for you. or is the question to cpls ? ,most time my mrs zones out enjoys the sex and quite a few times didn't even recognize a man shes already had sex with say a few weeks later,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Great sex without feelings possible? "

Depends what you mean by without feelings?

With me there always has to be a connection and physical chemistry - and if it’s someone I meet more than once - a fondness! However - I can certainly separate love and sex - if I couldn’t I think I’d have gone mad after over five years on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally possible... but I am not sure everyone can make the separation... there has to be a connection... and usually more than one meet...

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Not for me. I have to fancy / like the person I’m fucking for it to be great. That doesn’t mean I have to be in love with them.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Humans experience a huge range of emotions, including those that some associate with relationship commitment. No strings attached sex is what most people here want, via several partners - though not in the same session. We may become friends but typically not romantically involved, though may meet frequently for years. There's a mindset needed, to ensure that we don't become emotionally attached, allowing ourselves and our partners to fully enjoy the sex with the freedom to walk away with satisfaction minus the responsibilities that romantic relationships often involve.

It's fine to be open to relationship potential with anybody that we encounter anywhere in life but it's wise to have realistic expectations and to engage appropriately when you are using Fab and meeting for casual sex.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Absolutely! We've had epic fucks with people we know nothing about and have never seen again, no feelings for them at at all, apart from thanks for giving a good orgasm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great sex without feelings possible? "

Yes,been doing it for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great sex without feelings possible? "

Specify feelings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely possible, but if it’s regular and carries on over several months I start to feel a bit weird about it. Like it’s a good imitation of something but has now exceeded its ‘use by’ date.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Yes, the physicality and pleasure that great sex brings, is separate from the emotional feelings you hold for loved ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great sex without feelings possible? "
the best sex comes from a connection and a compassion for the person youre with sex without feeling is just sex for the sake of sex you may as well have a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great sex without feelings possible? "

It can’t happen with single women in the lifestyle..... they tend to start getting feelings and want more......

Great sex without feelings can be possible for a single guy when playing with couple....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can have great sex without feelings but with amazing orgasms

it's the mutual chemistry and fancying pants off eachother that does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great sex without feelings possible?

It can’t happen with single women in the lifestyle..... they tend to start getting feelings and want more......

Great sex without feelings can be possible for a single guy when playing with couple....

I've never got feelings for a guy from fab beyond a decent connection and occasionally friendship (not even with my regulars). Either you're confusing connection and feelings or are terrible at picking ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great sex without feelings possible? "

Depends on the feelings you're talking about. If it's absolutely nothing then no. But add attraction and lust - hell yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its so different for married women to be able to have fun without the emotional stuff as we have our partners for everything else

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

It's impossible not to have any feelings, it just depends what you mean.

Feelings of attachment, no, not for me. I do enjoy getting completely absorbed in the moment though; enjoying everything my senses are stimulated by, then urged, compelled to act upon and respond on those feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great sex without feelings possible?

It can’t happen with single women in the lifestyle..... they tend to start getting feelings and want more......

Great sex without feelings can be possible for a single guy when playing with couple....

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i never confuse anything and I'm great at picking ladies

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Totally. I love great anonymous sex, have had loads of it in the past, still do when the mood strikes me. But everyone is different.

I have a partner who has had some great meets, but even with the most gorgeous woman in front of him, if they can't hold a conversation, they don't click, he doesn't stay hard, great sex for him starts with that, doesn't mean he falls for them or has feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ..."

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Can happen, does happen and boy does it feel good. Having said that I have always felt more at ease when meeting couples.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Personally speaking, there has to be feelings.

That doesn't mean, being head over in love with someone, but I do have to like someone, a mental connection, a physical spark.

The better the connection the better the sex.

Random anonymous sex might scratch a physical itch but it wouldn't stimulate my brain, it's only when that is switched on that I would class it as great sex, with mind blowing body breaking orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great sex without feelings possible? "

Lust or love is the question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Great sex without feelings possible?

Specify feelings?

That's for you to determine. I left it like this for people to think about what feelings mean to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ...

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Great sex without feelings possible?

Lust or love is the question"

For you

I left the question rather vague to see how people view/interpret feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes!!

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"Great sex without feelings possible?

It can’t happen with single women in the lifestyle..... they tend to start getting feelings and want more......

Absolutely incorrect.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

It's absolutely possible. As others have said - there is a big difference between a connection & meeting of minds, and other feelings getting involved.

There is an assumption that women are unable to separate one from the other which annoys the hell out of me.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes if you think not your in the wrong place.."
100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if you think not your in the wrong place..

Agreed, but after reading so many profiles it seems not to be the case. More reading for me! "

What have you read on profiles thats led you to this conclusion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great sex without feelings possible?

It can’t happen with single women in the lifestyle..... they tend to start getting feelings and want more......

Great sex without feelings can be possible for a single guy when playing with couple....

Sweeping generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ...

This exactly. - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo without feeling - without a connection is grey territory.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes if you think not your in the wrong place..

Agreed, but after reading so many profiles it seems not to be the case. More reading for me!

What have you read on profiles thats led you to this conclusion?"

I agree based upon my view on what feelings are. Everyone has a different understanding of it, which is why I wrote the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. For me, all it requires is for both of us to be relaxed enough to "go with the flow" when that happens, you get lost in the moment, which in turn, leads to amazing sex. In my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if you think not your in the wrong place..

Agreed, but after reading so many profiles it seems not to be the case. More reading for me!

What have you read on profiles thats led you to this conclusion?

I agree based upon my view on what feelings are. Everyone has a different understanding of it, which is why I wrote the question. "

What have you read on profiles though?

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Great sex without feelings possible? "

Feelings, such as liking the person do you mean, or something deeper?

I think you have to at least like them but it's definitely possible to keep it at that.

What has made you think that it's not possible?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Judging by many people using this site, they manage.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Great sex without feelings possible? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but having a connection of some sort helps.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Not often the case ..

When I used to be active in here I had to hide verifications and summaries, because of the the reaction from previous meets ..

Messages like :

Why are you meeting others when you could of met me..

Thought we clicked and had a good time so why meet others.

Don’t bother asking to meet me after you’ve met such and such ..

It’s endless..

So many are not emotionally equipped for swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't confuse a connection with feelings! They're totally different ...

Exactly this!

THIS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not often the case ..

When I used to be active in here I had to hide verifications and summaries, because of the the reaction from previous meets ..

Messages like :

Why are you meeting others when you could of met me..

Thought we clicked and had a good time so why meet others.

Don’t bother asking to meet me after you’ve met such and such ..

It’s endless..

So many are not emotionally equipped for swinging "

This 1,000 %..... Couples tend to see a verification and will ask you to bring the women/couple to meet with them also...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes if you think not your in the wrong place..

Agreed, but after reading so many profiles it seems not to be the case. More reading for me!

What have you read on profiles thats led you to this conclusion?

I agree based upon my view on what feelings are. Everyone has a different understanding of it, which is why I wrote the question.

What have you read on profiles though?

Forgive me if I am wrong, but can't help but think your fishing for an answer from me to pounce on and say "you are wrong", when my topic is meant to be open. Even in the comments here there is a diverse view and none are wrong as it's what feelings mean to them. I think it's a strong argument that our want for sexual satisfaction (a feeling) is universal on here, but we all have our own unique set of other feelings we package together to come up with our ideal meets. My set of feelings does not include love, jealousy etc that you would normal associate with BF/GF material and does not comprise of much out side of physical attraction, thus leaning me to agree more with the comment above that you seek an answer for. I think that answers your question without actually having to refer to specific profile on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the size of the vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the size of the vagina "

Or the cock

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