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By *irtySekrets OP   Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

The Term Hardened Swingers was a term we used to read on profiles a few years ago.

We read that as people who played week after week or attended Clubs every single weekend.

So the question is? How often do you play?

For us, its Usually around once a month. But we sometimes don’t play for longer than that.

Basically due to life.

Just interested in your thoughts?

S&N xxxxxxxxxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think hardened swingers more means people who are too cynical and emotionally detached.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I dont have relationships.. so i swing in place of that ( although I guess some would say now im single its not swinging)

I usually do 3 or so club events a week and a couple of meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often enough,but that's the joys of being an older married man playing on his own I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you EVER met anyone who admits to being a hardened swinger? People are more likely to admit to being a racist kiddy fiddler.

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By *irtySekrets OP   Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent


"Have you EVER met anyone who admits to being a hardened swinger? People are more likely to admit to being a racist kiddy fiddler."

No. It was a term we regularly read on profiles

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think hardened swingers more means people who are too cynical and emotionally detached. "

That's probably us then

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't meet very often .

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think hardened swingers more means people who are too cynical and emotionally detached.

That's probably us then "

I think none of these negative terms help really. Say what you are, not what you aren't.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think hardened swingers more means people who are too cynical and emotionally detached.

That's probably us then

I think none of these negative terms help really. Say what you are, not what you aren't. "

Absolutely agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you EVER met anyone who admits to being a hardened swinger? People are more likely to admit to being a racist kiddy fiddler.

No. It was a term we regularly read on profiles"

As in ‘We are not hardened swingers...’?

I’ve seen a lot of that but not any profiles saying that they ARE hardened swingers. I read one once from a couple admitting to being seasoned swingers. Sounds so much better..

Admired their bravery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us generally it's about once a month that we attend a club or organised event. But even then doesnt mean we will play with anyone or could be just a bit of soft fun...wouldn't class ourselves as hardened swingers..

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By *bbyandethanCouple
over a year ago

Bury

Very rarely because we're far too picky. We need to change that

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

We used to go out most weekends with our friends that we used to swing with but us to once a month and sometimes more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think hardened swingers more means people who are too cynical and emotionally detached. "

I know people who meet many times a week and they are kind, caring people. They don't treat their meets like meat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you EVER met anyone who admits to being a hardened swinger? People are more likely to admit to being a racist kiddy fiddler.

No. It was a term we regularly read on profiles

As in ‘We are not hardened swingers...’?

I’ve seen a lot of that but not any profiles saying that they ARE hardened swingers. I read one once from a couple admitting to being seasoned swingers. Sounds so much better..

Admired their bravery."

Seasoned. I like that.

Marinated in cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friday Saturday and Sunday this weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once a year whether i need it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 times in a week and then nothing for a couple of months. Home and family first, swinging if we have time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you EVER met anyone who admits to being a hardened swinger? People are more likely to admit to being a racist kiddy fiddler.

No. It was a term we regularly read on profiles

As in ‘We are not hardened swingers...’?

I’ve seen a lot of that but not any profiles saying that they ARE hardened swingers. I read one once from a couple admitting to being seasoned swingers. Sounds so much better..

Admired their bravery.

Seasoned. I like that.

Marinated in cum. "

Or permatanned to the colour of antique pine

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not v often tbh

Its tough getting four way attraction and availability.

If we fancy meeting,we would go to a club now.

Miss

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

We have played up to three times a week, then nothing for months. Life and FAB timewasters to blame.

Hardened swingers ?, at the other end of the spectrum are those who have had few if any meets. Folk who prefer the softer initial approach, possibly limit the number of sexual partners over time, prefer longer slower meets and more of a connection, growing friendships and repeat meets rather than one-off quickies.

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By *irtySekrets OP   Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Thanks for your thoughts.

Very true statement on having a 4 Way attraction.

Also. Clubs can be very hit and miss. Even if we don’t play with others in Clubs we do have fun ourselves in a sexy environment xxx

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Thanks for your thoughts.

Very true statement on having a 4 Way attraction.

Also. Clubs can be very hit and miss. Even if we don’t play with others in Clubs we do have fun ourselves in a sexy environment xxx"

Yes we love people watching in clubs even if we don't get to play. Seen some amazing sights too lol.

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By *rAndMrsCurious12Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Since our first experience 2 years ago it averages out around every 4 months or so with some longer gaps.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Over the last couple of years quite rarely. We go to clubs roughly once every month or 2 but haven't played with anyone at a club since last year.

I have had a couple of solo meets though.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Very rarely these days. We used to visit clubs at least once a month but our last visit was a good few months ago. I think we go through spells of not being bothered with it or just not having the urge.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

If you were to keep up with our status's we are always out and about somewhere but doesn't mean we are out playing with people. Sometimes we are out on a social weekend within this lifestyle. Sometimes if we are at a club we just play with each other. I would say the term Hardened swinger is a perception used by others to describe what they think, but may not be a fact

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

So far it's at least at 2 year intervals

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Very rare, can count on one hand this year

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Not half as much as we think about doing it! Like others personal lives and commitments come first.

Saying that if any locals fancy a drink....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 1/2 times a year. Very difficult to find a couple we're we have a good 4 way dynamic.

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Not very often due to geographical isolation...alas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once every Preston Guild

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

The frequency of swinging depends on the length of the pendulum...

T = 2 p v ( l / g )

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"The frequency of swinging depends on the length of the pendulum...

T = 2 p v ( l / g )"

Bugger, fab doesn't do math symbols...

T = 2 * pi * sqrt ( len / g )

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