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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Getting lots messages from so called "professionals" my lad was a professional soldier 20 odd yrs so we just want meet normal horny couples down too earth not "professionals" ur no better than a cute lady in aldi or asda ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind - keep looking OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say "no thanks". You're not obliged to fuck everyone who asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh the old professional bashing has reared its head again.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Ahh the old professional bashing has reared its head again.

"

I'd not seen it for a while but I just thought that was because I'd not logged in much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try putting no suit and tie types of people on your profile....

That might cut down on the messages from these professional people....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We want meet normal easygoing people not asking for cvs too see how great you are??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We want meet normal easygoing people not asking for cvs too see how great you are??"

So by your logic professionals aren't normal or easy going?

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I quite like it when guys introduce themselves to me as a professional man , to me it ooozes quality

Just saying

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By *akes handymanMan
over a year ago

In the Lakes

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I’m qualified in my profession and gain money from it

Thus a professional, it doesn’t always mean a suit and tie"

You're right, I've worn a suite but never a tie

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"We want meet normal easygoing people not asking for cvs too see how great you are??"

They sent you their professional CV?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m qualified in my profession and gain money from it

Thus a professional, it doesn’t always mean a suit and tie"

Don't mail the OP.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm a professional too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m qualified in my profession and gain money from it

Thus a professional, it doesn’t always mean a suit and tie

Don't mail the OP. "

I wouldn’t, I’m just a simple bin man

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Don't mail the OP.

I wouldn’t, I’m just a simple bin man"

Some of our bin men are hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professional is a much politer way of putting middle class.

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By *akes handymanMan
over a year ago

In the Lakes


"I’m qualified in my profession and gain money from it

Thus a professional, it doesn’t always mean a suit and tie

Don't mail the OP.

I wouldn’t, I’m just a simple bin man"

Where would we be without bin men ( operatives!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think anyone is saying they are better. People normally like mixing with similar types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an unprofessional professional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Professional is a much politer way of putting middle class. "

Middle class is easier to spell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Professional is a much politer way of putting middle class.

Middle class is easier to spell. "

I wonder if anyone has ever put “ I’m only want to meet Chavs and very poor people “ in a profile......

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I wonder if anyone has ever put “ I’m only want to meet Chavs and very poor people “ in a profile......"

Not all communication is verbal

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By *akes handymanMan
over a year ago

In the Lakes

You’d get the wrong idea if a woman put “professional lady “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been called a pro today but think they meant something else ?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if anyone has ever put “ I’m only want to meet Chavs and very poor people “ in a profile......

Not all communication is verbal "

Very true but with this funny thing called the internet, people have forgotten how to pick up on subtle hints....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd be quite happy to be approached by some "professional" ladies.

Would deffo help with one of my problems...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What has the fact that your son was a professional soldier for 20 years got to do with your meets ? Are you saying only soldiers are professional and no one else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally messages from guys who have a professional career would be a pleasant change.

Most messages we get from guys read like they’re been written by randomly pounding their fists on the keyboard.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

if someone describes themselves in a way that you find unattractive it means you aren't compatible. It doesn't make them or you bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s being snobby to want to talk to similar types. Very hard to bond with someone you have little in common with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow

Isn’t swinging about having sexual fun with others? Where did all this crap about mixing with others of a similar background come from? Nothing to do with swinging really is it

One of us went to Cambridge university and one of us left school at 16 so we shouldn’t be mixing with each other or have anything in common eh!

Isn’t the similar background for ALL of us that we want to swing? Isn’t that enough?

Meet up, chat about sex, fantasies etc have some fun, if we click in the play then maybe we can chat about what cars we have, how big our house is, what we do for a living blah blah blah

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Wow

Isn’t swinging about having sexual fun with others? Where did all this crap about mixing with others of a similar background come from? Nothing to do with swinging really is it

One of us went to Cambridge university and one of us left school at 16 so we shouldn’t be mixing with each other or have anything in common eh!

Isn’t the similar background for ALL of us that we want to swing? Isn’t that enough?

Meet up, chat about sex, fantasies etc have some fun, if we click in the play then maybe we can chat about what cars we have, how big our house is, what we do for a living blah blah blah"
good or bad we all have our take on the lifestyle , don't appreciate others views of it being shoved down our throats or try to brain wash us , live and let live ! This site has so much diversity if ppl don't try stamp it down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow

Isn’t swinging about having sexual fun with others? Where did all this crap about mixing with others of a similar background come from? Nothing to do with swinging really is it

One of us went to Cambridge university and one of us left school at 16 so we shouldn’t be mixing with each other or have anything in common eh!

Isn’t the similar background for ALL of us that we want to swing? Isn’t that enough?

Meet up, chat about sex, fantasies etc have some fun, if we click in the play then maybe we can chat about what cars we have, how big our house is, what we do for a living blah blah blah"

The ‘crap’ about people mixing with people from similar backgrounds is all about preference and attraction. There is scientific research which appears to lend weight to the fact that many people are more attracted to people who are similar to themselves.

You may want to use the site to meet a wide variety of people. Others look to play with those similar to themselves.

Each approach is perfectly valid as it’s down to preference. We shouldn’t knock preferences.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Since when does being experienced in a job make you a professional. Being part of a professional body, passing the particular fields entry examination qualifies you to pursue a career in said field and therefore a professional not experience. Next we'll have professional cleaners because of 20 years experience.

These professional bashing threads are irritating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow

Isn’t swinging about having sexual fun with others? Where did all this crap about mixing with others of a similar background come from? Nothing to do with swinging really is it

One of us went to Cambridge university and one of us left school at 16 so we shouldn’t be mixing with each other or have anything in common eh!

Isn’t the similar background for ALL of us that we want to swing? Isn’t that enough?

Meet up, chat about sex, fantasies etc have some fun, if we click in the play then maybe we can chat about what cars we have, how big our house is, what we do for a living blah blah blah

The ‘crap’ about people mixing with people from similar backgrounds is all about preference and attraction. There is scientific research which appears to lend weight to the fact that many people are more attracted to people who are similar to themselves.

You may want to use the site to meet a wide variety of people. Others look to play with those similar to themselves.

Each approach is perfectly valid as it’s down to preference. We shouldn’t knock preferences. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting lots messages from so called "professionals" my lad was a professional soldier 20 odd yrs so we just want meet normal horny couples down too earth not "professionals" ur no better than a cute lady in aldi or asda ffs"

Lots of professional people in Aldi and Asda..

But also, what’s a concise way to say: ‘Able to construct a decent message, has something of interest to say, knows what respect and manners are, is not destitute, able to hold a conversation and isn’t going to suggest fucking in the back of his van’. For many people, that’s ‘professional’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting lots messages from so called "professionals" my lad was a professional soldier 20 odd yrs so we just want meet normal horny couples down too earth not "professionals" ur no better than a cute lady in aldi or asda ffs"

Feeling insecure? The word “professionals” is officially a term to describe a white-collared worker. What’s wrong with people using it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting lots messages from so called "professionals" my lad was a professional soldier 20 odd yrs so we just want meet normal horny couples down too earth not "professionals" ur no better than a cute lady in aldi or asda ffs"
lol don't see so much in a word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting lots messages from so called "professionals" my lad was a professional soldier 20 odd yrs so we just want meet normal horny couples down too earth not "professionals" ur no better than a cute lady in aldi or asda ffs

Feeling insecure? The word “professionals” is officially a term to describe a white-collared worker. What’s wrong with people using it ?"

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