FabSwingers.com forum: Difficulty in meeting due too work

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We work shifts but can usualy only meet a couple weekends per month, weve been chatting too some lovely people but feel as if "its meet tonight or this weekend?" and not always possible and hope or feel it puts some people off .its a shame as were very genuine , anyway have fun people xx

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"We work shifts but can usualy only meet a couple weekends per month, weve been chatting too some lovely people but feel as if "its meet tonight or this weekend?" and not always possible and hope or feel it puts some people off .its a shame as were very genuine , anyway have fun people xx "

Frustrating I know but always better to be patient and connect with like minded people. I’m sure you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work shifts too pain in the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work odd hours too.

Some people are lucky enough to work 9-5 monday to friday so have plenty of free time.

Most people are pretty understanding I think, as they may have other commitments, family life etc themselves.

I can sometimes chat for weeks before everyone is free on the same day.

I know people get messed about on here, so I keep contact and put everyone in the picture.

It usually all works out eventually.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I don’t work shifts but it’s still a pain in the arse with kids, running a house etc.

People should respect if someone isn’t free xx

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Lots of fabbers have different commitments and it sometimes doesn’t suit everyone.

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

We are exactly the same. We both work shifts and often completely opposite to each other. Some people have been understanding but many others have been obnoxious if we can't meet at the drop of a hat. One bloke said we were fakes because no one works weekends!!!

The nice people will wait

T xx

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think you have to ultimately look at this lifestyle personally. This is your journey. Everyone has their personal journey and hopefully you meet some awesome people along the way.

I think when the swinging Gods are kind to you both and you have a weekend free. Maybe consider an alternative approach, especially if you’re from an area that isn’t as populated with swingers as others.

If you can’t arrange a meet for when time is good for you and are hoping to have a swinging time, then consider visiting a club.

Granted it is not always going to result in naughty fun, and probably best not to take that expectation.

But you’re increasing your chances of naughty play and they are typically frequented by some awesome couples who you’ll make good friendships with.

You might find thereafter that they’re in a similar situation and at least the initial ice has been broken and you can work together with them to arrange future meets that are successful, club or otherwise.

Happy swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work is shifts hours days and can be away months at a time .

Need to connect with the right people and make friends perhaps first .

If they are genuine they will understanding and patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel the same, not shift work but other commitments prevent meeting most weekends

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I work long hours different combinations and a lot of overtime lately ... I can’t meet at short notice if they don’t accept well that’s their loss

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"I work long hours different combinations and a lot of overtime lately ... I can’t meet at short notice if they don’t accept well that’s their loss

Quite right. And actually, I find chatting with people before the meet all adds to the excitement.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" I find chatting with people before the meet all adds to the excitement.

Me too. I much prefer the anticipation of a meet a couple of weeks in advance rather than an having an immediate meet

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I work long hours different combinations and a lot of overtime lately ... I can’t meet at short notice if they don’t accept well that’s their loss

Quite right. And actually, I find chatting with people before the meet all adds to the excitement.

Yep me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I work in sociable hours and find I can't seem to fit any fun socials in at all. My messages increase near the weekend for the lucky buggers who have weekends off. Aaargh is all I can say, maybe damn and blast too.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

" I find chatting with people before the meet all adds to the excitement.

Me too. I much prefer the anticipation of a meet a couple of weeks in advance rather than an having an immediate meet"

Magic isn’t it. Make the initial connection on Fab then, if it feels right, chat in Kik or similar. It’s an exciting way of finding out what the person/couple likes and for setting some sexy opening scenarios. Love that

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