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"I just wondered if people on here (mainly guys) find they typically have more success in the real world in terms of getting laid? I know for me, fab is great for certain types of meets but most of my best times have come from meeting people out and about in the real world - there are some amazing looking girls in pretty much most pubs / clubs etc. I say this because so many people seem to get hung up on the fact that they can't find an easy lay on here. My advice is always the same: just get out more and away from here." Yup...if you are single and just want a quick easy fuck, this is not the place to be looking... | |||
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"The last time I had sex with someone from the real world it was pretty crap. I think I will stick to fab world, the men I have met were very much into mutual satisfaction." +1 | |||
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"The last time I had sex with someone from the real world it was pretty crap. I think I will stick to fab world, the men I have met were very much into mutual satisfaction." +1 i tend to find that the ppl who are not just here cos they joined d*unk one night thinking it was easy sex are looking for great sex...and sexual people. Anyone can get a fuck on a friday night in the bigg market, doesnt mean it will be any good though. | |||
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"The last time I had sex with someone from the real world it was pretty crap. I think I will stick to fab world, the men I have met were very much into mutual satisfaction. +1 i tend to find that the ppl who are not just here cos they joined d*unk one night thinking it was easy sex are looking for great sex...and sexual people. Anyone can get a fuck on a friday night in the bigg market, doesnt mean it will be any good though." Bigg market? is that a pub then? hmmm where abouts is it please im goin there next Friday me deffo thinks | |||
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"The last time I had sex with someone from the real world it was pretty crap. I think I will stick to fab world, the men I have met were very much into mutual satisfaction. +1 i tend to find that the ppl who are not just here cos they joined d*unk one night thinking it was easy sex are looking for great sex...and sexual people. Anyone can get a fuck on a friday night in the bigg market, doesnt mean it will be any good though. Bigg market? is that a pub then? hmmm where abouts is it please im goin there next Friday me deffo thinks " Have fun | |||
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"The last time I had sex with someone from the real world it was pretty crap. I think I will stick to fab world, the men I have met were very much into mutual satisfaction. +1 i tend to find that the ppl who are not just here cos they joined d*unk one night thinking it was easy sex are looking for great sex...and sexual people. Anyone can get a fuck on a friday night in the bigg market, doesnt mean it will be any good though. Bigg market? is that a pub then? hmmm where abouts is it please im goin there next Friday me deffo thinks Have fun " I always doo hun | |||
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"I just wondered if people on here (mainly guys) find they typically have more success in the real world in terms of getting laid? " The thing is, if you pull in a club or pub then there's the awkward "Yeah, I'm not actually interested in anything serious" conversation next day. If you're on here, that's not an issue. Sure, it's an option to go out trying to get laid (and I do admit to doing it) but this place has the bonus of everything being out in the open. | |||
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"I just wondered if people on here (mainly guys) find they typically have more success in the real world in terms of getting laid? The thing is, if you pull in a club or pub then there's the awkward "Yeah, I'm not actually interested in anything serious" conversation next day. If you're on here, that's not an issue. Sure, it's an option to go out trying to get laid (and I do admit to doing it) but this place has the bonus of everything being out in the open. " actually see that depends as me and oreo had a said meet all be it social first and i thought fuck i like this one best not take it further as he will just want sex it will get fucked up, as it turn out he like me so a few very awkward convosations followed plus a lot of privacy away from fab were noone know for a while as we were both very social and active members of site quite a few cancelled meets on both side (sorry to said people) while we tried to firgure it out. so my thing would be u can not asmume anything on here and i think many guys do asmume the girls on here will just drop there knickers and forget that most couples on here have really strong relationships this is not about women whose husbands cannot satifsy them this is for there mutual sexual pleasure they find from enjoying sex with others. i think if respect was given a lot of single guys would in fact get meets and a bit more effort than the one line messages with cock pictures attached | |||
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"The last time I had sex with someone from the real world it was pretty crap. I think I will stick to fab world, the men I have met were very much into mutual satisfaction. +1 i tend to find that the ppl who are not just here cos they joined d*unk one night thinking it was easy sex are looking for great sex...and sexual people. Anyone can get a fuck on a friday night in the bigg market, doesnt mean it will be any good though." I totally agree if you haver the every holes a goal attitude then your local town centre at ten to two is where you need to be but I like mind blowing eye popping sex hence why I'm here although I've still not met anyone from fab but I will change that I tell thee lol | |||
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"I just wondered if people on here (mainly guys) find they typically have more success in the real world in terms of getting laid? I know for me, fab is great for certain types of meets but most of my best times have come from meeting people out and about in the real world - there are some amazing looking girls in pretty much most pubs / clubs etc. I say this because so many people seem to get hung up on the fact that they can't find an easy lay on here. My advice is always the same: just get out more and away from here." Much much easier for me in the 'real world' but the challenge on here makes it far more fun; it's no challenge for women on here because of the abundance of single men but for us guys the race is on - until we get to the bedroom of course | |||
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"Totally agree. It is easier in the real world. I think it is mainly down to the large numbers of single guys and couples mainly prefer to met couples or fems. I like the chat and the openness on here, but its not a balanced place for single guys. I think fems and couples may be very surprised if they experienced being a single guy in here. I used to think the cples and fems were rude not to reply to civil/polite messages - but now I think they are overwhelmed with messages. Obviously I dont include the rude pointless "wana fuck" messages. They dont deserve any answer.I would say most single guys get none or very few unsolicited mails from couples and fems - whereas it seems couples and fems mailboxes are overflowing. I get more messages from hopeful bi guys - and I am straight - dont they read profiles ! lol" You can block mail from single guys - I get emails from females but not so that my mailbox is over flowing - however, most of the time they live too far away and just want to say somethiing about My pics - it also becomes easier when you're verified - that way people know you're nt a time waster | |||
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"I just wondered if people on here (mainly guys) find they typically have more success in the real world in terms of getting laid? I know for me, fab is great for certain types of meets but most of my best times have come from meeting people out and about in the real world - there are some amazing looking girls in pretty much most pubs / clubs etc. I say this because so many people seem to get hung up on the fact that they can't find an easy lay on here. My advice is always the same: just get out more and away from here." I agree with most of what the Op has said here, certainly valid points. | |||
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"The last time I had sex with someone from the real world it was pretty crap. I think I will stick to fab world, the men I have met were very much into mutual satisfaction. +1 i tend to find that the ppl who are not just here cos they joined d*unk one night thinking it was easy sex are looking for great sex...and sexual people. Anyone can get a fuck on a friday night in the bigg market, doesnt mean it will be any good though." It's just as easy to find great sex in the 'real world' as it is on Fab, swingers who state otherwise should really get out more. | |||
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"The last time I had sex with someone from the real world it was pretty crap. I think I will stick to fab world, the men I have met were very much into mutual satisfaction. +1 i tend to find that the ppl who are not just here cos they joined d*unk one night thinking it was easy sex are looking for great sex...and sexual people. Anyone can get a fuck on a friday night in the bigg market, doesnt mean it will be any good though. It's just as easy to find great sex in the 'real world' as it is on Fab, swingers who state otherwise should really get out more. " Thats the difference though between being a couple with kids and a single bloke on here. Of course you can get great sex without a swinging site, what do u think we did before the net...but we cant get out more...which is why we joined. | |||
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" It's just as easy to find great sex in the 'real world' as it is on Fab, swingers who state otherwise should really get out more. Thats the difference though between being a couple with kids and a single bloke on here. Of course you can get great sex without a swinging site, what do u think we did before the net...but we cant get out more...which is why we joined. " Fair comment | |||
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"The suggestion that most sex away from Fab is based around pissed up people in bars and pulling ten minutes before closing is nonsense. It is like suggesting that all swinging is based around dogging! Men who struggle in the 'real world' will probably struggle on here simply because you still need the basics like good communication skills. Some women who struggle in the 'real world' will do better on here because they're in the minority, supply and demand means they don't need to be as attractive to compete. " | |||
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"The suggestion that most sex away from Fab is based around pissed up people in bars and pulling ten minutes before closing is nonsense. It is like suggesting that all swinging is based around dogging! Men who struggle in the 'real world' will probably struggle on here simply because you still need the basics like good communication skills. Some women who struggle in the 'real world' will do better on here because they're in the minority, supply and demand means they don't need to be as attractive to compete. " Spot on! | |||
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"The suggestion that most sex away from Fab is based around pissed up people in bars and pulling ten minutes before closing is nonsense. It is like suggesting that all swinging is based around dogging! Men who struggle in the 'real world' will probably struggle on here simply because you still need the basics like good communication skills. Some women who struggle in the 'real world' will do better on here because they're in the minority, supply and demand means they don't need to be as attractive to compete. " | |||
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"There's a real world? " no its just fantasy, caught in a landslide, no escape from reality | |||
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"There's a real world? no its just fantasy, caught in a landslide, no escape from reality " Thought as much slips saftly back into the world of fab | |||
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"Oh yes, much more meets and fun in the real world. Here, your more likely to meet people who understand the NSA or friendship with benefits. Having said that there does seem to be a few females looking for a relationship rather than NSA or friendship with benefits. I want NSA friendship with benefits." i find finding regulary fuck buddys just as easy outside the site as in the site, i think its more to do with having great sex between each other but both knowing thats all that can work that and being friends, and keeping that fun up inbetween relationships | |||
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"I just wondered if people on here (mainly guys) find they typically have more success in the real world in terms of getting laid? I know for me, fab is great for certain types of meets but most of my best times have come from meeting people out and about in the real world - there are some amazing looking girls in pretty much most pubs / clubs etc. I say this because so many people seem to get hung up on the fact that they can't find an easy lay on here. My advice is always the same: just get out more and away from here." This is a genuine thought and query and not a dig at all. I'm not surprised you pull so easily as you say you are good looking and fit and i've no reason to disbelieve that. You talk about really good looking girls in clubs yet all your verifications are from men. Is that what you mean? The men here are easy meat - the women are not ? | |||
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" Firstly, just want to say that I love these forums! *newbie* And with my *newbie* hat in here, I'd say this: normal looking single guys - use the site to find out what's happening where in the real world (spas, clubs, parties), put your pants on and leave the house. As long as you've got a personality, you'll make some "real world" friends that are also on here! ...that's my plan anyway. I'll let you know how I get on" a great plan...as i have said before, the site is just a netwoking tool... | |||
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