FabSwingers.com forum: being discrete

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why are some people so wanting to tell the world about there meets and what happend and who it was with and there name is such n such ... ive/we've always been discrete never talk about meets and what we done and who with yet it seems to not be the case towards me/us sometimes ..classic message ... ive changed it a bit as per rules .... hi there i was talking to a mate in the pub and we got on tho the subject of swinging and he told me all a bout you and told me to contact you .. so when you free not like your gonna say no if youve played with him im better looking ...get back to me with location and time ..x....

now i know the convo took place as the guy knew stuff that only the other guy could know ... now the other guy is blocked and he cant see why though he was doing me a favor

and then went on to say its what all us blokes do anyway ?? ... his lost as ill never meet him again but why do it in the first place why not be happy that your having meets without the bragging to others ???

surely we all like to be discrete about our swinging lives

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree.

I don't tell people about my regular, for want of a better word, sex life.

So I definitely don't announce my swinging activities either.

I don't even display verifications on my profile.

It's my business and I like to keep it that way

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's discreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet!!!!!!!

aaaaaaaaaaand breathe