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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Travelling to meet up, what is too far...?. Having messaged most single ladies in my area and not had a sniff of interest. I'm now branching further out of my county. Unfortunately lot of people don't seem to want to travel Very far. Messaged a lady from Leicester and im near Lincoln. It's about 45 miles. Probably 1 hours drive. Too far for her though. Does anyone realise that we have these amazing things called cars.....what's wrong with travelling ?. I'd love to meet a lady possibly for long term relationship to swing together ect

So I'd be happy to travel maybe upto 100 miles. weekends away at each others would be nice.

Any thoughts. .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took a trip over 400miles for a great weekend with a chap in Leeds. Amazing weekend and if i felt i clicked with someone who was miles away then yes i'd do the same again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I won't travel more than 20 miles. I live within 10 miles of 2 clubs so I have no need to travel further as I have all my meets there.

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

This will no doubt make me sound very lazy but I’m unlikely to travel for the first time meeting, mainly as I don’t have a car. I’m also wary of having people travel far to come to see me as it can create a bit of pressure and it also makes it less likely there there will be more than one meet. I just tend to not be interested at all but that’s just my preference. I have an fb who is 50 miles away, I think that’s about my limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people just use it as an excuse or are lazy.ive invited guys to meet a woman with me and have said they can't be bothered to travel.ive driven 90 miles each way to meet a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear OP, not everyone has got this great invention that you're mentioning. But even if I did have a car, I'd still believe that any meets over 1h drive are not sustainable. As ok, it might be fine once or twice, but it gets boring, eventually, travelling all the time. Also, if someone is coming from further away, too many things can go wrong and the expectations would be too high. So no more than an hour drive for me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve done a meet in Hove. What a palava!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll travel 20 minutes but they have to meet me half way. So 40 minutes apart max.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Travelling to meet up, what is too far...?. Having messaged most single ladies in my area and not had a sniff of interest. I'm now branching further out of my county. Unfortunately lot of people don't seem to want to travel Very far. Messaged a lady from Leicester and im near Lincoln. It's about 45 miles. Probably 1 hours drive. Too far for her though. Does anyone realise that we have these amazing things called cars.....what's wrong with travelling ?. I'd love to meet a lady possibly for long term relationship to swing together ect

So I'd be happy to travel maybe upto 100 miles. weekends away at each others would be nice.

Any thoughts. ....."
if you Want to meet a woman youll have to travel to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right person, I’d travel up to a few hours, but not for a quick meet!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Too far is whatever one of the people involved says is too far. Ditto too close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if it feels like there's a real connection or spark then people will sometimes travel that bit further.

Personally, I have only travelled about an hour's commute to meet up... I have met people when working away but wouldn't say it is exactly the same thing as I have been about to visit that area either way, with or without a meet arranged..

I was invited to a party at the other end of the country and it sounded very fun, very well verified hosts, but it just wasn't a distance I was prepared to venture entirely for sex when it was available a lot closer to home and so I politely declined and I am sure all participants had a fab time all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too far is whatever one of the people involved says is too far. Ditto too close. "

Agree about too close.

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