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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you get a message from a man who wants to visit you, so you say hi on the phone and give him your address, only later on, you have second thought about meeting him, also not sure if he is your type. Then you notice that an hour ago he looked at your profile, then he says he has to cancel the meet, only you have a feeling that he has had second thoughts also. Should i tell him that i am not sure if he is my type, and delete him from my friends list, or say nothing?

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

If he has cancelled say nothing and just remove....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If he has cancelled say nothing and just remove...."

So i shall delete and block then, it doesnt realy matter if i gave him my address though does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Well can't exactly take it back now as you've told him it

If you thought he was ok enough to give your address to then I doubt its going to matter at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If in doubt delete not losing anything by deleting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go so far about blocking him as there may well be other reasons he had to cancel and at least he had the good grace to inform you.

But until he contacts again I wouldn't worry about it and concentrate on other pleasures...

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Your big problem has been in giving him your address.

Even if you block him, there is nothing to stop him just turning up on your doorstep now, or whenever he feels like it!

NEVER give out your address until you have met on neutral ground first. That gives you the safety of keeping your address private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your big problem has been in giving him your address.

Even if you block him, there is nothing to stop him just turning up on your doorstep now, or whenever he feels like it!

NEVER give out your address until you have met on neutral ground first. That gives you the safety of keeping your address private"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ever give someone my address fisrt.. they get a supermarket 5 mins away..

I would be honest with him though.. would save any possible nastiness..

Cali

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"I wouldn't go so far about blocking him as there may well be other reasons he had to cancel and at least he had the good grace to inform you.

But until he contacts again I wouldn't worry about it and concentrate on other pleasures..."

And I wouldn't worry about giving your address....Deal with that issue IF it ever crops up...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go so far about blocking him as there may well be other reasons he had to cancel and at least he had the good grace to inform you.

But until he contacts again I wouldn't worry about it and concentrate on other pleasures..."

I have unblocked him now, think your right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like your more upset because he cancelled first! Not quite sure what the problem is. You got out of a meet that you didn't want. Bruised ego??

Next!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like your more upset because he cancelled first! Not quite sure what the problem is. You got out of a meet that you didn't want. Bruised ego??

Next!"

Well you would know all about that wouldnt you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chances that the guy is an axe murderer or stalker are exceedingly remote. However the other posters are right, safety first, meet on neutral grand first.

If he has read this thread though he may well register you with a few double glazing, furniture, financial and consumer survey companies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chances that the guy is an axe murderer or stalker are exceedingly remote. However the other posters are right, safety first, meet on neutral grand first.

If he has read this thread though he may well register you with a few double glazing, furniture, financial and consumer survey companies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh look, I'm a repeater.... That's a first ..

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


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If he has read this thread though he may well register you with a few double glazing, furniture, financial and consumer survey companies "

Looks to me like he's read this thread Hope you haven't given him any ideas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like your more upset because he cancelled first! Not quite sure what the problem is. You got out of a meet that you didn't want. Bruised ego??

Next!

Well you would know all about that wouldnt you. "

Meaning???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you haven't met this guy but you gave him your address???? What a totally stupid idiotic thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you haven't met this guy but you gave him your address???? What a totally stupid idiotic thing to do "

Yep. Apparently he has 2 million pounds sitting in a Nigerian bank account for her lol. Just needs the monies!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Sounds like your more upset because he cancelled first! Not quite sure what the problem is. You got out of a meet that you didn't want. Bruised ego??

Next!

Well you would know all about that wouldnt you.

Meaning???

"

Put your handbags away you two,if yiu have issues with each other keep it off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you haven't met this guy but you gave him your address???? What a totally stupid idiotic thing to do

Yep. Apparently he has 2 million pounds sitting in a Nigerian bank account for her lol. Just needs the monies!!!!"

Funnily enough though there is a single guy on here who meets at his house or the single woman's house for the first meet, me thinks I obviously missed out on millions of pounds, could have cleared all my debts d'oh

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