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Who feel socially awkward in club

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By *ragon007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Xx

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Most of us at times but the more you go the easier it gets.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

No...we already have one thing in common with everyone there so it's never awkward.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Most of us at times but the more you go the easier it gets."

This. Very much this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah pretty much but then again I've only been to two so far.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

We’ve only been to one, but we’ve visited quite a few times. I don’t tend to feel awkward, ever, but Ailsa does.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Nervous yes, socially awkward not so much. We always feel excited about who we will see, who will want to talk, what will happen and that is a big part of the fun. Every night is going to be different and the worst that can happen is people aren’t your type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not awkward, too shy to break the ice or initial conversation

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By *ragon007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I am very good in other social situations but in swinging club I feel very awkward

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Massively and both shy!!

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

I think its the same for most men or singles at a club feeling awkward, as a couple you can generally bounce off of each other so its less intimidating.

Its also the guys that generally have to make the first move and many are shy or reticent, hence the zombie scenario where they just follow couples around in clubs..

Personally I have found its just best to say hello and see where it goes, sometimes its a straight "fuck off" but at least then you know where you stand.. lol

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"Most of us at times but the more you go the easier it gets.

This. Very much this. "

Agree entirely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always do. It’s not less awkward being a couple except that you’ve got someone for sure to talk to but we get nervous and shy as well.

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We have in past clubs can be bit like old school discos can be cliky at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its the same for most men or singles at a club feeling awkward, as a couple you can generally bounce off of each other so its less intimidating.

Its also the guys that generally have to make the first move and many are shy or reticent, hence the zombie scenario where they just follow couples around in clubs..

Personally I have found its just best to say hello and see where it goes, sometimes its a straight "fuck off" but at least then you know where you stand.. lol "

Haha I love that. Mr. Is generally a bit of a wingman and talks to singles so hopefully you run into more like that. -Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its the same for most men or singles at a club feeling awkward, as a couple you can generally bounce off of each other so its less intimidating.

Its also the guys that generally have to make the first move and many are shy or reticent, hence the zombie scenario where they just follow couples around in clubs..

Personally I have found its just best to say hello and see where it goes, sometimes its a straight "fuck off" but at least then you know where you stand.. lol "

this.

I just sit at the bar feeling awkward or go and soak in the jacuzzi and pray someone will take pity on me and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its the same for most men or singles at a club feeling awkward, as a couple you can generally bounce off of each other so its less intimidating.

Its also the guys that generally have to make the first move and many are shy or reticent, hence the zombie scenario where they just follow couples around in clubs..

Personally I have found its just best to say hello and see where it goes, sometimes its a straight "fuck off" but at least then you know where you stand.. lol "

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By *ragon007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I think its the same for most men or singles at a club feeling awkward, as a couple you can generally bounce off of each other so its less intimidating.

Its also the guys that generally have to make the first move and many are shy or reticent, hence the zombie scenario where they just follow couples around in clubs..

Personally I have found its just best to say hello and see where it goes, sometimes its a straight "fuck off" but at least then you know where you stand.. lol

this.

I just sit at the bar feeling awkward or go and soak in the jacuzzi and pray someone will take pity on me and chat "

I use to do that never happened lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its the same for most men or singles at a club feeling awkward, as a couple you can generally bounce off of each other so its less intimidating.

Its also the guys that generally have to make the first move and many are shy or reticent, hence the zombie scenario where they just follow couples around in clubs..

Personally I have found its just best to say hello and see where it goes, sometimes its a straight "fuck off" but at least then you know where you stand.. lol

this.

I just sit at the bar feeling awkward or go and soak in the jacuzzi and pray someone will take pity on me and chat

I use to do that never happened lol ?? "

Often, end up paddling on my own too

Home to a cuppa and book

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We did at first, but as we always enjoy our own company was never a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so. I've good times and bad times in clubs. Sometimes i clam up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but when someone I know is there must find much it easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally not! I feel like iv come home lol im a total show off though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been to one club... but I was not shy about my body...

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I always feel nervous but that is good as I somehow get horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only been to one club... but I was not shy about my body... "

You little show off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely, unless we've had a few drinks. Clubs can sometimes feel a bit cliquey we feel and unless you go very regularly then you're not in!! But having said that we have had some great fun in clubs without having to talk too much!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

There is always a part of the night that people you've been chatting too, go off to have some fun or you have come back after enjoying yourself and there is no-one around you know.

I'm sure it happens to alot of people, I do try and chat with anyone though

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I find it so hard to strike up a conversation for several reasons. Firstly, I have an ED. so my experience is lacking despite my older years which itself can be a handicap in itself. I think you one thing that really holds me back is both my shyness and my fear of upsetting a couple or lady that have absolutely no desire of meeting single guys in the clubs I attend.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Going in as a single guy, I mostly feel invisible

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Feel socially awkward in a lot of places. I probably shouldn't admit that here.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Now to post on the right thread:

I'm just socially awkward. And the scene, the people I've met and the club scene have really help with this. I learnt to love my weirdo self and just be my self. Granted it doesn't always go well and some people who meet me are like WTF, who brought this guy? But on the whole most people are quite accepting and like my odd self. The more I accept my self and just wade into the deep end with confidence into social situations the more I find its actually ok. I've learnt not worry about fitting in or saying the right thing and just this is me and I am just as valid as everyone else.

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