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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was dating a girl for a few months around and after xmas.

We both have a similar sex drive probably not massive but ok. Meet 2 or 3 times per week and lots of sex every meet.

We decide it wasn't working and since being single my sex drive seems to disappear.

No sex on the mind all day, no waking up with hard ons, no tingling bollocks...

Would have thought it would have increased not plummeted. Don't get it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being down about stuff can affect your sex drive.. as can many things.. and worrying about why can make it even worse..

Just enjoy life and I am sure you will find it coming back..

we all have natural dips..

Cali

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I was dating a girl for a few months around and after xmas.

We both have a similar sex drive probably not massive but ok. Meet 2 or 3 times per week and lots of sex every meet.

We decide it wasn't working and since being single my sex drive seems to disappear.

No sex on the mind all day, no waking up with hard ons, no tingling bollocks...

Would have thought it would have increased not plummeted. Don't get it !!"

You need a sinful wicked woman to get your blood surging and to lead you astray! lol. Lots of em on here

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

As cali said life affects your sex drive. Try to relax about it, get on with other stuff and it will probably come back.

If it doesnt and you are not suffering from other stresses eg work, it might be worth seeing the doctor, but most likely its a natural dip.

Try not to worry about it, as that wont help. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was dating a girl for a few months around and after xmas.

We both have a similar sex drive probably not massive but ok. Meet 2 or 3 times per week and lots of sex every meet.

We decide it wasn't working and since being single my sex drive seems to disappear.

No sex on the mind all day, no waking up with hard ons, no tingling bollocks...

Would have thought it would have increased not plummeted. Don't get it !!

You need a sinful wicked woman to get your blood surging and to lead you astray! lol. Lots of em on here "

Think your probably right, need to get the blood surging again!!!

Don't think I am too down about the split and work is always stressful (sales - grr) but thought I would be well up for some action...but not so far compared to a ravenous appetite previously..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the more sex I have the more I want it and the less I have the less I want it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the more sex I have the more I want it and the less I have the less I want it!"

i think this has been proven to be the case and when sex therapist want to increase sex drives they suggest u try to start with increase the amount of sex play u have so maybe thats the way to increase it good luck with it and like the others the less u worry the better it will be i am sure xxx

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I find the more sex I have the more I want it and the less I have the less I want it!"

I find that too. When I was in a relationship I was insatiable but when you arent desired or desiring it just disappears. . dead inside . sad really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was dating a girl for a few months around and after xmas.

We both have a similar sex drive probably not massive but ok. Meet 2 or 3 times per week and lots of sex every meet.

We decide it wasn't working and since being single my sex drive seems to disappear.

No sex on the mind all day, no waking up with hard ons, no tingling bollocks...

Would have thought it would have increased not plummeted. Don't get it !!

You need a sinful wicked woman to get your blood surging and to lead you astray! lol. Lots of em on here "

Oh there most certainly are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The herb horny goat is great for ur sex drive but found it diminished the sensation when u cum tho. Although the sensation when having sex is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

horny goat . Whats that never heard of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was dating a girl for a few months around and after xmas.

We both have a similar sex drive probably not massive but ok. Meet 2 or 3 times per week and lots of sex every meet.

We decide it wasn't working and since being single my sex drive seems to disappear.

No sex on the mind all day, no waking up with hard ons, no tingling bollocks...

Would have thought it would have increased not plummeted. Don't get it !!"

Get yourself to Preston, I'll see if I can help you out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was dating a girl for a few months around and after xmas.

We both have a similar sex drive probably not massive but ok. Meet 2 or 3 times per week and lots of sex every meet.

We decide it wasn't working and since being single my sex drive seems to disappear.

No sex on the mind all day, no waking up with hard ons, no tingling bollocks...

Would have thought it would have increased not plummeted. Don't get it !!

Get yourself to Preston, I'll see if I can help you out "

There is an offer I can't refuse

Will look into this horny goats sounds interesting.

I think it is a case of the more you have it the more you want it so I better start searching on here !!!

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By *kyblue2681Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Well the do say the more you have sex the more you want it soaye now your not getting it as regular your sex drives lowered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i think a sexy erotic fun loving woman may make you smile and feel all sorts again xx just fun with out the ties x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me like you still may be in love with the girl and miss her, maybe on a subconseince level.

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