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By *lex46 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Ladies, I need some help if you don't mind.

If you decline a meeting politely and respectively and they keep coming back to you with "just a quickie" or "Why not" etc, etc. Plus every time you log on there's another message from the same person.

How long before you get fed up and block them?

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Ladies, I need some help if you don't mind.

If you decline a meeting politely and respectively and they keep coming back to you with "just a quickie" or "Why not" etc, etc. Plus every time you log on there's another message from the same person.

How long before you get fed up and block them? "

Straight away...

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Have far more block than friends

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

Instant block and report, nobody should be hassling you and they should accept that no is no

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I block the minute they don't understand the word NO

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Block them immediately. You don’t owe anybody anything, not your time or even your attention. One polite ‘No thanks’ should be enough.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Have far more block than friends "

Us too...

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By *lex46 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I must be too nice, I've only blocked about 3 people since I joined.

5 replies to the same guy is a bit tedious.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

The first time they message with anything other than a polite message of acceptance of me declining a meet. I haven't got the time or the patience to be dealing with wombats that can't understand the word no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have far more block than friends

Us too..."

snapxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Immediately if they are so dumb

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I block the minute they don't understand the word NO "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight away if they question my answer.

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By *lex46 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

The last message reads :

"car meet, I'll pick you up £50 blow job drop you back. Plezzz.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Tbh, it depends on my mood, and how annoying they are

Usually, if they message again after I've said no, then a block

But there's a couple, I haven't.

It probably irritates them more they never get a reply, than just being blocked.

Ones currently on 49 & no reply

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"The last message reads :

"car meet, I'll pick you up £50 blow job drop you back. Plezzz. "

So block him.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Second message my block

List is hundreds

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"The last message reads :

"car meet, I'll pick you up £50 blow job drop you back. Plezzz.

So block him."

Bloody hell why let it get to that

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By *lex46 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"The last message reads :

"car meet, I'll pick you up £50 blow job drop you back. Plezzz.

So block him."

Just did, my block number 4.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

At the first objection you block.

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By *lex46 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"The last message reads :

"car meet, I'll pick you up £50 blow job drop you back. Plezzz.

So block him.

Bloody hell why let it get to that "

Part of me just wanted to see how far it would go. But that was a lot of effort and time wasted on my part. I think in future it will be after the second message.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Definitely second message block

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"The last message reads :

"car meet, I'll pick you up £50 blow job drop you back. Plezzz.

So block him.

Bloody hell why let it get to that

Part of me just wanted to see how far it would go. But that was a lot of effort and time wasted on my part. I think in future it will be after the second message. "

Good decision. Men like that never stop. Far nicer people around to spend your time chatting too

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I agree. Second message = block

Life is too short to waste reading drivel like that!

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By *lex46 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"The last message reads :

"car meet, I'll pick you up £50 blow job drop you back. Plezzz.

So block him.

Bloody hell why let it get to that

Part of me just wanted to see how far it would go. But that was a lot of effort and time wasted on my part. I think in future it will be after the second message.

Good decision. Men like that never stop. Far nicer people around to spend your time chatting too "

Very true, thanks.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

A nanosecond & wouldn't give it another thought.

S

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Usually after the second message....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I block the minute they don't understand the word NO "

This.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block the minute they don't understand the word NO

This "

Jackpot

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By *lex46 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"[Removed by poster at 13/10/19 20:00:44]"

Thanks

Trouble is you want to be nice and friendly and try and give a positive vibe. But not everyone is like that. I need to toughen up a bit.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Immediately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, I need some help if you don't mind.

If you decline a meeting politely and respectively and they keep coming back to you with "just a quickie" or "Why not" etc, etc. Plus every time you log on there's another message from the same person.

How long before you get fed up and block them? "

After the first "but why" kinda message!

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

As soon as it is apparent they are not taking notice of the word no.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I block immediately for two reasons

- if they can't take rejection on a simple message, then things could escalate if I met them in person

- if I did meet, and I withdrew consent, I doubt they would stop

So essentially both for my safety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you say no thanks and they don’t stop it’s time to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. Second message = block

Life is too short to waste reading drivel like that!"

this. Ignoring / no response is a polite no. A second message and I block.

They can tell you’ve read the message so no need for it.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The block button is a positive and useful tool on here, use it with impunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is immense...

vulger messages - blocked

Dick pics - blocked

Clearly haven’t read my profile - blocked

I have no time for idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id tell them to fu*k off lol then block them x

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By *lex46 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"I block immediately for two reasons

- if they can't take rejection on a simple message, then things could escalate if I met them in person

- if I did meet, and I withdrew consent, I doubt they would stop

So essentially both for my safety"

I never even gave that situation a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as they come back with the 'why not'? I don't get into a debate

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There


"

After the first "but why" kinda message! "

This.

It just shows them to be a needy and immature individual.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Ladies, I need some help if you don't mind.

If you decline a meeting politely and respectively and they keep coming back to you with "just a quickie" or "Why not" etc, etc. Plus every time you log on there's another message from the same person.

How long before you get fed up and block them? "

If you've no interest in meeting them, what are you losing by blocking them?

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By *lex46 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"Ladies, I need some help if you don't mind.

If you decline a meeting politely and respectively and they keep coming back to you with "just a quickie" or "Why not" etc, etc. Plus every time you log on there's another message from the same person.

How long before you get fed up and block them?

If you've no interest in meeting them, what are you losing by blocking them?"

Very true but sometimes it's a "no not tonight" not a "no, never".

As I discovered you can quickly loose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block one liners like nice tits etc, anyone too local, bi or curious males.

If they arent what we looking for but are polite we will send a short reply saying thanks but no thanks etc, if they cant take no then block.

Time wasters also. Eg had a bloke say he wanted to meet seemed great but he was 150 miles away. He said oh no I'm staying about 25 minutes away so we said ok your on! Then said it was too far! Instant block lol.

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