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By *racknell Sex OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I understand that a lot of people meet for sex... and of course fucking is great fun...but does anyone actually like the people they meet and chat to on here?

I cannot remember the last time I spoke to a normal, down to earth, genuine person who did not already have a bunch of other guys on the go at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a swinging site - exclusivity isn't common. And yes, I do like the people I meet as I wouldn't meet them otherwise.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Everyone I meet are people I like and that I have a connection with of some sort - I just wouldn't meet if I didn't.

And where does someone meeting others come into all that? Frankly if someone I am meeting is meeting other people, then it really is no business of mine unless it somehow impacts me (which it really shouldn't) so don't really see the relevance of that comment?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

I don’t play with anyone who I don’t get on with. I understand that some fabsters aren’t all that bothered by personality, but if I don’t like a women I won’t take it past the social.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I've liked everyone I've met on here and they've liked me

I prefer repeat meets so it's pretty essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people yes

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I wouldn't chat to them or meet them if I didn't like them x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I need connection to enjoy the sex otherwise i just get a blow up doll! Lol

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By *assyBangBangWoman
over a year ago

St Helens

Yes I do get on with the people I meet, though I’ve not met many for an actual meet. I prefer to just meet one person at a time, I don’t have the time or inclination to have multiple people on the go additional to the person I’m meeting as I’m also married too. My husband is happy for me to spend time socially with the person I’m meeting. Everyone has their own preferences, I think in generally it’s usual for people to have a couple of different people on the go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When with fb he used to arrange our meets & some well let’s just say I’m glad I was d*unk! He was more a any hole goal but now It’s all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think of it as having several on the go cos this is completely different from the dating game. I have had a connection with those I've met though and enjoyed chatting to them as well as the sexual side. If we weren't getting on through chatting the meet wouldn't happen

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yep, I get on with everyone I meet or there would be no meeting.

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe


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I cannot remember the last time I spoke to a normal, down to earth, genuine person who did not already have a bunch of other guys on the go at the same time."

What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

I talk to loads of people and the same people regularly, I like loads of the people I talk to, doesn't mean I'm going to shag them all, some are very much in the friend category.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"It's a swinging site - exclusivity isn't common. And yes, I do like the people I meet as I wouldn't meet them otherwise."

This^^

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I've met people on here that I hope will be my friends for many years to come, and most of the time there's nothing sexual involved, so yes in general I like people that I spend time and effort talking to on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m another one who needs to have a connection with the guy I’m meeting. I’ve also made a few great friends on here for whom I’m really grateful

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I chat, get to know people before I meet ..

I converse with them for weeks before sex or a meet is even mentioned ..

The best part of a meet is the chatting and story swapping x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I make connections and want them to be seeing other people, I don't want exclusivity I want to have great sex with great friends.

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By *racknell Sex OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell


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What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

"

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I make connections and want them to be seeing other people, I don't want exclusivity I want to have great sex with great friends."

Totally this

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Is this a joke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck.."

Oh dear

Perhaps a different site would suit you better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck.."

Cynical much?

If they wanted exclusivity they’d be monogamous. Having multiple conversations does not mean you are meeting everyone you’re talking to. OP, do you only talk to one person at a time? Do you never have multiple conversations? Do you have the ability to talk to more than one person without meeting them for sex?

I’m sure you do, so why be so judgemental about others? Normal people can still meet more than one person for sex- it’s something that adults can do, without compromising their morals or their normality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a joke? "

I was wondering the same. I assume by people pretending they're looking to meet the op refers to people hes been chatting to who then decide not to meet him.

I couldn't chat exclusively to one person. I've made friends on here I solely chat to, those i meet socially and those i meet for fun. I enjoy the company of all of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck..

Cynical much?

If they wanted exclusivity they’d be monogamous. Having multiple conversations does not mean you are meeting everyone you’re talking to. OP, do you only talk to one person at a time? Do you never have multiple conversations? Do you have the ability to talk to more than one person without meeting them for sex?

I’m sure you do, so why be so judgemental about others? Normal people can still meet more than one person for sex- it’s something that adults can do, without compromising their morals or their normality "

Besides which, what has it to do with you? Maybe some guys don’t get beyond a social as upon meeting them the woman doesn’t feel the attraction. Not because she’s bored, but because she respects herself too much to fuck him just because he’s gagging for it!

So the poor woman can’t win. She’s either giving it to everyone or not giving it the guy who’s gagging and feeling entitled! Best thing would be to avoid talking to some men in the first place, no expectations or insults then

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a joke?

I was wondering the same. I assume by people pretending they're looking to meet the op refers to people hes been chatting to who then decide not to meet him.

I couldn't chat exclusively to one person. I've made friends on here I solely chat to, those i meet socially and those i meet for fun. I enjoy the company of all of them "

I’ve made good friends on here, Male friends who there is, and never has been any sexual interaction- written or physical. Luckily we’re mature enough to see that we can be platonic friends x

Viv xx

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe


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What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck.."

Cripes...taxis here for you love x

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

I promise I won’t message you op... am a disgrace as i chat to more than one at a time!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's a swinging site - exclusivity isn't common. And yes, I do like the people I meet as I wouldn't meet them otherwise."
agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I promise I won’t message you op... am a disgrace as i chat to more than one at a time!! "

Tease!! Have you no morals!! You’d better be giving it to all the people you’re chatting to! Don’t care if you’re bored and just want a social. They’re gagging for a fuck!!

But be prepared to be slagged off afterwards x

Viv xx

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I understand that a lot of people meet for sex... and of course fucking is great fun...but does anyone actually like the people they meet and chat to on here?

I cannot remember the last time I spoke to a normal, down to earth, genuine person who did not already have a bunch of other guys on the go at the same time."

I like everyone.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I like a lot of the people I've met just socially

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"I promise I won’t message you op... am a disgrace as i chat to more than one at a time!!

Tease!! Have you no morals!! You’d better be giving it to all the people you’re chatting to! Don’t care if you’re bored and just want a social. They’re gagging for a fuck!!

But be prepared to be slagged off afterwards x

Viv xx"

Screaming... total cock tease .. i am going to hell ... see you there Viv x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I promise I won’t message you op... am a disgrace as i chat to more than one at a time!!

Tease!! Have you no morals!! You’d better be giving it to all the people you’re chatting to! Don’t care if you’re bored and just want a social. They’re gagging for a fuck!!

But be prepared to be slagged off afterwards x

Viv xx

Screaming... total cock tease .. i am going to hell ... see you there Viv x"

Woohoo!! I’ll save you a seat, haha xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


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What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck.."

It's perfectly fine to be looking for someone who is looking for the same thing as you, which appears to be an exclusive one-to-one FWB type thing - however you cannot expect everyone to be looking for the same thing, or jump to conclusions about why someone does things differently from you.

Even if someone was looking for the same thing as you, up until the point you've met and agreed that is what you both want based on that meet, would you really expect someone not to talk to anyone else but you? If you do, then you may have the wrong site to be honest - it's only natural that someone might be chatting to several people at the same time, I know I do, and the people I am chatting to, or have met do.

And if anyone I have met or am meeting happens to be meeting others and let's me know they are, which they absolutely don't need to do, you know my reaction? Tell them I hope they have a great time, nothing more, nothing less.

As for "but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck.." - just how derogatory do you want to be about people you want to meet, or indeed the other guys that meet them?

I've never jumped through a single hoop on here, nor would I, nor have I been asked to and I am certainly not "gagging for a fuck".

Like I said it's fine to be looking for something specific, but you have to accept that may limit your chances of finding it, nor should it mean you can be derogatory about how others choose to use the site either.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I cannot remember the last time I spoke to a normal, down to earth, genuine person who did not already have a bunch of other guys on the go at the same time."

Try this

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/935006

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I promise I won’t message you op... am a disgrace as i chat to more than one at a time!!

Tease!! Have you no morals!! You’d better be giving it to all the people you’re chatting to! Don’t care if you’re bored and just want a social. They’re gagging for a fuck!!

But be prepared to be slagged off afterwards x

Viv xx

Screaming... total cock tease .. i am going to hell ... see you there Viv x

Woohoo!! I’ll save you a seat, haha xx"

Hang on!! Are you chatting to anyone else on this post? Are you bi? Are you just leading me on for a social in hell?

(Btw, even if you’re straight we can still chat, I’m not predatory, I can talk to a woman without expecting a fuck, haha) Viv xx

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"I promise I won’t message you op... am a disgrace as i chat to more than one at a time!!

Tease!! Have you no morals!! You’d better be giving it to all the people you’re chatting to! Don’t care if you’re bored and just want a social. They’re gagging for a fuck!!

But be prepared to be slagged off afterwards x

Viv xx

Screaming... total cock tease .. i am going to hell ... see you there Viv x

Woohoo!! I’ll save you a seat, haha xx

Hang on!! Are you chatting to anyone else on this post? Are you bi? Are you just leading me on for a social in hell?

(Btw, even if you’re straight we can still chat, I’m not predatory, I can talk to a woman without expecting a fuck, haha) Viv xx"

Why you lying am anything you want me to be baby.. but a won’t stop chatting to others!

#chatwhore

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"It's a swinging site - exclusivity isn't common. And yes, I do like the people I meet as I wouldn't meet them otherwise."

What she said... totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that a lot of people meet for sex... and of course fucking is great fun...but does anyone actually like the people they meet and chat to on here?

I cannot remember the last time I spoke to a normal, down to earth, genuine person who did not already have a bunch of other guys on the go at the same time."
yes met lots ive liked

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Most of the women I chat to are presumably chatting to other people at the same time. And it’s absolutely none of my business. Nor is there any proof that who they are chatting to are people they are currently or planning to meet with, or even if they are on fab. If you want exclusive contact OP I think you should make that clear, and then watch every single person you’re chatting to walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's a Lucky dip regarding liking people, personality etc etc we're all different, not everyone can like everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all the ladies I chat to or I wouldn't do it. Certainly, my first intention with most of them was to get in their pants, but that's never happened so I still enjoy their chat company. Most I no longer even regard sexually, and just enjoy their conversation and opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I promise I won’t message you op... am a disgrace as i chat to more than one at a time!!

Tease!! Have you no morals!! You’d better be giving it to all the people you’re chatting to! Don’t care if you’re bored and just want a social. They’re gagging for a fuck!!

But be prepared to be slagged off afterwards x

Viv xx

Screaming... total cock tease .. i am going to hell ... see you there Viv x

Woohoo!! I’ll save you a seat, haha xx

Hang on!! Are you chatting to anyone else on this post? Are you bi? Are you just leading me on for a social in hell?

(Btw, even if you’re straight we can still chat, I’m not predatory, I can talk to a woman without expecting a fuck, haha) Viv xx

Why you lying am anything you want me to be baby.. but a won’t stop chatting to others!

#chatwhore "

You got me! Carry on gorgeous, love a #chatwhore As long as you can pretend to be my fantasy, I can overlook you talking to anyone else...denial is my middle name (it’s actually not, I’m lying again!!) xx

Sorry for hijacking the thread, but it’s so ridiculous, as to call for humour. Being derogatory, just for the sake of it, is a bit silly, as is getting the huff because people don’t want to fuck the entitled Male. Green arrow OP!!

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

We only meet people we think could be friends, and some of those people have indeed become actual friends. We spend a long time getting to know people. Those who can’t be bothered to invest a little time in us are not people we’re interested in.

Who our friends see, either from this site or elsewhere, is really none of our business. So long as they are safe and happy, we are happy for them.

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

I have had one or two one off meets but usually people I meet are regular and yes I like them. I am content with one regular lady and also meet a couple occasionally but I find it is harder to get regular meets with a couple due to all three having to be available rather than two of us...also I guess a couple are having regular sex with each other so only use single guys as a treat now and again, but the two couples that I met fairly regularly...yes I liked them. The lady I meet regularly....yes of course I like her too, we have chats and I cook dinner for her etc. so there has to be a connection.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

The op not replying as that would make him a #chatwhore talking to all us at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck.."

Good for you, I don't want to be the next on their fuck conveyor belt either.

Women often say they don't like it when a man meets someone else when they're chatting. They call the men players. It's ok for women to have preferences about who they meet. Men aren't allowed to want the same thing though, as you can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve liked the people I’ve met but have only met a handful in 10 years. I don’t think that many particularly like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck..

Good for you, I don't want to be the next on their fuck conveyor belt either.

Women often say they don't like it when a man meets someone else when they're chatting. They call the men players. It's ok for women to have preferences about who they meet. Men aren't allowed to want the same thing though, as you can see. "

Sweeping generalisation right there. I've never in my life called a guy a player for wanting to meet someone else. Mostly because I'm not a hypocrite. I've chatted to guys and they have decided not to take it further and they are entitled to their preference just as I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my FB on here and we chat a lot (daily) outside of the meets and sex. Basically we are FBs but also friends now.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I understand that a lot of people meet for sex... and of course fucking is great fun...but does anyone actually like the people they meet and chat to on here?

I cannot remember the last time I spoke to a normal, down to earth, genuine person who did not already have a bunch of other guys on the go at the same time."

Didn't you like the people you have met then?

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

The green arrow makes for some good reading too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would assume moss decent people “like” the people they’re meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met some lovely guys on here...sadly some idiots too

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Because the type of people I really get on with wouldn’t give a flying f**k how many people I am chatting to, or meeting. I make a point of saying I am chatting to and meeting others. I don’t want to waste my time with the pretend swingers on here.

If you want to meet a “normal” person that isn’t chatting to or meeting others, try the library.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the type of people I really get on with wouldn’t give a flying f**k how many people I am chatting to, or meeting. I make a point of saying I am chatting to and meeting others. I don’t want to waste my time with the pretend swingers on here.

If you want to meet a “normal” person that isn’t chatting to or meeting others, try the library."

Swingers aren't 'normal'.

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"I understand that a lot of people meet for sex... and of course fucking is great fun...but does anyone actually like the people they meet and chat to on here?

I cannot remember the last time I spoke to a normal, down to earth, genuine person who did not already have a bunch of other guys on the go at the same time."

It's a swinging site. Not exactly the best place to look for exclusivity

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


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What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck.."

Should have read all the posts before my initial comments.

With your attitude, I'm sure you will make lots of.friends here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck..

Good for you, I don't want to be the next on their fuck conveyor belt either.

Women often say they don't like it when a man meets someone else when they're chatting. They call the men players. It's ok for women to have preferences about who they meet. Men aren't allowed to want the same thing though, as you can see. "

Think it’s more how derogatory he has been tbh, and I’m sad to say, what you said as well. Many people don’t have sex with lots, and so what if they do!

I personally haven’t had sex with another man since Feb 2018, as I became exclusively Mr’s. We still meet others, and maybe there will be a time that I do. That doesn’t mean that I would be judgemental, in such a crass way, about others who chat to lots or enjoy lots of sexual partners. “Gagging for fucks” “fuck conveyor belt”!

The post is laughable in how offensive it is. There are many “normal”, “genuine” people on here, who still chat to lots, and yes, they meet lots.

It doesn’t make someone better than someone else on here, just because they choose to only meet a handful of people. Taking the moral high ground, and then belittling men as gagging for fucks, and women as being bored so they want socials, or little more than commodities in a production line, is quite frankly, offensive to all parties involved.

That is what I find totally objectionable!

Men are not players and women are not sluts, just because they choose to chat to/have sex with people, on a site like Fab, where people are supposedly nonjudgmental and mature in their attitudes towards sex.

I’m sorry, but on this, we will have to agree to disagree, because I find the whole thing offensive.

Viv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What do you mean by having a bunch of other guys on the go OP?

One thing I do not like is messaging someone who is in the middle of four other conversations and its obvious from the mixed up reply's..

Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck..

Good for you, I don't want to be the next on their fuck conveyor belt either.

Women often say they don't like it when a man meets someone else when they're chatting. They call the men players. It's ok for women to have preferences about who they meet. Men aren't allowed to want the same thing though, as you can see.

Think it’s more how derogatory he has been tbh, and I’m sad to say, what you said as well. Many people don’t have sex with lots, and so what if they do!

I personally haven’t had sex with another man since Feb 2018, as I became exclusively Mr’s. We still meet others, and maybe there will be a time that I do. That doesn’t mean that I would be judgemental, in such a crass way, about others who chat to lots or enjoy lots of sexual partners. “Gagging for fucks” “fuck conveyor belt”!

The post is laughable in how offensive it is. There are many “normal”, “genuine” people on here, who still chat to lots, and yes, they meet lots.

It doesn’t make someone better than someone else on here, just because they choose to only meet a handful of people. Taking the moral high ground, and then belittling men as gagging for fucks, and women as being bored so they want socials, or little more than commodities in a production line, is quite frankly, offensive to all parties involved.

That is what I find totally objectionable!

Men are not players and women are not sluts, just because they choose to chat to/have sex with people, on a site like Fab, where people are supposedly nonjudgmental and mature in their attitudes towards sex.

I’m sorry, but on this, we will have to agree to disagree, because I find the whole thing offensive.

Viv "

Exactly, so what if they do fuck loads. Some people go to clubs every week or more often. They are having a fantastic time.

I don't want to meet them and I'm not the type they want to meet either. I'm not offended.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Strange post OP.

Many of us meet and most people don't have sex with people they don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do really actually like the people I meet on here... Or I wouldn’t meet then and I certainly wouldn’t fuck them.

In addition to that if they are meeting others and enjoying themselves then I am happy for them. Why wouldn’t you be happy for friends of yours to be enjoying themselves? Would you rather that they sit at home miserable waiting for you?

If that is how you view it then I would respectfully suggest that a swingers site is not the site for you.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Looking at the green arrow you have asked similar before. OP did you not get the answer then?

As for me i will only meet people i connect with. But over the years ive connected with a few

All in different ways and such fun. So not just 1! Cause that just ain't swinging haha

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"The green arrow makes for some good reading too x"

Yes it does....OP...this is the Internet and it moves at a pace so do expect people to be talking to more than one person at a time....try going in the chat rooms for a while...far too quick for me but Flik can be chatting to loads of people at the same time. How do you manage in the real world if there's more than two people in a conversation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Or the women who have four or five guys fucking them regularly but spend their time pretending they are looking for a meet but really just want as many socials as they can get because they are lonely and bore... while the poor guys are jumping through hoops gagging for a fuck.."

If you’re just gagging for a fuck, and that’s all this site is to you, surely all your ‘effort’ would be put to better use on a one night stand on a Saturday night, no?

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Chemistry is everything! And if you take the time to chat and get to know someone, without lies or preconceptions, you can meet some truly lovely people, so YES, I do like the people on here.. well the ones I’ve met anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just discovered the green arrow.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Bit of a strange question by OP really - if you don’t like a potential partner talking to other people then fab definitely isn’t for you.

If you’re referring more to clubs, bear in mind that most people are pretty shy / reserved. They can appear unfriendly when in reality if you break the ice with them then nine times out of ten they’re perfectly nice and friendly.

We wouldn’t go out if we didn’t think we were going to have a nice sociable friendly evening.

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe


"I've just discovered the green arrow. "

Same...who knew eh

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