FabSwingers.com forum: Stag/Vixen / Hotwife/Hothusband

By *bzcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

inverurie

Hey all, we’re interested in these types of swinging and would love to hear your thoughts on it.

We mainly want to know thoughts and experiences from other couples as that’s more relevant to us than from a single guy... also, can we try to leave cuckolding out, there are plenty posts about that!

Definitions of Stag / Vixen / Hotwife/husband...

Are we right on thinking that in general these are:

Stag - a husband of a vixen who has sexual relations with others while his partner is there, either she is watching or joining in but at her choice.

Vixen - a wife who has sexual relations with others while her partner is there, as above but reversed.

No humiliation in either case but both could be playing with others at the same time, or just watching, but they would be present. Stag/Vixen doesn’t really describe if it’s only the husband or only the wife that plays in the way that cuckolding/cuckqueaning does?

Hotwife - a wife who has sex with others without their husband being present but possibly sending photos etc

Hothusband - same as Hotwife but it’s the husband who has sex with others without the wife present.

Would this be accurate? Love to hear your thoughts and experiences!

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

I think that sounds about right.

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By *bzcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

inverurie

"I think that sounds about right.

Thanks for your reply.

It seems that stag/vixen is more often associated with the humiliation-less version of cuckold than it is to cuckquean, would that be right? Is the another term for cuckquean with no humiliation?

It’s all just labels that don’t matter but it’s good to know what people mean

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

I think you’re spot on with your definitions.

I don’t know of any other names for cuckold/cuckquean without humiliation. Not forgetting Cuckcake.

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By *KGUY20Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I’d say spot on! Love the hotwife scene

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Liking your Vixen description. Vixen here with the male leading, works very well for us.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Spot on OP all four for us hotwife and hothusband works well due to getting time for both of us to be out and stag and vixen when we can both meet and be out at the same time.

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By *bzcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

inverurie

"Liking your Vixen description. Vixen here with the male leading, works very well for us."

Thanks

Sounds like a fun way to play... You say male led, what does he do that make it that way? Is that in terms of organising meets, or he plays if he wants to but she needs permission, or some other way?

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By *bzcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

inverurie

"Spot on OP all four for us hotwife and hothusband works well due to getting time for both of us to be out and stag and vixen when we can both meet and be out at the same time.

That’s sounds like a good way to play if you’re interested in playing alone...

We personally like to play together and with each other but don’t get to play often due to life!

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"Spot on OP all four for us hotwife and hothusband works well due to getting time for both of us to be out and stag and vixen when we can both meet and be out at the same time.

That’s sounds like a good way to play if you’re interested in playing alone...

We personally like to play together and with each other but don’t get to play often due to life!"

That wasnt the innitial plan at the beginning we played together only last year or two it became difficult having diaries that sync

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By *bzcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

inverurie

"Spot on OP all four for us hotwife and hothusband works well due to getting time for both of us to be out and stag and vixen when we can both meet and be out at the same time.

That’s sounds like a good way to play if you’re interested in playing alone...

We personally like to play together and with each other but don’t get to play often due to life!

That wasnt the innitial plan at the beginning we played together only last year or two it became difficult having diaries that sync"

Hehe yeah, we need a 5 day weekend to fit in all the day to day life stuff in with all the fun stuff we’d like to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say spot on! Love the hotwife scene

Yes its the way to go.

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