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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City

Do you think men that dont disclose the fact they are bi or bi curious label themselves as straight to meet more woman??? Does it matter if they are bi or bi curious???

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Do you think men that dont disclose the fact they are bi or bi curious label themselves as straight to meet more woman??? Does it matter if they are bi or bi curious??? "

Yep, some women and couples won't meet bi men so they lie.

There are loads of people that will meet bi men though so it seems abit silly.

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"Do you think men that dont disclose the fact they are bi or bi curious label themselves as straight to meet more woman??? Does it matter if they are bi or bi curious???

Yep, some women and couples won't meet bi men so they lie.

There are loads of people that will meet bi men though so it seems abit silly."

Would you meet a bi or bi curious male?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest it has more to do with them not wanting to admit it to themselves.

I get lots of messages from men who insist they are straight

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Do you think men that dont disclose the fact they are bi or bi curious label themselves as straight to meet more woman??? Does it matter if they are bi or bi curious???

Yep, some women and couples won't meet bi men so they lie.

There are loads of people that will meet bi men though so it seems abit silly.

Would you meet a bi or bi curious male?"

Hell yeah! I'd love a bi fb

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"Do you think men that dont disclose the fact they are bi or bi curious label themselves as straight to meet more woman??? Does it matter if they are bi or bi curious???

Yep, some women and couples won't meet bi men so they lie.

There are loads of people that will meet bi men though so it seems abit silly.

Would you meet a bi or bi curious male?

Hell yeah! I'd love a bi fb"

And Dudley is not to far from Leicester either lol

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I prefer bi or bi curious men, butvit can be confusing if they say they’re straight. Some guys send a wink which is not a bad way to show interest.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Do you think men that dont disclose the fact they are bi or bi curious label themselves as straight to meet more woman??? Does it matter if they are bi or bi curious???

Yep, some women and couples won't meet bi men so they lie.

There are loads of people that will meet bi men though so it seems abit silly.

Would you meet a bi or bi curious male?

Hell yeah! I'd love a bi fb

And Dudley is not to far from Leicester either lol "

Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I met up with a guy who eventually told me he was bi curious. Until we had chatted about it loads etc I don’t know how I would of felt if he had said straight away. But now it would not bother me and in fact I too would love a bi fwb I find it a huge turn on

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City

Shame I am to old for you both lol

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Lots lie on here for sure, i use to think well its ok they fancy me as i'm a girl.... But many that are 'straight' aren't just after my looks!

I know shock horror right!!!?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoops

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"I'd suggest it has more to do with them not wanting to admit it to themselves.

I get lots of messages from men who insist they are straight "

Agreed. Majority are actually gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think men that dont disclose the fact they are bi or bi curious label themselves as straight to meet more woman??? Does it matter if they are bi or bi curious???

Yep, some women and couples won't meet bi men so they lie.

There are loads of people that will meet bi men though so it seems abit silly.

Would you meet a bi or bi curious male?

Hell yeah! I'd love a bi fb"

dream the dream xx

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"Lots lie on here for sure, i use to think well its ok they fancy me as i'm a girl.... But many that are 'straight' aren't just after my looks!

I know shock horror right!!!?? Lol"

Is that the stigma of thinking they are with a female and it makes them feel better about their sexuality. I see loads of verifications on tgirl profiles from guys that are straight (so their profile says)

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Do you think men that dont disclose the fact they are bi or bi curious label themselves as straight to meet more woman??? Does it matter if they are bi or bi curious???

Yep, some women and couples won't meet bi men so they lie.

There are loads of people that will meet bi men though so it seems abit silly.

Would you meet a bi or bi curious male?

Hell yeah! I'd love a bi fb

dream the dream xx"

Indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had women refuse to meet because I don’t mind the odd Tv/Ts

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

To me it about been honest some stright people will still meet bi man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me it about been honest some stright people will still meet bi man "

exactly,if we are going to be honest we expect them to be also.too much to ask for methinks

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"I’ve had women refuse to meet because I don’t mind the odd Tv/Ts

"

I find sexy TVs / tgirls a massive turn on. I adore lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi and crossdress ..open..wife loves it..we dont hide it and make it very clear so folks can take it or leave it so its all good...

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"Bi and crossdress ..open..wife loves it..we dont hide it and make it very clear so folks can take it or leave it so its all good..."

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By *ung_londonMan
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Do you think men that dont disclose the fact they are bi or bi curious label themselves as straight to meet more woman??? Does it matter if they are bi or bi curious??? "

Some seem to do it tactically to avoid being automatically blocked by those who won’t meet bi/ curious guys. Others have conflicted feelings about their sexuality and would not feel comfortable labelling themselves as other than straight, despite being sexually interested in other guys. And some define themselves as straight because their definition allows for things which other people on here don’t think are compatible with the word (eg they are into tv/cd meets or they like cock but don’t fancy guys or never want a male/male relationship...) It’s always a heated topic on here!

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

There's a guy locally who seems to have two profiles in fab. One is straight and the other is bi. Same pics and details otherwise

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"Do you think men that dont disclose the fact they are bi or bi curious label themselves as straight to meet more woman??? Does it matter if they are bi or bi curious???

Some seem to do it tactically to avoid being automatically blocked by those who won’t meet bi/ curious guys. Others have conflicted feelings about their sexuality and would not feel comfortable labelling themselves as other than straight, despite being sexually interested in other guys. And some define themselves as straight because their definition allows for things which other people on here don’t think are compatible with the word (eg they are into tv/cd meets or they like cock but don’t fancy guys or never want a male/male relationship...) It’s always a heated topic on here!"

I agree with you pal. Nice cock by the way lol

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"There's a guy locally who seems to have two profiles in fab. One is straight and the other is bi. Same pics and details otherwise "

Gready lad lol

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By *lintshire72Man
over a year ago

North Wales

Maybe there's an element of could know people, or people know them/him, on here and outside here, and wanting to keep his bi side strictly private.

Can usually easily tell by verifications if unsure

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By *ooBoo2300Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I love bi men and restrict my search criteria for them. Anyone not bi on their profile isn’t popping up in my radar...so I suppose it depends how the guys feel about meets, who they want to meet and what’s most important.

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"I love bi men and restrict my search criteria for them. Anyone not bi on their profile isn’t popping up in my radar...so I suppose it depends how the guys feel about meets, who they want to meet and what’s most important. "

We all know what we like

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By *ung_londonMan
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Do you think men that dont disclose the fact they are bi or bi curious label themselves as straight to meet more woman??? Does it matter if they are bi or bi curious???

Some seem to do it tactically to avoid being automatically blocked by those who won’t meet bi/ curious guys. Others have conflicted feelings about their sexuality and would not feel comfortable labelling themselves as other than straight, despite being sexually interested in other guys. And some define themselves as straight because their definition allows for things which other people on here don’t think are compatible with the word (eg they are into tv/cd meets or they like cock but don’t fancy guys or never want a male/male relationship...) It’s always a heated topic on here!

I agree with you pal. Nice cock by the way lol"

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City

Woman are not bothered about declaring it so why should men

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Lots lie on here for sure, i use to think well its ok they fancy me as i'm a girl.... But many that are 'straight' aren't just after my looks!

I know shock horror right!!!?? Lol

Is that the stigma of thinking they are with a female and it makes them feel better about their sexuality. I see loads of verifications on tgirl profiles from guys that are straight (so their profile says)"

I think you're right and many have said to me they wish there was a 'straight but into tvs' option as most would never meet just guy.

So its the female appearance they are still attracted to.

Its the same reason most gay guys won't finda tvs attractive, especially a convincing one i guess.

It blurs lines to many for sure but tbh thats life these days.

Shame its such an issue to many still.

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"Lots lie on here for sure, i use to think well its ok they fancy me as i'm a girl.... But many that are 'straight' aren't just after my looks!

I know shock horror right!!!?? Lol

Is that the stigma of thinking they are with a female and it makes them feel better about their sexuality. I see loads of verifications on tgirl profiles from guys that are straight (so their profile says)

I think you're right and many have said to me they wish there was a 'straight but into tvs' option as most would never meet just guy.

So its the female appearance they are still attracted to.

Its the same reason most gay guys won't finda tvs attractive, especially a convincing one i guess.

It blurs lines to many for sure but tbh thats life these days.

Shame its such an issue to many still.

"

I do like a sexy tv (ahhh dont tell anyone) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps looking for an opportunity to expand their experiences.... life can be fun with the right people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in the queue...

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"I am in the queue..."

Budge up lol

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I don't mind if a guy is bi or curious.

I just wish they would be honest. If he reveals it after chatting for a while or after meeting I start to wonder what else he has not been honest about.

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"I don't mind if a guy is bi or curious.

I just wish they would be honest. If he reveals it after chatting for a while or after meeting I start to wonder what else he has not been honest about. "

Good point I like your thinking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a foolish woman would reject the declaration as they could 'miss out' on threesome involvement pleasures...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing I hide is the photos of me in lingerie as people can have them if the want them

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"Only thing I hide is the photos of me in lingerie as people can have them if the want them"

I want them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only thing I hide is the photos of me in lingerie as people can have them if the want them

I want them lol "

Done but you’re the first bloke to get them

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"Only thing I hide is the photos of me in lingerie as people can have them if the want them

I want them lol

Done but you’re the first bloke to get them "

Thanks pal (stunning)

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By *oveoldercouples99Man
over a year ago

Merton

The stigma and labels straight, bi and gay is a load of rubbish. Sites like fab and the swinging community in general actually show that most people are in fact bi. Anyone who has had a theeesome which includes someone of the same sex ie. 2 males + 1 female or vice versa is in some way bi. It doesn’t matter whether you touched or didn’t touch the person of the same sex. A threesome is a bisexual experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The stigma and labels straight, bi and gay is a load of rubbish. Sites like fab and the swinging community in general actually show that most people are in fact bi. Anyone who has had a theeesome which includes someone of the same sex ie. 2 males + 1 female or vice versa is in some way bi. It doesn’t matter whether you touched or didn’t touch the person of the same sex. A threesome is a bisexual experience. "

twoddle

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By *oveoldercouples99Man
over a year ago

Merton

Forgot to mention gangbangs with like 5 “straight” guys and one woman. Come on. It’s all bi. Humanity is mostly bi. But it’s all hidden in society. Stigma, marriage, religion, job security.

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"Forgot to mention gangbangs with like 5 “straight” guys and one woman. Come on. It’s all bi. Humanity is mostly bi. But it’s all hidden in society. Stigma, marriage, religion, job security. "

Bit deep

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By *unkhouser72Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester

I don't put bi as when I've disclosed it in the past couples/females have been put off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it on my profile, I know it puts some people off but others are looking for it.

If someone doesn’t like the fact that I’m bi then we probably aren’t a good match.

I’d feel dishonest setting it to something that I’m not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m open about my bisexuality on here. I’m pretty sure it’s not the main reason that the vast majority of women prefer not to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have it on my profile, I know it puts some people off but others are looking for it.

If someone doesn’t like the fact that I’m bi then we probably aren’t a good match.

I’d feel dishonest setting it to something that I’m not "

this exactly

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By *lintshire72Man
over a year ago

North Wales


"Only thing I hide is the photos of me in lingerie as people can have them if the want them

I want them lol

Done but you’re the first bloke to get them "

Can I out a request in too? Lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

People are entitled to identify how they like as far as I'm concerned, however IF they do so to get round those that won't meet bi guys, then they are closing a heck of a lot more doors than they are potentially opening and are deluded if they think otherwise.

As a bisexual man myself I'd not meet a guy that identified as straight (unless they provided a really compelling reason they do so) as I figure if they're hiding that, there could be any number of other things they are hiding.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Be out and proud guys, some of us ladies love bi men and would be more than happy to meet you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be out and proud guys, some of us ladies love bi men and would be more than happy to meet you! "

Unfortunately it’s still outweighed by those who would not, I know it’s certainly that way up here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be out and proud guys, some of us ladies love bi men and would be more than happy to meet you!

Unfortunately it’s still outweighed by those who would not, I know it’s certainly that way up here "

But then I’m not really attracted to lads as such, I’m more into convincing TVs

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"People are entitled to identify how they like as far as I'm concerned, however IF they do so to get round those that won't meet bi guys, then they are closing a heck of a lot more doors than they are potentially opening and are deluded if they think otherwise.

As a bisexual man myself I'd not meet a guy that identified as straight (unless they provided a really compelling reason they do so) as I figure if they're hiding that, there could be any number of other things they are hiding."

Me to, fed up of messages from ‘straight’ guys

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Be out and proud guys, some of us ladies love bi men and would be more than happy to meet you!

Unfortunately it’s still outweighed by those who would not, I know it’s certainly that way up here "

Yeah, I know, it's crap, women are encouraged to be bi, men are looked down upon if they are bi.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Be out and proud guys, some of us ladies love bi men and would be more than happy to meet you!

Unfortunately it’s still outweighed by those who would not, I know it’s certainly that way up here "

The thing is it's not - it just seems that way because people take more notice of people that say they won't - because it's there in black and white.

In my experience the overwhelming majority are either actively seeking bi guys, or aren't in the slightest bit bothered that someone is bisexual either way - those that won't meet bi guys are actually very much in the minority - they just stand out more because they say so.

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"Be out and proud guys, some of us ladies love bi men and would be more than happy to meet you!

Unfortunately it’s still outweighed by those who would not, I know it’s certainly that way up here

Yeah, I know, it's crap, women are encouraged to be bi, men are looked down upon if they are bi."

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By *hedireCouple
over a year ago

wigan

When we see profiles saying no bi guys we usually add to our block list. We can and do play straight but narrow minded peeps are not for us.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I turned my profile straight because I started to feel like the women do men like bees around honey lol but I only play with men and the hole bi thing if the woman gets off on it generally. But I don't hide it from anyone normally and say straight away most the time

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I’m bi and you’ll be surprised how many so called married straight men contact me on here

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland


"I turned my profile straight because I started to feel like the women do men like bees around honey lol but I only play with men and the hole bi thing if the woman gets off on it generally. But I don't hide it from anyone normally and say straight away most the time"
but is this a good reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned my profile straight because I started to feel like the women do men like bees around honey lol but I only play with men and the hole bi thing if the woman gets off on it generally. But I don't hide it from anyone normally and say straight away most the time"

reading your profile and veris scream straight guy and is the usual type of profile that messages us

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

West London

I changed my fab profile from bi-curious to bisexual after my first meet with a guy

In real life I don’t consider myself bisexual as I’m not attracted to men but enjoy the play

Never really considered it would mean some women don’t want to meet bi guys tbh

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"I changed my fab profile from bi-curious to bisexual after my first meet with a guy

In real life I don’t consider myself bisexual as I’m not attracted to men but enjoy the play

Never really considered it would mean some women don’t want to meet bi guys tbh"

Exceptionally honest of you. Good on ya

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"I changed my fab profile from bi-curious to bisexual after my first meet with a guy

In real life I don’t consider myself bisexual as I’m not attracted to men but enjoy the play

Never really considered it would mean some women don’t want to meet bi guys tbh"

Check out the 'watching bi guys' thread. It's very popular with the ladies

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By *eesside lingerie wearerMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I am bi and put it on my profile. Some will like and some won't but that's life x

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"I am bi and put it on my profile. Some will like and some won't but that's life x"

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

doesnt bother me as the type that ban a whole demographic due to sexuality is not the type of person I would want to mix with

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City

Change of subject but a question to all the sexy TGirls, TVs and CDs, do you find you attract more straight men then bi or curious?

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