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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, so I'm opening a topic about age and it's limitations....

If your a 25 year old man and you come across a stunning woman on here but the age restriction is limited to 30 and she is lets just say 40... I don't see the real point in it? I mean yeah fair enough if you were going to have a relationship and she doesnt want to look like a cradle snatcher to her friends but even with that... It's the 21st Century its the new in thing right now! Look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher... Most woman put it down to maturity... Well, most younger men are mature now days... So all I'm saying is dont knock it till you've tried it... If anything it should be flattering for the woman... Oh and even better with big breasts just thought I would throw that in there, you know me... Big Breasts addict! Ha ha...

Sean x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find it is called personal preference

Kat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should it be flattering? thats the kind of opinion that puts me off young men, should i be flattered because im not 21 and yet some young guy still wants tio fuck me, does he only want to fuck me because he feels i will be so honoured by his attention that i will jump at the chance?

why should i be any more flattered by a 25 year old mailing me than a young women?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Ok, so I'm opening a topic about age and it's limitations....

If your a 25 year old man and you come across a stunning woman on here but the age restriction is limited to 30 and she is lets just say 40... I don't see the real point in it? I mean yeah fair enough if you were going to have a relationship and she doesnt want to look like a cradle snatcher to her friends but even with that... It's the 21st Century its the new in thing right now! Look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher... Most woman put it down to maturity... Well, most younger men are mature now days... So all I'm saying is dont knock it till you've tried it... If anything it should be flattering for the woman... Oh and even better with big breasts just thought I would throw that in there, you know me... Big Breasts addict! Ha ha...

Sean x "

As has been said befor its personal choice ..would you honestly shag a 99yrs old woman ? i doubt it very much why do you have that as your preferance ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If anything it should be flattering for the woman... "

And thats the very attitude that makes us older women pass over younger guys like you.

I love meeting younger men and am quite happy to do so, but the majority are rude and uncommunicative, with a mindset that I should feel lucky that a buff young stud will throw a saggy bag like me their hallowed cock, and they last about 10 mins.

Young guys for party/club meets, older guys for long private sessions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you will find it is called personal preference

Kat x"
Thats exactly why my preference isnt his age group !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok, so I'm opening a topic about age and it's limitations....

If your a 25 year old man and you come across a stunning woman on here but the age restriction is limited to 30 and she is lets just say 40... I don't see the real point in it? I mean yeah fair enough if you were going to have a relationship and she doesnt want to look like a cradle snatcher to her friends but even with that... It's the 21st Century its the new in thing right now! Look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher... Most woman put it down to maturity... Well, most younger men are mature now days... So all I'm saying is dont knock it till you've tried it... If anything it should be flattering for the woman... Oh and even better with big breasts just thought I would throw that in there, you know me... Big Breasts addict! Ha ha...

Sean x

As has been said befor its personal choice ..would you honestly shag a 99yrs old woman ? i doubt it very much why do you have that as your preferance ?"

Only just noticed that, thanks for pointing it out lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Ok, so I'm opening a topic about age and it's limitations....

If your a 25 year old man and you come across a stunning woman on here but the age restriction is limited to 30 and she is lets just say 40... I don't see the real point in it? I mean yeah fair enough if you were going to have a relationship and she doesnt want to look like a cradle snatcher to her friends but even with that... It's the 21st Century its the new in thing right now! Look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher... Most woman put it down to maturity... Well, most younger men are mature now days... So all I'm saying is dont knock it till you've tried it... If anything it should be flattering for the woman... Oh and even better with big breasts just thought I would throw that in there, you know me... Big Breasts addict! Ha ha...

Sean x

As has been said befor its personal choice ..would you honestly shag a 99yrs old woman ? i doubt it very much why do you have that as your preferance ?

Only just noticed that, thanks for pointing it out lol "

ok so uve changed it to 55 so why that age then if age to u is just a number ?...u see ehat people are trying to say here its all about personal choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If anything it should be flattering for the woman...

And thats the very attitude that makes us older women pass over younger guys like you.

I love meeting younger men and am quite happy to do so, but the majority are rude and uncommunicative, with a mindset that I should feel lucky that a buff young stud will throw a saggy bag like me their hallowed cock, and they last about 10 mins.

Young guys for party/club meets, older guys for long private sessions."

Oh wow, I've put my foot right in it now... Can I retract that statement?

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I am so glad that fab have put the age filters on. Young guys always seem to say 'don't knock it until you have tried it'.

Some women / couples don't want to try it, and we should all be flattered that some younger guy wants to try and experiment.

Just except that people have preferences and age filters and move on.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Nah not flattered. Why should I be? We wouldn't meet a guy so arrogant as to think he was doing us a favour. It's not attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am so glad that fab have put the age filters on. Young guys always seem to say 'don't knock it until you have tried it'.

Some women / couples don't want to try it, and we should all be flattered that some younger guy wants to try and experiment.

Just except that people have preferences and age filters and move on."

Fair one, I see where your all coming from now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anything it should be flattering for the woman...

And thats the very attitude that makes us older women pass over younger guys like you.

I love meeting younger men and am quite happy to do so, but the majority are rude and uncommunicative, with a mindset that I should feel lucky that a buff young stud will throw a saggy bag like me their hallowed cock, and they last about 10 mins.

Young guys for party/club meets, older guys for long private sessions.

Oh wow, I've put my foot right in it now... Can I retract that statement? "

No you have already said it now lol

shes right tho it is the atitude of most men, go for the older birds cause they'll be easier to meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, most younger men are mature now days...

Really? Most of the couples i've met have had more bad experiences with younger guys than those a little older! There will always be exceptions - but i'll be honest and say that I don't think i'd have approached this in the right way when I was in my early 20's and would have seen this as a 'shag site' - rather than for what it is. (Ooh - am I opening a 'single guys/easy sex can of worms here?)

As others have said - we all have our preferences and i'm sure that if someone felt the urge to go outside of these on occasion i'm sure they're more than capable of searching themselves.

As for suggesting they should be flattered? Your a braver man than I !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah not flattered. Why should I be? We wouldn't meet a guy so arrogant as to think he was doing us a favour. It's not attractive. "

Understood, I can see what you all mean from your point of views now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwww bless - the reason we don't tend to meet younger guys is on the few occasions we have made plans with guys below our age settings we have been messed around and let down - I know not all younger guys do this but that has been our experience and certainly has put us off making private arrangements. I do like perving fit 20s+ guys and in a club situation would relish getting my hands mouth and pussy on one,

but in private meets its the mature gent every time, time is limited and we want to make the most of each oppurtunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a young guy should be flattered and think himself lucky if I decide to have sex with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its them that should be flattered to be meeting me

yeah i wish lol

*walks away whistling*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a young guy should be flattered and think himself lucky if I decide to have sex with him"

aww you beat me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, most younger men are mature now days...

Really? Most of the couples i've met have had more bad experiences with younger guys than those a little older! There will always be exceptions - but i'll be honest and say that I don't think i'd have approached this in the right way when I was in my early 20's and would have seen this as a 'shag site' - rather than for what it is. (Ooh - am I opening a 'single guys/easy sex can of worms here?)

As others have said - we all have our preferences and i'm sure that if someone felt the urge to go outside of these on occasion i'm sure they're more than capable of searching themselves.

As for suggesting they should be flattered? Your a braver man than I !! "

Alright mate, stop rubbing the salt in the wounds lol... I've come out with this the complete wrong way and understand why they have preference now... My bad, I'm in the wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, most younger men are mature now days...

Really? Most of the couples i've met have had more bad experiences with younger guys than those a little older! There will always be exceptions - but i'll be honest and say that I don't think i'd have approached this in the right way when I was in my early 20's and would have seen this as a 'shag site' - rather than for what it is. (Ooh - am I opening a 'single guys/easy sex can of worms here?)

As others have said - we all have our preferences and i'm sure that if someone felt the urge to go outside of these on occasion i'm sure they're more than capable of searching themselves.

As for suggesting they should be flattered? Your a braver man than I !!

Alright mate, stop rubbing the salt in the wounds lol... I've come out with this the complete wrong way and understand why they have preference now... My bad, I'm in the wrong."

Wasn't having a personal dig - and fair play for putting your hands up!! Feedback is only ever useful if you take it the right way!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a two way thing , I have to like them as people not just there looks the younger men ... i get alot of offers and so i can be very picky . I know its all about sex but i like a man who will not run off into the sunset after not chating for days untill he is looking for sex again with me .. some can make you feel fab and after its like your there just for them to cum and cum again and no matter about your needs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, most younger men are mature now days...

Really? Most of the couples i've met have had more bad experiences with younger guys than those a little older! There will always be exceptions - but i'll be honest and say that I don't think i'd have approached this in the right way when I was in my early 20's and would have seen this as a 'shag site' - rather than for what it is. (Ooh - am I opening a 'single guys/easy sex can of worms here?)

As others have said - we all have our preferences and i'm sure that if someone felt the urge to go outside of these on occasion i'm sure they're more than capable of searching themselves.

As for suggesting they should be flattered? Your a braver man than I !!

Alright mate, stop rubbing the salt in the wounds lol... I've come out with this the complete wrong way and understand why they have preference now... My bad, I'm in the wrong.

Wasn't having a personal dig - and fair play for putting your hands up!! Feedback is only ever useful if you take it the right way!

Good luck!"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"but in private meets its the mature gent every time, time is limited and we want to make the most of each oppurtunity "

This too. The younger men I have met have been harder to arrange meets with, more likely to cancel, and much more likely to stand me up.

Unlike the OP I don't want to generalise here, and have had some lovely one on one meets with under 30s, but they tend to take it less seriously and therefore are quite happy to 'forget' to text when they get a 'better' offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its a two way thing , I have to like them as people not just there looks the younger men ... i get alot of offers and so i can be very picky . I know its all about sex but i like a man who will not run off into the sunset after not chating for days untill he is looking for sex again with me .. some can make you feel fab and after its like your there just for them to cum and cum again and no matter about your needs. "

Would never be the situation if I was in the scenario...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I think you will find it is called personal preference

Kat x"

Op get over yourself...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you will find it is called personal preference

Kat x

Op get over yourself... "

No need for the dig did you not read that I said my bad and I was in the wrong...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"If anything it should be flattering for the woman...

And thats the very attitude that makes us older women pass over younger guys like you.

I love meeting younger men and am quite happy to do so, but the majority are rude and uncommunicative, with a mindset that I should feel lucky that a buff young stud will throw a saggy bag like me their hallowed cock, and they last about 10 mins.

Young guys for party/club meets, older guys for long private sessions."

Ohhh welcome back,missed your wise posts

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain

I think any man on here on his own should be grateful if anyone wants to meet him. It's a tough world out there and the OPs attitude frankly shows a disrespect for those he would like to meet. No one is God's gift and you need to work at it to arrange a meet. There are some lovely people on here and many are worldly wise and can see through bullshit, arrogance and downright rudeness.

OP, I suggest a different approach may get better results.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I think you will find it is called personal preference

Kat x

Op get over yourself...

No need for the dig did you not read that I said my bad and I was in the wrong... "

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I think you will find it is called personal preference

Kat x

Op get over yourself...

No need for the dig did you not read that I said my bad and I was in the wrong... "

no, i read the OP and respond to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't have a lower age limit when I joined, now I do, from experiences had on here. Even considering raising it to 30.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you will find it is called personal preference

Kat x

Op get over yourself...

No need for the dig did you not read that I said my bad and I was in the wrong...

no, i read the OP and respond to that."

fair one

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If anything it should be flattering for the woman...

And thats the very attitude that makes us older women pass over younger guys like you.

I love meeting younger men and am quite happy to do so, but the majority are rude and uncommunicative, with a mindset that I should feel lucky that a buff young stud will throw a saggy bag like me their hallowed cock, and they last about 10 mins.

Young guys for party/club meets, older guys for long private sessions.

Ohhh welcome back,missed your wise posts "

Hi hun . Not back for long. Just about to get on a train to Norfolk for a long needed holiday. But I'll be back after Easter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres no point in moaning about it buddy, thats just how it works on here and don't forget, women can be very, very selective on here.

I've said this before but why not just head on a night out (where things are more even) as there are always plenty of sexy cougar types looking for a handsome, younger guy.

Hell, I was only a young 18 year old whipper snapper when I pulled a very nice lady in her late 30's. Did she make an issue about my age? I think not and the sex was pretty, pretty, pretty good!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a two way thing , I have to like them as people not just there looks the younger men ... i get alot of offers and so i can be very picky . I know its all about sex but i like a man who will not run off into the sunset after not chating for days untill he is looking for sex again with me .. some can make you feel fab and after its like your there just for them to cum and cum again and no matter about your needs.

Would never be the situation if I was in the scenario... "
why would you never be in that scenario?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am not ageist against guys don't want any of them thats just me but i use to as a single girl have a strict rule that i would mess with anyone the same age as my nephews as it maybe there friends that felt worng to me and just my preference xxx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"If anything it should be flattering for the woman...

And thats the very attitude that makes us older women pass over younger guys like you.

I love meeting younger men and am quite happy to do so, but the majority are rude and uncommunicative, with a mindset that I should feel lucky that a buff young stud will throw a saggy bag like me their hallowed cock, and they last about 10 mins.

Young guys for party/club meets, older guys for long private sessions.

Ohhh welcome back,missed your wise posts

Hi hun . Not back for long. Just about to get on a train to Norfolk for a long needed holiday. But I'll be back after Easter. "

HAve a wonderful holiday

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

We've been fortunate in befriending a couple of guys mid twenties, incredibly respectful, intelligent, immaculately turned out and a credit to guys and the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you considered that some women in their 40's may have children around your age? For some it might not feel right, regardless of how great you think you are.......

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Oh and on the preference thing, older men turn me on...i dont fancy younger ones. Its not automatic that everyone is looking for the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only thing that pisses me off about younger men is that invariably they like curvy older women not fat old men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's down to personal preference. That's why when I start meets again it'll only be with 20-21 yr old blondes with long hair smooth complexion and slim bodies.

Sorry, did I miss out suntanned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course it's down to personal preference. That's why when I start meets again it'll only be with 20-21 yr old blondes with long hair smooth complexion and slim bodies.

Sorry, did I miss out suntanned?"

Typical single bloke - will shag anything!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so I'm opening a topic about age and it's limitations....

If your a 25 year old man and you come across a stunning woman on here but the age restriction is limited to 30 and she is lets just say 40... I don't see the real point in it? I mean yeah fair enough if you were going to have a relationship and she doesnt want to look like a cradle snatcher to her friends but even with that... It's the 21st Century its the new in thing right now! Look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher... Most woman put it down to maturity... Well, most younger men are mature now days... So all I'm saying is dont knock it till you've tried it... If anything it should be flattering for the woman... Oh and even better with big breasts just thought I would throw that in there, you know me... Big Breasts addict! Ha ha...

Sean x "

well dont matter its nowt you can change, and to be honest they probs wernt going to meet you even on your own merrits or they wouldnt of put up the age barrier, if you do get their attention they are free to contact you, so if you are right they would want you im sure they will be in touch to arrange it haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i am grateful that a fit young man wants to fuck me, and i dont mind saying so, only if he is nice though, and acts like a grown up.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

So glad you set your limit at 55 ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a young guy should be flattered and think himself lucky if I decide to have sex with him

aww you beat me lol"

she shagged him already? wow that was quick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the ladies should look at the older man lol. More experience on how to treat a sexy lady and can hold a conversation lol im not just saying that because im an oldie lol. And stamina in abundance ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a young guy should be flattered and think himself lucky if I decide to have sex with him

aww you beat me lol"

great minds think alike lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah not flattered. Why should I be? We wouldn't meet a guy so arrogant as to think he was doing us a favour. It's not attractive. "

If i meet a gorgeous looking young man, he is doing me a favour, and i am doing him a favour too. So what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of folk on here love the social side as much as the playing - sometimes perhaps more !

Bearing that in mind the age preference makes sense if you are gonna spend hours socialising - the common ground isn't there with that in mind .

So we do understand fully that it doesn't always work - we on the other hand swing for good sex and don't have age barriers !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love playing with younger guys.. Do I feel flattered.. Yes.. why shouldnt I.

Some women will take offence at anything these days..

and as to the age thing.. My son is 20, one of my fb 19.. does it bother me.. erm no, my only rule is not if they are mates with my Son.

cali

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By *ANWIDGESCouple
over a year ago

DONCASTER

Good fuck buddy of ours has an age limit that him and his partner stick too and they are very strict about it, nobody over 35 LOL

Then you look on his feedback and see dozens of couples between 40 and 50.

We don't have an age limit, physical attraction, good sense of humour, above all else.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Ok, so I'm opening a topic about age and it's limitations....

If your a 25 year old man and you come across a stunning woman on here but the age restriction is limited to 30 and she is lets just say 40... I don't see the real point in it? I mean yeah fair enough if you were going to have a relationship and she doesnt want to look like a cradle snatcher to her friends but even with that... It's the 21st Century its the new in thing right now! Look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher... Most woman put it down to maturity... Well, most younger men are mature now days... So all I'm saying is dont knock it till you've tried it... If anything it should be flattering for the woman... Oh and even better with big breasts just thought I would throw that in there, you know me... Big Breasts addict! Ha ha...

Sean x "

This started off okay. I got to the 'flattering' comment - I feel too angry to comment right now ... I shouldn't feel angry with children I know but every now and then stupidity just shines too brightly.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"I love playing with younger guys.. Do I feel flattered.. Yes.. why shouldnt I.

Some women will take offence at anything these days..

and as to the age thing.. My son is 20, one of my fb 19.. does it bother me.. erm no, my only rule is not if they are mates with my Son.

cali "

I take offence at the suggestion that some women will take offence at anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it flattering??? And who says we are knocking it? We are entitled to a preference where age is concerned, mine is for people my own age or are you saying that I and everyone else that has an age preference is not entitled or allowed to have one?

As to Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher, they have split up so hardly a good role model are they

And lucky me, I don't have big breasts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From our experience most young guys are either time wasters or wham bang guys or probably both.

Our age restriction is a minimum age of 40 but I'm sure you wouldn't be surprised to hear that we get lots of messages from guys in their 20's or 30's who obviously cannot even bother to read our profile.

We get lots of messages from single guys in their 20's or 30's whose profile states that they joined just a few weeks ago and do not have any pics or any verifications. As soon as you ask them for a pic they either disappear or make some lame excuse why they cannot provide one. It's usually that they have a very important job and cannot afford to be recognised.

Personally I have found that the more mature guy has a certain finesse and understanding that younger guys lack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did he quit the site because of this thread?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

LOL he buggered off.. be back with a new name soon no doubt .. spect he will be more careful how he words stuff in future ..

hehe maybe we ladies werent grateful enough..

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

See this is why ppl wont meet young guys...fuck off too quick

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"LOL he buggered off.. be back with a new name soon no doubt .. spect he will be more careful how he words stuff in future ..

hehe maybe we ladies werent grateful enough.. "

Yeah...owning your words must be a trait that comes with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok - which one of you upset ladies has been round and packed him off to finishing school ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See this is why ppl wont meet young guys...fuck off too quick "
some do we blow there brains , lol thay go of hide think about it all and come back , its the men cave thing , some hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blatently took the lesson of the thread as he should make a new account with a higher age haha

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples


"Have you considered that some women in their 40's may have children around your age? For some it might not feel right, regardless of how great you think you are......."

this is THE reason for my age limits. With parents that were young when they had me, so also have an upper limit too. Just feels too weird playing with people that could be my parents or kids peers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mature????? grow up ffs ..flattering

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Nothing... NOTHING more offputting than receiving a message from a young guy stating he prefers the mature lady... I dont want to be "chosen" based on any age criteria or to become a teacher to a young stud. I want to play with people who like me and find me attractive...

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city

im 42 i was asked if i wanted to get together with an 18 year old...... way to young for me.....i know i wouldn't feel right afterwards my lowest 26, at that age i think they are mature enough to know what they are doing

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

I think some people think we are all hear for the same thing and it is so not that.

some are on hear just to fuck as many people they can, meet after meet.

some think older single women are on hear because there lonely and need to attention to feel good or something and should be happy that some young guy should want to meet up with them.

we may be called time wasters because we haven't had a meet in a long time so even though we don't go asking for meets we shouldn't be hear.

it is not just this guy, i think a lot on hear (women or men) think we must be all the same but we need to understand we are not and should not be made feel like we should be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing... NOTHING more offputting than receiving a message from a young guy stating he prefers the mature lady... I dont want to be "chosen" based on any age criteria or to become a teacher to a young stud. I want to play with people who like me and find me attractive..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is a number and some 20s come across 40s 50s, lol I meet one he could not do this and that because he may hurt his back .. lol and then it was his leg so was wishing me on top . then said he was into sports.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is a number and some 20s come across 40s 50s, lol I meet one he could not do this and that because he may hurt his back .. lol and then it was his leg so was wishing me on top . then said he was into sports.lol "

The problem is that in this instance for example, this lad is the same age as my daughter and one year older than my son, kind of becomes yukky then though I have met a 25 yr old who was very nice but I just felt incredibly uncomfortable being seen in public and even more so when work colleagues of his walked past, made me think they thought I was a friend of his mother so wouldn't do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people think we are all hear for the same thing and it is so not that.

some are on hear just to fuck as many people they can, meet after meet.

some think older single women are on hear because there lonely and need to attention to feel good or something and should be happy that some young guy should want to meet up with them.

we may be called time wasters beause we haven't had a meet in a long time so even though we don't go asking for meets we shouldn't be hear.

it is not just this guy, i think a lot on hear (women or men) think we must be all the same but we need to understand we are not and should not be made feel like we should be."

Just saw this. Agree totally.

As for the OP, he apologised and clearly decided to delete, rethink and come back. Good luck to him. Nice to see he changed his thoughts.

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