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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any other girl with this dilemma lol

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By *ubynaughtyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Any other girl with this dilemma lol"

I’m the same, well I’m bi but I just don’t know how to flirt with girls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the same and I would have no idea if a women was trying to flirt with me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the same, I’ve had a few bi experiences when I was younger and single but find it difficult to flirt with women

That being said I’m not very good at flirting with men either and not a fan of cheesy chat up lines

-C

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What do you mean "not bi enough"?

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By *firsttimeCouple
over a year ago

halifax

"I’m the same and I would have no idea if a women was trying to flirt with me . "

Would love to go out girl on girl flirting then back to mine for a night of fun we could send our men some films x

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Any other girl with this dilemma lol

I’m the same, well I’m bi but I just don’t know how to flirt with girls!

Why don’t you 2 ladies just meet up? Sheffield and Leicestershire aren’t so far apart (and you are both gorgeous). No flirting necessary

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By *kylar-GreyWoman
over a year ago

northwest

Stop overthinking it & go with the flow!..

A few drinks to relax you?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any other girl with this dilemma lol"

Girl girl flirting lessons available

Can be a terrible flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like women, consider myself bi. No hesitation in playing but unless a woman ( or man) is very obvious I have no clue they’re interested or flirting. I don’t know how to flirt at all. It’s awkward and all I do is talk rubbish haha - Mrs

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don’t you say things like ‘ooh lovely hair’ and when they say ‘thank you’ add ‘do the curtains match the carpet?’ style chat up line?

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I'm the same I haven't the nerve to step over the line from being bi-curious to bi yet

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Ladies - come and join us at the all female event at The Townhouse on 17th Oct and practise those flirtin skills in a safe space

Mrs R xx

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm a terrible flirt I flirt with everyone!! I love flirting with women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to expand on my experiences that I've had with women so far but wouldn't have the first clue where to start!

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

Is it not just people talking to people and if something is there something will happen. Men, women we are all the same just looking for that connection no matter how temporary it may be.

Molly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haven't flirted with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good place to start is message them on here or some.

If you are in hotel, restaurant, bar/pub. Lady will come in and scan the area.

Try to make eye contact with a smile if she is interested then first she'll stay you'll be exchanging glancing looks...

Think of yourself in that scenario, what would you do.. messages welcome

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By *kylar-GreyWoman
over a year ago

northwest

"Ladies - come and join us at the all female event at The Townhouse on 17th Oct and practise those flirtin skills in a safe space

Mrs R xx"

A club I’ve got my eye on

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By *kylar-GreyWoman
over a year ago

northwest

When I’m into someone I make it obvious just look smile & keep doing it till you connect

Don’t over think it!! Keep it natural ,

I’ve had few girls who I’ve not connected with or scared em off

haha yes I’m a terrible flirt when I want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I’m into someone I make it obvious just look smile & keep doing it till you connect

Don’t over think it!! Keep it natural ,

I’ve had few girls who I’ve not connected with or scared em off

haha yes I’m a terrible flirt when I want to be

Is that username after the Skylar grey singer?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I find flirting with women so much easier ..who knows women more than other women ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very bi fair bit of experience but I struggle to flirt and play can be tough of we both shy have to really push myself to make a move.

Once it's started though it's great

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I can flirt, my trouble is how to go from flirting to playing ! and understanding if the people I am flirting with are flirting or want to move to playing (not that the thread is about guys, but I bet some ladies have the same issue).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be at VA this Saturday if any woman wants to play

Sara

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

If you're not bi enough to flirt, are you bi enough to play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel like a seedy bloke when I flirt with women. Come out with the worst leery lines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have exchange glances and smiles, she knows you're with your partner but have made a connection.

You have her interest now she may find a table near you and in view of you, hopefully slightly move your chair until you're at an angle to her, it's all about body language. Then you make your way to the ladies she may ask partner to watch her drink or her coat and heads for the ladies also. There you can make verbal contact, touch up your makeup rearrange yourself in front of the mirror and her. Ice broken. Next is when the real flirting fun starts...

When people talk about flirting they also forget body language.

So bi ladies would this work for do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really no.

Are you sure you're just not confident around women? Lots of women seem to be passive or even submissive when it comes to same sex.

My issue is a lot of women mistake my flirting for being polite and complimentary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always feel like a seedy bloke when I flirt with women. Come out with the worst leery lines."

From my experiences if there is a connection attraction on both sides, be natural. Your don't need any kind of leery lines, your body will do the talking for you. It has a language all of its own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can flirt, my trouble is how to go from flirting to playing ! and understanding if the people I am flirting with are flirting or want to move to playing (not that the thread is about guys, but I bet some ladies have the same issue)."

Ladies have a different way of expressing themselves, it is how to read their body language. Eyes are very expressive, good starting point and not their boobs, look observe

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for me I’m afraid. Although I’m also the worst kind as I could definitely accept oral but am unsure in the situation if I’d reciprocate. This is why I’m yet to take the plunge. It wouldn’t be fair lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any women reading this that wants to practice their flirt with me drop me a line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"I'm the same I haven't the nerve to step over the line from being bi-curious to bi yet

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well theyre a mixture Dolly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really no.

Are you sure you're just not confident around women? Lots of women seem to be passive or even submissive when it comes to same sex.

My issue is a lot of women mistake my flirting for being polite and complimentary."

Good point. Maybe women are used to being flirted at by men and have never initiated the flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really no.

Are you sure you're just not confident around women? Lots of women seem to be passive or even submissive when it comes to same sex.

My issue is a lot of women mistake my flirting for being polite and complimentary.

Good point. Maybe women are used to being flirted at by men and have never initiated the flirting. "

Guys tend to be a lot more brazen. But also its MF thing, FF tend to be more subtle but also our upbringing.

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By *ubynaughtyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

"I'm very bi fair bit of experience but I struggle to flirt and play can be tough of we both shy have to really push myself to make a move.

Once it's started though it's great

This is my problem, I’m too shy! I haven’t been with a girl before but know I’m definitely bi, it’s just getting over the shyness to actually do something! X

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By *ACHAEL JONESTV/TS
over a year ago

CHESTER

Anyone want to flirt with me

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"I always feel like a seedy bloke when I flirt with women. Come out with the worst leery lines."

This! And I'm certainly bi... I'm still not sure how I've ended up with the girlfriends I have...

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

If the attraction is mutual then the rest follows ....

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

It must be difficult because you can’t just send a load of cock pics.

Job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really no.

Are you sure you're just not confident around women? Lots of women seem to be passive or even submissive when it comes to same sex.

My issue is a lot of women mistake my flirting for being polite and complimentary.

Good point. Maybe women are used to being flirted at by men and have never initiated the flirting. "

I definitely feel this is a huge part of the issue.

For me when I'm alone it's obvious if I like a girl but with my partner I hang back alot because I don't want to make women uncomfortable.

If we met a couple with a bi fem though I'd be a lot more upfront with my advances.

I have always known of my sexuality though. My first kiss and first time having sex was with a woman So my confidence is probably down to comfortability.

I have also been the first bi experience for a few women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m the same and I would have no idea if a women was trying to flirt with me . "

I don’t think I’d notice if anyone was flirting with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really no.

Are you sure you're just not confident around women? Lots of women seem to be passive or even submissive when it comes to same sex.

My issue is a lot of women mistake my flirting for being polite and complimentary.

Good point. Maybe women are used to being flirted at by men and have never initiated the flirting.

I definitely feel this is a huge part of the issue.

For me when I'm alone it's obvious if I like a girl but with my partner I hang back alot because I don't want to make women uncomfortable.

If we met a couple with a bi fem though I'd be a lot more upfront with my advances.

I have always known of my sexuality though. My first kiss and first time having sex was with a woman So my confidence is probably down to comfortability.

I have also been the first bi experience for a few women."

Is it your partner you don't want to make uncomfortable? Not sure why you think you would make another bi female uncomfortable with your partner. Certainly that being with my partner certainly I wouldn't hang back.

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By *isa29ukWoman
over a year ago

Clapham

Very much in this boat, kissed a few when I was younger and tipsy-left me intrigued!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really no.

Are you sure you're just not confident around women? Lots of women seem to be passive or even submissive when it comes to same sex.

My issue is a lot of women mistake my flirting for being polite and complimentary.

Good point. Maybe women are used to being flirted at by men and have never initiated the flirting.

I definitely feel this is a huge part of the issue.

For me when I'm alone it's obvious if I like a girl but with my partner I hang back alot because I don't want to make women uncomfortable.

If we met a couple with a bi fem though I'd be a lot more upfront with my advances.

I have always known of my sexuality though. My first kiss and first time having sex was with a woman So my confidence is probably down to comfortability.

I have also been the first bi experience for a few women.

Some women seem intimidated by a couple pouncing on them. So I just let them come to us mostly haha it's just my way of being respectful

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Think it’s time v went to a gay bar and see, if she scores

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really no.

Are you sure you're just not confident around women? Lots of women seem to be passive or even submissive when it comes to same sex.

My issue is a lot of women mistake my flirting for being polite and complimentary.

Good point. Maybe women are used to being flirted at by men and have never initiated the flirting.

I definitely feel this is a huge part of the issue.

For me when I'm alone it's obvious if I like a girl but with my partner I hang back alot because I don't want to make women uncomfortable.

If we met a couple with a bi fem though I'd be a lot more upfront with my advances.

I have always known of my sexuality though. My first kiss and first time having sex was with a woman So my confidence is probably down to comfortability.

I have also been the first bi experience for a few women.

Some women seem intimidated by a couple pouncing on them. So I just let them come to us mostly haha it's just my way of being respectful"

I guess yes though my partner would take a backwards step mist of the interaction would be the 2 ladies. I guess he's seen it all before certainly wouldn't be trying to get into her pants that's just me lol

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Ladies - come and join us at the all female event at The Townhouse on 17th Oct and practise those flirtin skills in a safe space

Mrs R xx"

Was just going to say the same xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really no.

Are you sure you're just not confident around women? Lots of women seem to be passive or even submissive when it comes to same sex.

My issue is a lot of women mistake my flirting for being polite and complimentary.

Good point. Maybe women are used to being flirted at by men and have never initiated the flirting.

I definitely feel this is a huge part of the issue.

For me when I'm alone it's obvious if I like a girl but with my partner I hang back alot because I don't want to make women uncomfortable.

If we met a couple with a bi fem though I'd be a lot more upfront with my advances.

I have always known of my sexuality though. My first kiss and first time having sex was with a woman So my confidence is probably down to comfortability.

I have also been the first bi experience for a few women.

Some women seem intimidated by a couple pouncing on them. So I just let them come to us mostly haha it's just my way of being respectful"

Sorry daft question... Do you mean in clubs?

I feel the same. I never know if they are straight so wouldn't flirt for fear of offending them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really no.

Are you sure you're just not confident around women? Lots of women seem to be passive or even submissive when it comes to same sex.

My issue is a lot of women mistake my flirting for being polite and complimentary.

Good point. Maybe women are used to being flirted at by men and have never initiated the flirting.

I definitely feel this is a huge part of the issue.

For me when I'm alone it's obvious if I like a girl but with my partner I hang back alot because I don't want to make women uncomfortable.

If we met a couple with a bi fem though I'd be a lot more upfront with my advances.

I have always known of my sexuality though. My first kiss and first time having sex was with a woman So my confidence is probably down to comfortability.

I have also been the first bi experience for a few women.

Some women seem intimidated by a couple pouncing on them. So I just let them come to us mostly haha it's just my way of being respectful

Sorry daft question... Do you mean in clubs?

I feel the same. I never know if they are straight so wouldn't flirt for fear of offending them.

Yes in the club this applies. As for arranged meets and socials you already know they are interested in you to a degree so the flow should be a lot easier!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think it's a lack of confidence with my body,and a lack of experience,I'd be more comfortable with a woman with experience of a similar age that would take full control. X

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over a year ago

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Any women reading this that wants to practice their flirt with me drop me a line

I'll happily agree with this!

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