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By *ill.will OP Man
over a year ago

Hi all,

I'm getting more and more curious about playing with a guy, mainly sucking cock, I've played a bit and wanked a couple of guys off but haven't sucked yet, but getting to the point where I just need to jump in and do it. Fine in fantasy, but put a hard cock in front of me I don't know if I'll freeze and bottle it!

Any advice or experiences that might help me!

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure to find someone that attracts you and makes it irresistible to suck

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By *lueyes69Man
over a year ago

coventry

I chatted with guy for bout a yr then he was bout an hr away staying in hotel so went met him . Wanked and sucked his cock now need to do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe have one drink for dutch courage. Make sure you seen dick in advance to make sure you like look of it. Be honest with the guy you are not experienced sucking, you will feel less pressured. Make sure you have a moist mouth with water first before starting. Enjoy

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

West London

It took me years to pluck up the courage to try

On my first meet we were just wanking each other and then he asked if I wanted to give it a suck, I knew in my mind that I’d already gone this far so might as well go the whole way now. I lent forward and licked him, then took him into my mouth and it felt great.

I’m so glad I tried it and hope I get to do it again

Good luck and have fun!

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Not sure why you'd freeze and bottle it, you've already wanked guys off, surely putting a cock in your mouth is not such a big step up?

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

I'm not sure I'd want my cock frozen or bottled to be honest, all seems a bit Hannibal Lecterish to me.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s a body part, not much difference than sucking your thumb. So I don’t see why you would freeze if it’s bouncing against your cheek, especially if you’re turned on.

The psychological part of pleasuring another man orally, could be an issue with you though, so make sure you’ve agreed beforehand what you’re willing to do. And then act out the fantasy with a caveat in your head that if you don’t enjoy it, it’s just another act you participated in but it’s not for you.

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By *amRod64Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

always a bit nervous first time...but worth it

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By *aysolCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

"Hi all,

Any advice or experiences that might help me!

Thanks"

Just go for it. I think you're overthinking it which isnt helpful. Maybe have a drink to losen up but not enough to be d*unk as that could be messy...

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Just do it! After some kissing and wanking it will come naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the exact same pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought about it for ages then after chatting for a while went for it. Was really turned on and really enjoyed it. Now I am picky and make sure I like the look of it and who it is attached to first

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Very much worth it. And it's really going to help with meeting on here as women are few and far between

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

In the moment, it's OK. I've only played with one guy in a quick hotel meet. It happened so fast I didn't have time to over think it. Afterwards, I didn't feel ashamed like I thought I would. It was just like 'cool so that's a thing I've done'

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

Just do it. Within seconds you'll wish you hadn't hesitated!

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Meet a guy who is understanding and patient and who has a cock which turns you on. Go for it! Life is too short!

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

You will also quickly discover a new found respect for anyone who's every gone down on you. It's harder than it looks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You will also quickly discover a new found respect for anyone who's every gone down on you. It's harder than it looks!

so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to suck a cock with another guy its very hot double the pleasure for the one receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love to suck a cock with another guy its very hot double the pleasure for the one receiving

On my to-do list!

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

"Love to suck a cock with another guy its very hot double the pleasure for the one receiving

O yes! Its amazing, whether I'm the one sharing the cock or recieving the double sucking. Absolutely incredible.

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

West London

"You will also quickly discover a new found respect for anyone who's every gone down on you. It's harder than it looks!

so true"

Haha I remember thinking exactly the same thing - feels huge in your mouth!

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By *ill.will OP Man
over a year ago

Great advice guys, much appreciated.

Now to find a nice cock.....

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"You will also quickly discover a new found respect for anyone who's every gone down on you. It's harder than it looks!

so true

Haha I remember thinking exactly the same thing - feels huge in your mouth! "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Try meeting a couple with a lady and a bi bloke. Might be easier to handle.

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

"You will also quickly discover a new found respect for anyone who's every gone down on you. It's harder than it looks!

so true

Haha I remember thinking exactly the same thing - feels huge in your mouth! "

That does depend on the size of the mouth and the size of the cock!

I love a cock being forced down my throat. I'd love to try an 8"-9" cock!

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By *ill.will OP Man
over a year ago

"Try meeting a couple with a lady and a bi bloke. Might be easier to handle. "

Would love too, but not sure many out there who want a bi guy would want a newbie who might wimp out.

Unless I'm completely wrong then couples message me!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first bi experience was in a sauna in Pennant Hall.

Sitting in the sauna,on my towel. A guy comes in and sits directly opposite me. He was staring between my legs for a good 5 mins. I let him look as I was curious to see what would happen next.

Suffice to say,he lent forward and closed his hand around my soft cock and proceeded to stroke me. I was surprised how quickly I got hard. His head was down in a flash and he was slurping on my cock. He did gag trying to be too greedy. I’m not exactly small in the sausage department.

It was very good though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

Any advice or experiences that might help me!

Thanks"

Maybe find a couple with a bi guy and do suck him off together...

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

"Hi all,

Any advice or experiences that might help me!

Thanks

Maybe find a couple with a bi guy and do suck him off together..."

Great advice

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By *ill.will OP Man
over a year ago

"Hi all,

Any advice or experiences that might help me!

Thanks

Maybe find a couple with a bi guy and do suck him off together...

Great advice

That's the ultimate goal/fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only sucked cock once. I was really nervous, but because I know the kind of things I like I applied them and then experimented as my confidence grew to see what pushed his buttons. It worked out fine.

Just find someone you like and like the look of them naked. You’ll be fine. I wouldn’t bother having a drink it’s better to experience it sober.

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By *ozz3rMan
over a year ago

finchampstead

I’m in the same boat as the poster on this thread, I’ve played before but not since I was in school. Would love to try it again.

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By *ockHardMcrCockMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I got a surprise message off a couple one night - are you looking for bi MMF with DP / DVP but you must suck cock, had always wanted to DP / DVP so said yes, was dead nervous, played stroking etc, she asked me to go down on him .. !!! The look on her face, the taste of his cock..... and when they shared me OMG !! Love it

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Love to suck a cock with another guy its very hot double the pleasure for the one receiving

It certainly adds to the buzz when sharing a cock with a lady, taking it in turns to suck the shaft and head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time was with a random guy I met on a nude beach. It happened so fast that before I knew what to say - I was already doing it and it was over. Had mine sucked so often by girls that I just copied what they did. His cock wasn't erect yet, so I sucked his balls, and then I felt his shaft stiffen inside my mouth and gagged on it 'deep throat' style just for fun. His body temperature was about the same as mine, so it felt the same as putting a warm finger in my mouth (only larger and deeper) and the taste of warm milk down my throat and chin. He came early so it only lasted about a minute. He was spanish and spoke with broken english. He thanked me and said his wife couldn't please him like that, and happily walked back and sat next to her on the beach again. Wonder if she knew what we just did. It happened so fast that I felt the same before and after the experience. Perhaps if I knew the guy and it lasted longer then it might have been a more memorable and erotic experience. Maybe next time.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

By the time I sucked my first cock I was already used to being sucked by guys before fucking their wife or girlfriend.

At the time I was once again inside another mans sexy wife. While I fucked her she had her mouth wrapped around his rather large yummy looking white cock. My face was just inches away and I was mesmerized. I just couldn't stop myself I kissed his wife while sliding my lips over his cock all while ever so slowly sliding in and out of her sweetness......damn even the memory gets me all worked up.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman 'helps' during the initial activity then it should be more acceptable to your inhibitions and you will be ready to go it alone...

Unfortunately finding a friendly, helpful female will be more difficult to find..

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

Just get down, put it near your mouth, and start repeating word "Ohio", rest will kick in when you have it in your mouth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started by meeting a bi couple and sucked my first cock then.. to be honest I sucked it like I'd want my cock sucked and the guy came sooo quickly he said it was the best bj he had ever had.. All I can say is just do it exactly how you would want to have it done to you and you can't go wrong x

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By *aysolCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

"I started by meeting a bi couple and sucked my first cock then.. to be honest I sucked it like I'd want my cock sucked and the guy came sooo quickly he said it was the best bj he had ever had.. All I can say is just do it exactly how you would want to have it done to you and you can't go wrong x"

Exactly. In general guys suck cock better because they know exactly what feels best

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Exactly. In general guys suck cock better because they know exactly what feels best

I can only say give it a go if you feel that’s what you want to do because most guys do suck well - they know what it feels like

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

"My first bi experience was in a sauna in Pennant Hall.

I really miss Pennant!

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By *aysolCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

"My first bi experience was in a sauna in Pennant Hall.

Sitting in the sauna,on my towel. A guy comes in and sits directly opposite me. He was staring between my legs for a good 5 mins. I let him look as I was curious to see what would happen next.

It was very good though!

Im not surprised. I dont think I would be able to take my eyes off it either

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london

I left it until I was 50 even tho I wanted a cock from. Let’s say before work.

Regret not trying it before.

Try it. If you don’t like it at least you had a go.

Good luck.

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By *aughtyman45Man
over a year ago

lincoln

I have to say my first time felt a little strange but I was so turned on I just went for it doing to it what I like to feel and the guy mooned like hell so I must have been doing something right !

Choose well and it will pay dividends. Take your time and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be careful not to spend to long over thinking it and perusing the profiles looking for the 'perfect' partner. Being online tends to make people look for their unicorn, and the dismiss people out of hand that would be a suitable meet for them. They end up never meeting because if you study something enough, you end up finding faults that aren't even there.

You might find a profile that looks perfect, have a quick chat or message and then think - hell no.

It's not about dropping all your standards, but when you are out on the town trying to chat up a woman, you'd be surprised how often you'll end up interested in one that isn't even close to your preconceived ideals. Same goes for a guy.

Try chatting to a few you'd be hopeful with and see how it goes. As a rule, guys on here aren't real big on the 'chat'.

Otherwise, get yourself out down the local cruisey spots and see what pops up ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first bi experience was in a sauna in Pennant Hall.

I really miss Pennant! "

I’ve met you both there-a few years back now.

How are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time was with a friend and her ex. She had said previously she liked watching men together so I asked her if I met someone would she come with me. She said she could arrange something with her ex if I wanted. They took things slowly and there was no pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think of it like this, it's just skin and might as well be a clitoris (albeit a huge one) it's the portal to sexual pleasure..

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By *obyorkMan
over a year ago

Keighley

My first ever sexual encounter was as a teen with the guy who lived next door, same age as me. We were both horny and got our cocks out and watched each other wank. This progressed and eventually we wanked each other.

I always wished I'd been forward enough to suck him, but it was years before I managed to feel a cock in my mouth. Since then, and with the rise of online sites such as this, I've suck countless guys' cocks. I love the feel of a big stiff dick in my mouth and the feel of hot cum sliding down my throat.

Still prefer pussy if I can get it, but guys seem more willing to meet and get straight down to it.

Now I just think how great it is to be able to have sex with both men and women rather than restricting myself to just 50 per cent of humanity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly. In general guys suck cock better because they know exactly what feels best

I can only say give it a go if you feel that’s what you want to do because most guys do suck well - they know what it feels like "

Don’t fully agree. It’s different by gender by person. Key is with all play, it’s for everybody playing so look and listen to what’s happening and learn.

Xx C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think if you’re tempted you should try it though - we only live once so be a shame not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time sucking cock was during a meet with a married couple. I’d been thinking so much about playing with and sucking off cock I got to the point where I just had to find out if I’d enjoy it.

We prearranged a scenario where I would be alone with the lady first and get me all turned on and then her husband would ‘come home’ and find us in bed together...

Turns out that once I’m turned on there’s very little I won’t do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different for everyone but will say its addictive once you go for it

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