FabSwingers.com forum: No replies No meet requests/interest

By *andleme OP Man
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Hi there

I struggle get a meet arrangement . My messages are read and no reply. Sometimes I get replies like *not looking to meet* whilst they post 2 days later saying they have been let down. I never ask to meet in my first message neither do I say anything nasty or dirty.

Am a straight polite guy who enjoys life.

I begin to wonder if my profile is not appealing.

Please suggest /comment

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"Hi there

Am a straight polite guy who enjoys life.

I begin to wonder if my profile is not appealing.

Please suggest /comment "

I, for one, read profiles (as do many women) and yours is, to be blunt, pretty bland. Cheeky banter? tell me! --not just saying that you're cheeky, but...show it in your profile! as I haven't had a message from you, I can't comment on that, but yes, we can tell if it's based on our own profile write up or a copy and paste.

Be creative! Get us engaged!

In other words, tell me (us) in your profile as well as in your messages why we'd want to meet YOU, not the other guy who let us down.

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By *andleme OP Man
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Thank you for the honest feedback. Will work on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No public pictures op personally i like to see some public pics your profile was fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say clubs what do you mean? Nightclubs?

Swingers clubs are a great way to meet people so my advice is give it a go. I was a club virgin just two short weeks ago and I loved every minute. And I got a verification from a lovely couple.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We're a couple who meet single guys (when they turn up) and in all honesty if you'd messaged us you'd get deleted, probably without a reply. Your profile pic is hard to make out and you have no public pics do there's nothing for Char to tell if she likes you. There's nothing in your profile to make you stand out.

Sorry.

Bry (and Char)

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

You don't have to go to clubs to meet people no matter how many times some say so. You just need to talk to people and attract peoples attention. Reading peoples profiles are always a clue in how to do that.

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