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By *nkedMilf OP   Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

Does anyone else now struggle in the vanilla world?

I literally have no idea how to take normal people anymore, the whole dating scene is a minefield!

On here, when you meet people you know what it's for. Mostly there's no lines or lies. But good god, guys in the real world will literally say anything!

I think my place is firmly in swinging world, please tell I'm not alone on this?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not alone there.

It's also the lack of judgement, the openness, and the ease of it.

We think it's great, plus it still feels a bit illicit!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says more about you than other people. It's really sad that what you do in the bedroom has warped you into losing any sense of reality

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By *as_no_ideaWoman
over a year ago

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You are not alone.

10+ years in kink..

New to swinging..

Definitely would be out of my depth in "nilla-land"

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

No. I am still more vanilla than not.

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By *nkedMilf OP   Woman
over a year ago

Colchester


"It says more about you than other people. It's really sad that what you do in the bedroom has warped you into losing any sense of reality "

Not entirely sure how you think I've lost my sense of reality. But thanks for the input

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By *rief EncountersCouple
over a year ago

on the Oxfordshire Borders


"It says more about you than other people. It's really sad that what you do in the bedroom has warped you into losing any sense of reality "

In your opinion

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By *as_no_ideaWoman
over a year ago

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"It says more about you than other people. It's really sad that what you do in the bedroom has warped you into losing any sense of reality

Not entirely sure how you think I've lost my sense of reality. But thanks for the input "

I also struggled with the relevance of the previous response.

I don't think it makes a "losing a sense of reality"

I think it actually opens oneself up

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

Yep, I get it

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By *ilthy and ProudCouple
over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon


"Does anyone else now struggle in the vanilla world?

I literally have no idea how to take normal people anymore, the whole dating scene is a minefield!

On here, when you meet people you know what it's for. Mostly there's no lines or lies. But good god, guys in the real world will literally say anything!

I think my place is firmly in swinging world, please tell I'm not alone on this?! "

I can relate. My experience is minimal but, having lived a vanilla life for years this is definitely my way forward. At the cost of all else. Ellen ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It says more about you than other people. It's really sad that what you do in the bedroom has warped you into losing any sense of reality

Not entirely sure how you think I've lost my sense of reality. But thanks for the input "

Your struggling in the real world and don't know how to take normal people

That's real life. If you can't have normal conversations with people that's not swinging related then I'm sorry but that's not normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It says more about you than other people. It's really sad that what you do in the bedroom has warped you into losing any sense of reality

In your opinion"

Yeah it's my opinion

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By *nkedMilf OP   Woman
over a year ago

Colchester


"It says more about you than other people. It's really sad that what you do in the bedroom has warped you into losing any sense of reality

Not entirely sure how you think I've lost my sense of reality. But thanks for the input

Your struggling in the real world and don't know how to take normal people

That's real life. If you can't have normal conversations with people that's not swinging related then I'm sorry but that's not normal "

I think you read way to much into it, of course I'm well aware of how to talk to people.

I was referring to the dating scene and the lack of honesty in it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no difference in either 'worlds'. People lie to get a fuck. Swinging isn't open minded. Swingers cheat the same as non-swingers.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"There's no difference in either 'worlds'. People lie to get a fuck. Swinging isn't open minded. Swingers cheat the same as non-swingers. "

yeah I'd agree with that.

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By *rief EncountersCouple
over a year ago

on the Oxfordshire Borders


"It says more about you than other people. It's really sad that what you do in the bedroom has warped you into losing any sense of reality

In your opinion

Yeah it's my opinion "

Based on your life experiences not the OPs

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

Is this an online catfight??

May be better if claws were not out!

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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...


"It says more about you than other people. It's really sad that what you do in the bedroom has warped you into losing any sense of reality

Not entirely sure how you think I've lost my sense of reality. But thanks for the input

Your struggling in the real world and don't know how to take normal people

That's real life. If you can't have normal conversations with people that's not swinging related then I'm sorry but that's not normal

I think you read way to much into it, of course I'm well aware of how to talk to people.

I was referring to the dating scene and the lack of honesty in it...."

It was the lack of honesty that really got to me too. Guys telling me they wanted to date when actually they just wanted to get their leg over. Just be honest with me!!!!

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