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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is not a fantasy so do not ask me to move it to that section haha. Had an unusual experience in a straight city centre bar last Thursday. After work I went for a drink and as walking in noticed a lad looking at me but never think anything of it, I was in my smart work suit and I notice people look when I am dressed like that.

Later in the toilet, the same lad was in there. Urinals are on two sections of walls, he was on other but I could see in small reflective window in front of me him looking back at me. I looked round twice and caught him looking at me.

As he was good looking, nicely dresses and masculine (my type) I thought I would test him, I am not shy. I moved near him and didn't say or do anything. He got an erection without me touching him, to me it being an invitation.

I wanked him a little but he was tense, did not stop me though. It was quick wank on him due to risky environment and not being the place for it. He did not cum and walked away to wash his hands and when I looked back he was looking at me drying his hands like a rabbit in headlights.

I left it at that. I passed him today in street in city centre by typocal coincidence and he looked a little awkward. I dont know what to make of it, really bemusing. I have pulled lads before in straight venues (not deliberately!) but they were clearly bisexual as knew what they were doing.

Do you think he was maybe bicurious but not really sure and it actually happening shell shocked him?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Cool story..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol I am not lying I swear on my life this happened

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A bit of bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A bit of bi. "

But why would a bisexual be like that? I can’t work it out other than him being bicurious but not acting on it. Strange experience for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess if he wasn't bi he wouldn't get the horn.

I was approached by a man in a public toilets once and my immediate reaction was to leg it lol.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A bit of bi.

But why would a bisexual be like that? I can’t work it out other than him being bicurious but not acting on it. Strange experience for me"

Cos he was straight but bi curious and freaked out. Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess if he wasn't bi he wouldn't get the horn.

I was approached by a man in a public toilets once and my immediate reaction was to leg it lol. "

That is understandable mate lol. Bad though as the person did not know how you swang and many gays believe it or not disapprove of toilet sex these days on top, so you could have been either.

As for him being bi I still cant understand why so tense, it was weird. Never had that in my life

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By *unkhouser72Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester

Sounds like he's curious but never acted on it. He's probably kicking himself and hasn't stopped wanking over it since. Always the horniest experiences when they are unexpected. If your out on the pull have a card with your Kik username on it and give it them, then if they bottle it they can always contact you. Gaudi72

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha yes thought I would do something like that with a lad in gym I am unsure about before I move away. Shame the app is being closed down now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows....but can i watch next time please? Im a totes lil deviant when it comes to mm stuff .....Mrs K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well seeing as you have nice boobs and tattoos you can have a watch next time haha

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By *unkhouser72Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester


"Who knows....but can i watch next time please? Im a totes lil deviant when it comes to mm stuff .....Mrs K "

Would it turn you on if a guy flirted with your fella in front of you completely ignoring you ?

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

Did the guy actually consent? Verbally or gave you a head nod to touch him. Did you ask him if you could?

Would you assume an erection is an invite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did the guy actually consent? Verbally or gave you a head nod to touch him. Did you ask him if you could?

Would you assume an erection is an invite?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did the guy actually consent? Verbally or gave you a head nod to touch him. Did you ask him if you could?

Would you assume an erection is an invite?

"

Lol exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious for sure had a few similar experiences with ladies in public toilets !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Curious for sure had a few similar experiences with ladies in public toilets !!"

Interesting did not think this went on in the ladies loos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious for sure had a few similar experiences with ladies in public toilets !!

Interesting did not think this went on in the ladies loos "

Just have a few more soft furnishings in our cottages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Curious for sure had a few similar experiences with ladies in public toilets !!

Interesting did not think this went on in the ladies loos

Just have a few more soft furnishings in our cottages "

Hopefully colour co-ordinated haha

I used to have discussions with a lot of lesbians in past about dogging and they said they would do it but no girl on girl places exist. Makes sense I guess due to safety aspect with males wandering in. I guess it makes sense the toilets would be safest option for the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess if he wasn't bi he wouldn't get the horn.

I was approached by a man in a public toilets once and my immediate reaction was to leg it lol. "
dont blame you.am the same around bi woman. I aint intrested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious for sure had a few similar experiences with ladies in public toilets !!

Interesting did not think this went on in the ladies loos

Just have a few more soft furnishings in our cottages

Hopefully colour co-ordinated haha

I used to have discussions with a lot of lesbians in past about dogging and they said they would do it but no girl on girl places exist. Makes sense I guess due to safety aspect with males wandering in. I guess it makes sense the toilets would be safest option for the ladies "

Ladies only club nights bit more sophisticated !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Curious for sure had a few similar experiences with ladies in public toilets !!

Interesting did not think this went on in the ladies loos

Just have a few more soft furnishings in our cottages

Hopefully colour co-ordinated haha

I used to have discussions with a lot of lesbians in past about dogging and they said they would do it but no girl on girl places exist. Makes sense I guess due to safety aspect with males wandering in. I guess it makes sense the toilets would be safest option for the ladies

Ladies only club nights bit more sophisticated !! "

You mean swinging ones as oppose to normal club nights? If they exist purely for women I will pass it on to the girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say he's bi curious and inexperienced. And also in a relationship with a woman so worried she will find out. Hence the rabbit in headlights appearance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say he's bi curious and inexperienced. And also in a relationship with a woman so worried she will find out. Hence the rabbit in headlights appearance."

Yes good point. I did not think about the girlfriend aspect, very possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab straight?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Sure you never seen him before? Fair chance he could of you if your the out and about type? Probably been suppressing all these little thoughts and urges hes been collecting iver the years. After seeing you then, bit of dutch courage, hes gone in there and waited. Hes thought about it more and more. When you went it he was probaly excited you had but also sacred as shit. He knew what he watned to happen, but do i, dont i..he knew what he wanted, but he was sacred, scared to let it happen, scared what it would mean about him, confused why he likes it, wanted to like it, but wouldn't or couldnt let himself there and then. Keep your eye out. I wouldn't be surprised if you " walked passed" each other more from now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sure you never seen him before? Fair chance he could of you if your the out and about type? Probably been suppressing all these little thoughts and urges hes been collecting iver the years. After seeing you then, bit of dutch courage, hes gone in there and waited. Hes thought about it more and more. When you went it he was probaly excited you had but also sacred as shit. He knew what he watned to happen, but do i, dont i..he knew what he wanted, but he was sacred, scared to let it happen, scared what it would mean about him, confused why he likes it, wanted to like it, but wouldn't or couldnt let himself there and then. Keep your eye out. I wouldn't be surprised if you " walked passed" each other more from now."

No never seen him before but entirely possible walked past him before. I think it would be too awkward for me to try again, even if he had the courage to try. I suspect it would not be exhilarating in bed, I find heavily closeted or self hating gay/ bi men are the worse in bed.

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By *unkhouser72Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester


"This is not a fantasy so do not ask me to move it to that section haha. Had an unusual experience in a straight city centre bar last Thursday. After work I went for a drink and as walking in noticed a lad looking at me but never think anything of it, I was in my smart work suit and I notice people look when I am dressed like that.

Later in the toilet, the same lad was in there. Urinals are on two sections of walls, he was on other but I could see in small reflective window in front of me him looking back at me. I looked round twice and caught him looking at me.

As he was good looking, nicely dresses and masculine (my type) I thought I would test him, I am not shy. I moved near him and didn't say or do anything. He got an erection without me touching him, to me it being an invitation.

I wanked him a little but he was tense, did not stop me though. It was quick wank on him due to risky environment and not being the place for it. He did not cum and walked away to wash his hands and when I looked back he was looking at me drying his hands like a rabbit in headlights.

I left it at that. I passed him today in street in city centre by typocal coincidence and he looked a little awkward. I dont know what to make of it, really bemusing. I have pulled lads before in straight venues (not deliberately!) but they were clearly bisexual as knew what they were doing.

Do you think he was maybe bicurious but not really sure and it actually happening shell shocked him?

"

Did he have a nice cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is not a fantasy so do not ask me to move it to that section haha. Had an unusual experience in a straight city centre bar last Thursday. After work I went for a drink and as walking in noticed a lad looking at me but never think anything of it, I was in my smart work suit and I notice people look when I am dressed like that.

Later in the toilet, the same lad was in there. Urinals are on two sections of walls, he was on other but I could see in small reflective window in front of me him looking back at me. I looked round twice and caught him looking at me.

As he was good looking, nicely dresses and masculine (my type) I thought I would test him, I am not shy. I moved near him and didn't say or do anything. He got an erection without me touching him, to me it being an invitation.

I wanked him a little but he was tense, did not stop me though. It was quick wank on him due to risky environment and not being the place for it. He did not cum and walked away to wash his hands and when I looked back he was looking at me drying his hands like a rabbit in headlights.

I left it at that. I passed him today in street in city centre by typocal coincidence and he looked a little awkward. I dont know what to make of it, really bemusing. I have pulled lads before in straight venues (not deliberately!) but they were clearly bisexual as knew what they were doing.

Do you think he was maybe bicurious but not really sure and it actually happening shell shocked him?

Did he have a nice cock"

Lol what a question

It was averageish, not that big but he was good looking though.

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By *unkhouser72Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester


"This is not a fantasy so do not ask me to move it to that section haha. Had an unusual experience in a straight city centre bar last Thursday. After work I went for a drink and as walking in noticed a lad looking at me but never think anything of it, I was in my smart work suit and I notice people look when I am dressed like that.

Later in the toilet, the same lad was in there. Urinals are on two sections of walls, he was on other but I could see in small reflective window in front of me him looking back at me. I looked round twice and caught him looking at me.

As he was good looking, nicely dresses and masculine (my type) I thought I would test him, I am not shy. I moved near him and didn't say or do anything. He got an erection without me touching him, to me it being an invitation.

I wanked him a little but he was tense, did not stop me though. It was quick wank on him due to risky environment and not being the place for it. He did not cum and walked away to wash his hands and when I looked back he was looking at me drying his hands like a rabbit in headlights.

I left it at that. I passed him today in street in city centre by typocal coincidence and he looked a little awkward. I dont know what to make of it, really bemusing. I have pulled lads before in straight venues (not deliberately!) but they were clearly bisexual as knew what they were doing.

Do you think he was maybe bicurious but not really sure and it actually happening shell shocked him?

Did he have a nice cock

Lol what a question

It was averageish, not that big but he was good looking though. "

So fingers crossed for bumping into him again and things to progress?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Did the guy actually consent? Verbally or gave you a head nod to touch him. Did you ask him if you could?

Would you assume an erection is an invite?"

It’s a bit of a heads up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did the guy actually consent? Verbally or gave you a head nod to touch him. Did you ask him if you could?

Would you assume an erection is an invite?

It’s a bit of a heads up"

It is a hard point to make I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is not a fantasy so do not ask me to move it to that section haha. Had an unusual experience in a straight city centre bar last Thursday. After work I went for a drink and as walking in noticed a lad looking at me but never think anything of it, I was in my smart work suit and I notice people look when I am dressed like that.

Later in the toilet, the same lad was in there. Urinals are on two sections of walls, he was on other but I could see in small reflective window in front of me him looking back at me. I looked round twice and caught him looking at me.

As he was good looking, nicely dresses and masculine (my type) I thought I would test him, I am not shy. I moved near him and didn't say or do anything. He got an erection without me touching him, to me it being an invitation.

I wanked him a little but he was tense, did not stop me though. It was quick wank on him due to risky environment and not being the place for it. He did not cum and walked away to wash his hands and when I looked back he was looking at me drying his hands like a rabbit in headlights.

I left it at that. I passed him today in street in city centre by typocal coincidence and he looked a little awkward. I dont know what to make of it, really bemusing. I have pulled lads before in straight venues (not deliberately!) but they were clearly bisexual as knew what they were doing.

Do you think he was maybe bicurious but not really sure and it actually happening shell shocked him?

Did he have a nice cock

Lol what a question

It was averageish, not that big but he was good looking though.

So fingers crossed for bumping into him again and things to progress?

"

No I would not go there again I don’t like tense liaisons lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a fantasy so do not ask me to move it to that section haha. Had an unusual experience in a straight city centre bar last Thursday. After work I went for a drink and as walking in noticed a lad looking at me but never think anything of it, I was in my smart work suit and I notice people look when I am dressed like that.

Later in the toilet, the same lad was in there. Urinals are on two sections of walls, he was on other but I could see in small reflective window in front of me him looking back at me. I looked round twice and caught him looking at me.

As he was good looking, nicely dresses and masculine (my type) I thought I would test him, I am not shy. I moved near him and didn't say or do anything. He got an erection without me touching him, to me it being an invitation.

I wanked him a little but he was tense, did not stop me though. It was quick wank on him due to risky environment and not being the place for it. He did not cum and walked away to wash his hands and when I looked back he was looking at me drying his hands like a rabbit in headlights.

I left it at that. I passed him today in street in city centre by typocal coincidence and he looked a little awkward. I dont know what to make of it, really bemusing. I have pulled lads before in straight venues (not deliberately!) but they were clearly bisexual as knew what they were doing.

Do you think he was maybe bicurious but not really sure and it actually happening shell shocked him?

Did he have a nice cock

Lol what a question

It was averageish, not that big but he was good looking though.

So fingers crossed for bumping into him again and things to progress?

"

Was it you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well seeing as you have nice boobs and tattoos you can have a watch next time haha "

Yay xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows....but can i watch next time please? Im a totes lil deviant when it comes to mm stuff .....Mrs K

Would it turn you on if a guy flirted with your fella in front of you completely ignoring you ?"

Id love it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds like he was shocked.

Shocked at your performance! He was expecting a blow job and you just wanked him off. You didn't even finish him off!

Bloody cock tease!

All said in jest of course.

It was probably a first encounter, now his head is fucked up because he liked it.

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By *unkhouser72Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester


"This is not a fantasy so do not ask me to move it to that section haha. Had an unusual experience in a straight city centre bar last Thursday. After work I went for a drink and as walking in noticed a lad looking at me but never think anything of it, I was in my smart work suit and I notice people look when I am dressed like that.

Later in the toilet, the same lad was in there. Urinals are on two sections of walls, he was on other but I could see in small reflective window in front of me him looking back at me. I looked round twice and caught him looking at me.

As he was good looking, nicely dresses and masculine (my type) I thought I would test him, I am not shy. I moved near him and didn't say or do anything. He got an erection without me touching him, to me it being an invitation.

I wanked him a little but he was tense, did not stop me though. It was quick wank on him due to risky environment and not being the place for it. He did not cum and walked away to wash his hands and when I looked back he was looking at me drying his hands like a rabbit in headlights.

I left it at that. I passed him today in street in city centre by typocal coincidence and he looked a little awkward. I dont know what to make of it, really bemusing. I have pulled lads before in straight venues (not deliberately!) but they were clearly bisexual as knew what they were doing.

Do you think he was maybe bicurious but not really sure and it actually happening shell shocked him?

Did he have a nice cock

Lol what a question

It was averageish, not that big but he was good looking though.

So fingers crossed for bumping into him again and things to progress?

Was it you? "

No I'd have led him in the cubicle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He sounds like he was shocked.

Shocked at your performance! He was expecting a blow job and you just wanked him off. You didn't even finish him off!

Bloody cock tease!

All said in jest of course.

It was probably a first encounter, now his head is fucked up because he liked it. "

Made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a fantasy so do not ask me to move it to that section haha. Had an unusual experience in a straight city centre bar last Thursday. After work I went for a drink and as walking in noticed a lad looking at me but never think anything of it, I was in my smart work suit and I notice people look when I am dressed like that.

Later in the toilet, the same lad was in there. Urinals are on two sections of walls, he was on other but I could see in small reflective window in front of me him looking back at me. I looked round twice and caught him looking at me.

As he was good looking, nicely dresses and masculine (my type) I thought I would test him, I am not shy. I moved near him and didn't say or do anything. He got an erection without me touching him, to me it being an invitation.

I wanked him a little but he was tense, did not stop me though. It was quick wank on him due to risky environment and not being the place for it. He did not cum and walked away to wash his hands and when I looked back he was looking at me drying his hands like a rabbit in headlights.

I left it at that. I passed him today in street in city centre by typocal coincidence and he looked a little awkward. I dont know what to make of it, really bemusing. I have pulled lads before in straight venues (not deliberately!) but they were clearly bisexual as knew what they were doing.

Do you think he was maybe bicurious but not really sure and it actually happening shell shocked him?

Did he have a nice cock

Lol what a question

It was averageish, not that big but he was good looking though.

So fingers crossed for bumping into him again and things to progress?

Was it you?

No I'd have led him in the cubicle "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is probably my ignorance about how common it is to have sex in public toilets, but if I’d been eyeing up a woman and she can over and groped and wanked me in the loo, I MIGHT have gone with it, but would definitely have been tense about the possibility of being discovered. I can absolutely imagine someone having a quiet ogle and being surprised that it led to sexual contact, which left them tense and concerned about being seen. Is sexual contact in loos between men so common that the expectation is that everyone could be very relaxed about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is probably my ignorance about how common it is to have sex in public toilets, but if I’d been eyeing up a woman and she can over and groped and wanked me in the loo, I MIGHT have gone with it, but would definitely have been tense about the possibility of being discovered. I can absolutely imagine someone having a quiet ogle and being surprised that it led to sexual contact, which left them tense and concerned about being seen. Is sexual contact in loos between men so common that the expectation is that everyone could be very relaxed about it?"

It is more common than people assume but there again it would be wouldn’t it? Two men right next to eachother who may be that way inclined, it can be quick and no one would ever know.

In this case, I slowly moved my hand towards him, which is testing to see if he would push hand away or not, he did not. I did not simply quickly grab him haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is probably my ignorance about how common it is to have sex in public toilets, but if I’d been eyeing up a woman and she can over and groped and wanked me in the loo, I MIGHT have gone with it, but would definitely have been tense about the possibility of being discovered. I can absolutely imagine someone having a quiet ogle and being surprised that it led to sexual contact, which left them tense and concerned about being seen. Is sexual contact in loos between men so common that the expectation is that everyone could be very relaxed about it?

It is more common than people assume but there again it would be wouldn’t it? Two men right next to eachother who may be that way inclined, it can be quick and no one would ever know.

In this case, I slowly moved my hand towards him, which is testing to see if he would push hand away or not, he did not. I did not simply quickly grab him haha"

No I never thought you ambushed him I to it, lol. Working without much knowledge I could totally understand someone being tense and a bit surprised it had actually happened.

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