FabSwingers.com forum: When someone disappears

By *ettyboop61 OP Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Has anybody had this happen to them? Many years ago on here I met somebody nice then he became ill and I never saw him again ...I always wonder what happened to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but he’s under my patio

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The site is incredibly transient and people move on for various reasons - real life stuff, frustration with the site etc - it can leave you wondering at times but as I said it's the nature of the site and not a great deal you can do about it.

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

You are all invited!

Love

Hannibal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe his wife nearly caught him using fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but he’s under my patio

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I find most on here incredibly shallow selfish men in my experience , sad but true

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By *ettyboop61 OP Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"I find most on here incredibly shallow selfish men in my experience , sad but true "

No he had cancer I wonder if he died that's all .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find most on here incredibly shallow selfish men in my experience , sad but true

No he had cancer I wonder if he died that's all ....."

Shit I feel crappy for my comment now

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By *lim Jim 69Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Cancer sucks big time, horrible horrible disease.

Maybe the guy just wanted to slide into his own thoughts and not bother others due to his illness.

But for you its the not knowing that hurts. We all like closure. I hope u find it one day. X

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes i had a friend who was very ill and had to have a big brain op. He came to see me to say goodbye as he had left the scene. When he came to see me he could hardly walk and was really shaky. I often think of him

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By *ettyboop61 OP Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Cancer sucks big time, horrible horrible disease.

Maybe the guy just wanted to slide into his own thoughts and not bother others due to his illness.

But for you its the not knowing that hurts. We all like closure. I hope u find it one day. X"

I doubt it....his profile is still active but it would be because nobody in his family knows about it.....

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By *ettyboop61 OP Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"yes i had a friend who was very ill and had to have a big brain op. He came to see me to say goodbye as he had left the scene. When he came to see me he could hardly walk and was really shaky. I often think of him

Shame life is so shitty

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Has anybody had this happen to them? Many years ago on here I met somebody nice then he became ill and I never saw him again ...I always wonder what happened to him

Yes...I spoke with 2 women on a regular basis here. One left the site as she found a boyfriend and wanted to settle down with him.

The other just disappeared....but that is life I suppose

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I had a meet with someone. We kept in touch by messaging afterwards. Then he started having suicidal thoughts and I messaged loads trying to support him then after about six months he vanished. I hope it was because he got better.

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By *ussymufferMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I met a married woman on here and we had a lovely few years meeting and she took ill we kept in touch by phone and text but they discovered she had MND

I have not had a text from her since March as she has lost her speach hopefully she's still fighting.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes. I wonder how some are and if they're OK. Such is Fab.

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Yes, I also wonder about them and how they are, I’ll never know but that’s just the nature of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find most on here incredibly shallow selfish men in my experience , sad but true "

Im far from that. Would love the chance to prove it

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"I find most on here incredibly shallow selfish men in my experience , sad but true

No he had cancer I wonder if he died that's all ....."
so sorry I thought you meant like men just stop contacting you

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By *ettyboop61 OP Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"I met a married woman on here and we had a lovely few years meeting and she took ill we kept in touch by phone and text but they discovered she had MND

I have not had a text from her since March as she has lost her speach hopefully she's still fighting.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I wonder sometimes what happened to one or two but its their right to privacy so just moved on.

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By *ettyboop61 OP Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"I find most on here incredibly shallow selfish men in my experience , sad but true

No he had cancer I wonder if he died that's all .....so sorry I thought you meant like men just stop contacting you "

No it's when they get ill and then they don't get in contact anymore

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