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By *plforme500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shirley

I spend a fair amount of time at a few local dogging spots in the hope of catching a gorgeous couple every now and again. It’s therefore inevitable that I find myself turning guys away on a daily basis as I’m not that way inclined. Or didn’t think I was.....

There was an incident last week where I was sat in my car and I could see a guy beside me in the woods. He was calling me over and I refused as per usual, however he then began rubbing himself as if to say I was turning him on. To my shock I actually got hard at the though of him wanting me. I stared for a while before driving away as I didn’t know what to think.

Question is, does this mean I’m bi or maybe bi curious? I’ve never had anything like this happen before but was very surprised by it all.

Anyone on here ever had a similar experience ??

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I spend a fair amount of time at a few local dogging spots in the hope of catching a gorgeous couple every now and again. It’s therefore inevitable that I find myself turning guys away on a daily basis as I’m not that way inclined. Or didn’t think I was.....

There was an incident last week where I was sat in my car and I could see a guy beside me in the woods. He was calling me over and I refused as per usual, however he then began rubbing himself as if to say I was turning him on. To my shock I actually got hard at the though of him wanting me. I stared for a while before driving away as I didn’t know what to think.

Question is, does this mean I’m bi or maybe bi curious? I’ve never had anything like this happen before but was very surprised by it all.

Anyone on here ever had a similar experience ??"

I honestly wouldn't read much into it, boners can arrive at the most awkward if times. You might be bi curious, you might not be, until you've got a cock balls deep down your throat I don't think it's worth thinking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try it and find out

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By *plforme500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shirley

In my sheer amazement of it all I actually watched a little bi porn. It’s all quite confusing though lol

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Maybe it was the voyeuristic trait in you that got aroused ? Watching something naughty in a public place

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By *plforme500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shirley


"Maybe it was the voyeuristic trait in you that got aroused ? Watching something naughty in a public place "

This is 100% feasible as I love watching and being watched.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

You have had a sexual awakening...it sounded very horny..

I wouldn't be too confused by it, as someone else said, it can be a natural turn on, if you allow yourself to watch a sexual act in public..

The cock has a mind of it's own, go with it or resist..

One thing I can guarantee is those feelings wont go away, so accept them with or without a label.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

You were turned on by him being turned on by you. Normal.

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By *plforme500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shirley

I think I’ve accepted the fact that there’s something there although not sure what just yet. I’ve watch a bit of bi porn and think I’d be comfortable with a guy sucking me so long as there’s a female present too

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By *plforme500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shirley


"You were turned on by him being turned on by you. Normal."

Thanks!

I’ve been out since and haven’t felt the urge to go and get my balls drained by an OAP so I think I’m still sane, at least for now anyway x

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"I think I’ve accepted the fact that there’s something there although not sure what just yet. I’ve watch a bit of bi porn and think I’d be comfortable with a guy sucking me so long as there’s a female present too "
what to do ? Hold your hand or to affirm that your straight ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something happened that you enjoyed. Simple. Why the need to label it?

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By *plforme500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shirley


"I think I’ve accepted the fact that there’s something there although not sure what just yet. I’ve watch a bit of bi porn and think I’d be comfortable with a guy sucking me so long as there’s a female present too what to do ? Hold your hand or to affirm that your straight ? "

No particular label but I’d be more at ease with a female present and although I wouldn’t tmi d being sucked by the guy. I wouldn’t want anything more so that’s what she’s be there for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's a conversion!

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By *plforme500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shirley


"Well it's a conversion!"

Like in rugby?

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By *bbyandethanCouple
over a year ago

Bury

Just go with it dude, there's nothing wrong with it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

its a shame we can't just be sexual without worrying about who (legally) is causing us to feel that way.

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By *plforme500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shirley

Thanks for all your responses. I’m goi g to still keep digging and have decided I won’t be putting a level on anything xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I’ve accepted the fact that there’s something there although not sure what just yet. I’ve watch a bit of bi porn and think I’d be comfortable with a guy sucking me so long as there’s a female present too what to do ? Hold your hand or to affirm that your straight ?

No particular label but I’d be more at ease with a female present and although I wouldn’t tmi d being sucked by the guy. I wouldn’t want anything more so that’s what she’s be there for"

Have a look for bi couples.

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By *plforme500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shirley

Had this happen again the other day and I enjoyed it just as much!

I’m still not willing to slap a label on anything though.

Just good kinky outdoor fun xx

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I hate these sexuality labels. I've always identified as bi (female), however I'm most likely pansexual. However, I'll have sex or engage in sexual acts with someone who takes my fancy regardless of their gender

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By *plforme500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shirley


"I hate these sexuality labels. I've always identified as bi (female), however I'm most likely pansexual. However, I'll have sex or engage in sexual acts with someone who takes my fancy regardless of their gender"

If ever there was a ‘like’ button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spend a fair amount of time at a few local dogging spots in the hope of catching a gorgeous couple every now and again. It’s therefore inevitable that I find myself turning guys away on a daily basis as I’m not that way inclined. Or didn’t think I was.....

There was an incident last week where I was sat in my car and I could see a guy beside me in the woods. He was calling me over and I refused as per usual, however he then began rubbing himself as if to say I was turning him on. To my shock I actually got hard at the though of him wanting me. I stared for a while before driving away as I didn’t know what to think.

Question is, does this mean I’m bi or maybe bi curious? I’ve never had anything like this happen before but was very surprised by it all.

Anyone on here ever had a similar experience ??

I honestly wouldn't read much into it, boners can arrive at the most awkward if times. You might be bi curious, you might not be, until you've got a cock balls deep down your throat I don't think it's worth thinking about "

Even then i dont think about what it makes me, i just enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate these sexuality labels. I've always identified as bi (female), however I'm most likely pansexual. However, I'll have sex or engage in sexual acts with someone who takes my fancy regardless of their gender"

^ what she said, lifes to short and mostly tedious to worry about it.

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