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By *ickCal OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

What everyone’s opinion with the wink system?? We don’t mind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use it but as long as some people do, I think it should stay

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I don't mind it, but it makes me feel a bit lazy afterwards.

It's good if someone is shy and feels awkward in starting chat its useful then.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never look at them. I have 1041.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see them as exactly that ..a wink. A gentle hiya, an ice breaker etc.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

I like them but dont receive many lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont use it and bulk delete...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont take any notice of them. I have hundreds that I've never deleted.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

They are great would rather have a wink than a hows u message as they are easier to ignore or delete.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We look at ppl that wink and see if we have an attraction.

Mostly single men and we're not looking for them.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"They are great would rather have a wink than a hows u message as they are easier to ignore or delete. "

You asked for it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have a bad rep on here for some reason. But if you ask me it's a good tool.. You wink, they wink back, you send a message. Perhaps the site should make it so we are unable to message unless there's a mutual wink.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

It's a good thing if used appropriately.

A mutual wink often leads to a conversation.

Which could lead to a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of ‘straight’ men seem to use it I find

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By *ockandrollaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I never look at them. I have 1041. "

1042 now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like them, I use them as an ice breaker, if someone winks back I take that as a green light to message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the site should make it so we are unable to message unless there's a mutual wink. "

It would be more fun if we are unable to massage unless there's a mutual wank.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I never look at them. I have 1041.

1042 now "

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for guys. Bad for girls. I mean let’s face it. Girls get messages and winks by the dozen ( at lest my wife does ) therefore they don’t really respond to them. Where as the numbers are lower for dudes. So a gentle wink from a woman is very inviting.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I never look at them. I have 1041.

1042 now

Thanks. "

Make that.....

No I won't.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley


"A lot of ‘straight’ men seem to use it I find"

I never wink first. Very lazy for a single guy not to be able to send a message. But I do like getting them, even from guys (which I ignore without getting offended) and a recent one did lead to a very delicious meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t understand why people get so triggered by them. It’s a wink for heavens sake! An ice breaker to see if there’s a mutual attraction.

What I don’t understand is when someone winks, you return the wink to show you like what you see and ......nothing! If someone returns our wink we will always follow it up with a message.

Miss V

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

I love the feature, I know most women and couples don’t check theirs but a fair few utilise the feature when searching. From my perspective their interest prompts a response from me... this means they’re familiar with my profile and like the look of it and my message will be read and their decision will come from the contents of it. No time wasted on anyone’s end and no hurt feelings. Win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've genuinely lost count the amount of winks I have. I could be missing out on someone spectacular for all i know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that it's a nice thing to wink at someone who you like x it's complimentary

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By *ickCal OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"They have a bad rep on here for some reason. But if you ask me it's a good tool.. You wink, they wink back, you send a message. Perhaps the site should make it so we are unable to message unless there's a mutual wink. "

Good idea

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By *ickCal OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"They are great would rather have a wink than a hows u message as they are easier to ignore or delete. "

We agree. Love your pics by the way. X

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We like a cheesy wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too x and like to give them out too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like a cheesy wink. "
can't wink on your profile but here's one x ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it works for us at times but some people think it’s perceived as lazy , we don’t look at it that that but a way of breaking the ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too it's a good way of breaking the ice x it saves you from asking what was the weight of the polar bear and when they say don't know you say neither me i just thought it would break the ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it works for us at times but some people think it’s perceived as lazy , we don’t look at it that that but a way of breaking the ice "
its not lazy it's a good thing xx it's better than blanking them i hate that it's ignorant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it works for us at times but some people think it’s perceived as lazy , we don’t look at it that that but a way of breaking the ice its not lazy it's a good thing xx it's better than blanking them i hate that it's ignorant "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it works for us at times but some people think it’s perceived as lazy , we don’t look at it that that but a way of breaking the ice its not lazy it's a good thing xx it's better than blanking them i hate that it's ignorant

Exactly "
definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wink and I delete winks straight away. Pointless for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i usually dont notice i have them, i never wink but understand its useful for couples and women who get a lot of messages but that kinda tells me they wont have time to get to know me so not much point

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