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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have a night out planned in Colchester in a couple of weeks our ultimate fantasy is a confident woman / couple to approach hubby introducing etc buying is a drink and chatting us up essentially think he would deal with an approach in public better than me...

do people think this is something that would even happen or just pure fantasy ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we've been approached twice in public by couples, so it does happen

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon


"we've been approached twice in public by couples, so it does happen"

And how did they first approach you as I would love to have this happen on a night out. To bump into a couple who turn out to be swingers too.

Molly

xX

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon


"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club. "

Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned

Molly

XX

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"we've been approached twice in public by couples, so it does happen

And how did they first approach you as I would love to have this happen on a night out. To bump into a couple who turn out to be swingers too.

Molly

xX"

Both times its been when we were on holiday, they just walked up to us and started chatting. It was obvious to both of us by their conversation and general demeanour that they were chatting us up. To be honest we weren't interested either time and that can make things a bit awkward. I think you stand much more chance of realising your fantasy if you arrange to meet someone from here who's willing to indulge in a bit of role play

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.

Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned

Molly

XX"

oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think you stand much more chance of realising your fantasy if you arrange to meet someone from here who's willing to indulge in a bit of role play "

That's a good suggestion

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By *.TaylorMan
over a year ago

london


"I think you stand much more chance of realising your fantasy if you arrange to meet someone from here who's willing to indulge in a bit of role play

That's a good suggestion"

Hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely happens x but i would suggest that yous went to a club x it's a good fantasy and yous are not asking for much x good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we've been approached twice in public by couples, so it does happen

And how did they first approach you as I would love to have this happen on a night out. To bump into a couple who turn out to be swingers too.

Molly

xX"

Glad we aren’t the only ones lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you stand much more chance of realising your fantasy if you arrange to meet someone from here who's willing to indulge in a bit of role play

That's a good suggestion"

That’s a good idea maybe go down that route x

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon


"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.

Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned

Molly

XX

oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet. "

Yes we help with the Gloucester Social that’s on every month, it’s more the randomness I like the idea off

Molly

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a night out planned in Colchester in a couple of weeks our ultimate fantasy is a confident woman / couple to approach hubby introducing etc buying is a drink and chatting us up essentially think he would deal with an approach in public better than me...

do people think this is something that would even happen or just pure fantasy ?? "
no it can happen but at some point somebody will laugh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.

Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned

Molly

XX

oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet.

Yes we help with the Gloucester Social that’s on every month, it’s more the randomness I like the idea off

Molly

XX"

Well good luck, it happened twice to us so it could happen to you

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon


"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.

Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned

Molly

XX

oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet.

Yes we help with the Gloucester Social that’s on every month, it’s more the randomness I like the idea off

Molly

XX

Well good luck, it happened twice to us so it could happen to you

"

You never know, just need to fit it in now. As when we do go out it’s usually to a club lol

Molly

XX

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By *hank you sirMan
over a year ago

colchester


"We have a night out planned in Colchester in a couple of weeks our ultimate fantasy is a confident woman / couple to approach hubby introducing etc buying is a drink and chatting us up essentially think he would deal with an approach in public better than me...

do people think this is something that would even happen or just pure fantasy ?? "

You could always set something up loosely on here, then it’ll feel quite spontaneous but you’ve at least it’s not a complete stranger

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.

Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned

Molly

XX

oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet.

Yes we help with the Gloucester Social that’s on every month, it’s more the randomness I like the idea off

Molly

XX

Well good luck, it happened twice to us so it could happen to you

You never know, just need to fit it in now. As when we do go out it’s usually to a club lol

Molly

XX"

I genuinely don't know why these people approached us, neither of us think we look like swingers (whatever they're supposed to look like) except I think I might dress slightly differently maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is an excellent fantasy but once achieved, it's no longer as such...then back to the 'drawing board'...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a night out planned in Colchester in a couple of weeks our ultimate fantasy is a confident woman / couple to approach hubby introducing etc buying is a drink and chatting us up essentially think he would deal with an approach in public better than me...

do people think this is something that would even happen or just pure fantasy ??

You could always set something up loosely on here, then it’ll feel quite spontaneous but you’ve at least it’s not a complete stranger"

Think that is going to try and be the plan fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is an excellent fantasy but once achieved, it's no longer as such...then back to the 'drawing board'..."

Won’t take long to come up with more so that’s not an issue

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon


"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.

Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned

Molly

XX

oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet.

Yes we help with the Gloucester Social that’s on every month, it’s more the randomness I like the idea off

Molly

XX

Well good luck, it happened twice to us so it could happen to you

You never know, just need to fit it in now. As when we do go out it’s usually to a club lol

Molly

XX

I genuinely don't know why these people approached us, neither of us think we look like swingers (whatever they're supposed to look like) except I think I might dress slightly differently maybe. "

I have noticed swingers are a lot more confident in their selfs with the way they dress, well I know I am since we started swinging, so maybe that comes across.

Molly

XX

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