FabSwingers.com forum: Soft Swing or Full

By *ensual 2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

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By *ensual 2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We are a soft swing couple by choice ..how many on here stay soft swing or move on to full over time .....??

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"We are a soft swing couple by choice ..how many on here stay soft swing or move on to full over time .....??"

Mutual fun is good whatever it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a soft swing couple by choice ..how many on here stay soft swing or move on to full over time .....??"

We went the opposite, we find soft swing more erotic and requires more imagination, ultimately more fulfilling.

To be blunt also says in our profile. Why swap to do what we do anyway. Who actually gets the most out of swapping?

Horses for courses as they say

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By *ensual 2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We like to go with mood of the night....got close to full swap many times .......we just like to be open minded to anything /everything lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to go with mood of the night....got close to full swap many times .......we just like to be open minded to anything /everything lol...

Its down to the individuals and what works, for us we have been there, done that. It is not something we neither need or want, but that's us and we are upfront about it. We know it is why a lot are on the scene and enjoy what you enjoy

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Me and my partner sort of regard ourselves as soft swap/swimg. We've done everthing with others apart from have penatrative sex with each others partners. We found you set out in this game with ideas of how things will go down. But as you go on things evolve naturally. So I wouldn't say we'll stay soft swing as thing's are always evolving and you find yourselves breaking new ground all the time. As long as your communication is good, you read each other well and you go at your own speed you find your way together whatever you do or don't do.

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By *tag-Vixen-CplCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We also Soft swing cpl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are soft swing. We considered going full swing but it was not for us. But you never know what the future holds. Our younger selfs never considered swinging at all, but as you mature your outlook changes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we started full and moved to soft.

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By *ulia2013Couple
over a year ago

Yeovil

We found that it depends on how we and the other couple get on. We thought we would never do a full swap and then decided we wanted to do that with a particular couple. Things evolve in surprising ways!

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By *ensual 2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Them goal posts seem to move from time to time .....lol.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we started full and moved to soft. "

We did, we and had some amazing sex with others without traditional swapping. So is soft swing all the way

As said in previous thread we found it triggers imagination and exploration.

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

We have done both soft swing and full swap and are happy with both as long everyone is happy.

We have had just as much fun....often more...with soft swing since as said "triggers the imagination and exploration "

Also we have found that as time goes on penetrative sex with others seems to be less crutial to a fabulous sexy erotic fun meet....maybe an age thing....certainly not a performance issue!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We are soft swing and it works for us....don't see this ever changing

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"We are a soft swing couple by choice ..how many on here stay soft swing or move on to full over time .....??

Mutual fun is good whatever it is

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know

As long as everybody involved is fully sated. Does it really matter? We love the eroticism too. Rushed fucking for the sake of it just isn’t our bag.

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By *ackal1Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We started soft and have dabbled with hard .

The risk is you end up getting more and more hard core to get your fix.

We now enjoy thinking up naughty, imaginative soft swing fun because it’s all about the fun and thrills or you just become fuck and go merchants..

However we do have the optional hard core fun if we desire.

Don’t be a sheep basically . Have fun your way!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swing works for us. It can be extremely erotic

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By *ocoaTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I agree, as someone who likes to use his imagination I find that soft swing fun can be highly erotic. Its not all I enjoy but it can be a delicious variation especially with kinky minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swing can be extremely kinky and sensual - big fan here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our first meet was a soft meet purely because we knew nothing about swinging it was 3 couples and us we played soft they all swapped still one of the best nights ever when i think back but the 2nd and from there on was full on ... but i can understand why some like soft swing and the benefits it can bring to a couple stay true you what you want that way everyone is happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"our first meet was a soft meet purely because we knew nothing about swinging it was 3 couples and us we played soft they all swapped still one of the best nights ever when i think back but the 2nd and from there on was full on ... but i can understand why some like soft swing and the benefits it can bring to a couple stay true you what you want that way everyone is happy"

It is is always down to personal choice not a critism, it is about what works for individuals.

We simply found it was just repetitive almost ritualistic and found you were going from meet to meet and going through the same motions and it was no longer working for us.

You can understand why a lot of partners stop playing, end up being solo on couples profiles.

Through soft swing we found it really did become quality and not quantity and explore new experiences and possibilities. We have had one or two try and force full swap on us after saying they are happy with soft swing.

Ultimately it works better for us and we can actually enjoy when we do, and clearly states our interest and intent on our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can do both and happy with both it really depends on the people and the meet as to what we do. Communication is the key with all parties involved. Mr

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Soft swing for us, can’t be doing messing with condoms.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Soft here too!

We don't have much experience but we've found we enjoy to all be involved together, soft playing, rather than splitting off.

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By *ensual 2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Nice to see we are on the same page as may on here ...........we have done many things on our journey .....mostly enjoyable ...had many a laugh....for us its made us even closer as a couple ..fun times be it soft or maybe more with the right people ......nice to be open to any saucy ideas .....

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Love soft swing it full swing

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By *luffy MoleMan
over a year ago

christchurch

How are you guys defining Soft and Hard swinging?

To you guys, where is the line between the two!

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By *ensual 2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

To screw or not to screw ....that is the question.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swing is everything with other people apart from intercourse

There is no other definition

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By *luffy MoleMan
over a year ago

christchurch

Thank you for the clarification !

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We were soft swing for 15 years before moving on to full

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We're have done both soft swap and full swap. We tend to go with the flow and see how the mood on the night takes us. Of course we respect others boundaries and wouldn't push them to go further than they wanted.

Mr2

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Wednesbury Cams

Never done soft swap. Have no interest in it either. Please feel free to block us anyone who is soft swap only. Saves time for you and us if ever you/ we come across profiles. In a nice way.

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By *iscreetfunonly1Man
over a year ago

York

Always loved the thought of a soft swing. I can imagine it’s miles more erotic

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think handling the emotional side of swinging is still an issue in this case because despite the fact that swinging looks simple, it throws up a lot of emotional issues that you must handle.

There are people who will never be able to handle this because it will tap into every stored up negative emotion that occurred in the past with a past partner with regards to fidelity, the aim is to neutralise those negative emotions and remove the stored up energy in them.. If soft swing helps you do this that's fine.

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Done both but carnt really see the point of soft swing so we decided full swop is the way everyone got there own choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done both but carnt really see the point of soft swing so we decided full swop is the way everyone got there own choices "

Ultimately it's what you want to get out of if. Personal choice - we just find that swaping does nothing for us. We have been called many things including wasters, fakes, amongst others simply because enjoy soft swing and won't swap, for all the reasons stated in previous threads. It is each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are just starting down this road (early 60s), looking to start with being in the same room another couple but only playing with own partner and watching/being watched. Is this something people do or is not allowing touching going far enough ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do both, happy to go with the flow...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are just starting down this road (early 60s), looking to start with being in the same room another couple but only playing with own partner and watching/being watched. Is this something people do or is not allowing touching going far enough ? "

It's your boundaries just make them clear before a meeting that's all. People do just like same room sex nothing wrong and don't let others pressure you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your boundaries just make them clear before a meeting that's all. People do just like same room sex nothing wrong and don't let others pressure you.

Thanks

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