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By *anbi OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON

Dear users, we would like to share something that has just happened.

We were having a meet with a verified COUPLE and for the second time just less than an hour before the meet just a short whataspp "sorry we cant meet tonight" no more reasons given and when replying that we dont believe that its a nice serious, adult and mature way to behave, we have just been blocked on here and in whataspp.

our question is.... should be created a list of timewasters to avoid other couples / singles having this situations.

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By *nkedMilfWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

As much as I hate time wasters, creating a public list of time wasters is just asking for trouble.

Just report them, that's what I do

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By *anbi OP   Couple
over a year ago

LONDON

thats what we have done,but its just to avoid other users beeing scamed by this "genuine" self declared couple

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

I had a meet arranged two weeks ago with a couple.. drove 80 miles for them not to turn up.. no apologies or anything then a week later, was asked by the same couple if I really wanted to meet them.. said yes and arranged a time and place..

Drove the 80 miles again to be stood up a second time.. guess what - of course I've blocked them but I wonder how many others they have pulled that stunt on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet arranged two weeks ago with a couple.. drove 80 miles for them not to turn up.. no apologies or anything then a week later, was asked by the same couple if I really wanted to meet them.. said yes and arranged a time and place..

Drove the 80 miles again to be stood up a second time.. guess what - of course I've blocked them but I wonder how many others they have pulled that stunt on."

Jeezzzooo . I'd have throat chopped them until they gave me petrol money back!!! Outrageous.

Time is precious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe not throat chop . A Chinese burn or something at least!

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

2 meets.... When asked about them no response so fked them off can't be ass wi time wasters.. States on our profile but still get the fakers

Chin up!! there's more here to offer u better

(titch) xx

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"I had a meet arranged two weeks ago with a couple.. drove 80 miles for them not to turn up.. no apologies or anything then a week later, was asked by the same couple if I really wanted to meet them.. said yes and arranged a time and place..

Drove the 80 miles again to be stood up a second time.. guess what - of course I've blocked them but I wonder how many others they have pulled that stunt on."

That’s shocking, hope you gave them what for before blocking, don’t know who people think they are sometimes on here grrrr!!

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By *akequeen90Couple
over a year ago

Sydney

We are not time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet arranged two weeks ago with a couple.. drove 80 miles for them not to turn up.. no apologies or anything then a week later, was asked by the same couple if I really wanted to meet them.. said yes and arranged a time and place..

Drove the 80 miles again to be stood up a second time.. guess what - of course I've blocked them but I wonder how many others they have pulled that stunt on."

If I got stood up once and didn't get an apology with a valid reason, I wouldn't give them a second chance. And I don't even travel to meets.

I'm surprised you did all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not time wasters"

Either am i i really wanna get vertified not fair on people tat actually wanna get going

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Well. Apparently - good guys cum last.

Time wasters are a consequence of the site unfortunately.

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton


"I had a meet arranged two weeks ago with a couple.. drove 80 miles for them not to turn up.. no apologies or anything then a week later, was asked by the same couple if I really wanted to meet them.. said yes and arranged a time and place..

Drove the 80 miles again to be stood up a second time.. guess what - of course I've blocked them but I wonder how many others they have pulled that stunt on."

If I had driven 80 miles then no word for a week, let alone no apologies, then there is no way I would consider doing but again!

It sounds like they were enjoying themselves knowing they had managed to get someone to waste time and fuel to get to a non existent meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well. Apparently - good guys cum last.

Time wasters are a consequence of the site unfortunately. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well. Apparently - good guys cum last.

Time wasters are a consequence of the site unfortunately. "

I agree

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You can say that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is riddled with them 'TIMEWASTERS'

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve never met a time waster.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No it would be too open to abuse from those with a grudge against others.

They did at least let you know they couldn't make it,things happen and people do have to cancel sometimes.

I would say a time waster is one who arranges a meet and then doesn't show and no contact.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's way too many on here. Usually women or couples do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it would be too open to abuse from those with a grudge against others.

They did at least let you know they couldn't make it,things happen and people do have to cancel sometimes.

I would say a time waster is one who arranges a meet and then doesn't show and no contact.

Miss"

This ^^^ from me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80 miles?you must be a glutton for punishment to do that twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's way too many on here. Usually women or couples do it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"80 miles?you must be a glutton for punishment to do that twice"

Or if nothing else, perhaps it was an enjoyable drive LOL

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

Well, I didnt get an apology either time, but when I asked will they definitely be there, I was assured there days running that they would..

Stupidly though I should have seen it as a fake as when I asked why they didnt turn up the first time there was no response..

So my bad for believing the crap. It makes it worse for us genuine people..

Worse thing is it's not the first time I've been caught like that.. youd think I'd learn eh! Lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I had a meet arranged two weeks ago with a couple.. drove 80 miles for them not to turn up.. no apologies or anything then a week later, was asked by the same couple if I really wanted to meet them.. said yes and arranged a time and place..

Drove the 80 miles again to be stood up a second time.. guess what - of course I've blocked them but I wonder how many others they have pulled that stunt on.

If I got stood up once and didn't get an apology with a valid reason, I wouldn't give them a second chance. And I don't even travel to meets.

I'm surprised you did all that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet arranged two weeks ago with a couple.. drove 80 miles for them not to turn up.. no apologies or anything then a week later, was asked by the same couple if I really wanted to meet them.. said yes and arranged a time and place..

Drove the 80 miles again to be stood up a second time.. guess what - of course I've blocked them but I wonder how many others they have pulled that stunt on."

Why on earth did you go a second time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time wasters are a pain, a list would be abused though. We have talked to people who have been really rude or very pushy about doing something we had clearly said no to - then they accuse you of being a time waster when you don't want to talk.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france


"I had a meet arranged two weeks ago with a couple.. drove 80 miles for them not to turn up.. no apologies or anything then a week later, was asked by the same couple if I really wanted to meet them.. said yes and arranged a time and place..

Drove the 80 miles again to be stood up a second time.. guess what - of course I've blocked them but I wonder how many others they have pulled that stunt on.

Why on earth did you go a second time "

Stupidly I wanted to believe that the first time something went wrong or the likes.. I was assured on three different days that they would genuinely be there the second time..

I guess they got a laugh at my expense twice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear users, we would like to share something that has just happened.

We were having a meet with a verified COUPLE and for the second time just less than an hour before the meet just a short whataspp "sorry we cant meet tonight" no more reasons given and when replying that we dont believe that its a nice serious, adult and mature way to behave, we have just been blocked on here and in whataspp.

our question is.... should be created a list of timewasters to avoid other couples / singles having this situations."
have i read this wrong youve met them and they pulled out on second meet an hour before but let you know?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"our question is.... should be created a list of timewasters to avoid other couples / singles having this situations."

We have a list of couples to avoid it is called our block list, block and move on. Naming and shaming is against site rules and is easy to abuse.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

At least you weren’t sat in a pub waiting for them to turn up. Or paid to get in a club to find they haven’t bothered to let you know they’re not going.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I’ve never met a time waster. "

You wont thats the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never met a time waster.

You wont thats the point "

Hahahahahahahaha

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I’ve never met a time waster.

You wont thats the point "

Pssst....I think that was his point

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I’ve never met a time waster.

You wont thats the point

Pssst....I think that was his point "

Pssst you sure ???

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I had a meet arranged two weeks ago with a couple.. drove 80 miles for them not to turn up.. no apologies or anything then a week later, was asked by the same couple if I really wanted to meet them.. said yes and arranged a time and place..

Drove the 80 miles again to be stood up a second time.. guess what - of course I've blocked them but I wonder how many others they have pulled that stunt on."

Firstly, why drive that far? And secondly, why a second time?!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"No it would be too open to abuse from those with a grudge against others.

They did at least let you know they couldn't make it,things happen and people do have to cancel sometimes.

I would say a time waster is one who arranges a meet and then doesn't show and no contact.

Miss

This ^^^ from me too "

Same opinion here.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

By the way, there's tips for meeting on my profile. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love time wasters.....

Without them I wouldn’t know if my Fab mailbox is working....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

And to the OP's, you can create your own personal list of timewasters by using the block button and notes facility to remind you why you blocked them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear users, we would like to share something that has just happened.

We were having a meet with a verified COUPLE and for the second time just less than an hour before the meet just a short whataspp "sorry we cant meet tonight" no more reasons given and when replying that we dont believe that its a nice serious, adult and mature way to behave, we have just been blocked on here and in whataspp.

our question is.... should be created a list of timewasters to avoid other couples / singles having this situations."

I have to agree with inked milf. As much as I’ve wanted in the past to notify others of time wasters unfortunately it’s asking for trouble and goes against the rules of fab for naming and shaming and will get you into a whole host of trouble with the admins...

There are people who genuinely have last min home issues that cancel but a lot are in lust with the idea of a meet only to get cold feet and pull out at the 11th hour... Bad experiences like that steered me toward club meets but that in itself brings other logistical issues...

There really isn’t much you can do except swallow that disappointing bitter pill and move on hopefully finding a genuine meet that doesn’t cancel ...

Keep persevering there are good apples on fab that do exactly what they say they will...

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every body should be allowed to change their mind, granted it should be better than an hour before and reasons given.

But if someone is active on here with many verifications, that is proof that they meet, just because they change their mind doesn't make them a time waster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple of instances recently with couples that fall into the time wasting bracket. Not in the "I've been stood up way" but General wasting my time.

Both instances there's a lot of chat, promises of possible meets, both agreed meets that then cancelled (with plenty of notice I will say) then more chat that became constant excuses why they couldn't meet.

In both instances I asked if they were serious about wanting to meet me, asked them to be honest and if didn't want to meet to say as I'd be ok with that. Both said they 100% still wanted to meet. The chat and excuses continued.

I've now stopped replying and blocked both, 2 weeks of excuses when both couples are always online with status updates about free time tells me all I needed to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cancelling at the last minute is better than the no shows...I could give you names of a whole host of those buggers...I always report but nothing ever happens so I just warn all my female friends against them now..and in turn they tell their friends...nothing more can be done sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those no shows need their heads looking at missing out on your delights young lady....

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By *exy fucker bikerMan
over a year ago

kent

Time wasters we all had it wankers that use crap stupid excuses if u even get one

Just be honest if u wanna meet and unsure just say that.

As for travelling wasting petrol and time on people just out of order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i really dont get this timewaster thing between this account and our couples account it really does not happen that often and we play most weeks ... i think we suss the messer's from a early stage always go with our gut feeling and 90% of the time it goes well ...plus we dont get pissing when someone pulls out as long as they let us know we just move on and try to rescue our freetime... seems now days every ones a time waster for just saying no thanks or canceling a meet

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I had a meet arranged two weeks ago with a couple.. drove 80 miles for them not to turn up.. no apologies or anything then a week later, was asked by the same couple if I really wanted to meet them.. said yes and arranged a time and place..

Drove the 80 miles again to be stood up a second time.. guess what - of course I've blocked them but I wonder how many others they have pulled that stunt on."

Personally I wouldn't travel that distance to meet anyone on the off chance. To do it twice you wasted your own time. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear users, we would like to share something that has just happened.

We were having a meet with a verified COUPLE and for the second time just less than an hour before the meet just a short whataspp "sorry we cant meet tonight" no more reasons given and when replying that we dont believe that its a nice serious, adult and mature way to behave, we have just been blocked on here and in whataspp.

our question is.... should be created a list of timewasters to avoid other couples / singles having this situations."

How is giving you notice they can't make it,wasting time?

And why do you feel you feel you need a full in-depth explanation as to why they can't make it?

They gave you notice,and if you were to respond to us with your response to their message,we would block you as well .

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france


"Every body should be allowed to change their mind, granted it should be better than an hour before and reasons given.

But if someone is active on here with many verifications, that is proof that they meet, just because they change their mind doesn't make them a time waster. "

You're quite right - it doesn't make them a time waster.. And bothering to make contact after and giving a reason is a very polite way to do things.. However not bothering to pull out at the last thing and say anything and letting that person go on to what they think is a meet, and still not saying anything after when asked why they were not there , isn't changing your mind its down right obnoxious.

I'm sorry to say that being active on here with veri's still doesn't mean that they aren't going to do this..

My own experience recently was with a couple with lots of veri's (admittedly not too recent)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No it would be too open to abuse from those with a grudge against others.

They did at least let you know they couldn't make it,things happen and people do have to cancel sometimes.

I would say a time waster is one who arranges a meet and then doesn't show and no contact.

Miss"

This, for me too.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

And this is why I prefer socials and club meets.

This site is riddled with people who have no intention of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every body should be allowed to change their mind, granted it should be better than an hour before and reasons given.

But if someone is active on here with many verifications, that is proof that they meet, just because they change their mind doesn't make them a time waster.

You're quite right - it doesn't make them a time waster.. And bothering to make contact after and giving a reason is a very polite way to do things.. However not bothering to pull out at the last thing and say anything and letting that person go on to what they think is a meet, and still not saying anything after when asked why they were not there , isn't changing your mind its down right obnoxious.

I'm sorry to say that being active on here with veri's still doesn't mean that they aren't going to do this..

My own experience recently was with a couple with lots of veri's (admittedly not too recent)"

Then clearly they aren't time wasters, they just changed their mind about meeting you. It's just bad manners to not explain this and just block at the last minute.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Had a couple of instances recently with couples that fall into the time wasting bracket. Not in the "I've been stood up way" but General wasting my time.

Both instances there's a lot of chat, promises of possible meets, both agreed meets that then cancelled (with plenty of notice I will say) then more chat that became constant excuses why they couldn't meet.

In both instances I asked if they were serious about wanting to meet me, asked them to be honest and if didn't want to meet to say as I'd be ok with that. Both said they 100% still wanted to meet. The chat and excuses continued.

I've now stopped replying and blocked both, 2 weeks of excuses when both couples are always online with status updates about free time tells me all I needed to know."

That is a common experience, couples tell us all the time they are keen to meet us. We just say we will leave it up to them to let us know when they are free to meet and either leave it at that, if we continue to chat we avoid all discussions about past experiences or sexy chat. Most stop replying when we no longer give them their wank fantasies but just occasionally a couple will come back to us and we will meet and have a lovely experience.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"i really dont get this timewaster thing between this account and our couples account it really does not happen that often and we play most weeks ... i think we suss the messer's from a early stage always go with our gut feeling and 90% of the time it goes well ...plus we dont get pissing when someone pulls out as long as they let us know we just move on and try to rescue our freetime... seems now days every ones a time waster for just saying no thanks or canceling a meet "

I don't get it either.

I'm off the view that anyone can change their mind at any point/time. As my meeting time was limited I used to arrange a social meet during my lunch hour or after work near the station so I could hop on the train home if they didn't show.

I met at home so I'd book a flexi day off. Should they not show up I had a plan b so as not to waste my day.

Never had a no show, granted, on more than one occasion I wished they had stayed away...but my time has never been wasted.

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

Sadly we have had 3 no shows and sadly all guys

We like mmf three sums but we have taken single guys off our meet list

We now only contact guys and arrange to meet them in clubs so if they don’t turn up we can still have a good night

Since we have made it that we can only contact guys we have had no time wasters

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


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That is a common experience, couples tell us all the time they are keen to meet us. We just say we will leave it up to them to let us know when they are free to meet and either leave it at that, if we continue to chat we avoid all discussions about past experiences or sexy chat. Most stop replying when we no longer give them their wank fantasies but just occasionally a couple will come back to us and we will meet and have a lovely experience."

We tend to leave it to others to give us dates, amazing how many then won’t commit to an actual date and messages fizzle out.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I suppose the novelty of being a single lady is that the two times I’ve been stood up, I just asked someone else out in their place. Their loss.

My opinion is that I don’t consider timewasting to be anything other than not letting someone know more than a couple of hours before the plan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose the novelty of being a single lady is that the two times I’ve been stood up, I just asked someone else out in their place. Their loss.

My opinion is that I don’t consider timewasting to be anything other than not letting someone know more than a couple of hours before the plan. "

The novelty is that your a single lady exceptionally striking good looking and never short of offers lol ... one drops out another more than willing to fill that spot ! Maybe the experience for couples or men is one that’s less fortunate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose the novelty of being a single lady is that the two times I’ve been stood up, I just asked someone else out in their place. Their loss.

My opinion is that I don’t consider timewasting to be anything other than not letting someone know more than a couple of hours before the plan.

The novelty is that your a single lady exceptionally striking good looking and never short of offers lol ... one drops out another more than willing to fill that spot ! Maybe the experience for couples or men is one that’s less fortunate "

This

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I suppose the novelty of being a single lady is that the two times I’ve been stood up, I just asked someone else out in their place. Their loss.

My opinion is that I don’t consider timewasting to be anything other than not letting someone know more than a couple of hours before the plan.

The novelty is that your a single lady exceptionally striking good looking and never short of offers lol ... one drops out another more than willing to fill that spot ! Maybe the experience for couples or men is one that’s less fortunate "

that was exactly my point

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By *nlyyours16Couple
over a year ago

Northwest

Sorry to hear your story. We had similar experiences off two single guys who let’s us down in same week. 1 sent a last minute apology “sorry can’t make it” .

2nd one decided to prefer a festival over a meet and sent a message to us after me telling him that the hotel is booked , that he was sorry he’s been invited to a festival but will happily meet the following week. #looser ( it was his loss)

Hope this makes you feel better , there are note real and good people about than time wasters . We believe in that wholly.

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"As much as I hate time wasters, creating a public list of time wasters is just asking for trouble.

Just report them, that's what I do "

How can you report them just for canceling a meet?

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Dear users, we would like to share something that has just happened.

We were having a meet with a verified COUPLE and for the second time just less than an hour before the meet just a short whataspp "sorry we cant meet tonight" no more reasons given and when replying that we dont believe that its a nice serious, adult and mature way to behave, we have just been blocked on here and in whataspp.

our question is.... should be created a list of timewasters to avoid other couples / singles having this situations.

How is giving you notice they can't make it,wasting time?

And why do you feel you feel you need a full in-depth explanation as to why they can't make it?

They gave you notice,and if you were to respond to us with your response to their message,we would block you as well ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got stood up and mr K wanted to block him but i said so no, i messaged him and said it was outrageous that he left a woman alone like that ,he replied and apologised! Then i blocked him!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A list would end up being abused, I was once called a ‘time waster’ after a few messages were sent to each other. No agreed meet just replying and sending messages to each other was wasting his time. So anyone could end up on the list for others to complain about. I have been let down previously, so I now just stick to meeting in clubs, even if they don’t turn up I can still have a good night.

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe

So I can relate to this, I feel that you can gauge if you want to agree to a meet after a few messages but I always feel bad about saying thanks, but no thanks if the person I'm talking to puts me off in some way, I'm always up front and polite if I dont want to meet them but still get time waster or some other form of derogatory comment hurled back.

I wouldn't ever set up a meet if I wasnt prepared to go through with it though.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france


"I got stood up and mr K wanted to block him but i said so no, i messaged him and said it was outrageous that he left a woman alone like that ,he replied and apologised! Then i blocked him!"

Well done and quite right too..

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By *unpetexyzaMan
over a year ago

Northant,Leicestershire, Warwickshire borders


"Sadly we have had 3 no shows and sadly all guys

We like mmf three sums but we have taken single guys off our meet list

We now only contact guys and arrange to meet them in clubs so if they don’t turn up we can still have a good night

Since we have made it that we can only contact guys we have had no time wasters "

There’s no way I wouldn’t turn up for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can count us as one of the many couples who will only meet at clubs now due to the number of last minute let downs, no shows on fab.

It really is the only way to do it to ensure you are not let down.

Even if the meet doesn't lead to anything both parties can still have fun with others in the club.

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one chance with us..its unfair to waste peoples time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just report them. It happens a lot.

We had someone vanish again yesterday.it all worked for the best in the end, but it’s so rude to make plans and not show, we had no contact either!

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

When I was in a couple we did get a lot of timewasters and last minute cancellations.

I suggested we go to clubs, but my ex didn’t want to. ( one of many reasons why he is my ex!)

As a single woman I always insist on a social first. I make sure it’s somewhere local that I am comfortable going to alone. I also usually have my fb on standby, or booked in for afters lol which fortunately is a turn on for him as well.

I can usually tell whether they are likely to be a timewaster these days thankfully.

I do feel sorry for you genuine single guys though xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Name and shame is not allowed. Cancelling a meet is though and it seems they gave you warning

If you don't get any warning or someone lets you go to a meet and don't turn up, report the profile an let Admin take a look

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