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By *ebbie69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Hi all

I have in the last month had quite a few messeges from couples where it appears the lady is speaking and saying will I meet her hubby for fun and him to film it for her / go home to her smelling of me.

Is this some sor of scam?

am I having a blonde moment lol

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By *ames CharenteMan
over a year ago

South West France. Dept 17

Ask to speak to the female on the phone. If they are genuine this should not be a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife might be busy or the wife is just a mirage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to say it happens quite a lot. Strangely by straight guys who obviously don't read our profile. We don't even bother to reply and block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get it all the time - we delete then block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bloke pretending to be a couple.....

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By *wanseapaulMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I've had "couples" wanting to meet, only to find out it's just a guy! Why FFS.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd say that a good proportion of these profiles are men pretending but this is a genuine thing for some couples. Just ask for a brief coffee meet with the wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages like this all the time.

Or ones from so called females asking if I’d meet their single male friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask to speak to the female on the phone. If they are genuine this should not be a problem."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to get these type of messages often hence in the end blocking couples .. its 90% of the time guys using a joint profile to get meets

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By *ebbie69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

thanks everyone it confirms my own thoughts

will insist on a phone chat or meet with the alledged lady and see what happens

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sounds like a bloke on his lonesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

I have in the last month had quite a few messeges from couples where it appears the lady is speaking and saying will I meet her hubby for fun and him to film it for her / go home to her smelling of me.

Is this some sor of scam?

am I having a blonde moment lol"

Many men pretend to be a single guy or single girl. Shame but it happens

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

I am guessing the wife has a puncture or is deflated (men with blow up dolls pretending it’s their wife) now I am thinking about the only fools and horses episode with the self inflating dolls in the van

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Might have been a couple once broke up then male using joint profile??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly we get a few of these, we just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple. There is no wife

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By *otwhenwetCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I am guessing the wife has a puncture or is deflated (men with blow up dolls pretending it’s their wife) now I am thinking about the only fools and horses episode with the self inflating dolls in the van "

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Ask to speak to the female on the phone. If they are genuine this should not be a problem."

First reply nailed it.

I've spoken to couples before where they are both into that scenario. But the hot husband is a rare one.

It might be genuine so if they are, the wife will have no problem chatting to you in the phone.

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Ask to speak to the female on the phone. If they are genuine this should not be a problem.

This "

Agreed.

Love your pics BTW

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By *hyandtwistedCouple
over a year ago

loughborough

The wife likes to see me fuck other women, and I like to see her fucked but she has to be there. Im not 100% on guys that meet alone in a couple and if they don't have veris that say they met as a couple recently we instantly think fake couple

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Ask to speak to the female on the phone. If they are genuine this should not be a problem.

First reply nailed it.

I've spoken to couples before where they are both into that scenario. But the hot husband is a rare one.

It might be genuine so if they are, the wife will have no problem chatting to you in the phone."

9 times out of 10 they will disappear when you ask to speak to her.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Sadly, the internet has long been a fantasy playground for those with bigger imaginations than abilities.

Add a sexually open audience to the mix and every self entitled weirdo who comes across the site will lie through their back teeth for personal entertainment.

Fake ages, profile pics, relationship status, sexuality and gender come to the fore in order to bypass filters.

On the plus side, when you do find a genuine person or couple, it's often well worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

I have in the last month had quite a few messeges from couples where it appears the lady is speaking and saying will I meet her hubby for fun and him to film it for her / go home to her smelling of me.

Is this some sor of scam?

am I having a blonde moment lol"

Scam yes guys posing as couples who want to make you think it's their partners idea. Goes along with "she urgently had to go to her mothers" "She's not feeling well" etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably lot of guys will read this post and think WTF why didn't I think if that

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We're a gen playing couple. I always look at couples veris to see if the fem is mentioned and if she plays.

Our veris quite clearly mention me - fem, and that I play. I have a hot husband, that I lend out. He has his own single profile, to contact and play as a single. I quite reg put on status, I will lend him out. But no takers on couples. More sucess on his singles. Approching couples as a single man on a single account has more sucess. Single men pretending to be a couple may learn from this! Hint hint.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Hi all

I have in the last month had quite a few messeges from couples where it appears the lady is speaking and saying will I meet her hubby for fun and him to film it for her / go home to her smelling of me.

Is this some sor of scam?

am I having a blonde moment lol"

In most cases it is a scam.

We have had a few messages where the guy says he is available but the wife is not. We normally respond along the lines of

"what a coincidence my wife is also at work what time do you want to meet?"

Funnily enough they are not interested after that

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

A lovely lady I know here went to meet a couple. Required a train journey to get there. When they arrived at the bar it was in fact a he. No fem at all. He went on to say they had recently split up but why should that effect anything.

BECAUSE SHES BI. That’s why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We occasionally get messages from couples like this and just block them. Very easy to spot a guy running a couples profile where the female as long since moved on.

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By *otwife for useCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Simple only a guy

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