FabSwingers.com forum: Are you worried about doing bareback on a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Curious to know, as so many people do bareback on meets here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never do bareback with someone I don’t trust 100%. Why take the risk of catching an sti?

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By *kbradMan
over a year ago

thurrock

Don't know how people do it, I've done it once ever, and I know it felt better but the next few weeks I felt awful until I had the all clear from the clinic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would not ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worried because I'd never do it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not worried about bareback penetration because we're soft swing. We don't use protection for oral but we don't worry about it as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I don't go there. Too many STI's around.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I use to do it and trust people on here.... Worked for a while then i caught something... Learned the hard way i am clean and will stay that way now, safe always now

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

No glove - no love.

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

Always safe here and still caught sti' s from oral. Can't be too safe x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Imagination is a wonderful thing, a girl I met ages ago used to want me to talk dirty to her during sex and tell her I'd taken the condom off (but I hadn't if that makes sense)

She really got off on me telling her I was going to fill her with cum

Dam I miss that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we prefer to not use protection with another couple this is by no means a safe method but we choose to do this as adults.

Just our point of view but we believe if you are going to involve another person in your sex life then you can't be free of risk by using condoms anyway although they do greatly aid in your/their protection.

We personally also don't worry about pregnancy problems either because I have a coil fitted. Obviously Dave my partner has that risk to consider being a functioning male with any lady that may not use any other contraceptives.

But on the whole we enjoy all aspects of sex such as kissing oral and using sex toys so the risk is always there for any infection to be passed on through sexual contact alone.

Ultimately though no the risk never goes away, that said we have been swinging now for between 4 to 6 years now and neither of us has either had any problems or a bad sexual health check result.

It's all a big personal choice though and with your head on your shoulders and some common sense it's up to others to make their own choices.

Hope that helps even a little! OP Xx

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It's like playing Russian Roulette ..

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nope only with each other

Miss

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Much as I would love to do BB, it's going to take a whole load of trust building.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I choose to do it, I'm not worrying about it. I'm adult enough to know what risks are involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not worried because I'd never do it"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being selective is much safer than relying 100% on condoms as a condom wont always save someone from getting an std.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't do it so we're not worried at all about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worried at all as I am not going to indulge and avoid those who do.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Safe sex only for us.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"If I choose to do it, I'm not worrying about it. I'm adult enough to know what risks are involved. "

Knowing the risks is one thing and living with the results is another...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never.

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By *aulHx69xMan
over a year ago

Herts

To many are taking risks, not for me safe all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

only person who goes up me bareback is my hubby

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Safe play for me

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Not worried don't do it simples x

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

"No glove - no love.

Exactly

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

"Being selective is much safer than relying 100% on condoms as a condom wont always save someone from getting an std."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry about it because we never would. Our sexual health is a priority

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Being selective is much safer than relying 100% on condoms as a condom wont always save someone from getting an std.

This."

You mean being selective and using a condom

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Lots seem to enjoy bareback, according to the hot pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, only hubby gets that pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not worried about bareback penetration because we're soft swing. We don't use protection for oral but we don't worry about it as such"

We have different version of soft...no oral either. Is that too soft?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others it's not something i worry about because it's not an option for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like others it's not something i worry about because it's not an option for me. "
never to risky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes my hairs falling out and i shake uncontrollably

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We only go bare with each other and make no assumptions about those we play with. We always use protection, even with couples we know well.

Nita

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By *r. JoystickMan
over a year ago

London

Yeah, I'd be worried.

I've turned down people who wanted it.

Even in cases where I've know them for a while, first meet, but still asked last minute for it.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Anyone who says they've never barebacked is a liar. That's right: I said it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who says they've never barebacked is a liar. That's right: I said it!"
omg you devil

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It's toooo risky..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take PrEP every day which means that I can’t catch HIV (statistically it’s safer than condoms)

And get a full sti chech up every 3 months.

I bareback on occasions, love the way it feels.

Love adding my load to an already cum filled hole.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Not worried at all. Never do bareback with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Respect myself and who I am with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not worried because I'd never do it"

this.

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

absolutely not, wouldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worth the stress, unless it's a regular partner and you know they are STI free. Had sex with a Brazilian transexual once and, in the heat of the moment, lost all sense and left the protection off. Thankfully she was STI free but the anxiety/embarrassment of having to go to the Sex Clinic for a HIV/Hep B test, then waiting for the result, means it's not a mistake I've ever repeated. Least I got a totally clean bill of health, but no, never again.

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By *iscrete77Man
over a year ago

King’s Lynn

No protection no sex if it’s a regular meet that you trust then yes no problem I’ve had the snip so no pregnancy issues but still wouldn’t risk an untrusted unprotected sexual partner

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By *ear norwichCouple
over a year ago

"Are we there yet"

"Curious to know, as so many people do bareback on meets here."

Hell no ... Can't wait to catch a slow lingering death sentence....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No bareback for me ever. STI risk is a big factor but also I just seem to have to look at a cock and I end up pregnant, and I don't take any form of contraceptive.

So just no, no babies no Stu's thanks

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Nope, not worried about it at all....'cos it aint going to happen....period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worried as I don't meet others

. Neither does he

. Sexual health check came back clear so we are enjoying that side of things together.

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By *heoralexpertMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough/Helmsley NY

Only ever do bare back with people you trust simple

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By *unscot44Man
over a year ago

Stepps (Glasgow)

I agree as much as sex without a condom feels so much better, definitely not worth the risk and would never do it on a meet

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Well we prefer to not use protection with another couple this is by no means a safe method but we choose to do this as adults.

But on the whole we enjoy all aspects of sex such as kissing oral and using sex toys so the risk is always there for any infection to be passed on through sexual contact alone.

Ultimately though no the risk never goes away, that said we have been swinging now for between 4 to 6 years now and neither of us has either had any problems or a bad sexual health check result.

It's all a big personal choice though and with your head on your shoulders and some common sense it's up to others to make their own choices.

Hope that helps even a little! OP Xx"

Hiya.

Totally respect your open view here and for being brave enough to voice against the norm on here... ( I dont personally think that every one that protests actually does as they say anyway and seen way more bareback play than safe in house parties and private meets.. in fact when i was a couple because I wouldn't go bare.. we struggled but anyway)

You say you dont worry as your on the coil but he obviously has to consider that any party he may play with should hopefully be on contraception but what if either parties contraception failed.. ( i got pregnant on the coil)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it with trusted friends always risk with anything

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

I only do bb with people I trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both prefer to do BB but wouldnt unless we trust the people involved, safe is important

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

What I don't understand is they use condom but give oral with nothing on the penis either ....I don't do oral without a condom on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you worry about something that won’t happen?

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"I take PrEP every day which means that I can’t catch HIV (statistically it’s safer than condoms)

And get a full sti chech up every 3 months.

I bareback on occasions, love the way it feels.

Love adding my load to an already cum filled hole. "

What's Prep?

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Wish more women were like you....

I'd love to do everything with protection, dental dams and condoms..... very few women will suck with a condom.... means I restrict my meets to inexperienced people with few or no veris to minimise risks

And def no BB meets!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"What I don't understand is they use condom but give oral with nothing on the penis either ....I don't do oral without a condom on"
the risk is considerably less. I hate the guys that try to argue if I dont use one for oral.. whats the point for sex... well it's a big difference between the risks

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By *andCberksCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

Just a point people go on about bareback all the time but how many of you do oral sex which has the same risks

STIs commonly caught through oral sex are:

gonorrhoea

genital herpes

syphilis

Infections less frequently passed on through oral sex include:

chlamydia

HIV

hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C

genital warts

pubic lice

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Not worried because I'd never do it"

This

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I'm a little confused.

People are saying they only do BB with "people they trust".

Is this some sort of magical pill that I havent heard of... "trust"... that stops people catching STI's?

These "people we trust"... they are swingers, right?

So they have sex with others, perhaps "people they trust" too.... ya see where I'm going with this?

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Despite being the lesser dated single man, if a woman’s picture has bareback I would avoid.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Somebody tried it me with recently despite me stating 3 times he needed to use a condom.

He couldn't understand what my problem was, when I threw him halfway across the room.

If, I choose not to use one, it would only be with someone I knew, and totally trusted and that person only

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I am pleased that the large majority on this thread are saying they avoid it, although the forum is not the same as Fab overall.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Just a point people go on about bareback all the time but how many of you do oral sex which has the same risks

STIs commonly caught through oral sex are:

gonorrhoea

genital herpes

syphilis

Infections less frequently passed on through oral sex include:

chlamydia

HIV

hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C

genital warts

pubic lice"
yes you can catch stuff via oral but the risk is considerably less. Hence i take the chance with oral without. Although its rare I get cum in my mouth.. so it's a risk im happy to take. Im not prepared to risk having full sex without a condom and I dont do anal casually at all

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I'm not at all worried about doing a bareback meet because I would never ever do one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me, only hubby gets that pleasure "

This for us also..

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Like any lottery or card game it's s game of chance that I will not take. I don't gamble with sexual health. It's silly in my opinion.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I am pleased that the large majority on this thread are saying they avoid it, although the forum is not the same as Fab overall. "

The forums are a dam good representation of members., you seen to be saying that the majority of people on fab go bare back which I honestly doubt is true ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry as I would never do it.

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I am pleased that the large majority on this thread are saying they avoid it, although the forum is not the same as Fab overall.

The forums are a dam good representation of members., you seen to be saying that the majority of people on fab go bare back which I honestly doubt is true ?"

No idea on the fab figures for this particular issue, but in general terms I'd absolutely dispute that the forum is a "dam (sic) good representation of members"! I'd bet only a relatively small and very specific subset of members have ever even thought about using it.

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

So just no, no babies no Stu's thanks

What have you got against guys called Stuart?

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

So the majority of people have said that they wouldn't consider bareback penetration with a fab meet, and I too fall into that category. Oral has been touched on, but not mentioned by most posters, and I'm intrigued to know what percentage apply the same rules for oral?

I've never tried protected oral (either way), or even been asked to. I wouldn't mind receiving through a condom, but I do think giving cunnilingus through a dental dam would take every ounce of joy out of one of my favourite activities. (And yes, I'm aware that sounds a lot like the quotes people used to/do say about condoms for penetration!)

So how many on here genuinely only do protected oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just no, no babies no Stu's thanks

What have you got against guys called Stuart?

ha I didn't notice the typo! Must subconsciously not like "Stuart" haha.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Not worried as wouldn't do or consider, we save that for between ourselves.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It really is like Russian Roulette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people should worry about what they do themselves and not what others do everyone has there choice they know the risk live and let live

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agreed

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

The rate of hiv infection is alarming.I work in the blood screening section @ guys hospital London.some people don't take safe message serious.once you are infected your life will never be the same again. End up taking different combination of drugs for the rest of your life.

Don't trust anyone.if you enjoy bareback do it with your man/woman.safe sex is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No glove, no love full stop

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

It has to be something we all totally agree on, and the mood has to be right as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never bare back unless both parties are comfortable with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would I worry when I simply won't do it.

If it's asked for I say use a condom or leave if you choose not to

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, cos I don’t.

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

After a recent clean bill of health from the Gum clinic it’s important to spread the safe sex message

Only once 15 years ago was I caught out with a regular play partner who had chlamydia- simple course of antibiotics then safe sex with everyone after that

Was married for about 10 years and glove free with that person x

Then after separating enjoyed a wild few years but with regular check up x

Recently had a few non condom oral ( received)

Spoke to health practitioner at clinic who said it’s rare but not impossible for the giver to catch many of the disease listed in previous posts but those who receive are more at risk x this was for male recipients

Not sure the stats /risks for male on female oral

Anyone with any knowledge of this x

Don’t know how that is for male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

by accident...... yes

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By *rennan and BoothCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Dont forget HPV ! can catch this using a condom or oral ( ask Michael Douglas) If you have the cancer causing sort it can affect your partner. They have only started screening since Sept 2018 during smear tests. The NHS wont test women.. only high risk males. Alot of fems finding out they HPV positive now.. death knell to oral play.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

I wouldn't be worried as it would never happen no glove no love simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wear a rain Mac when going somewhere wet

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By *ral lover01Man
over a year ago

Gran Canaria, Altrincham & Portsmouth, north West, South East

I will only go bare if I'm in a relationship and we are both clear after recent tests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like playing Russian Roulette ..

I'll say.

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By *H and HJCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Not worried as we don’t and wouldn’t-simple as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like playing Russian Roulette ..

I'll say. "

It's nothing at all like playing Russian roulette

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

"It's like playing Russian Roulette ..

I'll say.

It's nothing at all like playing Russian roulette "

This!

What a load of bollocks "it's Russian roulette" If you actually knew what you were talking about then you'd know RR ends in certain death for someone. Pretty sure BB sex doesn't guarantee death. Just a dumb comment that gets trotted out all too much when these threads pop up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I love the risk

"
Jesus you don't have much longer to live if you keep on

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By *ean1892Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I’m going to make you come hard xxx

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

As a single guys myself I use condoms with most the time until I know the person/people better

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I am quite often disappointed by the number of men that want to bareback.

A meet not long ago was more worried about me scratching his back than he obviously was about giving his partner an Sti. I know I am clear, but there’s a reason I am!

Non latex condoms for oral are much better as they don’t taste yuck

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"It's like playing Russian Roulette ..

I'll say.

It's nothing at all like playing Russian roulette

This!

Russian Roulette does not have to end in death.. you can stop playing after a round or so ..

It's bloomin dangerous though in my opinion and the odds to catch a STI are similar...

Sex without a condom is like putting a gun to your head but only a fool would pull that trigger.. stay safe folks

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Im not worried. If i don't want to do bareback, i don't. It doesn't really worry me.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"It's like playing Russian Roulette ..

I'll say.

It's nothing at all like playing Russian roulette

This!

Russian Roulette does not have to end in death.. you can stop playing after a round or so ..

It's bloomin dangerous though in my opinion and the odds to catch a STI are similar...

Sex without a condom is like putting a gun to your head but only a fool would pull that trigger.. stay safe folks "

“Sex without a condom is like putting a gun to your head but only a fool would pull that trigger.. stay safe folks”

Putting a loaded gun to your head and pulling the trigger is very likely to kill you.

Sex without a condom doesn’t necessarily kill .

Sex without a condom doesn’t give you an STI; it will only happen if the person you had sex with is infected.

Even if you catch an STI it won’t kill you. You might die if you don’t take treatment.

I fully support the notion of Safe Sex.

However, I won’t say ‘ gun to the head ‘ is the same as ‘sex without a condom’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might be in the minority, but I love sex with a condom on! Just adds to it for me. Love porn where the guy has one as well!

Like I said though I'm guessing I'm in the minority x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably most people when in normal everyday thought say oh would never do bareback, but alot of meets start with a social meet or club with alcohol involved and I bet alot go bareback without a second thought.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"I might be in the minority, but I love sex with a condom on! Just adds to it for me. Love porn where the guy has one as well!

Like I said though I'm guessing I'm in the minority x"

I love the point of the condom going on, does it for me. Every now and then use one together keep his practice up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, kind of adds to the build up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never do bb

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By *erfectly Average CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Never ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply wont

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By *ear norwichCouple
over a year ago

"Are we there yet"

STI pails into insignificance against a death sentence of aids. I'm guessing you peep's that do barebacks hussle.up a little Russian roulette for an encore. I mean let's keep it simple 3 live 3 blank and spin the barrel ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worried about it in the slightest as i would never do it...why take the chance?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"STI pails into insignificance against a death sentence of aids. I'm guessing you peep's that do barebacks hussle.up a little Russian roulette for an encore. I mean let's keep it simple 3 live 3 blank and spin the barrel ... "

It's like you've never heard of PrEP.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bare back is a hard no from me, a tumble in the sheets is not worth risking my health but if I was someone who did agree to bare back meets, I feel like I would worry constantly

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By *everlyandersonTV/TS
over a year ago

newcastle

no way !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be a straight no, you don't know this person. The only way it would happen is if they have proof they've been checked that week and clear and even that would be a risk

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No I wouldn’t do it. I’m surprised at the number of people that say they would and I include in that the ones that say they only do it with someone they trust. That one that they trust probably has someone else that they trust - and so on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not worried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No really bad std these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No really bad std these days"
really?

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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

We always use protection in full sex and blow jobs

We’ve turned a load of meets down due to wanting unprotected sex

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By *ude boy 2017Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Once with a couple she wanted dvp without condom so we would both cum inside her it was temping but better safe than sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No really bad std these days"

Is that a stupid joke?

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I’d always use protection. No argument there!

Still doesn’t stop my mind from thinking I should use protection for oral too though....

As we all know, we can still catch things through oral.. so most of us choose not to protect when doing oral but do when penetrating?!

I always get tested, frequency depending on how active I’ve been.

I do admit though, if I have been playing with a guy on a regular basis, and there is trust and honesty, I would consider bare back. But only if I’d known the guy for sometime and there is a good strong friendship there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes especially if they have spots

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

"yes especially if they have spots

Just threw up a little to that thought

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Barebackers are selfish in my opinion ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes especially if they have spots

Just threw up a little to that thought"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Barebackers are selfish in my opinion ...

So two people who decide to have BB sex are selfish?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Barebackers are selfish in my opinion ...

Luckily this is a non-judgemental forum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Barebackers are selfish in my opinion ...

Luckily this is a non-judgemental forum..."
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive only ever bare backed one person on here. But i was seeing her for nearly two years.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Barebackers are selfish in my opinion ...

Luckily this is a non-judgemental forum..."

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Barebackers are selfish in my opinion ...

Whatever one's position is on bareback (please excuse the pun..) let'a respect eachother's choices.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Depends on the meet. One offs or people I don't know well, no. A very regular partner who I trust, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These posts always throw up an abundance of Barry bullshitters

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

"Barebackers are selfish in my opinion ...

So two people who decide to have BB sex are selfish? "

The selfish part comes into when the barebacker wants to meet someone who doesn't want to meet barebackers. They will say they always use condoms so lying to get what they want. The person who doesn't want to meet barebackers is put at risk to their risky behaviours should an accident occur i.e. condom breaking or coming off. Is this fair?

Just because they are willing to wear a condom doesn't make it ok. Anyone who barebacks shouldn't put safe sex on their profile because there's nothing safe about them. People who do safer sex want as risk free as possible. That means only having sex with others who value safer sex and regular testing.

Don't you think it's selfish if someone lies to get what they want?

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Anyone who lies to get sex ..

Not good

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By *ntraditionalwomanWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"I take PrEP every day which means that I can’t catch HIV (statistically it’s safer than condoms)

And get a full sti chech up every 3 months.

I bareback on occasions, love the way it feels.

Love adding my load to an already cum filled hole. "

How are you getting hold of that, are you paying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to know, as so many people do bareback on meets here."

Never do bareback

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By *enuinetallstuMan
over a year ago

nr beauly

"Well we prefer to not use protection with another couple this is by no means a safe method but we choose to do this as adults.

But on the whole we enjoy all aspects of sex such as kissing oral and using sex toys so the risk is always there for any infection to be passed on through sexual contact alone.

Ultimately though no the risk never goes away, that said we have been swinging now for between 4 to 6 years now and neither of us has either had any problems or a bad sexual health check result.

It's all a big personal choice though and with your head on your shoulders and some common sense it's up to others to make their own choices.

Hope that helps even a little! OP Xx"

Great to hear people being open and honest. Everyone is able to make an informed choice as to what they do sexually. It is about knowing the risks and acting accordingly. Your sexual health is yours alone. Have fun, know your limits and get checked regularly.

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By *edonismproMan
over a year ago

Essex

" They will say they always use condoms so lying to get what they want. "

That part of your theory doesn't follow. A lot of people who bareback are upfront about it, and some even stay in their own bb social circles. The problem here seems to be liars, not barebackers.

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

Unless you live with someone 24/7 you could never trust them . My personal opinion is this who enjoy BB should make it clear before a meet .It's totally up to the individual but it's also very irresponsible in my book .. I'm old enough to remember the Aids campaign ..so not a chance I would want anything to do with any BB people :/

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

" They will say they always use condoms so lying to get what they want.

That part of your theory doesn't follow. A lot of people who bareback are upfront about it, and some even stay in their own bb social circles. The problem here seems to be liars, not barebackers."

It's not theory but experience.

So many guys who bareback on here and lie about it but forget they post the pictures of their bareback meets or the verifications they leave going on about how much they loved filling a pussy with their spunk/ or filling their ass etc etc. Swear they always use condoms.

It goes the same with the guys who deliberately bust condoms or take them off. Because bareback feels better.

I don't want to meet people who bareback random people. But these guys want get what they want and will lie through their teeth disregarding what I want. So that makes them selfish and liars, it's fine they can go risk their health but what right do they have to risk mine. My choice my body

How hard is it to respect that, barebackers can go do what ever they like just not with me and I'm sure many others on fab who feel the same about being put at more risk than necessary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I take PrEP every day which means that I can’t catch HIV (statistically it’s safer than condoms)

And get a full sti chech up every 3 months.

I bareback on occasions, love the way it feels.

Love adding my load to an already cum filled hole.

How are you getting hold of that, are you paying"

The problem with a lot people whom use prep, is that they seem to ignore the risks of hepatitis etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to know, as so many people do bareback on meets here."

Definitely not

condoms

safe sex

always for me

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

There could be a forum just for the bareback rouletters.

Maybe I will ask admin..

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By *ear norwichCouple
over a year ago

"Are we there yet"

A.I.D.S.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am really happy but also shock from all the pictures on fab, that people are so self aware of STD’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many timesssss. NEVER DO IT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People make their own choices - educated or not.

Do what's best for you.

I know how to look after my body. Tests show I do it well.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"It should be a straight no, you don't know this person. The only way it would happen is if they have proof they've been checked that week and clear and even that would be a risk"

Even checked that week and clean isn’t a guarantee. Different infections take time to show in testing, HIV around 13 weeks.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No I don’t worry about it because it’s a ‘no’ from me. A lot of people appear to be doing it and add into the mix the ones that only do it with ‘their special friends that they trust’ who in turn do it with their special friends, and it’s a minefield. No thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry about it and I wouldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t and don’t do it.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

No bareback for me I'm afraid.

Not worth the risk

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By *ing CobraaMan
over a year ago

Kings Lynn

Nah fuck that lol

I’m way too careful

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By *oinus1961Couple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Don't meet now but always made it clear that "safe" was non negotiable. Only bare back is with hubby. One guy said he had a "problem" with condoms. I insisted. He managed to wreck ALL of them. Needless to say I thought he was a bit of a duplicitous prick and he went away unfulfilled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many bareback pictures on here. It's frightening.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Jesus , never Bareback

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