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By *oetic licence OP   Couple
over a year ago

Matlock

We popped a meet up last Tuesday for tonight. We don't often meet a single man but decided it was going to happen. We had a lot of messages and managed to narrow it down to one man. He was keen, he was local, has verifications, all was good but then nothing for 2 days, he's not even been online. So back to the drawing board but got overwhelmed by all the messages it was a huge turn off. So just wondering, how do you organise a mmf. Is it last minute? Or planned by chatting? Just in case we want to meet a man again. Thanks Shelly. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We popped a meet up last Tuesday for tonight. We don't often meet a single man but decided it was going to happen. We had a lot of messages and managed to narrow it down to one man. He was keen, he was local, has verifications, all was good but then nothing for 2 days, he's not even been online. So back to the drawing board but got overwhelmed by all the messages it was a huge turn off. So just wondering, how do you organise a mmf. Is it last minute? Or planned by chatting? Just in case we want to meet a man again. Thanks Shelly. Xx"

We always plan by chatting and even then the no show happens. Too many just dreaming about it and bottle it when it comes to actual meet. Even when it's a social meet only.

Mrs

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hope one of his children aren’t in hospital.

Fingers crossed.

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By *oetic licence OP   Couple
over a year ago

Matlock


"Hope one of his children aren’t in hospital.

Fingers crossed."

He never mentioned kids! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found them, mailed them then chatted to prove I existed and that our couple profile wasn't just a wanking man. We never waited for them to mail us first, as that usually just gets wanking dreamers.

We never had a no show in 4 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We popped a meet up last Tuesday for tonight. We don't often meet a single man but decided it was going to happen. We had a lot of messages and managed to narrow it down to one man. He was keen, he was local, has verifications, all was good but then nothing for 2 days, he's not even been online. So back to the drawing board but got overwhelmed by all the messages it was a huge turn off. So just wondering, how do you organise a mmf. Is it last minute? Or planned by chatting? Just in case we want to meet a man again. Thanks Shelly. Xx"
shelly just pencil me in its the only way

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By *oetic licence OP   Couple
over a year ago

Matlock


"I found them, mailed them then chatted to prove I existed and that our couple profile wasn't just a wanking man. We never waited for them to mail us first, as that usually just gets wanking dreamers.

We never had a no show in 4 years."

This is our 1st.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found them, mailed them then chatted to prove I existed and that our couple profile wasn't just a wanking man. We never waited for them to mail us first, as that usually just gets wanking dreamers.

We never had a no show in 4 years.

This is our 1st. "

Have fun doing something else. He may have a genuine issue and not been online.

We had a guy disappear the week before the planned meet then he suddenly mailed us the day before to say he'd fallen off a roof. 'Errr yeah right' we thought.

Kept chatting, met him 2 weeks later and he was still covered in bruises, it was all true. Lovely guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have 'Real' lives and things crop up, but unfortunately single males for mfm can be like unicorns.

Unless mfm is really there thing many would take a single f over mfm if it came up.

Look for men with lots of repeat veris and who keep in contact.

There are some real gems out there.

Happy Fabbing, and don't be put off yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last minute would probably be best, guys will be all excited and show up, doing it well in advance gives them plenty of opportunity to find something they perceive to be better to do, wank too much or bottle out

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By *old1974Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I NEVER stand anyone up or miss a meet In last 5 years even in deep snow.xx

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Up until a few weeks ago we were doing werll ,chats first ,then a social meet and thenhey ho good meet was had ,but now its all chatting ,pic swap etc ,then on day of meet SILENCE or in one case he blocked us ,now any change of mind for whatever reason is expected ,but for Christs sake have the balls to say ,we wont be angry or offended ,at least we would know as with most time is very precious ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a meet out the night you want to play if they reply to you by all means do all the checks on there profile & ask for pics if they haven’t got any visible & if there serious about the meet ask to chat to them on the phone

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By *oetic licence OP   Couple
over a year ago

Matlock


"Put a meet out the night you want to play if they reply to you by all means do all the checks on there profile & ask for pics if they haven’t got any visible & if there serious about the meet ask to chat to them on the phone "

That's what we did. We've been in the site for 8 years and this is the 1sy but we're In a different place, I suppose just wondering if we need to do something different. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a meet out the night you want to play if they reply to you by all means do all the checks on there profile & ask for pics if they haven’t got any visible & if there serious about the meet ask to chat to them on the phone

That's what we did. We've been in the site for 8 years and this is the 1sy but we're In a different place, I suppose just wondering if we need to do something different. X"
xx

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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

We try all sorts of methods but sometimes it fails, yes and the sick child excuse does get used lol

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