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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Fabsteroos

Musing again!

Is every woman able to squirt? My playmate says not, is he right?

Be nice...

Bhubaysi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of posts about it. Search the forums they usually blow up arguing if it exists lol

Not every woman does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and i dont want to

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

I never have

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

No...and I'm not bothered either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, and having had a couple of guys attempt to 'get me to', I've no wish to either.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"No and i dont want to"

Ditto

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

You should start a therapy group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

These are the statements I find ludicrous.

Do you not realise that NOT every woman actually WANTS to squirt.

The last guy to try that with me ended up in a taxi so fast, he barely had time to dress.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "
Have you done a survey ? Or is this based on the opinions of someone with more ego than brains ....

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I do but dont want to sometimes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physiologically no they can't as it's down to anatomy

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex


"I do but dont want to sometimes..."

Like at the checkout in Sainsburys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its psychological

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a good set of fingers of course

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Fabsteroos

Musing again!

Is every woman able to squirt? My playmate says not, is he right?

Be nice...

Bhubaysi x "

my squirt testing service is available. Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably not.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I can but it takes work for me to squirt!! But I can squirt.

Most can but it does take work for some more than the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i squirt...

i need to be extremely turn on and in a long session to do so ..

do i want to squirt ...no not unless it just happens normally during fun nothing worse than a guy who wants to make you squirt but instead makes you sore so apart from the couple guys and hubs who can make me squirt when the rest ask i say no and if they say do you want to try i say no a normal orgasm is way way better anyway ...

its almost become a conquest for some guys ..they aint happy unless you squirt if only they put the same amount of effort into fucking then all us women would be happy lol

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge

Have you done a survey ? Or is this based on the opinions of someone with more ego than brains .... "

I’m sensing an answer...

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone

I’m a squirter

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By *ob_nwMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

I once got a lady to squirt !! or a least thats what i thought, turns out she just pissed herself laughing at the size of my cock !!! thats as close as i got to a squirting lady and can't say it's top of my list when looking for a lady

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I never have so I don't know.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge

These are the statements I find ludicrous.

Do you not realise that NOT every woman actually WANTS to squirt.

The last guy to try that with me ended up in a taxi so fast, he barely had time to dress. "

Well said.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

What kind of trauma?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

what a pathetic statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "
sorry but thats crap...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All women can squirt if you cut the right artery

(But no OP, not all women can squirt)

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"No and i dont want to"

This for me too

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Piss themselves? If they want to, probably

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex


"All women can squirt if you cut the right artery

"

For clarity, is that your right or mine? I don't want fuck it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Piss themselves? If they want to, probably "

‘But squirt isnt piss!!!!!’

It’s diluted urine, ya silly sausages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

What sort of ' traumer' are we talking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All women can squirt if you cut the right artery

For clarity, is that your right or mine? I don't want fuck it up. "

You pick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and the squirting porn thats on sale or on the net is just like the fake cum shots done by some of the guys ..women in porn fill there vagina with water for the scene's and let go hence most squirting in porn looks nothing like the squirting at home squirting in porn looks like a firemans hose has been set off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

Ew no thank you, most men who say they’re able to make all women squirt, are usually shite. Just bash their fingers in and complain you’re broken when their amazing technique doesn’t make me gush. No ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women don’t like the uncomfortable efforts of those inexperienced guys, who have the “I’ve watched porn, so I know how to do the vigorous finger banging that makes them squirt technique”.

All that is designed to do is put pressure on the bladder and break the seal of the external urethral sphincter, that sits more ventral to the g-spot.

However, if a women has had her g-spot area massaged correctly & the Skeen’s gland secretions have had time to be extravasated into the surrounding tissue, then any strong pelvic contractions can push this milky fluid out of the Skeen’s ducts, located around & inside the urethral opening & therefore, the vigorous & sometimes uncomfortable “finger banging” is not necessary.

As long as she has control of her urethral sphincter, the resulting “squirt” will also be female ejaculate & not urine.

In my opinion, (usually decisive), all women are capable of this genuine female ejaculation, the problem is most men are not prepared to put in the effort.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Great! A woman that isn’t in control of her sphincter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of women don’t like the uncomfortable efforts of those inexperienced guys, who have the “I’ve watched porn, so I know how to do the vigorous finger banging that makes them squirt technique”.

All that is designed to do is put pressure on the bladder and break the seal of the external urethral sphincter, that sits more ventral to the g-spot.

However, if a women has had her g-spot area massaged correctly & the Skeen’s gland secretions have had time to be extravasated into the surrounding tissue, then any strong pelvic contractions can push this milky fluid out of the Skeen’s ducts, located around & inside the urethral opening & therefore, the vigorous & sometimes uncomfortable “finger banging” is not necessary.

As long as she has control of her urethral sphincter, the resulting “squirt” will also be female ejaculate & not urine.

In my opinion, (usually decisive), all women are capable of this genuine female ejaculation, the problem is most men are not prepared to put in the effort.

"

this also is untrue plenty on google by the medical teams to suggest between 10% to 52% of women can squirt ..so it seems not all can ...but theres another theory to they are thinking now that some of the women who squirt do it backward fuilds go back into the bladder rather than exit may explain why some women feel good but dont get the fluid ..just found that out via google lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time my Mrs gushed was only about 5 years ago after we’ve been together 35 years!! Got to get right angle and right mood

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Nope. And I'm personally sick of constantly being asked 'do you squirt?'.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

I can't, I don't. I find the sweeping statement offensive, and the notion that you think yourself some sort of healer nothing short of terrifying.

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex


"All women can squirt if you cut the right artery

For clarity, is that your right or mine? I don't want fuck it up.

You pick "

Oh lord! that's messy, and FYI left was best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

this also is untrue plenty on google by the medical teams to suggest between 10% to 52% of women can squirt ..so it seems not all can ...but theres another theory to they are thinking now that some of the women who squirt do it backward fuilds go back into the bladder rather than exit may explain why some women feel good but dont get the fluid ..just found that out via google lol "

This is because there are Skeen’s duct openings inside the urethra in “some” women, but not all. If the urethral opening is blocked or closed off, as is often the case when fingers are massaging the g spot, then the fluid produced by the Skeen’s gland enters the urethra and “backs up” in to the bladder. This is why you can find Skeen’s secretions in “forced out” urine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

this also is untrue plenty on google by the medical teams to suggest between 10% to 52% of women can squirt ..so it seems not all can ...but theres another theory to they are thinking now that some of the women who squirt do it backward fuilds go back into the bladder rather than exit may explain why some women feel good but dont get the fluid ..just found that out via google lol

This is because there are Skeen’s duct openings inside the urethra in “some” women, but not all. If the urethral opening is blocked or closed off, as is often the case when fingers are massaging the g spot, then the fluid produced by the Skeen’s gland enters the urethra and “backs up” in to the bladder. This is why you can find Skeen’s secretions in “forced out” urine. "
you are in the medical profession right?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge

I can't, I don't. I find the sweeping statement offensive, and the notion that you think yourself some sort of healer nothing short of terrifying. "

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I find it amusing how SOME (not all) men think they are so good a few flicks of the bean will have women squirting like a hosepipe ...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I find it amusing how SOME (not all) men think they are so good a few flicks of the bean will have women squirting like a hosepipe ... "

The whole "baby, I am that good" thing screams inexperience, arrogance, or both.

Either way, it's a hard no from me.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"

this also is untrue plenty on google by the medical teams to suggest between 10% to 52% of women can squirt ..so it seems not all can ...but theres another theory to they are thinking now that some of the women who squirt do it backward fuilds go back into the bladder rather than exit may explain why some women feel good but dont get the fluid ..just found that out via google lol

This is because there are Skeen’s duct openings inside the urethra in “some” women, but not all. If the urethral opening is blocked or closed off, as is often the case when fingers are massaging the g spot, then the fluid produced by the Skeen’s gland enters the urethra and “backs up” in to the bladder. This is why you can find Skeen’s secretions in “forced out” urine. you are in the medical profession right? "
A wannabe gynaecologist ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im only a nurse when i put the rubber outfit on i learnt my trade via google i learnt men can squirt too when they take a extra large strap-on they excrete urine via the tear ducts sometimes there will be sperm but only if you squeeze the balls extra hard ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't.. I'm not into hard finger play either so I don't want to try

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't.. I'm not into hard finger play either so I don't want to try "

So often the squirt masters are just into mining your cervix for gold. It bloody hurts, guys, don't!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

What a load of bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love the topics in the forum and even more so the ludicrous answers by some of the local stallions !!! Pmsl

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

This is an absolutely disgusting thing to suggest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im only a nurse when i put the rubber outfit on i learnt my trade via google i learnt men can squirt too when they take a extra large strap-on they excrete urine via the tear ducts sometimes there will be sperm but only if you squeeze the balls extra hard .. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently, all blokes can squirt if you bash the prostate hard enough. Perhaps we should all be ramming 4 fingers up your rectums. After all, you can all do it. Bend over boys!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"A lot of women don’t like the uncomfortable efforts of those inexperienced guys, who have the “I’ve watched porn, so I know how to do the vigorous finger banging that makes them squirt technique”.

All that is designed to do is put pressure on the bladder and break the seal of the external urethral sphincter, that sits more ventral to the g-spot.

However, if a women has had her g-spot area massaged correctly & the Skeen’s gland secretions have had time to be extravasated into the surrounding tissue, then any strong pelvic contractions can push this milky fluid out of the Skeen’s ducts, located around & inside the urethral opening & therefore, the vigorous & sometimes uncomfortable “finger banging” is not necessary.

As long as she has control of her urethral sphincter, the resulting “squirt” will also be female ejaculate & not urine.

In my opinion, (usually decisive), all women are capable of this genuine female ejaculation, the problem is most men are not prepared to put in the effort.

"

Sorry but I think the last part is bullshit. I have slept with women who can squirt and their partners who can make them squirt but I never have. I just think each of us is made differently and respond to different things.

I find it interesting that there isn't as much debate about how some men can't cum from blowjobs, women being on top or prostate stimulation alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only talk from personal experience, once I learned how to do it, That it worked on every other lady I’ve been with. (only learned by pure fluke btw haha) I think it’s more important that there is a connection though, if you want things to be mind blowing.

But I know everyone’s different. Suppose it’s just down to each of our experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn has a lot to answer for.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Porn has a lot to answer for. "

God doesn't it just.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only talk from personal experience, once I learned how to do it, That it worked on every other lady I’ve been with. (only learned by pure fluke btw haha) I think it’s more important that there is a connection though, if you want things to be mind blowing.

But I know everyone’s different. Suppose it’s just down to each of our experiences. "

ive met guys who have made other women squirt yet failed to get me to squirt .. one tool does not fix all we are all different and complex guys who say they can make any woman squirt are clearly squirting bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Porn has a lot to answer for. "

i just read on google about how the women in porn syringe water in there vaginas just before the squirt scene... just like the massive cum shots from men so yes porn has a hell of a lot to explain

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By *rank40Man
over a year ago

London

Depends on shape of the cock and stroke n strides , teasing and forplay helps

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I can only talk from personal experience, once I learned how to do it, That it worked on every other lady I’ve been with. (only learned by pure fluke btw haha) I think it’s more important that there is a connection though, if you want things to be mind blowing.

But I know everyone’s different. Suppose it’s just down to each of our experiences.

ive met guys who have made other women squirt yet failed to get me to squirt .. one tool does not fix all we are all different and complex guys who say they can make any woman squirt are clearly squirting bullshit "

I don't understand why it's so mind blowing that even if something works for most women it doesn't mean it will for all. I know first hand from having sex with women that I prefer oral sex to be a lot more gentle than the majority of others. So many men though don't listen when I tell them this and insist on going too hard as it "usually works" and then wonder why I'm uncomfortable and eventually numb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES if they couldn't they would pop. Getting fed up of people making out this embarrassment cover up for pissing them selves is a wonder thing its just fekin sad people need an excuse.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

This just in: all women are individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physiologically no they can't as it's down to anatomy "

I disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on shape of the cock and stroke n strides , teasing and forplay helps"

You're another that's not understanding a woman's individual desires. You think all you have to do is a,b,c and she'll squirt like a fountain. Except you've not taken into account whether she actually WANTS to or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great! A woman that isn’t in control of her sphincter. "

It's down to the dwindling oestrogen. Exercises may help but then again may not.

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By *rank40Man
over a year ago

London


"Depends on shape of the cock and stroke n strides , teasing and forplay helps

You're another that's not understanding a woman's individual desires. You think all you have to do is a,b,c and she'll squirt like a fountain. Except you've not taken into account whether she actually WANTS to or not. "

If I’m not able to make you squirt you are forshore cumming on my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YES if they couldn't they would pop. Getting fed up of people making out this embarrassment cover up for pissing them selves is a wonder thing its just fekin sad people need an excuse. "

yep proven to be mostly pee but also proven to be a very sexual act and not just a piss yourself moment most who squirt do not ''piss the bed''

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on shape of the cock and stroke n strides , teasing and forplay helps

You're another that's not understanding a woman's individual desires. You think all you have to do is a,b,c and she'll squirt like a fountain. Except you've not taken into account whether she actually WANTS to or not.

If I’m not able to make you squirt you are forshore cumming on my cock "

female ejaculation and squirting are 2 very very different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't.. I'm not into hard finger play either so I don't want to try "

Only gentle massaging is needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YES if they couldn't they would pop. Getting fed up of people making out this embarrassment cover up for pissing them selves is a wonder thing its just fekin sad people need an excuse. "

You're wrong but also right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s bad enough having to lie on the wet spots never mind lying on a soaked bed!

No OP, not every woman squirts. Personally I’d see it as a curse and would have no interest in another female drenching me either. Natural juices are wonderful. Being water boarded is not.

Just my preference of course

Miss V

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I just wish that a) those of us who are uninterested would be left alone about it, b) those who do would stop being shamed about it, and c) people would stop looking for shortcuts to seeing women as individuals with individual desires and sensitivities.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Depends on shape of the cock and stroke n strides , teasing and forplay helps

You're another that's not understanding a woman's individual desires. You think all you have to do is a,b,c and she'll squirt like a fountain. Except you've not taken into account whether she actually WANTS to or not.

If I’m not able to make you squirt you are forshore cumming on my cock

female ejaculation and squirting are 2 very very different things "

That's the most seance posted on here though I do think its a good cover up excuse for some.

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By *rank40Man
over a year ago

London

Do us a favour and log off and never return

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Be nice peeps.....

All your feedback is really much appreciated.

I was beginning to think something was wrong with me in not being able to squirt....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Be nice peeps.....

All your feedback is really much appreciated.

I was beginning to think something was wrong with me in not being able to squirt....

"

As long as everyone's having fun, there's no right or wrong way to have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never done it until very recently; it was a shock. Think for me it was a mental block initially. Now the right guy, in the right spot causes a mess! I play with women and some can squirt very easily, some need lots of play and others it’s a no. As long as it’s fun everyone is happy

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Do any ladies feel pressure from reading Fab forums to squirt or not?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Do any ladies feel pressure from reading Fab forums to squirt or not?

"

I feel the pressure being applied, yes. But honestly, anyone who thinks any aspect of sex (other than consent) is compulsory, can fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have and don't feel I am missing out by not doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any ladies feel pressure from reading Fab forums to squirt or not?

"

Yes, definitely ! There’s lots of pressure to look, act and ‘perform’ a certain way, but that’s from social media and porn, not Fab. That’s my view on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can squirt alot bed gets soaked throu

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

No and I don't want to.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

This is probably the most polarising subject other than the dreaded b****t!

Personally I didn’t think I could, but have discovered that I can about a year ago and it feels amazing. However I don’t squirt a lot so no soaking mattresses etc.

I have since made another lady squirt which was an awesome feeling. It does require gentleness and patience though.

I am sure that like most things not everyone can, even if that’s just because they don’t want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge

These are the statements I find ludicrous.

Do you not realise that NOT every woman actually WANTS to squirt.

The last guy to try that with me ended up in a taxi so fast, he barely had time to dress. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not all women can squirt, some can with ease, others can't, aslong as they can reach orgasm who cares?!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Everyone is different...

As long as pleasure is the foremost concern then that is the most important factor of sex to me.

And yes I can squirt with men who know me very well

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By *rank40Man
over a year ago

London

Squiring is just sexy , when you feel them waters drip into your mouth and you keep going with your tounge

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"No not all women can squirt, some can with ease, others can't, aslong as they can reach orgasm who cares?!"

Thank you for this very sensible reply. . Totally agree

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If i can i’ve not yet. And i’ve had some amazing sex over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge Have you done a survey ? Or is this based on the opinions of someone with more ego than brains .... "

I think the latter!

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By *illy 00001Man
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I don't really get the appeal, from what I understand, it's pee that comes out.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Muse doesn’t, and is fed up of men saying “bet I can make her” to the extent that she won’t allow any finger penetrative play from anyone but me after too many, finger blasting, heroes trying to prove something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

Trauma? Being finger blasted by blokes who don't realise the vag isn't a lump of dough that needs thumping and kneading?

I don't need or want challenging, I'd rather be with someone for mutual enjoyment, not to be part of a trauma experiment.

Is it easier to use trauma as a reason rather than maybe, just maybe, not all women squirt.

Maybe they told you they had trauma to get you to stop trying to prove you have magic fingers?

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all women can.

I’d say 1/5 maybe even higher odds! 1/10 women probably can.

Well from personal experience.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Muse doesn’t, and is fed up of men saying “bet I can make her” to the extent that she won’t allow any finger penetrative play from anyone but me after too many, finger blasting, heroes trying to prove something."

Anyone who says they will make me squirt gets blocked.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge

Trauma? Being finger blasted by blokes who don't realise the vag isn't a lump of dough that needs thumping and kneading?

I don't need or want challenging, I'd rather be with someone for mutual enjoyment, not to be part of a trauma experiment.

Is it easier to use trauma as a reason rather than maybe, just maybe, not all women squirt.

Maybe they told you they had trauma to get you to stop trying to prove you have magic fingers?

P"

The idea that an unqualified stranger can diagnose significant psychological distress... I have no words for my utter disgust and contempt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Muse doesn’t, and is fed up of men saying “bet I can make her” to the extent that she won’t allow any finger penetrative play from anyone but me after too many, finger blasting, heroes trying to prove something."

I can totally understand this.

How would blokes like being anally invaded by a finger and have that finger pounding and scratching searching for buried treasure?

Not many I don't think

P

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

Point proven...

Are you the cause of the trauma?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Muse doesn’t, and is fed up of men saying “bet I can make her” to the extent that she won’t allow any finger penetrative play from anyone but me after too many, finger blasting, heroes trying to prove something.

I can totally understand this.

How would blokes like being anally invaded by a finger and have that finger pounding and scratching searching for buried treasure?

Not many I don't think

P"

But that's different you see because... Because reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any ladies feel pressure from reading Fab forums to squirt or not?

"

No point in feeling pressured to do something you can’t but a lot of men seem to think it’s some kind of challenge to prove they will be THE one to make you. Then if you don’t, well there’s obviously something wrong with you because apparently every woman before you has.

V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Muse doesn’t, and is fed up of men saying “bet I can make her” to the extent that she won’t allow any finger penetrative play from anyone but me after too many, finger blasting, heroes trying to prove something.

I can totally understand this.

How would blokes like being anally invaded by a finger and have that finger pounding and scratching searching for buried treasure?

Not many I don't think

P

But that's different you see because... Because reasons. "

Thought it might be

P

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge "

You should have said 'fact' at the end, then we would have known you are a real expert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the only woman I don't get to squirt are the one with some sort of traumer, if you don't think you can squirt, come along I'm up for the challenge

Ew no thank you, most men who say they’re able to make all women squirt, are usually shite. Just bash their fingers in and complain you’re broken when their amazing technique doesn’t make me gush. No ta"

So true....

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Christ I had to scroll right to the top to see who made that idiotic comment about traumatised women!!!

No....not all women can squirt, not all women want to either.

As soon as a guy starts talking about making me squirt I find it has the opposite effect. Fanny as dry as the Sahara desert.

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By *rank40Man
over a year ago

London

Your fanny will be far from dry when you meet me ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't until i was 29 it depends who you are with and what they are doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s happened only once, two years ago. I had no idea I could.

It hasn’t happened since.

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Apparently, all blokes can squirt if you bash the prostate hard enough. Perhaps we should all be ramming 4 fingers up your rectums. After all, you can all do it. Bend over boys!"

Mrs

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes, must be because there's always one guy in the club who claims he can make any lady squirt. Im still not convince that fast junior hacksaw hand motion works for everyone.

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By *igstu66Man
over a year ago

Guildford

I've only come across it twice if you'll excuse the pun. Maybe its because I'm rubbish but I suspect it doesn't happen to everyone...

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Thats a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs cherry certainly cant and from experience we find that guys who 'think' they can make any woman squirt are bloody useless. Thier idea of forplay is ramming 3 fingers up and pumping it like they are using a plunger in a sink.

I've seen a woman squirt in a club and after witnessing said horror show it looked (and smelt) like she had p*ssed herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest here, I couldn't give a flying fuck about making a woman squirt.

Have I ever done it before? Yes. But such occasions are in the minority and merely an aside if the woman I was with at the time happens to especially enjoy the kind of stimulation that produces this as it's something I don't actively seek to do.

My reasons are simple enough. Whilst I know the "mechanics" required to produce "squirting" as I take a keen interest in the female physique (like a lot of chaps I imagine! ) I'm a 'pleaser.' Overwhelmingly the vast majority of women prefer a full-blooded orgasm to squirting so on a physical level this is what I rather like working towards really?

For this to be as exhilarating as possible, mental connection, surprise and sensations in tandem with each other are essential. So it is these elements that I focus on.

They also require far more interaction and perceived "effort" (which I also think a silly descriptive word, how is it an effort to do anything that leaves a woman breathless and deliriously satisfied? It's a great delight!) than mastering a simple technique with two hands and plugging away till a fountain erupts then sitting back looking smug and thinking "job done".

So for anyone to suggest that women whose own partners don't work towards squirting as a goal simply can't be bothered and don't put the effort in I find utterly nonsensical at best really.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsteroos

Musing again!

Is every woman able to squirt? My playmate says not, is he right?

Be nice...

Bhubaysi x "
women squirt several times a day

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Fabsteroos

Musing again!

Is every woman able to squirt? My playmate says not, is he right?

Be nice...

Bhubaysi x women squirt several times a day "

When they are with you I presume?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsteroos

Musing again!

Is every woman able to squirt? My playmate says not, is he right?

Be nice...

Bhubaysi x women squirt several times a day

When they are with you I presume? "
noooooo im working hard havnt got time until Xmas

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I first found out i could squirt when i was 51 so never say never. Think its mainly down to the male you are with. Some know how to make it happen and others do not.

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I first found out i could squirt when i was 51 so never say never. Think its mainly down to the male you are with. Some know how to make it happen and others do not."

My playmate won’t like that comment....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, the old dilemma about female ejaculation...does it exist? Is it just pee? Is there a conspiracy behind it?

Personally, I find it really exciting, and it really turns me on. But I'm of the opinion that not every woman can do it, no matter the "perfect technique that always works on all the girls I fuck".

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