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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a thought,do you think alot of singles come on here as part of a midlife crisis!

Thinking they may suddenly be too old for kink.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

No I don't...I do think that most singles are in a mid-marriage crisis though.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

There is always life crisis at every stage of life.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"There is always life crisis at every stage of life. "
especially at the end.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Nah - got mine over and done with when I was 12....

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It's probably more to do with people finding them self and their sexuality more with age and life experiance. Plus feeling a bit more empowered not to follow conversation or live by others stigmas. Life is to short not be yourself and explore.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think lots of people hit an age where they think "if I don't do this now I never will".

I don't think its a crisis, I think its a very sensible way to approach life

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

The traditional way to face a mid-life crisis is to have an affair or affairs - that's whet both of us did when with our exes!

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By *aling69Man
over a year ago

London

The older i get the more i want lots of swx with lots of people, i do not look on it as a mid life crisis, but as a positive journey that I'm lucky enough to be on. You only live once so live life to the full, it's not a crisis but an adventure.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"I think lots of people hit an age where they think "if I don't do this now I never will".

I don't think its a crisis, I think its a very sensible way to approach life "
agree with this at my age i could have been down on myself "oh im old and undesirable etc ) but no im more confidant and sexually aware now ./

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel more relaxed about life, bodies, time to spare and being adventurous that's what got us into swinging. Mr

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

I’ve always been a kinky fucker! Mind you at 44 am I old enough yet for a midlife crisis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought,do you think alot of singles come on here as part of a midlife crisis!

Thinking they may suddenly be too old for kink."

I think a lot of couples come on here as a mid life crisis!

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"It's probably more to do with people finding them self and their sexuality more with age and life experiance. Plus feeling a bit more empowered not to follow conversation or live by others stigmas. Life is to short not be yourself and explore."

Precisely this!

Do you mean "convention"?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"It's probably more to do with people finding them self and their sexuality more with age and life experiance. Plus feeling a bit more empowered not to follow conversation or live by others stigmas. Life is to short not be yourself and explore.

Precisely this!

Do you mean "convention"? "

Yes, convention, auto text is not my freind.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

If you look at demographics, most people become parents in their late 20's early 30's.

So for those who want children that can put quiet a brake on their capacity and desire to swing.

So +16 years and people who are interested may start to get back on the horse between 36 and 46.

You can have kids and swing, but everyone has different childcare arrangements or some have none.

I know since May, if we were without children there were a few nights were we fancied playing with others but had no provision in place so you just wait till the next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought,do you think alot of singles come on here as part of a midlife crisis!

Thinking they may suddenly be too old for kink."

I'm a bit older than you and I'm actually into kink more than swinging. I think people all have their reasons, some the same, some different

Miss C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People start swinging for many different reasons and it covers multiple facets. We have our reasons for being on the scene today, but had different reasons in the past.

More often dynamics change, solo guys always gravitate to swinging cos they think it is easy and free NSA sex for them. Even back in the days of contact mags - yes old enough to remember them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a meeting point, crisis isnt involved

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"I think lots of people hit an age where they think "if I don't do this now I never will".

I don't think its a crisis, I think its a very sensible way to approach life "

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So true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was having a really tough time at work.

Looking back at it, it was probably a breakdown.

Recovered and re-evaluated my life.

It's been the best 3 years of my life

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"It's probably more to do with people finding them self and their sexuality more with age and life experiance. Plus feeling a bit more empowered not to follow conversation or live by others stigmas. Life is to short not be yourself and explore.

Precisely this!

Do you mean "convention"?

Yes, convention, auto text is not my freind."

Ha ha. I thought as much, and we've all fallen victim to it's vagueries!

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