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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s the point of writing profile?

What you after requests still!!

Anybody bother??

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Unfortunately we have to tolerate the neanderthals in order to find the right pairing.

But the few do spoil it for the rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I write a profile because I know that I tend to pass by those who make no effort to write one.

I’m looking for like minded people. So by that logic if I don’t try to explain who I am and what I’m looking for, I’d end up putting off the sort of people I want to meet!

Not sure if that is as clear as I think it is

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By *arkhorse66Man
over a year ago

bristol


"What’s the point of writing profile?

What you after requests still!!

Anybody bother??"

Unfortunately reading profiles and responding accordingly gets pretty much the same response as not, so why bother indeed.

As others will rightly respond, standard response to every post, none of us are entitled to anything so just move along!

In my experience the numbers have increased and in general people are less courteous and more shallow in all respects. It’s getting harder to engage in cordial conversation let alone meet to see if there’s a spark that might lead to fun.

Thank goodness for existing friends and contacts

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

I wrote my profile so that people that can be bothered to read it, or are able to read it, can get a bit of an insight into what I like and for which I am looking.

Of course, many cannot be bothered to read more than one sentence, if that far, in the smae way they send one line messages, often abbreviated like "hows U" or "wanna fuck" which I generally ignore or reply with equally short answers like "fine" or "no"!

If people do bother to read my profile, they may find that I might just have a brain and not just be a total dick! After all, I even have some pics that are not all cock shots!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I write a profile because I know that I tend to pass by those who make no effort to write one.

I’m looking for like minded people. So by that logic if I don’t try to explain who I am and what I’m looking for, I’d end up putting off the sort of people I want to meet!

Not sure if that is as clear as I think it is "

It worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say in our experience genuine swingers take their time to write a good profile outlining what they’re in to and what they’re looking for. On the other hand you have the people that are just looking to save £20 on a prostitute and don’t bother writing them or reading other peoples profiles.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Absolutely need a profile, every message I get, even from those I'm definitely not interested in. I will certainly read their profile and look at their photos. In quite a few occasions, I have replied to messages that I wouldn't have, because their profile was funny, engaging or matched some of what I'm looking for.

It's actually annoying to get a message off someone you quite like the look of, and find they'd written 'ask' or 'will complete later' ...I won't bother then

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton


"Absolutely need a profile....

It's actually annoying to get a message off someone you quite like the look of, and find they'd written 'ask' or 'will complete later' ...I won't bother then "

Completely agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always read the profiles before i write to someone. don't get a reply many replies though lol.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Genuine folks read my profile and contact me if they think we’ll get on. I always respond to those messages. Asshats will stand out because it will be obvious they haven’t read my profile. They get ignored. It’s a great filter as sadly more people will ignore your profile than read it.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Don’t stress about it. My profile is shit and I’m beating them off with a stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because im emotionally needy i'll message anyone, you say you like BBC i message you, you like girls i message you, you like gym fit people i message you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What’s the point of writing profile?

What you after requests still!!

Anybody bother??"
nope

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By *nigmaDreamWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Because im emotionally needy i'll message anyone, you say you like BBC i message you, you like girls i message you, you like gym fit people i message you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the point of writing profile?

What you after requests still!!

Anybody bother??"

Yehhhhhhhhhhhhhh but! But we all know you really want a bit of cock you are just playing hard to get with your profile.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

The way we see it, if people cannot be bothered to put any effort into their profile, then expect minimal effort when meeting.

Ed

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a great way to narrow those down who don't put effort in or don't respect my wishes. And is useful for those who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Durham

I find fab a very confusing site lol.

I have what you call a basic profile,its not great but I wouldn't say it was awful,now I have spoke to members where they state "if your profile is only a few words with no effort then you're not for us" then you realise in some of they verifications the member they've met has two words on the profile,so very confusing.

But,as has been mentioned in this thread,sometimes you think what's the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the point of writing profile?

What you after requests still!!

Anybody bother??"

I always read profiles before I message, saves wasting time on someone who is never going to respond.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Durham

I find fab a very confusing site lol.

I have what you call a basic profile,its not great but I wouldn't say it was awful,now I have spoke to members where they state "if your profile is only a few words with no effort then you're not for us" then you realise in some of they verifications the member they've met has two words on the profile,so very confusing.

But,as has been mentioned in this thread,sometimes you think what's the point. "

Maybe they met those people off this site at a social or club, all of my verifications come from meeting at clubs not on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is terrible. It always has been. I'm far better at expressing myself through conversation. Unfortunately you need a good one to get anywhere on here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Durham

I find fab a very confusing site lol.

I have what you call a basic profile,its not great but I wouldn't say it was awful,now I have spoke to members where they state "if your profile is only a few words with no effort then you're not for us" then you realise in some of they verifications the member they've met has two words on the profile,so very confusing.

But,as has been mentioned in this thread,sometimes you think what's the point.

Maybe they met those people off this site at a social or club, all of my verifications come from meeting at clubs not on here. "

I never thought of that,maybe you're right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile is terrible. It always has been. I'm far better at expressing myself through conversation. Unfortunately you need a good one to get anywhere on here though

"

That's exactly me,on the phone or in messages I'm average but in person I'm a full of confidence.

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