FabSwingers.com forum: Only sex with hubby

By *ifeandhubby400 OP Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Long story but one of the reasons ,there are a few we are on here is hubby has health issues and cant always perform the way he used to ,but in meets he is good ,but as we have been mucked about lately ,and our last 2 meets he ended up doing all the work (guys couldnt perform )but my point is it has enhanced our sex life at home which we both are happy about ,but i still want more meets ,hubby is happy as he knows ive a higher sex drive than him ,meeting on my own would get me more but we are a couple and i cant and wont ask him ,do i hope things pick up as we were doing ok before being mucked around ,i dont want him to feel bad knowing im frustrated ...

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Hope every thing works out for youx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww bless you both.

I only have sex with my hubby (and girls ha)

But if he was unable to do it for any reason I wouldn't go elsewhere

Different strokes for different folks

Invest in some good sex toys x

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I really can't see why you wouldn't ask him if it's ok to meet on your own aswell as a couple. Perhaps you should explore the option of both being able to meet singly - he then might say that he wouldn't but you can. If it's a definite no/no then leave it as it is. Good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If you can't and won't ask him the only option is to remain as you are.

Won't he see this and know any way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean the reason most relationships break down is lack of communication.

So simply talk through your feelings with him & see what he proposes as a solution.

He may even propose for you to have a regular FB that you can meet as a solo.

Just sex - simply a mutual agreement that he’ll just give you that ‘extra’ bit you’re missing!

Hope it works out OP

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By *ifeandhubby400 OP Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"I mean the reason most relationships break down is lack of communication.

So simply talk through your feelings with him & see what he proposes as a solution.

He may even propose for you to have a regular FB that you can meet as a solo. I have arranged one of these a 2nd meet with someone but hubby is away at the time and he has agreed ,so will see how he feels after and we WILL talk about it ..

Just sex - simply a mutual agreement that he’ll just give you that ‘extra’ bit you’re missing!

Hope it works out OP"

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Long story but one of the reasons ,there are a few we are on here is hubby has health issues and cant always perform the way he used to ,but in meets he is good ,but as we have been mucked about lately ,and our last 2 meets he ended up doing all the work (guys couldnt perform )but my point is it has enhanced our sex life at home which we both are happy about ,but i still want more meets ,hubby is happy as he knows ive a higher sex drive than him ,meeting on my own would get me more but we are a couple and i cant and wont ask him ,do i hope things pick up as we were doing ok before being mucked around ,i dont want him to feel bad knowing im frustrated ...

Why not try clubs, you can have as much fun as you want,

he would still have a good night out, social or otherwise

and it gives you both something to look forward to when you're planning your visits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband has erectile issues and he very rarely can perform. We're meeting together but he has no problem with me meeting on my own as well to get that extra. It gives more opportunities as our availability to meet together is very limited. Sexually frustrated woman is not a great picture

Talk to him, you may be surprised.

Mrs

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think this shows the value of finding other couples you really play well with, all of you, with everyone giving the same effort. To be fair realistically this is often hard to find a great 4 waychemistry and mutral dedication. But if meeting alone is not an option or you just prefer to share the experience together then it may just be a case of seeking out the right couples to play with.

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By *ifeandhubby400 OP Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"My husband has erectile issues and he very rarely can perform. We're meeting together but he has no problem with me meeting on my own as well to get that extra. It gives more opportunities as our availability to meet together is very limited. Sexually frustrated woman is not a great picture

Talk to him, you may be surprised.

Mrs"
We had a chat and a meet we have had before wants to see us this weekend but hubby will be away ,so im going on my own ,only because hubby knows him ,wont say he is over the moon but its a start and he has my blessing if he wants to see a guy on his own ,NEVER a woman but he prefers me as his only female anyway ,so fingers crossed ..thanks for advice ..

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

That's great guys, good luck and.... have fun

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