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By *oonytoon OP   Man
over a year ago

derby

I've noticed that a lot of profiles I've read(red) read (reed) a lot like a narcarcistic self indulged idiot wrote them for a start u get single fems with 4 lines of a profile all saying I want fucking I want photos and face pics when u message me but have no photos of there own or a profile that's taken more than 20 seconds to come up with but the worst of all culprits I've seen is couples that state what they want (fair play) but are not willing to give the same in return .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women dont shag mingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does narcarsIstIc mean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does narcarsIstIc mean lol "

Up the bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does narcarsIstIc mean lol "

Someone who likes gardening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up your bum too ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed that a lot of profiles I've read(red) read (reed) a lot like a narcarcistic self indulged idiot wrote them for a start u get single fems with 4 lines of a profile all saying I want fucking I want photos and face pics when u message me but have no photos of there own or a profile that's taken more than 20 seconds to come up with but the worst of all culprits I've seen is couples that state what they want (fair play) but are not willing to give the same in return ....... "

I am a single female

I want fucking

I wish to see a face pic to decide if I want to fuck

This site is generous enough to allow me to hide my face pics and only show them to who I wish.

A few years ago my then primary school aged child showed me how to use spellchecker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the op twice.which part of the profiles he is talking about are abusive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not have used the word "abusive", and believe "aggressive" is more suitable in describing profiles with lots of demands and instructions.

IMHO, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 genuine single girl to every 500 men, I do believe they can demand whatever they like!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"1 genuine single girl to every 500 men, I do believe they can demand whatever they like!

"

That may be correct, but as a genuine single girl, I would never make demands....I have a simple request on my profile....if folk choose not to read, then I reserve the right to block (and it's not just single guys that don't read my flipping profile...)

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By *oonytoon OP   Man
over a year ago

derby

Aggresive is a better word and I understand the right to be picky my point was more aimed at the profiles (not just single women) who say you must have your profile filled out and have face pics but they have no pics whatsoever and there entire content of there profile is telling you what you should have without giving any information about who they are what there like or what they look like.

I mean no offence and I'm not singling anyone out its just a general observation

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

How do you know they have no pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aggresive is a better word and I understand the right to be picky my point was more aimed at the profiles (not just single women) who say you must have your profile filled out and have face pics but they have no pics whatsoever and there entire content of there profile is telling you what you should have without giving any information about who they are what there like or what they look like.

I mean no offence and I'm not singling anyone out its just a general observation "

dont contact them then if they are not for you?

your not meant to like everyones profile, i normally take agressive or negative profiles as a sign the person isnt as easy going as they should be for this kind of thing and generally avoid

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Aggresive is a better word and I understand the right to be picky my point was more aimed at the profiles (not just single women) who say you must have your profile filled out and have face pics but they have no pics whatsoever and there entire content of there profile is telling you what you should have without giving any information about who they are what there like or what they look like.

I mean no offence and I'm not singling anyone out its just a general observation "

in which case.... you have two options...

1) you can pander and cater to this type of person.. jump thru hoops and give in to every demand if the persuit of getting your leg over is that important

2) stand up for yourself, stick to your beliefs, and if you find that incompatible to what you are after, don't answer them......

in the end it is up to you.....

people can make whatever demands they want... if they don't find it attacts the people they are after in the end they will change them.... but i suspect there are enough people they do find that it wont change...

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

so, would you be willing to meet them for a drink? if so, then does it really matter if they tell you anything about themselves as you would find out what they are like over a table anyway (and tbh it probably wouldnt bother you either way as any hole's a goal, right?)

.

if you arent willing to meet to get to know them then would you really jump into the sack with someone you didnt know, that are just words on a pc screen?, see final point from above paragraph if so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I feel after reading a profile that its demanding and hard work, I forget it and don't message.

If I feel that people have a long list of criteria they want meeting before they consider a meet, I forget it and don't message.

If I see anything aggressive or name calling of certain groups, no fatties, no mingers, no arseholes, I don't message.

My rules are that I don't jump through hoops for anyone, I'm not rude by calling names therefore I am not interested in those that do.

Some people will dislike my profile, I expect those to apply their own similar rules and move on,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes as well you might need to get a feel of the person, some people re-wrtie their profiles after someone has really pissed them off or they had a bad meet and they might not be as bad as they sound.

but usually for me big lists of moans kills it for me, more forging on status updates moans, maybe thats the better place for them.

but on the flipside some people might of asked for stuff nicely and people never read it so they got pissed off and tried to make it extra clear so same things dont happen again. not that it works haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed that a lot of profiles I've read(red) read (reed) a lot like a narcarcistic self indulged idiot wrote them for a start u get single fems with 4 lines of a profile all saying I want fucking I want photos and face pics when u message me but have no photos of there own or a profile that's taken more than 20 seconds to come up with but the worst of all culprits I've seen is couples that state what they want (fair play) but are not willing to give the same in return .......

I am a single female

I want fucking

I wish to see a face pic to decide if I want to fuck

This site is generous enough to allow me to hide my face pics and only show them to who I wish.

A few years ago my then primary school aged child showed me how to use spellchecker.

"

Love that, primary school age though if anyone sends me a message in txt spk I have to get my kids (aged 24 and 25) to translate

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I've noticed that a lot of profiles I've read(red) read (reed) a lot like a narcarcistic self indulged idiot wrote them for a start u get single fems with 4 lines of a profile all saying I want fucking I want photos and face pics when u message me but have no photos of there own or a profile that's taken more than 20 seconds to come up with but the worst of all culprits I've seen is couples that state what they want (fair play) but are not willing to give the same in return ....... "

When we come across profiles that are full of bitching and moaning, we move on.

When we read profiles that are full of demands and I wants, we move on.

When we come across profiles that have no information on at all, we move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at profiles and feel that it is important to kind of get a feel of what that person is like / couple. We don't demand we just want to meet people who want to have fun but yet don't come across as up themselves as some of the profiles clearly show they are. We always ask for a face pic why simple there needs to be some form of attraction but yet it is important to us as a couple to both be happy, which I have to say of the main we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aggresive is a better word and I understand the right to be picky my point was more aimed at the profiles (not just single women) who say you must have your profile filled out and have face pics but they have no pics whatsoever and there entire content of there profile is telling you what you should have without giving any information about who they are what there like or what they look like.

I mean no offence and I'm not singling anyone out its just a general observation "

I'd agree that it's aggressive. i'd also agree that peopl can have a bad day and update their profile with a rant.

Female profile with no pics, making demands for naked pics- I would assume was a bloke. And I have told some so too, funnily enough I never got a reply. I know a genuine female would rant back at me!

I know that people can do or say whatever they like but I do find that sometimes people can be very rude and disrespectful. It puts me off to be honest. That's why my profile is the way it is at the moment. I was getting harrassed but now people leave me alone cos they think I'm a moody weirdo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed that a lot of profiles I've read(red) read (reed) a lot like a narcarcistic self indulged idiot wrote them for a start u get single fems with 4 lines of a profile all saying I want fucking I want photos and face pics when u message me but have no photos of there own or a profile that's taken more than 20 seconds to come up with but the worst of all culprits I've seen is couples that state what they want (fair play) but are not willing to give the same in return ....... "
Fair play to the girls

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"What does narcarsIstIc mean lol

Someone who likes gardening "

Uphill?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just trying to work out what the pic on the profile is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just trying to work out what the pic on the profile is "

..... a fuzzy belly-button .... pants on the right pulled up t-shirt to the left of the pic ..... I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just trying to work out what the pic on the profile is

..... a fuzzy belly-button .... pants on the right pulled up t-shirt to the left of the pic ..... I think. "

..... might even be left hand down trousers with a glimpse of wrist showing between cuff and waistband...... I think.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"Aggresive is a better word and I understand the right to be picky my point was more aimed at the profiles (not just single women) who say you must have your profile filled out and have face pics but they have no pics whatsoever and there entire content of there profile is telling you what you should have without giving any information about who they are what there like or what they look like.

I mean no offence and I'm not singling anyone out its just a general observation

dont contact them then if they are not for you?

your not meant to like everyones profile, i normally take agressive or negative profiles as a sign the person isnt as easy going as they should be for this kind of thing and generally avoid"
+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed that a lot of profiles I've read(red) read (reed) a lot like a narcarcistic self indulged idiot wrote them for a start u get single fems with 4 lines of a profile all saying I want fucking I want photos and face pics when u message me but have no photos of there own or a profile that's taken more than 20 seconds to come up with but the worst of all culprits I've seen is couples that state what they want (fair play) but are not willing to give the same in return .......

I am a single female

I want fucking

I wish to see a face pic to decide if I want to fuck

This site is generous enough to allow me to hide my face pics and only show them to who I wish.

A few years ago my then primary school aged child showed me how to use spellchecker.

"

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